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Joseph Lafalce Obituary
Joseph A. LaFalce, 54, lived a life of simple routines. He prided himself on being on time for work. He could talk endlessly about college basketball. He enjoyed a drink at pubs like the Killarney Rose, not far from the World Trade Center, where he helped the brokers at Cantor Fitzgerald settle their accounts at the end of the day. "He was one of those guys, and there are thousands of them in New York, that make the city work," said Ted Outwater, who struck up a friendship with him years ago when Mr. LaFalce admired his aging dog.
A native Manhattanite, Mr. LaFalce came to love thoroughbred racing: both the personalities involved and the art of figuring out a horse's chances in a particular race. "He could tell you when the horse was born, when he died, how fast he ran," said his brother, Dominick. "He could tell you who won the Preakness 20 years ago."
Once, Mr. LaFalce came close to snaring his dream job, with The Daily Racing Form. "But there was a hiring freeze," said Noel McPartland, the bartender upstairs at the Killarney Rose, where Mr. LaFalce used to order a rye and ginger ale and respond to jokes and stories with: "Give me a break! I'm tired!"
Now his friends are trying to organize a horse race at Belmont or Aqueduct in his memory. "We'd probably call it the Joe LaFalce Handicap or the Middle Move Handicap," Mr. McPartland said. "That was his big thing — if the horse made a good move in the middle of the race."
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Rich Caputo
October 27, 2021
In our hearts and minds forever.
Michael Reichert
October 26, 2021
I worked with Joe at Kidder, Peabody. He could be funny and yet had a strong work ethic. If you broke his concentration he would let you know. I smile thinking about a time at Christmas>
Rest in Peace, Joe, in the perfect light of our Lord's eternal love.
June 14, 2019
Joseph, rest peacefully with the Lord.
A.L.
S J. Friscia III
April 25, 2014
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James Nesfield
March 15, 2011
Joe you always had the kindness of a Saint may you rest in the vision of God.
JOHN TAGARELLI
September 13, 2010
SEPTEMBER 13,2010
JOE I CAN'T BELIVE ITS BEEN NINE YEARS SINCE I HEARD YOUR VOICE.I SURELY MISS THE DAYS THAT WE WORKED AT KIDDER PEABODY IT WAS LIKE OUR SECOND FAMILY.I MISS TALKING TO YOU ABOUT THE YANKEES AND FOOTBALL.JOE MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS AMERICA.
Rich Caputo
September 11, 2010
I worked with Joe for many years at Kidder Peabody on Wall Street. He was a great guy, dedicated to his work and enjoyed a drink out now and then. I think of him often, especially on this somber date. We will never forget Joe and all the other brave souls who died and suffered because of that day. God bless America.
stephen lafalce
January 30, 2008
Stephen R Lafalce remmembers
P Tabbernor
November 30, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 7, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Craig Torswick
August 29, 2006
As we approach the fifth anniversary of that horrible day, I can still see Joe aka Long Nose by all his beloved Kidder Krew with a coctail in hand on one of many trips to West Point. My dad Les, God rest his soul was a good friend of Joe's.
Bill LaVasseur
April 14, 2006
I used to work with Joe on Wall St., at Kidder Peabody. Joe was a funny guy, always willing to help you, but could give you an ear full when you bothered him. God Bless you, Joe.
Diane Huggins
October 20, 2003
Dear Dom:
I want to extend to you my deepest sympathy for the loss of your brother Joseph. He will be remembered forever because I for one will never let his memory die. As I continue to volunteer for Americas 911 Memorial Quilt Organization I will give of my best to keep your brothers memory alive for generations to come. Please know you have my full support and prayers in your loss. May God continue to give you the strength that you need.
Dominick LaFalce
September 13, 2002
Joe:
It has been a year since you were taken from us. We all miss you a great deal including your grand neice Rebecca who will never have the chance to know or love you.
Your friends worked very hard and got a Race named after you at Belmont Park on May 18th. All your friends attanded with their families to join our family to honor you.
I was at the Trade Center on Wednesday the 11th and got a look at the devastation brought upon us. I could feel that your spirit was with me that day, as your name was read aloud for all the world to hear.
You will never be forgotten and will be in my Heart and prayers for as long as I live.
God bless you, my only Brother, Rest in peace with God and his angels.
Say hello to Mom and Dad for me I miss you all so much.
Until we meet again,
Your Brother Dom
Angie Campbell
May 3, 2002
May God Bless you and keep you forever more.
February 16, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN JOSEPH A.LAFALCE AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS BROTHER DOMINICK ....FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK ...MAY JESUS AND ST.JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...MAY A BEAUTIFUL HORSE TAKE YOU THERE...AMEN
Dominick LaFalce
January 23, 2002
Joe was a very quiet mild mannered human being. He was a dedicated worker, hard working and always eager to learn something new. He spent all of his working life on Wall Street working for Kidder Peabody for over twenty years. He loved the work and loved the people he worked with. He was the type of guy you could rely on for any help that was needed.
I can still remember that little boy that I tried to protect when we were little. It's hard to comprehend this turn of fate that was handed him he deserved much more.
Joe was the last member of my immediate family there are no other siblings. All I have now is some good memories of the time we spent together as children and as adults. He will be in my heart forever.
Rest in Peace Joe, Mom and Dad are waiting for you.
Art Whalen
January 22, 2002
I've been reading all of the short bios in the New York Times, hoping I wouldn't know anyone. But today, 1/22/02, there is Joe looking at me from the paper. I worked with him at Kidder,Peabody in the 1970's and ran into him several times afterward. I enjoyed many laughs and a few drinks with Joe and am sorry to see that he is gone. Sleep well, Joe.
Teresa Jahn
December 26, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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