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Andy Kim Obituary
As a child, Andy J. Kim developed his musical talents. He played piano, clarinet and guitar. During high school, he was in the marching band, the jazz band and the orchestra. At Columbia University, where he studied engineering and finance, he developed his spiritual side, working with the Campus Crusade for Christ.
After college, Mr. Kim, 26, was a research analyst for Fred Alger Management; in late July, he passed the certified financial analyst exam.
Although he lived in Leonia, N.J., he spent every moment he could at the Bethany United Methodist Church in Wayne, where his musicality and spirituality came together. He worked with the youth group and led the band that played during church services. Some said he was the best worship leader they had known.
He was especially excited when he was asked early this year to lead worship at Autumn Blaze, a gathering of about 6,000 young people scheduled for Oct. 13 in New Jersey. He even formed a special band for the event.
But they played without him. "We felt we should continue," said his companion, Michele Jhun, who sang in the band. "That is what Andy would have wanted."
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December 17, 2019
Sorry you lost your life on 9/11...
Helen Dellheim
September 11, 2016
You are missed Andy❤❤. You and Billy are indelibly etched into my heart and mind. As a child you were mischievous with your wide smile and twinkle in your eye. What a quick and bright mind you had. I think of you and remember you singing along to your favorite Sesame Street song, C is for Cookie. Following behind Charlie and running around our shared home in Woodside Queens. You always made me smile and we all miss you.
Forever in our hearts &❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
L C
September 10, 2016
We still miss you Andy! I remember your voice, the way you worshipped, like God was right there in front of you. And now He is! Til we meet again my brother!
Dongin John Kim
September 11, 2015
Andy,
You were always singing.. Not just any old song or a pop hit, but you were always worshiping our Lord Jesus. And it was beautiful! I know you're still doing it now.
I'm ten years younger than you, but we grew up together. I remember your parents mentoring my parents through their spiritual walk and marriage. I remember being at your house one time in your living room, playing on the floor with my younger brother as our parents talked in the kitchen. Then you came home from your day and you just hurriedly went up to your room. But I remember my mom telling me to grow up and be like you. She told me to go up to your room and talk to you, just to glean some knowledge or wisdom from you. She put you up on a pedestal as the model child.. and that's what you are...
You were an amazing person that lived by faith with worship in your heart.
Thank you for leading the youth group at Bethany in worship for all those years. You're still leading us now.
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S J. Friscia III
April 10, 2014
In memory
With Honor & Respect.
Paul Vargas
September 10, 2013
Andy I still miss you alot. You are the only person in my entire life that has shown true kindness to me without anything in return. When I first met you you showed so much kindness to me a total stranger. To me at the time it was shocking because where I came from somebody does not show kindness unless they want something in return. You didn't want nothing but to only be my friend. I will always miss our conversations we had every sunday at church. Everytime we talked it made me the happiest person in the world because you actually cared what I had to say. I owe alot to you. Im not afraid to say that I love you my brother. You will always be in my heart. To honor you I have named my son's middle name after you ( Cameron Andrew Vargas) I will see you soon one day and I cant wait to just have another conversation with you. Love and miss you my friend my brother.
patrick nam
September 4, 2010
i love you andy and i miss you i can sense you dancing and singing up a storm up in heaven. Thank you for always being a person of prayer, intense love, and being so big hearted. You are missed. Open up the doors and let the music play!... cant wait to worship with you side by side again..
P Tabbernor
November 24, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Sean Hean
September 11, 2006
Thanks for inspiring me to be a better christian. Im on my church's praise band and if i was asked to play in front of 6000 ppl I'd probobly turn it down because I'd be too nervous so you must really enjoy praising God..have a nice time in heaven
yena sung
September 9, 2006
andy
i do not know you but you have touched my heart. you inspire me to be a better christain and live according to the scriptures. GOD bless you and your family.
Charles Kim
September 11, 2004
It's been three years since Andy's passing and I still can't believe it. I miss his beautiful voice, his infectious laugh, and his devotion to God and Bethany Church. He truly loved God and lived his life by Christ's example.
"Press on brother. The road to Christ is long, but it is so wonderful." - Andy Kim, August 1997
You are missed and I'm so blessed to have known you.
John Lieu
September 11, 2003
I got to know Andy my freshman year at Columbia University. He had a special gift for making those around him feel loved and blessed.
D L
September 11, 2003
From a distance, all could see the love in Andy's heart and strength in his faith. Close up, you knew he was a man of God and felt privileged to have him in your life. Even though he is gone, he will never be forgotten for we continue to feel blessed to have known him.
Tony Min
September 11, 2003
Andy, I was blessed to have known you in your earlier years. At a time when I was confused as to my own spirituality, you were the first person I met that showed a true, sincere devotion to God. Your devout passion was always there even back at those times. The childhood memories I have of you will always be a part of me, as I continue through life. Thank you for the ever so many lives you've graciously touched and influenced along your journey. Most of all, thank you for giving me hope. You will always be in my heart. Rest in peace Andy.
Eddie Sah
September 17, 2002
You're There
Mentor,Brother and Friend
Does God ever tease us by sending a star like you into our lives?
Heaven is so close seeing how you loved and cared for us in your time.
But Now I know you're there
Hold on to his hand
You're forever with your love
and forever ever more
I know you're filled with tears
Tears full of joy
Sing to Him my friend
For endless years
Run with Him my friend
through beautiful Fields
Brace yourself
For this will never end
You spoke of it with passion
your heart for leaped for joy
Now it's in your hands
and there for you to enjoy
Jae Chun
September 13, 2002
I do not know Andy, but I do know him because we believe as christian we are under the same one God.
I just want to give my condolences to his family.
God bless! See you in heaven!
Bye
Bruce Kim
September 11, 2002
I used to attend Bethany UM Church before I moved to California this year and I know, from experience, the magnitude of your influence. You were a selfless man that gave up anything for everybody. You lived your life as a model Christian, stainless before God. I remember Pat Jdsn. talking about you that Sunday a year ago. You were a man, ridiculed for his fervent faith, a man who would take out his checkbook if anyone was in need of money to pay the rent, a man who was the BYG praise leader. Andy was someone who was deeply missed in our adult and youth congregations, missed but not forgotten. You left your imprint on many lives, forever. God bless.
Hyo Jung
September 11, 2002
Andy-
Thank you for sharing your life with us. Rest in peace
Marcelle Agard-Willis
September 10, 2002
Rest in Peace Andy. You are gone but not forgotten. You have enriched many lives with your youth group etc and your Heavenly Father is well pleased. To God be the Glory.
Michelle Murphy
September 10, 2002
Andrew-
I did not know you, but you have touched my life. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family everyday.
charlie sim
September 9, 2002
andy lost his life for what mattered most... and for that, i am extremely grateful. A supporter of the mission, a partner in the gospel, and a friend when one needed one the most. thanks, andy, for the life you modeled and shared.
Paul Kim
September 9, 2002
Andy, I did not know you, but I feel like I do. God bless you and your family for your sacrifice. You inspire me to make a better life for myself and those around me. Omnia vincit amor. Peace.
won kim
September 3, 2002
andy supported my good friend charlie for missions...he was the biggest supporter. He has touched so many lives...i'm one of them. A tribute to andy and his family.
Sibilla Hamilton
May 6, 2002
You are always in our heart and prayers...
Angie Campbell
May 2, 2002
Rest in peace forever more.
February 11, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN ANDY J.KIM AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY CHRIST AND ST. ANDREW GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN AND MAY YOU BE IN THE HEAVENLY CHOIR.AMEN
Teresa Jahn
December 27, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of Andy. We thank him for his work with his church and youth groups. Such involvement comes with a warm and caring heart. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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