Robert H. Lynch

Robert H. Lynch

Robert Lynch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 27, 2001.
'Bob the Builder'
Elisabeth Lynch did not think much of Robert H. Lynch's baseball card collection until he presented her with an engagement ring. "Wow," said the future Ms. Lynch, "what did you do, rob a bank?" He had not. He had sold his treasured stash of Ricky Henderson cards.

Years later, Mr. Lynch, 44, one of the World Trade Center's many property managers, still bought a complete set of baseball cards every year to pass on to his kids. He passed on more valuable things too, teaching his son Patrick to whistle by age 4. This summer, on a family trip to the Jersey Shore, he outfitted his three young children (he had two others from a previous marriage) with kites and guided them aloft. "Even the 18-month-old was standing on the beach holding a kite," Ms. Lynch said.

Around the Lynch home in Cranford, N.J., Mr. Lynch played master carpenter. "He rebuilt most of this house," Elisabeth Lynch said, "and he was always teaching the kids how to do things. They liked to sing that song" -- the theme from a Nickelodeon TV show -- " 'Bob the Builder, can he fix it? Bob the Builder, yes he can.' "

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 26, 2001.


Bob Lynch, 44, went back in to help out

As a kid, Bob Lynch didn't exactly endear himself to the neighborhood -- Bard Avenue on Staten Island -- by putting junky old cars up on blocks in front of his parents' house.

"Sometimes his smile was a bit devilish," recalled Jim Gallagher, an uncle.

Many years later, those childhood memories still fresh in his mind, Mr. Lynch talked about getting one more junky car, putting it up on blocks, and working on it with his son, Jonathan, when Jonathan turned 15.

The Cranford resident never had a chance to make the dream come true. Mr. Lynch, one of 14 property managers in the World Trade Center, died during the Sept. 11 terrorist attack. He was 44.

"He called me right after the first plane hit," his wife, Elisabeth Lynch, said. "He was in the (outdoor) plaza. He told me he loved me, that he was okay. I was pretty sure he was."

Moments later, Mr. Lynch courageously went back into the Twin Towers to help people get to safety.

Thousands worked at the World Trade Center; few knew it as well as Mr. Lynch, who had worked for the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey for 21 years.

Mr. Lynch, a graduate of Voorhees Technical Institute in New York City, started as a watch engineer at Newark International Airport and later held the same position at the George Washington Bridge. Mr. Lynch then took a job at the World Trade Center as a "vertical transportation contract administrator."

"Elevators," Elisabeth Lynch said, laughing.

Her husband's job was to administer contracts between the Port Authority and the companies providing elevator service at the World Trade Center. The two actually met in the Twin Towers; Elisabeth Lino worked in the computer department.

"We were friends for a long time," she said. "People would see us eating lunch together and say, 'He's a really nice guy.'"

One night, after she had what she called "a rough, rough day" at work, she received a back rub from Mr. Lynch, who then proceeded to propose to her.

"He was a can-do guy with a positive attitude," she said. "'No' was not part of his vocabulary."

The two honeymooned in Ireland and Great Britain. Of all the places they visited, Dingle, a small coastal town in Ireland, was their favorite.

"The people were so warm and friendly," she recalled. "We could have stayed there forever."

A friend, Steve Yafet of Hillside, described Mr. Lynch as someone who "moved briskly through projects like a physician making his rounds.

"Anyone who has been around Bob has felt his magnetic tug that draws out that little drop of joy we keep tucked quietly inside," Yafet added.

"One thing I loved about him is that he knew everyone by name," Elisabeth Lynch said. "We have received calls from his clients. One said she had been unable to cry (after the disaster). But when she heard Bob was among the missing, she cried."

Besides his wife, Mr. Lynch is survived by their three children, Patrick, 5; James, 3; and Mark, 1; and by two children from a previous marriage, Noelle, 18, and Jonathan, 13.

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September 11, 2022

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September 23, 2017

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Craig Laitta

September 11, 2022

Bob was a great person and a brave man . I am sure that he passed trying to save lives . God Bless him and family .

Melissa Zimmer

September 23, 2017

I visited the 9/11 Memorial today for the first time. Inside the museum is a beautiful In Memoriam section. All the faces of those who lost their lives hang on the walls. I found him as soon as I walked in. There are touch screens there were you can click on a person and see their story. I was flooded with pictures of Robert and his family. I never met Robert and I didn't even know his son, Jon at the time of 9/11 so I didn't think seeing these images at the museum would strike me as hard as they did. I cried so much I could barely read the beautiful story that was before me. I know it is difficult for the families to see this museum but I hope this section gives them peace. It was so moving to see it. There is also a room there where you can sit and watch the images and hear the stories of each and every person on those walls. I hope knowing that people see and hear Robert's story every day in that museum is a comfort to them. It was a beautiful thing to see and what a wonderful tribute for everyone. I made sure to visit his name at the reflection pool and let him know that we are all doing our best to watch over Jon down here. My love and support to all his family and friends.

Judy Buschiazzo

April 28, 2017

I just returned to California from my first trip to New York. While viewing the 911 memorial fountain I had my hand on Robert H. Lynch's name as I felt the sorrow created by such an evil act. Thanks to what has been written about Robert, I now know that he was a caring, brave man. I want you to know that your loss has emotionally touched me.

Mark Lynch

November 24, 2016

I am the youngest son of Robert Henry Lynch JR and I would love stories or anything you can remember about my father. Please email [email protected] with anything you have. Thank you

STEVE MCCLELLAN

September 6, 2016

MISS YOU CUZ,I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD CAMPING AND HOW GOOD YOU TREATED ME.I THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME,YOU ARE A HERO IN ALL SENSE OF THE WORD.....

P Mayer

December 29, 2014

My family touched your name today and we felt your presence. Your white Rose was beautiful x

S J. Friscia III

May 27, 2014

In memory
With Honor & Respect.

Doris Shea

November 17, 2009

I only knew you Robert when you were with our family but I am sorry that that your children had to face the loss of your life.

jose

March 22, 2007

im soo sarry 4 ur lost

P Tabbernor

December 16, 2006

In remembrance....

Kristine

October 31, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Renee

June 29, 2003

Thank you for helping yet another dream come true for me, i miss you so much. but never forget, its, For You.

Christine Lino

September 21, 2002

I could never get used to calling Bob, Uncle Bob, he was always Bob, just an amazing person. Bob, a wonderful man who did simple things with great love, and great things with even stronger love. I miss him. But I know now he is an angel watching over his entire family, guiding us when we forget our way.

Charlene Melville

September 1, 2002

Bob was a wonderful person and I grieve for him daily. I could always depend on him to ensure that the children at Children's Discovery Center were in the safest environment. I remember the last time we spoke, he was so looking forward to accepting a new position @ Port Authority. "Bob The Builder" was also still working on his kitchen - I wonder if he ever finished. While his departure from this earth was surely premature and many things may have been left unfinished or unsaid, he left us all with fond memories. Thanks Bob for all your kindness.

Angie Campbell

May 4, 2002

May God Bless you and watch over you and the ones that you left behind. Rest in peace.

Jon Faber

March 11, 2002

I was a tenant of Bob's when he ran 5WTC. I always held him in the highest regards. He was very professional and had a great sense of humor(always smiling) that made him that much more a pleasure to deal with, even in the toughest of situations.



He was a quality individual, I know few men who fall into his league. A loyal employee of the Port and even a more loyal father/husband..It always amazed me how young he was and how much he accomplished both with his career and family.



Robert Lynch A GREAT MAN, what a tragic and senseless loss..His children should be proud as their father was admired and respected by all who crossed his path.

February 26, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN ROBERT H.LYNCH AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS CHILDREN...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK.MAY JESUS GREET YOU AT THE GAES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Taking the elevator down to the sub-basements

John Long

January 16, 2002

He loved the Building

John Long

January 16, 2002

Bob loved the building. He lead tours of the basement for the artists on 91st floor of tower one.
I still remember seeing the amazing sub-basements with bob in 1999. He cared for his tenants.

Myra Savas

December 28, 2001

Bob was one of the nices people to work for. He always was polite and happy. He treated every one the same. I was a helper with Otis and ACE. If I asked him for a favor he would not hesitate. If I asked for relamping a pit. I got done within 24 hours. I passed Bob 3 times on 9/11. A child from the Discovery room fell at my feetr. I picked him up anbd took him outside. That is when I passed Bob first. WQe were on the second floor of 5 WTC. I saw him put his walkie/talkie in his back pocket and grab a phone at the Service Desk. I did not know what happened. I went back in, Passing him the second time. I found out what happen when I met my mechanic. I told him I was leaving and tho tell my supervisor I was safe. I passed Bob again. As I was leaving I remember thinking that the WRTC was in safe hands because Bob Lynch was taking care nof things. Little did I know. WEhen I went outside, this time time I saw the top of WTC , I knew it was hopeless for anyone above the crtash. I tried to calm some women outside. I decided to go home. Good thing nI was facing North, because when the second hit. glass hit me in the the back nof my head. I realize now if I was facing South I could have blinded. I wasn't cut or anything. But I tho9ught Bob was safe. I am 61 years old. I knew Bob for about twenty year.

Teresa Jahn

December 24, 2001

What a wonderful story of family values (helping and learning from each other) I am sure the children will always remember Bob the builder song in memory of their father. We are deeply sorry for your loss. May Robert's life and love continue on through all who love him. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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