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Derek J. Statkevicus was never a dog person. For one thing, he did not like dog hair everywhere, said his wife, Kimberley Young Statkevicus. When she finally persuaded him that she needed a pet, he decided on a basset hound because he thought it would look goofy and just sit around (she wanted something more high-energy, like a retriever).
Then came Squirt: half basset, half yellow Lab, very cute (and house-trained to boot). "He totally fell in love with that dog," Mrs. Statkevicus said, "even to having her on the bed!"
Though he commuted an hour and a half each way from Norwalk, Conn., to his job as an equity analyst at Keefe, Bruyette & Woods, Mrs. Statkevicus said, "Derek would take her on walks, play ball with her, give her baths and stuff."
And a good thing, too, because Tyler, their son, was born in August 2000, a year after Squirt arrived, and another baby is due in January. (Mr. Statkevicus, 30, loved being a father.)
These days, Squirt gets her exercise in the backyard, sometimes with Tyler, who loves to climb on her. In addition to adoring Squirt, Tyler takes after his father in other ways, Mrs. Statkevicus said: "He's very active, very smart."
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September 15, 2023
Derek, you will always be remembered.
Kevin Pauza
September 11, 2021
A wonderful cousin in every way, I’ll always remember and miss him. My prayers forever for his beautiful family.
Kevin Pauza
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September 29, 2017
Tyler was born about a month after my oldest son, so he'd be a senior in high school now. Derek and I were about the same age and both worked at KBW. I knew Derek and liked him, though we weren't super-close. It's good, but not surprising, to see he had many who still think about him years later.
Adriana Martinez
September 11, 2016
Prayers for this brave man that lost his life on this tragic day 15 years ago ... heaven gained an amazing angel I never got to know him but my mother and I work for his wife and kids and She have done a great job raising them but I know she wouldn't have done that without their angel that watches over them since then prayers for all the people that loss their lives and the ones that were involved #prayingforallofyou #9/11
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Layton Thomas
September 11, 2016
Kim -
I can't believe it's 15 years. I think of you,Tyler and Chase and hope your life is healed to the best it can be. Would love to see you guys! Our lives are so different now and would be great to reconnect! Never forgetting you in the pond chasing the ducks as Kristine and I looked on. Bless your family on this difficult day as Derek will always be remembered.
Love-Layton
Fred Rueck
July 5, 2014
I think of Derek as I search for his name here because he was a close friend of our mutual friend Jeff. I am at the WTC Memorial today and though I've only met him once, before he married, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Katarrina Mederos
September 12, 2011
Im very sorry for your loss im praying each and every day. GOD BLESS!
John Statkevicus
September 11, 2011
Kim,
God Bless you and your family, how you have maintained yourself and your children the past years is a miracle in itself.
Although several cousins apart I remember having met Derek and to see our last name read off on that list, as original as it is, leaves a scar of sadness that is inexplicable.
My heart, and the heart of my family is with you at this difficult time.
Maria Dreater Lozada
September 11, 2011
Dear Kim, Tyler and Chase,
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers truely go out to you.
Having such a large family and living in different states it's no wonder that we have never met. But I am actually a relative of Derek. I guess you can say we were third cousins.
Derek's grandfather was my dad's first cousin. He also went to our church along with Zenia. She was our choir director.
Now Zenovia has moved and you have moved away as well.
I just wanted you to know that someone who has never met you loves you and is praying for you, your family and Derek. Our church has special prayer services for Derek every 9/11 and the entire parish prays.
I teach school and there is always an announcement on the loud speaker and we have a few moments of silence for victioms of 9/11. The students take this very seriously! Most of them know of someone who has died at the WTC. They will never forget!
You are always in our prayers.
Take comfort in knowing that in God's good time all will be reunited through love.
May God Bless You All.
Yours in Christ,
Maria Dreater Lozada
Erica McManaman
September 11, 2011
Derek and I worked together at Ernst & Young - he was a wonderful person with a fantastic sense of humor. My heart goes out to his family on this day of rememberance. RIP Derek!
vannessa lopez
September 11, 2011
one year after 9/11, my english teacher printed a list of the 3000 people who lost their lives in the tragidy. every year she has her students pick a name off of the list and do research on that person, she has continued to do this until every single name has been picked. im proud to say that ive read articles and learned alot about derek statkevicus, he was a great man <3
Gretchen Cronin
September 11, 2011
Remembering you, Derek, on this, the 10th anniversary of your leaving this world. You were such a special person. I'll never forget all of the smiles and laughs we shared at Ithaca College! I know you are smiling down even now on your family and friends. Rest in Peace, my friend!
August 26, 2011
We had the HONOR to represent Derek on this years America's 9/11 Ride by carrying a memorial card with his information on our motorcycle windshield. We felt Derek was there in spirit to make our ride safe from Leesburg, VA to NYC.
Christopher Stockslager
June 2, 2011
Dear Kim and family. I was a couple years younger than Derek, more friends with Joel, but wanted to let you know what an impact he had on my life. I remember that Joel, Evan and myself wanted to go skateboarding, and Derek brought Joel over to where Evan and I lived. He happened to get out and talk to us for a bit, and noticed we were listening to some hair band/metal on our boom box. He asked why we would listen to such stuff and proceeded to tell me about other bands you wouldn't hear on the radio. That day he gave me 3 cassettes, Run DMC, Minor Threat, and The Cure. It blew my mind, and changed everything for me. I eventually ended up in radio for several years, and also DJ'ing -- opening for Run DMC many years later in NY. To this day, when it comes to my love of music I credit him with shaping my tastes and pointing me in a new direction. His dad was also my boyscout leader, and I think Derek also made Eagle Scout shortly after I joined. I miss that family, growing up around all of them contributed to who I am today.
September 8, 2009
As part of Project 2,996, I have done a tribute on Derek James Statkevicus in my blog that will remain at the top of the page through Saturday.
I'm privileged to have seen things people said about this wonderful man.
http://donna-justme.blogspot.com/
Mark Racette
April 7, 2009
I will always miss Derek.
Greg Phelps
January 11, 2009
Kim and family. I knew Derek and his younger brother Joel very well. I grew up next door to them. Derek and I rode the school bus together to Vestal High School. The Statkevicus's owned a large plot of land behind our houses, and they grew strawberries that Derek, Joel and I would pick. Derek and Joel and the rest of the neighborhood kids would play in the woods behind our houses.
We would play hours and hours worth of Risk in their basement. I remember one time going to play and Derek had reinvented the game. He made a map of the world and included ALL of the current countries. He also added an air force into the game. He was always creative and thinking of new ways to do things, to make it more fun.
Derek was a great guy always positive and ever imaginative.
We lost touch when his family moved out of the neighborhood, and he went off to college.
I learned of his passing when my father (Who still lives in upstate NY) told me that there was an article in the paper about Derek. I remember going to ground zero and finding his name on the wall. I cried and prayed for you, though I know you.
For some reason Derek has been on my mind over the last few weeks, it caused me to do a Google search for him and thus I found this site.
Kim, may God rest Derek's soul and bring peace to you and your two sons.
Gretchen Cronin-Duncan
September 11, 2008
Dear Kim and family,
I was friends with Derek at Ithaca College. He was such a fun loving person who never failed to bring a smile to my face. I think of him, and your family, often. Derek was truly a special person! I wish you and your family luck, health and joy on this day of Rememberance (9/11/08) and always.
Fondly,
kristine
April 30, 2008
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
mark dowches
April 17, 2008
My thoughts have always been with Derek. When I returned to Vestal to be a part of the Marching Band staff I always did a short dedication to him as a band member each year and shared my stories with my students. He will not be forgotten as a member of our Marching Band program and as a band alumni member.
Peter Carey
September 19, 2007
Thinking of you and your sons.God bless you. Stay strong and positive
DANIELLE MAZZA-CAMPBELL
September 13, 2007
HEY MRS S
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU & YOUR FAMILY IN THIS TIME OF REMEMBERENCE!!
Sherry Tyrrell
September 12, 2007
Mrs. S,
Thinking of you. My sister Danielle & I were students of yours at Gibbs College. Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
Nancy Szczech
September 11, 2007
Kim,
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I remeber you both from high school marching band. You are in my thoughts and prayers always. Nancy
P Tabbernor
March 23, 2007
In remembrance....
Betty Almand
May 15, 2005
Dear Kim, I was the one who made a
quilt square for your husband. The United in Memory quilt has traveled this country, and when the permanent memorial is built in New York, it will be put in the memorial. You sent me a sweet email, and picture of Derek and Tyler not long after I made the quilt, but the baby hadn't been born at the time you sent me the email. I hope you are doing well, and can heal at least to the degree that you can lead as happy, and as content a life possible, considering the horrible events of 9/11, and the Passing of your husband. Sincerely Betty Almand
Elizabeth Wheeler
September 11, 2004
Derek, on this day the third anniversary of your entrance into Heaven, your love for family will always be remembered.
Sean Carmel Fagan
September 11, 2003
Kim,
Thinking of you and your family on this day of remembrance, 9/11/2003.
Prayers and Hugs,
Carmel and Amanda (Aug00)
Dale Lloyd
September 10, 2003
Kim, Thank you for "After September" in the current Daily Guideposts. Please continue with your writing skills for having impact on peoples' lives. May God bless you and your family. And again, thank you--Seize the day!
Fred Rueck
September 11, 2002
Dear Kim,
I'm not certain I ever actually met Derek, but when I called &/or e-mailed a ring of friends and my family last year this day to let them know I was alright, I got a reply from a college buddy of mine, Jeff Wilson. Jeff told me that while he and his wife were fine, he feared for the life of his close friend -- your husband, Derek (Jeff thought I might have met him at some point). I think that's when the tragedy really hit home for me personally. I consider Jeff a close friend and we had been through alot in the couple years we knew one another in college. As his friend, just knowing of his loss pained me more deeply than I had felt at the onset of 9/11.
Even so, yours has been the greatest loss. Please know that my thoughts, and the thoughts of many others are with you and your dear children. Cherish the time you all had together and don't let this loss diminish your hope for a brighter future, both for your children and for yourself. You have people behind you and thinking of you all, even on the bleakest of days. Time does truly heal all wounds, and the love of family and friends can buoy up the heart and soul enough to overcome anything as long as one holds on to hope.
With Love and Hope and Peace,
Fred Rueck
(originally from Brewster, NY)
Michelle (Rogers) Hays
September 11, 2002
Kim & Family,
God watch over you and bless you on this day and always!
I am always thinking of you.
Emily Myers
September 10, 2002
Kim,
I have never met you, nor did I ever meet your husband. However, you and I do share an eternal bond in Delta Zeta. That is how I came to know of you and your loss. I think of you and your children often and pray that God comforts you today, tomorrow and until you can be together again.
Kristen Lundy (Distel)
September 7, 2002
Kim,
I lived upstairs from Derek when he was a senior at Ithaca College. I met him and his roommate, Paul, while I was moving into my apartment. I bribed them both with pizza and beer to help me move in. Once they had all my stuff upstairs, I told them I couldn't by them beer because I was under age but I bought them pizza instead. From that moment on, Derek always said hello to me and was always smiling. Or studying. I believe he even helped me study for a test or two that year. (he was the T/A for a class I was taking). My thoughts and prayers are with you and your young family always. I hope I have added a story you can collect for your little ones so someday they will truly know what a great person their daddy was.
God Bless you always.
Kristen
May 9, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN..DEREK JAMES STATKEVICUS AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE..CHILDREN..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Marion Palopoli
March 22, 2002
Kim,
I worked with Derek at JPMorgan. My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family since Sept 11th. I can't help but smile when I think of Derek. He was exceptionally bright and it was my pleasure to have had the opportunity to meet him and work with him.
Heather Brown
February 26, 2002
Kim, Tyler, and Chase,
My thoughts and prayers remain with you and I hope you are doing well. I know you will pass on Derek's legacy to your children and they will know him through you.
God Bless You All
In the Flame,
Heather Brown
Douglas Smith
February 14, 2002
Derek and I worked together several years ago at J.P. Morgan. We enjoyed his youthful spirit, bouyant personality and intellectual curiosity. He always had a smile and chuckle handy for the right moment.
I ran into Derek at an investor's conference in the Fall of 1999 and we shared swapped stories on his new job and the goings-on at JPM. He always seemed to have such a positive attitude and balanced view on things.
His light shone bright - a warm heart and great colleague. I won't forget you, Derek.
Peace and warmth to his family.
Mikkela Thompson
January 23, 2002
Dear Derek's family and friends,
I too was friends with Derek in college and after. There is no comfort for 9/11 but the way that I comfort myself is in the knowledge that Derek lived his life fully - truly "seizing the day" and he was a happy man. May we all take a lesson from this. Carpe diem.
Beth Ford
January 19, 2002
Dear Kim and Family,
I was a close friend od Dereks while in Ithaca College. He has given me many wonderful memories and will live on with us all in our hearts. He always had a way of bringing joy and laughter into the most mundane of conversations. He is greatly missed, and my heart goes out to you and your entire family, especially now that you are expecting a new baby. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
John Carnesecchi
January 19, 2002
Dear Kim and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you . I was a close friend of Dereks in Ithaca College and a couple of years after.
I have fond memories of our friendship, his wit, and most of all his ability to make the best of the worst situation.
His spirit lives on in you and your children. Keep the faith, love and hope --knowing you are surrounding with loving thoughts and prayers.
God bless you and your family,
John Carnesecchi
Karen Harrington (Feldman)
January 17, 2002
Dear Kim-
When I was reading the Ithaca College Quarterly and came across Derek's name I could not believe it. I remember seeing him on campus a couple of times and never put it together when we would talk about your upcoming wedding when we worked at Entex together. I am so sorry for you and your families loss. Bob and I think of you and your family and wish you all of the best and we send you congradulations on the soon to be arrival(?) of your second child.
All our love.
Tara Chiari (Aquilino)
January 2, 2002
Dear Kim,
I knew Derek for a few years just after he graduated from Ithaca College. We had mutual friends with whom I have many fun memories. I especially remember how Derek so kindly and very patiently helped tutor me in Basic Accounting. On Sept. 11 I lost my brother in the WTC. In as much pain I feel for the loss of my brother, I just can't imagine what you and your children must be experiencing. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Lori Tangredi
January 2, 2002
Kim -
I saw you and your beautiful son on TV last night and immediately thought back to our days at Giles together. I am so sorry for your loss. May the new baby and this new year help heal your heart! You and your children are in our prayers.
Your friend, Lori
Susan Pecuch
January 1, 2002
Kim
My name is Susie Pecuch. My father Ray is Dereks grandfather, Bill's younger brother. I met Derek at the family reunion around 1980 in Scranton. I think he was about 10 years old at the time. Our whole family is thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. May the new year bring you peace and may your family (with the new baby!) feel the love that many are sending you throughout the country.
Susie
Monica Bosse
December 14, 2001
Kim, I just want you to know that I think of you, Tyler and the baby that will soon arrive, daily. I pray that you continue to have the strength you need and the loving support of family and friends through the weeks and months to come.
{{Hugs}}
Monica from the Aug00 List
Teresa Jahn
December 11, 2001
With a new baby on the way our hearts will be thinking of you more. May Derek's enjoyment for life live on through all of you. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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