Kris R. Hughes

Kris R. Hughes

Kris Hughes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 28, 2001.
Brothers, Together

Kris Robert Hughes and his brother, Keith, were romping through Connetquot River State Park Preserve on Long Island when they saw two men, older men, fishing in a river. Their lines were flying back and forth over their heads in controlled motions, said their father, Robert Hughes.

The men looked at peace. Kris, who was about 10, and Keith, about 11, looked at each other. They stopped and decided to check it out, said their mother, Elaine Hughes.

"The men told them they were fly-fishing," she said. "They picked the men's brains for hours, and they were hooked. They got books, researched it and became fly fishermen. Fly fishermen use microscopic flies as bait. They learned to hand-tie them themselves."

The two brothers, who grew up in Nesconset, N.Y., did most everything together. Another time, they learned to train red-tailed hawks on eastern Long Island. They trapped them in potato fields, where the birds prey on mice, rabbits and pheasants.

"They just love nature," Mrs. Hughes said. "Kris, especially, was one with nature. He always had to have pets — ducks, chickens, cats, dogs, parakeets. They all liked him. Ducks sat on his lap. If I went near the things, they would start pecking at me."

The brothers even worked together on the risk-arbitrage desk at Keefe, Bruyette & Woods on the 89th floor of 2 World Trade Center.

About two years ago, Keith Hughes, 31, took a job at another company away from the World Trade Center. Kris Hughes, 30, remained.

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September 13, 2024

Elaine Hughes posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2024

Elaine Hughes posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2024

Daniel Bednar posted to the memorial.

Elaine Hughes

September 13, 2024

Thank you, Daniel Bednar for placing a rose next to our son´s name. We attended two other memorials on 9/11 and did not make it to Ground Zero. I hope you get this message. We are forever grateful. Kris would have done the same thing you did.
Elaine Hughes

Elaine Hughes

September 12, 2024

Thank you William and Bryan for your posts. You would think the pain would lessen after 23 years but it doesn´t. Kris is always with us when we speak of him to our six grandsons and one great grand daughter. Wherever we go, we are sure to see a red-tailed hawk flying overhead as if to say "I am here with you".

Daniel Bednar

September 11, 2024

I was visiting Ground Zero this evening. I noticed nearly every name at the memorial had a flower placed on their name, but Kris did not. I bought a rose and placed it there. I do not know who he was, but no one should be left forgotten tonight. Rest in peace, Kris.

William Martin

September 11, 2024

I was met by a post today from Berkshire School - it mentioned alumni who lost their lives 23 years ago. I went to school with Kris at Berkshire and we played together on the hockey team, and this is the first time I had learned that Kris was a part of that set of horrible circumstances. Simply said - Kris was a man of substance and a good friend. You raised one hell of a man.

bryan yasko

September 10, 2024

Think about Kris almost everyday. Miss him dearly

Elaine Hughes

September 15, 2022

Thank you to everyone for reaching out to us after 21 years! 9/11 will always be etched in our minds and hearts. Kris and all the others who perished that day will always be remembered by us all the time. Kris took so many people under his wing and nurtured and protected them (so many stories a out that) that when I see a red tailed hawk flying overhead I see Kris’ face and smile. He is with us and still nurturing and protecting us. We miss him so very much!
The Hughes Family

John Barnett

September 14, 2022

To the Hughes family,
I saw a feature about Kris on the news the other day on the 21st anniversary. I lost a friend that worked with Kris at KBW. His name was Mike McDonnell and they were almost the same age.
I´m sure they were friends. I happen to live very near you in StonyBrook. Strange how I caught that segment on the news and heard about Kris. It seems like Kris was a great person from all I´ve read.
God Bless your family!

John Barnett

Elaine Hughes

September 9, 2020

Thank you to all who send their love and prayers to our family. “Time does not diminish who a person is or was”.
Missing Kris more and more each day. Kris is not forgotten and is always present in our conversations.
The Hughes family

The Kindred Family

January 24, 2020

Sending our heartfelt thoughts of sincere condolence to your family. Words do show that others still care deeply about your loss even though unable to remove the pain of loss. With each new day may God's strength help to cope. Kris is still very sadly missed and will always be remembered.

Hughes

September 11, 2019

We miss Kris more and more each day that passes. Our hearts are heavy. We thank each and everyone who reached out to us today and every year.
Bob and Elaine Hughes

Janet Gaggin Dallojacono

September 11, 2016

Fifteen years today. We're watching "Remembering 9-11 Reading of the Names" on tv. Just wanted you to know that we're thinking of you Kris. Thanks for being a good friend to my son Jeff. God bless you and your family.

P. Chaney

September 9, 2016

I think of Kris so often. Memories include him at Berkshire laughing with his friends; him showing us a falcon (I believe) perched on his arm, and even a picture I saw of him at 6 years old in full hockey gear sitting on the ice looking exhausted. He laughed with our family about that one.

Kris remains vivid in our memories, and I think of you and all your family more than I can express. What a special young man you raised. You are held in thought and prayer so very often, especially so at this time of year.

Pat Sinusas

September 8, 2016

911 a date we all will never forget.
I have been thinking a lot about that day as the 15 th anniversary is only 3 days away.
With most of my family living on Long Island and a lot who worked in NYC it is a day I will never forget.
The phone called came "Kris is missing " OMG what do we do ..where do we go .. someone help.
Finally on October 13 Bob N Elaine decided to have a beautiful service for Kris. So many people , so many flowers so many tears.
How proud I was to belong to the Hughes Family.
with all my love ,Pat

August 1, 2016

Miss you Kris. Everyday in my thoughts

Yasko

September 11, 2015

thank you to all who continue to remember Kris. Sometimes people lose sight of how friends of a lost one feel. they also share in the loss. We are grateful for each and every one of you.
Bob, Elaine, Kim and Keith Hughes

Marc Coviello

September 11, 2015

I think of Kris all the time. Not just because it's been 14 years today. But, because of the great guy he is! We miss you Kris. Love, Marc & Melissa

Cari McBride

March 15, 2015

I went to OSU with Kris. Yesterday I visited the memorial and found his name. The memorial is a beautiful place of reflection. Kris was a really nice guy. I think of him often and I wish peace and happiness for his entire family.

Pam Chaney

September 12, 2013

Dear Hughes Family - I often think of Kris and then think of you. You continue to be held in prayer and memory. Peace.

September 11, 2013

To the Hughes Family,
Our thoughts are with you as we reflect on Kris and all that he shared with us in such a short period of time. Hard to imagine that it has been 12 years. Please know he remains forefront in our memories. I was out at Berkshire School in the Spring and saw the dedication and trees planted on behalf of Kris and others - a great tribute.
Thinking of you all at this time,

Fondly, Jed

Mike C

September 11, 2012

I haven't forgot you, nor wil I ever.

Geoff Kirwan

September 11, 2012

Mr. Hughes,

I never had the opportunity to meet you but every year on 9/11 I read and try to get know one of the victims. You were a great man and a great American. Mr. Hughes you were taken from your family in a terrible way and my words seem so small but I just want to say that you are not forgotten.

Sincerely,

Geoff Kirwan
Canada

Jeff Gaggin

September 12, 2011

Kris, your spirit is with us always, like a hawk flying high above. We will never forget you buddy.

Vera Burch

September 11, 2011

My prayers continue for the peace and comfort of your hearts.

Love Always,

Robert Gaggin

September 11, 2011

10 years pass us by so quickly. I'll always remember Kris as a warm-hearted guy with an easy smile. A really great guy. Thinking of the Hughes family today.

Pam Chaney

September 9, 2011

Each time I see a hawk flying, I think of Kris. To all the Hughes family, especially you, Mr. and Mrs. Hughes, I remain terribly sorry for your loss. You are lifted in prayer, always.

Alan Kadlu

September 13, 2010

Lost,Loved,Missed But.....Never Never will we forget !

Robert Gaggin

September 13, 2010

Thinking of Kris and the Hughes family.

Bryan Yasko

September 12, 2010

We miss you buddy! The buckeyes beat Miami in your honor.

Vera Burch

September 10, 2010

My thoughts and prayers have never stopped. I continue to pray for your peace in this saddness.

Love Always,

Jed Hall

September 10, 2010

Dear Bob, Elaine and family:
Our thoughts and prayers will always be with you. We reflect on our memories of Kris all the time and feel extremely fortunate that our paths crossed. He had a remarkable way about him and is inspiring all of us from above.
Godspeed,
Jed and Jennifer Hall

Bob and Elaine Hughes

September 9, 2010

To all who come to this page and leave a message, we thank you from the bottom of our broken hearts. We miss Kris every single day. We keep him in our conversations and in our thoughts and prayers.
Please know that we truly appreciate your comments and your thoughtfulness to Kris and to our family.

Carol & John Krumm

September 8, 2010

Dear Bob, Elaine and family, You are in our prayers today and everyday as is Kris. May God Bless you all. Love, Carol & John Krumm

Vera Burch

September 11, 2009

I never had the honor of meeting Kris. I came into this wonderful family after his passing. Over the years I've heard everyone talk about Kris...who he was and what kind of man he became. He was a respect young man and his family was so proud of him. It seems he left those he loved with the most amazing memories. More importantly he left something far more special... a legacy of love. My heart goes out to anyone who cherished his every moment... especially his loving parents Bob and Elaine, his brother Keith and sister Kimberly.

Love,

Robert Gaggin

September 11, 2009

Thinking of Kris and the Hughes family today.

Cheryl Hughes

September 2, 2009

Thinking about the 9th anniversary of 9/11 I remember Kris and that day we all will never forget.

What I remember about that day was how shocking it all was. I was right there on Canal street walking to work when I saw a plane sticking out of one of the buildings. Everyone on the street thought that it was a helicopter. No one knew what really happened. As the police started yelling at pedestrians to move up-town, I looked up and saw the second building fall and felt an immediate sense of horror. What came after that was what no one wanted to accept. The hardest part was going to city after the realization of what really happened. I never thought that I would have to put up a missing persons sign for anyone and it was really hard to do that and then see so many other missing person signs for loved ones. The gravity of it all will always affect me.

What I remember about Kris is that he was a great family member and he was loved by everyone.

I will never forget the last conversation I had with him before I married his brother. He said I would be a wonderful wife to Keith and he was happy Keith and I were getting married. The last day we saw him was on our wedding day. We returned from our honeymoon on Sunday, August the 8th and I didn't talk to him since that day.

I remember the kind person he was and is and always think about the family he would have had and how regretful it is that we will never be able to share in those memories.

We will always miss and love him.

Doug Abraham

July 19, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

Adam Carey

February 19, 2009

I saw Kris's brother Keith a few weeks ago, and was thinking about Kris as I walked through Union Square Station in NYC, and spotted his name on the wall.

I knew Kris pretty well in high school, and we were pretty fast friends. Kris was an amazing athlete, but he was a better person.

They say as you get older, it's good to have friends around who knew you in younger days. And I feel bad for people who will never get a chance to meet him, and to understand what kind of person he was.

However, I will not miss being punched (even in fun) by him, as Kris had hands-of-stone. It was actually weird how hard he could hit you, not that he was prone to punching anyone.

He was such a mild-mannered guy, that we used to purposefully goad him back in the dorms at Berkshire, which is how I learned about those hands-of-stone.

It's weird what you remember sometimes.

My thoughts and prayers to his family, as he is often on my mind.


Love,


---Adam

Timothy Emmett

September 12, 2008

Hard to believe it's been seven years. This time of year I always think of the friend that we lost on that fateful day. The years have gone by so fast. I seems like just yesterday we were getting ready to see Ohio State play USC in the Shoe. Kris this ones for you.
GO BUCKEYES!!!!

Vera Burch

September 11, 2008

Uncle Bob and Aunt Elaine,

Seven years...it's hard to believe... it still feels like it can't be real. What I do know is how painful it has been not only on 9/11 for our family but everyday since he has been gone. We love you so much and will continue to honor his life and his memory.

Kris, we love and miss you dearly.

Loving and missing you always,
Chris and Vera

Robert Gaggin

September 11, 2008

Thinking of Kris and the Hughes family today.

E.G. Rollmann

September 11, 2008

I was in New York on the 11th and remember Kris's picture and memorial at Columbus Circle, near where we stayed. We never met, but every year I think of him on this day. God bless Kris, his family and loved ones.

Janice Elaine Hughes

May 21, 2008

God bless the Hughes family.

Jed Hall

September 7, 2007

Mr.& Mrs. Hughes and family,
Thoughts and memories of people who have touched your life in a very positive way live on forever. My wife and I met Kris when we were vacationing in Anguilla in the winter of 2001. We instantly hit it off and spent a lot of the vacation together. Kris and Sarah had a fun loving way and we knew when we met them that we'd become friends. I have the fondest memories of walking the beach with Kris, cigars in hand, talking about life and swopping stories. We were all supposed to connect in NY in the fall of that year to see a Broadway show. While that never happened, my wife and I firmly believe that we were destined to meet Kris that winter and we are so thankful and appreciative that we did. He certainly left an indelible mark on us and for that we are grateful.
Time will continue to march on but please know that Kris is very much alive in our thoughts and memories.

Doug Abraham

July 19, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

P Tabbernor

November 12, 2006

In memory....

Kristine

November 6, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Marc Coviello

October 30, 2003

I've been to this site many times in the past. Why I haven't written remarks till now, I don't know. I've read all the wonderful things said about Kris and his family. I certaintly agree.



I too had the pleasure of knowing Kris. I had met him thru his brother Keith. Who I'm happy to say I keep in touch with most often. Kris had touched the heart of my wife and myself in many ways.



I will cherrish the memories of him on the lake, in the boat, on water skis. He always seemed to be at home and comfortable in any situation Your right, what an athlete this guy was.



I was extremely fortunate to have Kris visit us while we lived in Park City, UT. And to have him come on multiple occasions must mean that he also enjoyed our company.



I will never forget one of the trips skiing at Alta. To set the scene. The storm the night before must have dumped 3.5 feet of snow (this is not that uncommon) winds on the top (11,000 ft) where gusting 30-55 mphs, visability at times 1-10 feet. It was cold and dark. But, we were set to have one heck of a day. At times, through out the day we would look at each other and contimplate hanging it up. But, of cousre that never happen the skiing was so great and the company was better. I have a great snap shot of Kris and I on this day. I keep it on my desk and look at often it allways brings a smile to my face. I will never forget that incredible day with such an incredible person.



Although Kris is not with us physically he will always be in my mind. Photos on found times spent together is what I go on now. A great man was taken from us But his spirt lives on.



Our thoughts and prayers are always with you.



Love,



Marc & Melissa Coviello





If any one ever would like copies of these photos feel free to ask.

Lawrence Marra

September 11, 2003

Dear Mr.& Mrs. Hughes,



Over the past two years I have found myself continually coming to

visit this site. It has been a comfort for me. Though our lives

have gone down many paths since the day of high school hockey, Mr. Hughes picking us up in snow storms for early morning practices, family get togethers.



I just wanted you to know that the time I have spent and the things that I have learned from the both of you and most of all from Kris will be with me forever. As you already know Kris was loving, caring and giving person. Most of all a great friend...In reading all these messages in the short time he was with us, he touched a lot of lives and clearly made a difference in each and everyone !!!



I am proud and honored to have been his friend.



Mine and my families thoughts and prayers are with you all.



Sincerely,

Larry Marra

Kathy Chaney

September 10, 2003

I still think of Kris every day. My daughter, Megan, and I talk about him often. He will always be missed.

ELAINE Hughes

August 11, 2003

The second year of this horrible tragedy is approaching quickly and I feel the need to reach out to all of Kris' friends who have been supportive to us during this time by either signing this Guest Book, calling us, emailing us, writing to us and just be being "there" for us when needed. You have touched our lives the way Kris has touched each and every one of your lives. Kris is in our lives each and every day. The pain and ache in our hearts will never go away, but the smile on our faces when someone talks about Kris helps us. Please feel free to email us anytime you want; especially if you think of something Kris said or may have done. Our collection of your letters and emails about Kris has been put in book form and is looked at and read frequently.

Than k you again for your support and love.

Bob & Elaine Hughes

Stephen J Smith Jr.

September 13, 2002

Kris was the first person I lived with away from home. In September 1986, he and I found ourselves staring at eachother across a 12 x 15 dorm room at Berkshire School. We were very different people that fed very well off eachother. I tended to say things off the top of my head and he tended to be more reserved. We liked the qualities that we contributed to the friendship. For the record, we listened to the TopGun soundtrack EVERY single night while laying in bed sleeping. I protested <"This is cheesy" but found that after a few weeks, the cassette would end and I would brave the frigid floor to jump up and flip the tape. It grew on me - what can I say? I was more like Kris' brother, Keith, whom we called Squiggy. This guy was always bouncing off the walls, literally.

Kris was stronger and bigger than every male in our freshman class of 50 students. Despite this, during the battle royale wrestling matches that we had in our dorm, Kris never felt compelled to dominate me or other friends physically. In Hindsight, adolescent boys tend to be so unsure of their developing character, they can lash out, physically, verbally, demean others in attempts to find Self- to qualify themselves as men. Kris never showed any of these adolescent qualities. Kris was a gentle giant, a man before his time. That was evident sophmore year when he was chosen to lead our horrendous football team as Quarterback. Kris' raw athletic ability led the coach to install him at QB although he had NEVER played organized football. The inflated ego that would result in most situations like this never inflicted Kris. I saw how even the seniors like Geoff Myers and Miles Marks treated Kris with respect. I was honored to be one of his best friends and his roomate.

Kris was very spiritual. He and I talked of our love for animals and all nature. I will never forget Kris relating the story of his grandmother's passing. He was in Florida (I believe) sleeping when an Owl rustled the branches outside the window and flew away. He said it was then that he knew his gradmother had passed. He explained that the Owl is a traditional Symbol for death and change. I never forgot that and later in life when I went through a bad emotional depression, I had an owl tattooed on my arm to help me remember the inevitability of change.

Kris was an inspiration. I missed him at the 10th reunion and regret that we did not spend more time together after school. Regardless, we lived together for 4 years, we grew up together. Kris lived with the principals and morals that I deem as essential in my life today.

Kris lives on in so many lives. I thank God for the chance to be close to this special person. Blessed love to his family for laying the foundation for this man before his time. -Steamer Smith

Ransom Bailey

September 12, 2002

I met Kris as a sophmore in highschool. What always struck me about Kris was his incredible talents (captain of varsity football, baseball, and hockey)and yet he was always kind, humble and earnest. I was shocked to hear the news of his involvement with this tragedy. Though I hadn't been in touch with Kris for some time, I say without hesitation - the world lost a damn good man with his passing. One that left us all better people simply by knowing him.

Janice & David Miklos

September 12, 2002

Reading all of the memories people had of Kris, we sadly did not experience that. We only met Kris a few times here in California for family occasions, but the impact of his death has affected us all so deeply, you would have thought we did know him for so long. He was such a nice person, warm, loving, handsome and really a family man. I have a picture of Kris on my refrigerator and think of him every day. He certainly is missed by all his family here in California and we are grateful that we got to know him. I hope my kids grow up to be the kind of person Kris is.

Lawrence Marra

September 11, 2002

Dear Mr. & Mrs Hughes,



It has been some time since we have been together. I first learned that Kris was a victum of 9/11 several months after the attack. I want to apologize for not being their in your time of sorrow. Myself and my family share in your lose.



Please know that even though our lives have taken different directions. I have fond memories of the times we spent together. Those winter days of Kris, Keith, Ray and myself, spending hours together playing hockey. The days when our parents, not even yourself and Mr. Hughes could not get us off the frozen pond.

Those early mornings at the Diner runs with Mr Hughes after an early morning hockey practice at Superior Ice Rink.



The times we spent watching hockey games in your home. Or having you shuttle us back and forth to see an Islander game.



I know in my heart that Kris is up in heaven with Ray and they organizing some sort of ice hockey game.



Those memories will always be near and dear to me.



Respectfully,



Larry Marra

Shawn Pattison

September 6, 2002

Mrs. Hughes,



We shared just a few moments in all of this loss, but you reached out and helped me in more ways than you can ever imagine.



My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.



Warm regards,



Shawn Pattison

Angel of Tears

Christine Barton

September 5, 2002

I am here to finally share this pictue my younger daughter drew for my lost daughter Jeanmarie wallendorf and I hope this helps in some small way .

Andrew Nathan, Dan Nathan, David Rousseau, Haze Moss, & Kris Hughes 7/24/98

Haze Moss

September 3, 2002

Kris and I met at Berkshire school as freshmen in 1986, and we quickly became best friends. We ended up rooming together for the next three years at Berkshire, and we remained in close contact over the past ten years.
Kris was probably the nicest, kindest, and most genuine friend that a person could ever ask for. He was never self serving, and always thought of others first. When my wife Andrea and I first visited Kris in NYC in 1996, he teated her as if he had known her his whole life, and they too quickly became friends. It meant more to me than he will ever know that he welcomed her so quickly into his life. Andrea and I will always hold dear the memories of times in the City with Kris, and when he stood as one of My Best Men in our wedding. I only wish that I could have returned the favor to him, because I know that he would have made a great Husband and father.
September 11th 2001 has changed my life in ways that I could never have imagined. I think about Kris each and every day, and can only imagine how hard this has been on his family. I feel fortunate to have had Kris in my life in such a signifigant way, and fortunate that over the years I got to know Bob, Elaine, Kim, and Keith too. They meant the world to him, and I can see why.
Kris Hughes was "One of a Kind" , and I will always have an empty place in my heart over this terrible tragedy.

email: [email protected]

Jeff Gaggin

June 26, 2002

I met Kris and his brother Keith on a cold chunk of ice one summer at Superior Ice Rink in Kings Park. This is where we came to fine-tune our slapshot, backhand, and wristshots before the regular season. I was about 13 or 14 at the time and immensely engrossed in the game of hockey - it truely was my life. I will never forget stepping on the ice that day and seeing these two guys my age with cool looking skates. Their skates had white leather on them, unlike the traditional skates, which were all black. They were very unique, just like the Hughes brothers as I later found out. I had heard of them, but we never met prior to that. My friend Roberto introduced me to them that day and we have been great friends ever since. Kris was always a bit more reserved than Keith, but both had a great love for life, specifically nature, and an enormous amount of integrity. They were real friends. In all candor, Kris was my idol growing up - he was a great athlete, incredibly bright, very handsome, and incalculably nice. He always wanted to do things to better himself and always did the right thing. I admired him greatly for that. I was never jealous of him, I was proud of his accomplishments and equally proud to be his friend. His family was very important to him and he always made an effort to spend time with them. His father, Bob, is a fantastic guy and you can see a lot of those same great qualities in Kris. I know how tough this loss must be for Bob and his mom Elaine since Kris was like a brother to me. In fact, I probably spent more time with Kris and Keith than I did my own brother, who I love very much as well. I have pictures of Kris throughout my home and every time I walk by them I say hello. And when I am facing adversity at work or in my personal life I find solace in them. I know Kris would say "hey bud, its not a big deal, you can get through this...keep your chin up". He was a great friend. I will never forget you Kris and my hearts and thoughts will always be with the Hughes family.



Compassionate Regards,

Jeff Gaggin

Email: [email protected]

Michael Kroger

June 4, 2002

I had the pleasure of meeting Kris in the summer of 2000 before my first year of college. I actully attend work with him for a day so that he could "show me the ropes" of what his job consisted of. I was debating on if I should stick with engineering. He advised that I could always get a good business job with an engineering degree. I have only met Kris a few times and those few times he made a lasting impression. He carried himself well and had a very charismatic personality. I still admire him greatly for his accomplishments at such a young age. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and Sara. Kris will always be remembered and is a constant reminder for me to keep going on and doing my best to succeed in college and the rest of my life.

Katie LaCroix

May 15, 2002

I met Kris at Ohio State in the Fall of 1990. We were in the same orientation class and ended up having many more classes together since we were both in the School of Business. We both left OSU our Sophomore year and then returned again the following fall. Kris was a great friend to me. He was always there to pick me up when I was down and stay with me when I needed a friend. I remember leaving OSU in December '93 and a couple of years later thinking about Kris and wondering where he was and what he was doing. Since I had absolutely no idea where he was I sent a letter to his parents address. A few days later I got a phone call and it was Kris. He told me that my letter had made his day. He was living at home with his parents after having graduated from OSU and working in NYC. He had gotten home very late the night before and was just exhausted from a long day and a long train ride home. All he wanted was to go to sleep when he got home until he saw my letter. We had not talked in over 2 years and hearing how something so simple as a letter from me made his whole day made me feel so important. Kris always knew exactly what to say. I will never forget what a wonderful person and friend Kris was. To his mother, father, brother, family and friends my prayers are with you and Kris and I am very sorry about your loss. I hope you can find comfort in knowing that there are so many people out there that cherish the opportunity to have known Kris and had him as a friend. I am truly a better person for it, Katie

Kathleen Pattison

April 19, 2002

One mother to another we share

something we would rather not.My younger son told me of your conversation picking up the cards.

I'm sure it helped him having some-

one to talk to,I hope it helped you.

Thank you,my best wishes to you and

your family also.My son,like your

Kris had an Irish twin.His name is

Chris.

megan chaney

April 15, 2002

it is heartening that my fiancee's x-girlfriend came to this website to pay her respects. I sent this site to her, because she lost someone recently and I felt blessed that she was able to show her respects in such a dignified way. thank you for your respect, shelly!

Megan Chaney

April 12, 2002

Kris and I dated for 4 yrs at Berkshire and 1 yr in college. We were inseparable. Even though I lived in Michigan and he in New York,our vacations away from school were still spent together, somehow.Our Birthdays were 2 days apart and my family threw one for both of us for my 16th and his 18th. We wore the same numbers for our athletic teams. I have wonderful memories of Bob and Elaine making breakfast for us at "the cabin". Kris made me appreciate my natural surroundings. We would go up "the mountain" and I would babble with my head down and he would tell me to be quiet and pick my head up and look around me.

There are so many memories that I will hold in my heart. At MSU, in the spring, he wanted to trap a particular hawk and he took me to this spot, daily. He was in his element. He loved these things. He also had so much love for his father. There is an old song by Gordon Lightfoot, I think about "the little boy and the man on the moon", he always thought of his father when he heard this song. My heart is broken. My family loved Kris also, so much... He may be the greatest person I have ever known and I am grateful and proud to have been a part of his life. Bob, Elaine, Keith, and Kim, I can only imagine your pain. You had the greatest son/brother in the world.

love, Megan Chaney

Meghan Guarnotta

April 9, 2002

I have thought of Kris so often in the last few months..I met Kris at Berkshire. Although there was 2 yrs between us I did get to know him..

Keith, I was so sorry to hear what happened. Your family is and has been in my thoughts and prayers.



"Memories keep the one you loved close to you in spirit and thought and always in your heart, today and forever..."

Christine Barton

March 24, 2002

I am just here to say how sorry I am I did not know kris i am just the mother of jeanmarie wallendorf who also worked at kbw and i can not help coming to this site all the time i know nothing else and i dont know what else to say but i really am sorry and wish it all to go away !

Shannon White

March 16, 2002

I think of Kris and his family often, and pray for him daily. I didn't know Kris, I wish I did, he sounds wonderful. However, due to "a simple plan" e-mail I recieved, I have kept Kris's name close to my heart for the past six months. On April 27th, I will be running a mini-marathon in Louisville, KY, and will race with a fishing lure on my hat in his honor. I am so sorry for your loss, and I will keep Kris in my thoughts and prayers.

Roy Chapin

March 12, 2002

I met Chris at Berkshire School in Sheffield Massachusetts. He was a year ahead above me at school, but we played on the football team together and I grew to have a tremendous respect for him both on and off the field. His love for life was evident in everything he did. My heart goes out to his family and love ones.

Pat Sinusas

March 10, 2002

My hearts is so broken. Our family is in so much pain. Kris looked just like his grandpa.

Life will never be the same.

I am so sorry Bobby and Elaine.



Love,Patty

Cathy Akins

February 19, 2002

I'm truly sorry I never had the opportunity to know Kris. I work with his Aunt Marion in San Francisco and from everything she has shared with us, Kris must have been an extraordinary young man.



Cathy

Joyce Yasko

February 14, 2002

I met Kris at Ohio State when he was my son Bryan's friend and room mate. Bryan considered him his "best" friend and they went on to do many things together...fly fishing, camping in the Rockies, talking daily on the phone and enjoying the sights and sounds of NYC......I was always thankful that Bryan had found such a caring, hardworking, intelligent, family oriented and true friend. Thanks to Kris's influence, Bryan is now an avid fly fisherman and is happiest when he is in touch with nature. My sympathy goes to his parents and siblings and to my son who greatly misses his fried and fellow fly fisherman.

February 4, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN KRIS R.HUGHES AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...MAY JESUS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN.AMEN

Teresa Jahn

December 28, 2001

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Lynn Doyle-Curl

December 28, 2001

My thoughts are with Kris's family at this time. My brother, Frank Doyle, who was also in the building when it went down, brought Kris home here to Michigan a few years back, what a sweet guy. I hope you are all okay. You are not alone.

Dominique Ricciardelli

December 22, 2001

I met Kris about 2 years ago. We would have some great times in the city with friends, Melissa Quigley and Kevin Deleon. He had a wonderfaul love for life and fun. His smile will be greatly missed.

Siobhan Lynch

November 29, 2001

I worked with Kris about 5 years ago at Yamaichi Capital Management at 2 WTC. He was a great guy! We had lunch together almost everyday, and he would sometimes join me and my husband for drinks after work. He always talked about his family, especially his brother. We lost touch when my husband and I moved to the Boston area, and I am sorry for that. My thoughts and prayers go out to Kris's family and friends. I will never forget Kris, and hope that someday my children will be as hard working and determined as he was.

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