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Jai
September 11, 2024
23 years ago you were taken from your family and friends. You are not forgotten. You are a hero.
September 11, 2024
James Hamiltion
September 12, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
D Cataneo
September 29, 2021
Jeff,
20 years gone by. I think of the 2 lives you gave on 9/11, the one you were living and the one you'd be living today. I carry you in my heart everyday. I'm sure you and LaBarbs are together sharing laughs together. I miss your friendship till this day. You are not forgotten my friend.
Debbie Canney
September 20, 2021
I´m a volunteer firefighter in pa 309. I was given a card with your picture on it for the 911 20th anniversary. My cheif told me to look you up and find out about you. Your life. My son also was a volunteer firefighter he died when he was 32. Not from his work. I respect what you stood for and my prayers are with your loved ones. I will carry this card with me always.
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NORMA MASTROPOLL
September 10, 2019
On this the 18 anniversary of 9/11 I still remember and will always remember. Rest easy.
Normalea Mastropoll
September 11, 2017
We still remember your sacrifice. It's been so long but seems like yesterday. I will always remember you. I still have a bracelet with your name and engine# on it. Rest easy.
Darren Cat
April 20, 2017
Hey buddy, just thinking of your birthday and now our boy Labarbs birthday about to come and go. Too many years have gone by, you and didla are in my heart and it my soul everyday! Every memory of our time together is filled with fun and happiness! Hope you guys are together cruzing in the grudge! The missing never goes away!
Roger Stark
September 11, 2016
We should never forget.
Normalea Mastropoll
September 11, 2016
We still remember on this 15th anniversary. Never forgotten always in our hearts.❤
Judy Mervis
September 12, 2015
Prayers to the family of Jeffrey. I learned about him this month in a roundabout way. His nephew has the same smile, bright eyes, and easy manner coupled with determination. Yesterday was a hard day, but he was at work all day. I will pray for Jeffrey's family every day until I can meet him and thank him for his courage on that dreadful day. God Bless.
Normalea Mastropoll
September 7, 2015
RIP
Normalea Mastropoll
September 7, 2015
We still remember Jeffery. You are not forgotten! I still have the bracelet with your name and Engine# on it. RIP❤
April 3, 2015
Rest easy angel
Norma Mastropoll
January 6, 2015
We still remember after all these years. You are not forgotten. I have a bracelet with your name on it and engine. Rest in peace.
Josh T
January 4, 2015
Found Jeffrey's name in a picture I took of the memorial, he sounded like an amazing person glade I was able to learn about himand keep his memory alive
Pam Robbins
September 14, 2013
Never forgotten! Jeffrey Stark - Firefighter. Walked this morning in an event held by the Mooresville NC Fire Dept. and I was very proud to walk for this young man who lost his life much too soon. Praying your family is well and know you will NEVER be forgotten. Thank you Jeffrey Stark.
September 12, 2013
We rode again this year in Jefffrey's on the America's 9/11 ride. Two years ago on the 10th anniversary we were given a card with your name and info and we have kept it in our bike so each time we do the memorial ride you are with us.
Normalea Mastropoll
September 11, 2013
You are remembered.
Normalea Mastropoll
September 11, 2013
We will not forget! We can not forget!
After 12 years we still rember you and those who left with you.
September 11, 2013
Never Forget...impossible to forget
Maggie Voda
December 15, 2012
Last week I went to the site. It was my first time there. I bought a bracelet with your name on it. Took your picture with my camera. It is now framed and on my self . I stare at it and remember. You will always be in my prayers.
Ann Mason
September 11, 2012
I just did the 9/11 memorial challenge at Red Rocks outside of Denver. I had the honor of climbing the stairs in honor of Mr. Stark. Thank you.
September 11, 2011
I am a paramedic who ran a 9/11 memorial stair race of 110 stories to honor those who have fallen. Each race participant received a photo and small bio of one or two of the fallen. I received Jeffrey Stark. Through each and every step in what ended up being 220 story race (110 up and down) I held Jeffrey's photo in my hand. I looked at his face and prayed for his family. I would like to thank him for his service to our country. I feel like I helped him finish a race he, unfortunately, was only able to start.
Thank you Jeffrey
Sincerely and with respect,
Nicole
Philadelphia, PA
August 26, 2011
We had the HONOR to represent Jeffrey Stark on this years America's 9/11 Ride by putting a memorial card with his information on our motorcycles windshield. We felt his spirit was with us keeping us safe all the way from Leesburg, VA to NYC.
April 5, 2010
Just remembering you on your birthday and thinking of your smile. Happy Birthday.
Darren C
March 17, 2010
Jeff as time goes by the hurt of your loss eases, but will never go away. When I think of that laugh, it still brings a smile to my face. I still drink a toast to you every September! You are truly missed my friend! My every memory of childhood has you there! The Ramblewood crew will always carry your light hearted and trust worthy sprit with us always!
MaryEllen Masiello
September 12, 2009
Dear Families of Jeff Stark, I never knew him but know his nephew Mike who spoke of him with kind words.I prayed in silence for him today that he gave his life for our country. Bless him in heaven and may his memory live on in thelives of all the people who knew him as well as people like me whose memory of him is a rekindling of the people who knew and loved him. God bless. Mary Ellen Masiello
Chris Stark
April 5, 2009
Happy Birthday!
I was thinking of you today while i was walking along the lake with my girlfriend. I know how much you would have liked to see it, it was beautiful. I still think of you everyday. I love you.
Doug Abraham
April 5, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Katie Stark
September 11, 2008
To Jeffrey's family and loved ones:
His name always caught my eye because we have the same last name. Then I decided to search his name and I'm so glad I ran across this guest book to see his handsome smiling face and all of the wonderful comments people have left. There sure are a lot of Starks stopping by! My father is a fire chief down here in VA, so it must be something in the family line that turns men into heros. Just wanted to say, on this 7th anniversary of that horrible day, God bless, and may Jeffrey never be forgotten.
Jenn Hughes
September 3, 2008
I knew Jeff when he was working for the District Attorney of Staten Island. God bless you, Jeff. I will miss you. The summer of '95 will stay with me forever. Love Always, Jenn
kristine
April 30, 2008
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Doug Abraham
April 5, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Chris Stark
September 14, 2007
Its been six years since that horrible day we lost you. Not a day goes by that i dont look down at my old scratched bracelet with your name on it and think of you. Words cant even explain how much I and everyone else miss you. Although i was young when it happened i keep the memories we had close in my heart. I was looking through the entries and saw Johnny, Kathrine, and Aunt Dorothy wrote in here too. Sadly we lost Aunt Dorothy too to cancer about a year ago. I love you and am proud to say that you are my uncle.
Barry Stark
September 13, 2007
While researching 6 years after the fateful day, I found Jeffery's guest book. I noticed several similarities -- of course the last name, however his birthday is the same day as my wedding anniversary, and he attanded Niagara University -- I live in western New York. Words can not express the sadness I feel, even to this day, for all who were lost that day. I have been involved with our local 9/11 services as a 25 year member, and Chaplain of the Eggertsville Hose Co. While I did not know Jeffrey, I feel a closeness of the firefighter bond, as well as the name Stark. Please know that God holds Jeffery, and the rest of New Yorks Bravest in his loving arms, where no pain or harm can come unto them for all eternity.
In Gods Love: Barry E. Stark
I close with this poem::
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Katharine Suarez
April 5, 2007
I am thinking about you on your 36th birthday. I remember your 30th, how we took the day off from work and spent the morning at Best Buy which led to lunch at McDonald's, pretty fancy!! I remember taking a picture of you coming through the doors. I also took a picture of your new truck, I think of you every time I see a red truck and of course, every time I smell Trident gum. The inside of your car always smelt like Trident. I remember how happy you were that I surprised you with getting your friends together that night. I still look at those pictures; you had the biggest smile on all night. I just never thought it would be your last birthday. Sometimes I forget so much stuff that happened. But I remember that day very clearly and think about it every year when your birthday comes around. Happy Birthday!!
P Tabbernor
March 23, 2007
In remembrance....
Carl Gregory
September 9, 2006
Although I never met you, I read your name during a tribute to 9/11 in San Diego, Ca. I'm a Police Officer and understand the call of duty. I have set out on a new quest to find out about you. May God bless your family.
norma mastropoll
September 9, 2006
I will always remember,you and your brother firefighters are not forgotten.
John Stark
April 6, 2006
It's been 4 and a half years, and finally it's stopped hurting to the point where I can go online and read these things. It amazes me how many people who know nothing more than a name have such wonderful things to say, and yet they don't know the half of it. On September 11 I lost more than an uncle, I lost a guy that let his 4 year old nephew rock out on his favorite guitar, who always had the coolest Christmas presents, and was the older brother that I never had. Not a day goes by that I don't look down at the bracelet on my wrist, see that name, and think about how much I miss him. Jeff Stark was a truly amazing individual, and he is missed by so many people. If I live to be 100 I hope I have the opportunity to make half the impact on people that he did. I miss you Uncle Jeff, and when someday comes we're going to have a lot of catching up to do.
Katharine Suarez
February 14, 2006
I am still thinking of you this day and every other. Miss you.
Love Katharine
Craig Stark
December 21, 2004
I have a cousin named Jeff Stark. After I read all of the nice comments about Jeffrey, I thought I would mention that there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about my American friends and all that happened. I admire every single one of you for your courage, determination and love of life.
God Bless.
Cathy Stewart
October 17, 2003
Dear Jeff
You went up to heaven with our dearest friend, FF. Eugene Whelan,
E230.
Eugene lived in portland with us and we miss him so.
God bless your family, friends, all
those that loved you....We know that never ending sorrow. WE will never forget.. God Bless the FDNY.
K.C. Ketelsen-Gardiner
September 11, 2003
Jeff,
I will forever have a fantastic memory of you:
You, Steve B., Ray B. and Richie L., hanging out, sitting on the hood of my '78 Monte Carlo in, about, '91 or so. You guys were laughing at God knows what so hard. I mean bent over, crying laughing. And when I asked if you guys were making fun of me (being "guys" and all), you looked at me so sincere and said, "I would never make fun of you, KC." It was at that moment I knew you were my friend.
When I found out you were one of the fallen FDNY, I just couldn't believe it. I hadn't seen any of you guys in so long. And do I regret it now. But, on this two year anniversay, the memory of you I have and will always keep is the one of that day and your great, dimpled smile. After 9/11, I have tried many times to explain to my husband what a cool person you were, but he'll never truly know. But I and so many others do. We were all lucky to have you in our lives, even if for just a short while.
I wish your family, friends and your girlfriend my deepest, deepest sympathies. I know the pain will probably never truly leave, but, hopefully, with each day, and hearing and reading the great (and fun) memories of you, the memories of good times with you, will maybe help ease it just a bit. I truly hope that for them.
Anthony Crocco
September 11, 2003
Jeffrey...with tears in my eyes and grief in my heart on this second anniversary. God Bless.
April 4, 2003
Happy 32nd Birthday!!! I miss you so much.
norma mastropoll
January 15, 2003
I don't really know what to say,except I am sorry for your familys' lost. I can only emagine what they have gone through.
I were a 9-11 bracelet with your name one it and also one with the name of Thomas A. Casorias' name on it,he was from Engine #22.
My God watch over your family and girlfriend and keep them safe,until you meet again.
Norma Mastropoll
Texas
matt swisher
September 18, 2002
I think he is nise an cind ot others
PS.I wish I got to met
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Alison Schrager
September 17, 2002
Jeff,
I did not know you but I was give a 9/11 braclet with your name on it. I wanted to know more about you than just your name and CO #.You were truly a remarkable young man. My heart goes out to your girlfriend and family for their loss. I have some friends who are firefighters and I feel that I am one of the lucky one's because they came home. God bless you and thank you for being my hero.
Jeffrey Stark
September 12, 2002
I was deeply moved when I saw a young man with my very same name who lost his life on 9/11/01. It was the name that really made me "stop" and give reflection on a much deeper level of the very special people that were lost that day. Jeffrey was 30 years old, but died a hero. My heart goes out to his family and friends. He may be gone, but he will never be forgotten. God bless you - my prayers are with you. May you find peace.
Kristin Zawistowski
September 11, 2002
Jeffrey-
You are in my prayers today & everyday. I feel safe knowing that God has you by his side, watching over us in this world of uncertainty. May He continue to bless you and your family. You are a hero and forever in our hearts...
Janice Greenberg
September 10, 2002
Jeff --
I will never forget the promise you made to us when we got together for the last time shortly before 9/11...you promised to get all of us together with the guys from the "neighborhood." Even in heaven, you kept your promise to us...we got together at your memorial to remember what a truly wonderful person you were. You are a hero to everyone and you will never be forgotten. We all love you and miss you so much and take comfort in knowing that we now have a true guardian angel in heaven.
Caroline Thomes
August 31, 2002
Even though I did not have the pleasure of knowing you, Jeff, I have stitched your name and the NY Firefighter shield on the Memorial Flag Project, to honor your memory. This project has the hand stitched names of all Americans who died as a result of terrorist actions. I will keep your family and friends in my prayers and hope that one day in our lifetimes, there will be no more terrorist actions and we will all live in peace.
Jamie Curtin
August 26, 2002
I knew Jeff only through his days at NU (Niagara University). All of his old friends here in upstate were saddened by this tragic and horrific event. Our hearts and prayers go to his family and friends. He will be missed.
Keith DeRosa
May 24, 2002
Jeff,
Rarely in life do you meet a person who is as likable as you were, Starkster. It seems like yesterday when we were hanging out at the pond or claypit. As life changes and befalls us with unexpected tragedies, we can hold dear the memories of Good friends close to our hearts and remember the smiles and the laughs. You will never be forgotten.
Keith
Alison Suarez
May 20, 2002
I can remember the last time I saw you Jeff before I returned to school in August. I recalled how I didn't give you a big hug goodbye as I got into my car outside the apartment that night but reassured myself that I would see you again soon...how wrong I was. It is still so hard to believe what has happened- even after all this time. And didn't Katharine always tell you..." If it looks real bad Jeff, run for the hills"...but why are we not the least bit surprised that is exactly what you didn't do. It didn't take what happened that day for us to realize the kind of person you were- it only made it more real for us and the rest of the world that you were a selfless man and always prepared to do the right thing. Katharine misses you so much Jeff and the nights that she falls asleep on the couch I look over at her and pray that you will visit her in her dreams. We talk about you often and find ourselves laughing and crying while remembering all the laughs we had. We look forward to the day when the memories of you only bring smiles and laughter- the two things you did best. May God bless you and keep you safe Jeffrey and we pray that you found joy and comfort in the familiar arms that greeted you when you left us. I am sad that you will not be the brother-in-law I looked forward to having but will think of just as that... always.
Fred DeVito
May 19, 2002
Jeff,
The world is a sadder place without your wonderful sense of humor and constant smile. You are already missed so much by many, many people. My prayers are with your family and loved ones left behind. I know what they are going through and can only hope that someday at least some of the pain will go away. God bless you Jeff. I miss you.
Fred
Angie Campbell
May 16, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
May 9, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL HERO..JEFFREY STARK AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS GIRLFRIEND...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ALL HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Amy Thompson
May 3, 2002
I did not know Jeffrey Stark. On a recent night while listening to the radio, I heard about Mercy Bands. I am an EMT in Charlotte North Carolina and decided to purchase one. I requested a randon name of a firefighter from FDNY, and when the bracelet arrived, it was Jeffrey's name engraved on it. Wanting to see the picture of the man whose name i will wear proudly on my wrist for the rest of my life, I found this site. Please know that I, a total stranger, will wear this bracelet and remember his heroism and sacrifices for his country forever. I grieve for this young man who had so much to give, and for his family and friends who have lost a most beloved person. God bless all of you, and God bless Jeffrey and all of my fellow Americans whose lives have been cut short. May Jeffrey rest in peace.
Noreen/Tom Gallagher
April 30, 2002
Rosemary, I think of you every day. My heart goes out to you and your family. Jeffery was one of the nicest boys in Noreen's class. I will always remember his smile. You are in our prayers every day.
Kristin (Menzies) Zawistowski
April 19, 2002
Jeffrey-
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you.
I can't believe it's been over 20 years since we first met at St. Clare's.
I will never forget your smile, those dimples, and that hysterical giggle! I wonder if you're still ticklish??
The Italian Festivals, the zepolli's, and that silly dance you used to do in Ms. McGee's math class "Everybody Rhombus"...you were crazy!!
Always talking about your older brother John and you had one of the coolest Mom's for "lunch-duty".
God, I still can't believe that was 20 years ago.
I will never forget Lisa's 4th grade Halloween party and how you let me "wear your tie" in the school-yard!!
I wish we hadn't lost touch over the years.
My heart and prayers go out to you Katharine, Mrs. Stark and your entire family.
Jeffrey was a wonderful, funny, genuine and extraordinary person.
Cherish the years you had with him, know that he is watching over you and that one day we will all meet again!
Jeffrey, I will miss you!!!
M
April 15, 2002
Dear family of Mr. stark,
At my school in new jersey we are doing a memory bracelet project. we buy red white and blue bracelets and then we are given someone to honor. I am honoring Mr.Stark and wearing my bracelets proudly.
From,
m
Claudine Romeu
March 29, 2002
Jeff,
You truly were one of the nicest people I have ever met. I think anyone who knew you would agree. Those dimples could always put a smile on my face. You will deeply be missed and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hank Romeu
March 29, 2002
Jeff,
I don"t have to explain what a great friend you are because anyone who knows you already knows that. I will treasure every moment all of us had together. You will be deeply missed and will always be a hero in my eyes. Love ya, bro!
Dorothy Stark
February 11, 2002
I can only say that not a day has gone by that both Uncle Bob and myself do not think of you. Although we did not see you but at family functions, we loved you dearly and tell anyone who did not know you personally, that you were the sweetest, happiest and loving person. Can't get those big dimples of yours out of our minds too.
Katharine Suarez
February 7, 2002
Dear Jeff,
I do not have the words to express what you mean to me. Thinking of all the plans we made and the life we had hoped to share, I can't even begin to imagine living my life without you. You made my life so enjoyable. I loved knowing that I would see you and your beautiful smile at the end of each day. You have left me with wonderful memories that will now have to last my lifetime. I was certainly blessed for the time I had with you. You were and will always be a part of me, forever in my heart. I will do my best to live a life that would make you proud, because you lived a life, Jeff, that made me very proud.
Until I see you again...
Love Always, Katharine
Mike La Barbera
January 30, 2002
Dear Jeff,
You will greatly be missed by all of your childhood friends from Ramblewood Ave. We have had many Great times growing up together and great times through our adulthood, you were always down to do anything. Out of all the people that I know who lost life that day, it is your death that hurts the most, after all, it was always you & me in the same sought of trouble since you were 10 & I was 11. Well I could go on forever listing good things about you, for the people who know you already know those things. I cannot express on how much I miss ya brother, Rest In Peace always.
Your friend Mike
Jim Mathieu
January 16, 2002
Jeff, I will always miss you. It seems like just yesterday that we were in High School together, partying, laughing and joking around. I'll always remember the times we had together. Your passing deeply saddens me because I am the one left behind. However, I know you are the truly lucky one today.
Go with God my brother,
Jim
Judy C
January 5, 2002
Dear Jeffrey,
Rest In Peace with God and your fellow Angels.
You were a brave firefighter, a hero, and you are now an Angel.
Thank you for dedicating your life to help others. That is the mark of a truly wonderful man!
God Bless you and the loved ones you left behind.
John Zafaranloo
January 1, 2002
Jeffrey was my classmate in Msgr. Farrell High School where we graduated together in 1989. He was a great person, ready to listen to anyone who wanted to talk to him. I pray for him everyday. Thank you Jeffrey for giving all you had to save others.
God bless you,
John Zafaranloo
Teresa Jahn
December 11, 2001
We thank Jeffrey for dedicating his life to helping others every time he was called out. We know he must have had a very warm and caring heart to have dedicated his life to firefighting. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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