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Maureen Marciano
September 12, 2021
Virginia,
My thoughts still remain with you, and all those lost on that fateful day. May you continue to Rest in Peace. We will never forget!
September 11, 2020
Hi Aunt Ginger,
Its been 19 years since you were taken away and it still is heavy and sad on my heart. Ironically, when I think of your laugh and your mannerisms, I can still hear it and see them....it always makes me smile.
So much has happened in the past 19 years. I got married, I had 2 children, I have grown professional and participated in medical mission trips. I wanted you to know that even though you weren't with me physically, I carried you with me in my heart. My children know about you , I tell them stories of you. On this day, we have a tradition of going out to an Italian restaurant for dinner and celebrate you beautiful life. You were an amazing role model for me and I always felt you in my corner growing up helping me with challenging stuff. I love you and always will carry you in my heart..
Lauren DeTullio
Frank Mancini
September 10, 2019
R.I.P My 2nd cousin, Virginia Jablonski. My Father's cousin who lived for a couple of years with us in the late 70's. I was 8 or 9 years old when she would come upstairs from our rented basement apartment and sit and chat with us in the kitchen. A bubbly, kind person I remember her to be. I remember her always telling my Mom, He looks just like Paul Newman ! God bless your soul, Virginia. You are not forgotten among all others.
Maureen Marciano
September 11, 2013
Dear Virginia,
My thoughts still remain with you on this twelve anniversary…..I still often think of you, and will always remember our last conversation that morning….may you continue to rest in peace….you will never be forgotten!
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September 11, 2012
Once again, getting ready to hear your beautiful name read on the long list of beloved friends and family lost on Sept. 11. All of those who were with you on the saddest days of our lives. You know you are always with us and wish you were here to be with us. Our 'missing' musketeer.
Maureen Marciano
September 11, 2012
Dear Virginia,
On this 11th Anniversary, I still continue to think of you often….I know you're resting in peace along with all the other innocent victims of that day….it's still so incomprehensible to understand, and no amount of time will ever change that…you were always so cheerful and vibrant to see as we commuted together each day including that morning…I always remember our last conversation, and how you made me laugh…..oh, for all these years how I wish the outcome were the same for all of us that were there that terrible day in time.
Samantha Pannone
September 10, 2012
My dearest Virginia. Although we miss you everyday of our lives, it is even more palpable this time of year. Not much time ever can go by without thinking of you. I will miss you and love you for the rest of my life. You will never ever be forgotten.
October 27, 2011
Happy Birthday my friend! Lots of love - we would have been the same age right now - and we would have celebrated big time!! Miss you always .....
September 12, 2011
My dear friend - On this tenth anniversary (why does it still seem like yesterday?) we spent the weekend in your memory. We walked 3 miles with you beside us, we talked, we cried, we laughed and we remembered all the good times we spent together. You were with us at your church and at the beautiful memorial service. I touched your engraved name and left you tiny roses. I felt your presence. We miss you and we will always remember...
all my love, Judy
Greg Jablonski
September 11, 2011
Just watched your name read with a tear in my eye and find it hard to believe ten years have passed. You will always be remembered for the fantastic person you were. You will always be in our minds and hearts.
Gregory, Caroline and Laurie
Maureen Marciano
September 11, 2011
Dear Virginia,
I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you today on this Tenth Anniversary…it’s hard to even imagine that much time has now passed…it’s still so hard to comprehend even after a decade….may you rest in peace along with all the other innocent lives that were taken on that day….we will never forget, and we all will continue to remember your lives today and everyday…no amount of time will ever change that.
Judy Carabillo
October 27, 2010
Happy Birthday, my friend. We will always remember..... All my love
Maureen Marciano
September 1, 2010
Dear Virginia,
As the ninth anniversary approaches I just wanted to say that you still remain in my thoughts. I’ll never forget our last conversation that we had on that morning as we waited for our bus. I still remember how you made me laugh, as I was nervous about something pertaining to work. It was always such a pleasure to see you as you were always so cheerful. May you rest in peace. You will never be forgotten!
Samantha Pannone
September 11, 2009
I will always miss and love you for the rest of my life. I know you are around me. I miss you today and everyday.
Judy Carabillo
September 11, 2009
Virginia, my dear friend,
As I wait to hear your precious name called aloud this morning, along with all of the others, so deeply missed and mourned, I miss you and will never stop missing you. With my love and prayers today and always...
Maureen Marciano
September 10, 2009
Virginia,
You are remembered today and everyday along with all the other wonderful innocent people that were lost that day. May you all rest in peace. We will never forget.
Doug Abraham
October 27, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Judy Carabillo
September 20, 2007
My dear friend,
Another year has gone by without you in our lives. I listened to your name read aloud on Sept. 11 and I prayed that you are happy and safe now. We will miss you always.
P Tabbernor
November 15, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Judy Carabillo
October 27, 2006
Happy Birthday my dear friend! How we wish you were here so we could celebrate together. You always are and always will be in our hearts and in our thoughts. We miss you very much....
Barry Jablonski
September 16, 2006
Cookie, Lauren is expecting next April. I know you are so excited and proud. Love you forever.
Susan Holdy
September 10, 2006
To Virginia's Family...my prayers are with you as the 5th anniversary of September 11th approaches. A day doesn't go by that I don't think of all the people that were taken from us that day. Virginia is truly missed.
Susan Holdy
September 12, 2005
To Virgina's Family....another year goes by..I cannot believe it as been 4 years. My heart is still very heavy remembering that day and it is still very hard to get through. I knew Virginia and I still think about her. My prayers are with you.
Keith & Colleen Hanson
May 20, 2004
Barry, please know that you and Virginia are in our thoughts often. We wish you peace of mind and peace of heart.
Keith & Colleen Hanson
Henry Jablonsky
September 26, 2003
There isn't a single day that goes by without memories of that day resurfacing. My attachment to that day was intensified once I found out about Virginia. My only wish is that I could have changed the outcome of that day for Barry and the family.Every day I dug at the Trade Center,my goal was to find something, anything, but I couldn't. My thoughts and prayers will always be with Virginia, Barry and the family. Even though memories and thoughts are stronger on September 11th each year, every day is a day to reflect and remember. Let us go on, but NEVER FORGET!
AL & KAY JABLONSKY
September 13, 2003
BARRY,
WE ARE THINKING OF YOU AT THIS TIME.
UNCLE AL & AUNTIE KAY
Joanne Salvaggio
September 11, 2003
Although Virginia is my sister's sister-in-law,I did not get to meet her that often, but when I did she was always very happy and kind. I cannot picture her in my mind without that gentle smile. Why she and the others had to be taken in such a way is a question that man cannot answer. Our only consolation is the beautiful memories she gave, and that she is in heaven with Jesus and all his angels, watching over her loved ones. Barry, my heart goes out to you, with a realization, although perhaps small, of the pain you feel, especially on this day. May God Bless you with His Peace, and the freedom of the knowledge that one day, you will be together again.
My Aunt Ginger Is My Guardian Angel
Jenn Mike and Cristie DeTullio
April 26, 2003
Dear Aunt Ginger. You will never be forgotten. There is not one day that we do not think about you. We will always remember your beautiful smile and warm heart. Even though we do not see you, we know you are here. Every day I pray for you to watch over your niece Cristie because I know how much you loved her and I know you are her guardian angel. She sleeps with the little white kitty cat every night that you bought for her on her 1st birthday. Every time I see Cristie with it, I know you are watching over her. We love you and miss you very much. Rest in peace till we all meet again.
Susan Holdy
April 7, 2003
It has been a year and a half and the vision of that horrible day is still in my mind. To Virginia's husband Barry, and her family I am still so sad about what happened on Sept. 11th. I also worked at Guy Carpenter (Tower 2, 51st fl.)I was introduced to Virginia through a mutual friend Barbara. Virginia was a thoughtful caring person. Occasional I would have to go to Tower 1 and would always stop bye to say hi to Virginia. She truly is missed.Barry she spoke of you quite often. Virginia and her family have been and always will be in my prayers. Susan
Gregory Jablonski
November 19, 2002
Virginia
Whenever I look at the stars, I will always be reminded of you. Your presence is still felt on this earth, although I know you can not physically return. My last reminder of a contact by yourself and all the departed souls from over a year ago, were the violent winds that swept through NYC on 9-11-02. Please keep in contact through the heavens.
Forever Your Brother-In-Law Greg
John Bloom
September 15, 2002
Virginia:
We never met, but I had the honor of accompanying your husband, Barry, to Ground Zero while I served as a Disaster Mental Health Worker with the American Red Cross. While Barry's loss and pain were present, so too was his love and admiration for you.
I will never forget!
John Bloom
Jim Spizarny
September 14, 2002
To the family of Virginia Jablonski - A candle has been lit at Our Lady of Peach Church in honor of Virginia. May the Lord our God grant her eternal life and peace. I have kept Virginia in my prayers during this time.
Pat Harnish
September 11, 2002
Last fall, I was visiting NJ, attended Church and was asked to pray for an individual of the tragic 9-11 disaster. I was given Virginia's name. Since then, she and her family have been in my prayers. Today, it felt good to be able to put a face and background to a name -- she was a special person. May God keep Virginia and her family in His loving care.
Diana Rappa-Kesser
September 10, 2002
I was given Viginia's name at random by our company at Keystone Mercy Health Plan...I will reflect on Virginia at 830 am on 9-11-2002...I enjoyed very much reading her information...I feel that she is someone I would have loved to have known in person.
Karen Heyer
May 30, 2002
I know Virginia's mom quite well since I worked in the nursing home where she resides. I used to see Virginia come every Sunday to spend time with her Mom. She was such a gentle and unassuming person, very down to earth. May she rest in eternal peace.
Pat Farrell
March 13, 2002
I also worked with Virginia at RECO for 4 years. She was always the first one in the office and one of the last to leave. My desk faced Virginia's and I will always remember her smiling, even when she was swamped with work. I know she is in a special, peaceful place now, and I am sure she is smiling down at us. My heartfelt condolences to you Barry and to Virginia's family. I will continue to pray for all of you.
Catherine Matthies-Conrad
March 11, 2002
Although I never met Virginia, I wanted to leave a message in the guest book. I was flower-girl at Virginia's husband's parents' wedding over 50 years ago. May our God of all mercy and love give comfort to the Jablonski family in their time of need.
Joanne Bisconti (Frein)
March 11, 2002
Barry, I'm so very sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts often. Although I never met Virginia, I feel a personal loss. I pray that you can find some peace. Love, Joanne
marple julie
February 7, 2002
I have Virginia on my mercy band and our local newspaper did an entire feature article on the mercy band and it was awsome being able to put Virginias face with a name. I will continue to pray for your family.
February 4, 2002
OH DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN VIRGINIA M.JABLONSKI AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN
Jana Nawrocki
January 16, 2002
I recently purchased a mercy band and was sent Virginia's name. I can tell by her smile what a great person she must have been. I will pray for you all.
Irene McCusker
January 9, 2002
I've known Virginia thirty years. She was cheerful, friendly and warm-hearted. She was extremely devoted to her family and friends. People were important to Virginia, and she always tried to nurture her relationships. She had a strong work ethic, which is why she was at her desk so early every day, even on September 11. After reading the tributes to Virginia's memory, it's easy to see how loved she was by all who knew her. That love does not diminish with death, nor can death extinguish the light she brought to the world. I will pray for her and remember her always.
John LaValle
January 9, 2002
They didn't come any better than Virginia. she was a cheerful, honest and loving person. She was the kind of friend that many people never experience in a lifetime. I remember her often and will miss her for the rest of my life.
James & Donna Craig
January 5, 2002
We had the honor to meet Barry and
Virginia and their friend John on a
trip overseas some years ago. And we
like many of you fell in love with
the three of them and untill this
past Christmas we called each other
and kept up on things. I can say it
was about the longest day we've ever
went through not counting Sept. 11th
We love Virginia and Barry and John.
And feel some of the hurt they must
feel.
Judy (Collins) Carabillo
January 4, 2002
Virginia and I grew up together on the same street in Brooklyn. We knew each other since we were 3 years old. Four years ago when I moved down to NJ, we were able to pick up where we left off so many years ago. Although we kept in touch throughout our lives (through letters, phone calls, cards and scattered visits) we were so happy to be closer in distance and we established a "girls night out" along with our life long friend Susan. I was so honored when they invited me on an "all girls" vacation to Las Vegas last May. I will cherish that time with Virginia. Susan and I had dinner with Virginia a few nights before the tragedy and we will always remember that night. I miss her very much and I know she is in a happy place we all hope to be one day, together again.
January 4, 2002
A candle will be lit all the days of my life.
On my mantel and in my heart the candle will shine bright.
I lost my Tia before her time.
I regret each day that I put off words, moments, events, laughter & now I just cry because of this crime.
My memories of her go far back & are golden.
There was more I had in the future-my wedding, my children- these have been stolen.
I ask God, where is the peace in saying "Good-bye".
He answers peace will come in time- for now it's ok to cry.
During what I thought the lowest time of my life a person came to me.
That person that came to me was my Tia & she set me free.
She didn't know, I never told her.
Now I regret, I thought there would be a time when I was older.
She was my angel then & she is my guardian angel now.
I only wish she was still here some how.
I'll never forget her words she said to me that day.
I'll carry that spirit they spoke & keep my head up & smile for her and not be dismayed.
I thought of my tia as the person who always gave me my 1st of everything.
She helped bring me out into this world & advocated for me to see things.
I will do as she wishes and with her blessing.
And look up at the sky & smile & laugh & live because I know she will be looking.
My life has been blessed by my family because of the unique traits they blessed me.
I won’t take that for granted, I’ll live my life with a bit more free.
I will not say goodbye, I will say goodnight.
I won’t forget you and carry your traditions throughout and with all my might.
I hope through this meaningful poem
Your Life, Your Smile,
Your Laugh, Your Spirit
will be instilled in me and always be known.
Jan and Hank VanSant
January 4, 2002
We miss Virginia, She became part of our lives through her Mother and Father. She is with her Father now He had passed away a few years ago. Her family misses her very much as do we all,We think of her often. We hope that her Family is doing well, and hope things will get a little better each day that passes. We were glad we had gotten to spend time over dinner in August. She so enjoyed Surprizing her Mom of our visit. We enjoyed so much seeing them at that time. Our hearts go out to them and all lost on that day 9-11-01.
Jackie Custance
January 1, 2002
I worked with Virginia at Reco for many years. She was always smiling and warm. I am so sorry this has happened and I will pray for her and her husband and family. I'm sure she has a special place in heaven.
Teresa Jahn
December 28, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of Virginia. May Virginia's life and love (even her passion of collecting cats) live on in those who love her. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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