Virginia M. Jablonski

Virginia M. Jablonski

Virginia Jablonski Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 28, 2001.
The Early Bird
Virginia M. Jablonski, an assistant vice president at Marsh & McLennan, liked to get up at 5 a.m. and catch an early bus from her home in Matawan, N.J., to her office on the 94th floor of 1 World Trade Center. In recent months, that often meant slipping out while Barry, her husband of 21 years, was enjoying the extra sleep made possible by his recent retirement from Lucent Technologies.

Fortunately, Mr. Jablonski is an astronomy buff. Having noted that the International Space Station was scheduled to pass directly overhead shortly before sunrise on Sept. 11, he got up with her that morning. He recalls their standing in their garden, marveling at the stars in the clear sky and sharing the feeling that it would be a good day.

"She was a bubbly person who was always smiling," Mr. Jablonski said. "Most people wouldn't know if she was angry."

No one could miss her passion for cats, though. Mrs. Jablonski, a 49-year-old Brooklyn native, filled their home with cat-themed decorations and doted on her two feline companions, Fred and Bill.

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 23, 2001.


Virginia M. Jablonski, 49, faithful daughter

Many have noted how clear and blue the skies were on Sept. 11, but Virginia M. Jablonski and her husband Barry were among the first to notice.

A commuter to Manhattan from Matawan, Mrs. Jablonski typically rose early to start her workday at the World Trade Center.

"I don't normally get up that early, but when I heard her alarm go off at 5 a.m., I decided to throw on a pair of pants and go outside," said Barry Jablonski, a retired Lucent engineer and an astronomy buff who occasionally tracks the flight pattern of the International Space Station.

Having heard that the Space Station would be visible over New Jersey that morning, Jablonski beckoned his wife just before she left for work. Standing in the driveway, the two watched the white light of the Space Station glide across the heavens.

"We stared at it until it went over the horizon and I remember she made a comment about how clear the sky was and how it felt like it was going to be a beautiful day," said Jablonski. "We just gazed at the stars for a minute, then I gave her a hug and kiss, said have a good day, and that was it."

The pre-dawn moment was the couple's last together. Mrs. Jablonski, 49, was an assistant vice president for Marsh & McLennan. She was working on the 94th floor of Tower One when a hijacked plane rammed into the building.

Jablonski described his wife of 21 years as a very dedicated and thoughtful person who had an infectious laugh. The Brooklyn native was a faithful daughter, who spent much of her time with her 89-year-old mother, Eleanora DeTullio, whom she had moved to an assisted-living home in Holmdel.

A highly organized person, Mrs. Jablonski had already begun buying Christmas gifts for her many nieces and nephews, her husband said.

"If we were going on a trip, I would pack the night before and she'd pack a month before," he said. "If she didn't get her Christmas shopping done by Thanksgiving she thought she was late."

Jablonski, 49, also described his wife as a hobbyist who loved traveling and trying different things. She also had two special cats, Bill and Fred, and decorated her home in cat motif.

In addition to her husband and mother, Mrs. Jablonski is survived by her brother, Anthony DeTullio, and his wife, Sheryl, of Manalapan; father-in-law and mother-in-law Henry and Dorothy Jablonski of New York; brother-in-law Gregory Jablonski and wife Caroline of Southbury, Conn., sister-in-law Elaine Virga and husband Frank Virga of Wantagh, N.Y.; and a number of nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins.

A memorial Mass will be offered at 11 a.m. Saturday in St. Clement Church in Matawan. There will be a gathering at the church banquet center immediately following the service.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Red Cross.

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Maureen Marciano

September 12, 2021

Virginia,

My thoughts still remain with you, and all those lost on that fateful day. May you continue to Rest in Peace. We will never forget!

September 11, 2020

Hi Aunt Ginger,
Its been 19 years since you were taken away and it still is heavy and sad on my heart. Ironically, when I think of your laugh and your mannerisms, I can still hear it and see them....it always makes me smile.
So much has happened in the past 19 years. I got married, I had 2 children, I have grown professional and participated in medical mission trips. I wanted you to know that even though you weren't with me physically, I carried you with me in my heart. My children know about you , I tell them stories of you. On this day, we have a tradition of going out to an Italian restaurant for dinner and celebrate you beautiful life. You were an amazing role model for me and I always felt you in my corner growing up helping me with challenging stuff. I love you and always will carry you in my heart..
Lauren DeTullio

Frank Mancini

September 10, 2019

R.I.P My 2nd cousin, Virginia Jablonski. My Father's cousin who lived for a couple of years with us in the late 70's. I was 8 or 9 years old when she would come upstairs from our rented basement apartment and sit and chat with us in the kitchen. A bubbly, kind person I remember her to be. I remember her always telling my Mom, He looks just like Paul Newman ! God bless your soul, Virginia. You are not forgotten among all others.

Maureen Marciano

September 11, 2013

Dear Virginia,

My thoughts still remain with you on this twelve anniversary…..I still often think of you, and will always remember our last conversation that morning….may you continue to rest in peace….you will never be forgotten!

September 11, 2012

Once again, getting ready to hear your beautiful name read on the long list of beloved friends and family lost on Sept. 11. All of those who were with you on the saddest days of our lives. You know you are always with us and wish you were here to be with us. Our 'missing' musketeer.

Maureen Marciano

September 11, 2012

Dear Virginia,

On this 11th Anniversary, I still continue to think of you often….I know you're resting in peace along with all the other innocent victims of that day….it's still so incomprehensible to understand, and no amount of time will ever change that…you were always so cheerful and vibrant to see as we commuted together each day including that morning…I always remember our last conversation, and how you made me laugh…..oh, for all these years how I wish the outcome were the same for all of us that were there that terrible day in time.

Samantha Pannone

September 10, 2012

My dearest Virginia. Although we miss you everyday of our lives, it is even more palpable this time of year. Not much time ever can go by without thinking of you. I will miss you and love you for the rest of my life. You will never ever be forgotten.

October 27, 2011

Happy Birthday my friend! Lots of love - we would have been the same age right now - and we would have celebrated big time!! Miss you always .....

September 12, 2011

My dear friend - On this tenth anniversary (why does it still seem like yesterday?) we spent the weekend in your memory. We walked 3 miles with you beside us, we talked, we cried, we laughed and we remembered all the good times we spent together. You were with us at your church and at the beautiful memorial service. I touched your engraved name and left you tiny roses. I felt your presence. We miss you and we will always remember...
all my love, Judy

Greg Jablonski

September 11, 2011

Just watched your name read with a tear in my eye and find it hard to believe ten years have passed. You will always be remembered for the fantastic person you were. You will always be in our minds and hearts.

Gregory, Caroline and Laurie

Maureen Marciano

September 11, 2011

Dear Virginia,

I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you today on this Tenth Anniversary…it’s hard to even imagine that much time has now passed…it’s still so hard to comprehend even after a decade….may you rest in peace along with all the other innocent lives that were taken on that day….we will never forget, and we all will continue to remember your lives today and everyday…no amount of time will ever change that.

Judy Carabillo

October 27, 2010

Happy Birthday, my friend. We will always remember..... All my love

Maureen Marciano

September 1, 2010

Dear Virginia,

As the ninth anniversary approaches I just wanted to say that you still remain in my thoughts. I’ll never forget our last conversation that we had on that morning as we waited for our bus. I still remember how you made me laugh, as I was nervous about something pertaining to work. It was always such a pleasure to see you as you were always so cheerful. May you rest in peace. You will never be forgotten!

Samantha Pannone

September 11, 2009

I will always miss and love you for the rest of my life. I know you are around me. I miss you today and everyday.

Judy Carabillo

September 11, 2009

Virginia, my dear friend,
As I wait to hear your precious name called aloud this morning, along with all of the others, so deeply missed and mourned, I miss you and will never stop missing you. With my love and prayers today and always...

Maureen Marciano

September 10, 2009

Virginia,

You are remembered today and everyday along with all the other wonderful innocent people that were lost that day. May you all rest in peace. We will never forget.

Doug Abraham

October 27, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

Judy Carabillo

September 20, 2007

My dear friend,
Another year has gone by without you in our lives. I listened to your name read aloud on Sept. 11 and I prayed that you are happy and safe now. We will miss you always.

P Tabbernor

November 15, 2006

In memory....

Kristine

October 30, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Judy Carabillo

October 27, 2006

Happy Birthday my dear friend! How we wish you were here so we could celebrate together. You always are and always will be in our hearts and in our thoughts. We miss you very much....

Barry Jablonski

September 16, 2006

Cookie, Lauren is expecting next April. I know you are so excited and proud. Love you forever.

Susan Holdy

September 10, 2006

To Virginia's Family...my prayers are with you as the 5th anniversary of September 11th approaches. A day doesn't go by that I don't think of all the people that were taken from us that day. Virginia is truly missed.

Susan Holdy

September 12, 2005

To Virgina's Family....another year goes by..I cannot believe it as been 4 years. My heart is still very heavy remembering that day and it is still very hard to get through. I knew Virginia and I still think about her. My prayers are with you.

Keith & Colleen Hanson

May 20, 2004

Barry, please know that you and Virginia are in our thoughts often. We wish you peace of mind and peace of heart.



Keith & Colleen Hanson

Henry Jablonsky

September 26, 2003

There isn't a single day that goes by without memories of that day resurfacing. My attachment to that day was intensified once I found out about Virginia. My only wish is that I could have changed the outcome of that day for Barry and the family.Every day I dug at the Trade Center,my goal was to find something, anything, but I couldn't. My thoughts and prayers will always be with Virginia, Barry and the family. Even though memories and thoughts are stronger on September 11th each year, every day is a day to reflect and remember. Let us go on, but NEVER FORGET!

AL & KAY JABLONSKY

September 13, 2003

BARRY,
WE ARE THINKING OF YOU AT THIS TIME.
UNCLE AL & AUNTIE KAY

Joanne Salvaggio

September 11, 2003

Although Virginia is my sister's sister-in-law,I did not get to meet her that often, but when I did she was always very happy and kind. I cannot picture her in my mind without that gentle smile. Why she and the others had to be taken in such a way is a question that man cannot answer. Our only consolation is the beautiful memories she gave, and that she is in heaven with Jesus and all his angels, watching over her loved ones. Barry, my heart goes out to you, with a realization, although perhaps small, of the pain you feel, especially on this day. May God Bless you with His Peace, and the freedom of the knowledge that one day, you will be together again.

My Aunt Ginger Is My Guardian Angel

Jenn Mike and Cristie DeTullio

April 26, 2003

Dear Aunt Ginger. You will never be forgotten. There is not one day that we do not think about you. We will always remember your beautiful smile and warm heart. Even though we do not see you, we know you are here. Every day I pray for you to watch over your niece Cristie because I know how much you loved her and I know you are her guardian angel. She sleeps with the little white kitty cat every night that you bought for her on her 1st birthday. Every time I see Cristie with it, I know you are watching over her. We love you and miss you very much. Rest in peace till we all meet again.

Susan Holdy

April 7, 2003

It has been a year and a half and the vision of that horrible day is still in my mind. To Virginia's husband Barry, and her family I am still so sad about what happened on Sept. 11th. I also worked at Guy Carpenter (Tower 2, 51st fl.)I was introduced to Virginia through a mutual friend Barbara. Virginia was a thoughtful caring person. Occasional I would have to go to Tower 1 and would always stop bye to say hi to Virginia. She truly is missed.Barry she spoke of you quite often. Virginia and her family have been and always will be in my prayers. Susan

Gregory Jablonski

November 19, 2002

Virginia



Whenever I look at the stars, I will always be reminded of you. Your presence is still felt on this earth, although I know you can not physically return. My last reminder of a contact by yourself and all the departed souls from over a year ago, were the violent winds that swept through NYC on 9-11-02. Please keep in contact through the heavens.



Forever Your Brother-In-Law Greg

John Bloom

September 15, 2002

Virginia:



We never met, but I had the honor of accompanying your husband, Barry, to Ground Zero while I served as a Disaster Mental Health Worker with the American Red Cross. While Barry's loss and pain were present, so too was his love and admiration for you.



I will never forget!



John Bloom

Jim Spizarny

September 14, 2002

To the family of Virginia Jablonski - A candle has been lit at Our Lady of Peach Church in honor of Virginia. May the Lord our God grant her eternal life and peace. I have kept Virginia in my prayers during this time.

Pat Harnish

September 11, 2002

Last fall, I was visiting NJ, attended Church and was asked to pray for an individual of the tragic 9-11 disaster. I was given Virginia's name. Since then, she and her family have been in my prayers. Today, it felt good to be able to put a face and background to a name -- she was a special person. May God keep Virginia and her family in His loving care.

Diana Rappa-Kesser

September 10, 2002

I was given Viginia's name at random by our company at Keystone Mercy Health Plan...I will reflect on Virginia at 830 am on 9-11-2002...I enjoyed very much reading her information...I feel that she is someone I would have loved to have known in person.

Karen Heyer

May 30, 2002

I know Virginia's mom quite well since I worked in the nursing home where she resides. I used to see Virginia come every Sunday to spend time with her Mom. She was such a gentle and unassuming person, very down to earth. May she rest in eternal peace.

Pat Farrell

March 13, 2002

I also worked with Virginia at RECO for 4 years. She was always the first one in the office and one of the last to leave. My desk faced Virginia's and I will always remember her smiling, even when she was swamped with work. I know she is in a special, peaceful place now, and I am sure she is smiling down at us. My heartfelt condolences to you Barry and to Virginia's family. I will continue to pray for all of you.

Catherine Matthies-Conrad

March 11, 2002

Although I never met Virginia, I wanted to leave a message in the guest book. I was flower-girl at Virginia's husband's parents' wedding over 50 years ago. May our God of all mercy and love give comfort to the Jablonski family in their time of need.

Joanne Bisconti (Frein)

March 11, 2002

Barry, I'm so very sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts often. Although I never met Virginia, I feel a personal loss. I pray that you can find some peace. Love, Joanne

marple julie

February 7, 2002

I have Virginia on my mercy band and our local newspaper did an entire feature article on the mercy band and it was awsome being able to put Virginias face with a name. I will continue to pray for your family.

February 4, 2002

OH DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN VIRGINIA M.JABLONSKI AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN

Jana Nawrocki

January 16, 2002

I recently purchased a mercy band and was sent Virginia's name. I can tell by her smile what a great person she must have been. I will pray for you all.

Irene McCusker

January 9, 2002

I've known Virginia thirty years. She was cheerful, friendly and warm-hearted. She was extremely devoted to her family and friends. People were important to Virginia, and she always tried to nurture her relationships. She had a strong work ethic, which is why she was at her desk so early every day, even on September 11. After reading the tributes to Virginia's memory, it's easy to see how loved she was by all who knew her. That love does not diminish with death, nor can death extinguish the light she brought to the world. I will pray for her and remember her always.

John LaValle

January 9, 2002

They didn't come any better than Virginia. she was a cheerful, honest and loving person. She was the kind of friend that many people never experience in a lifetime. I remember her often and will miss her for the rest of my life.

James & Donna Craig

January 5, 2002

We had the honor to meet Barry and

Virginia and their friend John on a

trip overseas some years ago. And we

like many of you fell in love with

the three of them and untill this

past Christmas we called each other

and kept up on things. I can say it

was about the longest day we've ever

went through not counting Sept. 11th

We love Virginia and Barry and John.

And feel some of the hurt they must

feel.

Judy (Collins) Carabillo

January 4, 2002

Virginia and I grew up together on the same street in Brooklyn. We knew each other since we were 3 years old. Four years ago when I moved down to NJ, we were able to pick up where we left off so many years ago. Although we kept in touch throughout our lives (through letters, phone calls, cards and scattered visits) we were so happy to be closer in distance and we established a "girls night out" along with our life long friend Susan. I was so honored when they invited me on an "all girls" vacation to Las Vegas last May. I will cherish that time with Virginia. Susan and I had dinner with Virginia a few nights before the tragedy and we will always remember that night. I miss her very much and I know she is in a happy place we all hope to be one day, together again.

January 4, 2002

A candle will be lit all the days of my life.

On my mantel and in my heart the candle will shine bright.



I lost my Tia before her time.

I regret each day that I put off words, moments, events, laughter & now I just cry because of this crime.



My memories of her go far back & are golden.

There was more I had in the future-my wedding, my children- these have been stolen.



I ask God, where is the peace in saying "Good-bye".

He answers peace will come in time- for now it's ok to cry.



During what I thought the lowest time of my life a person came to me.

That person that came to me was my Tia & she set me free.



She didn't know, I never told her.

Now I regret, I thought there would be a time when I was older.



She was my angel then & she is my guardian angel now.

I only wish she was still here some how.



I'll never forget her words she said to me that day.

I'll carry that spirit they spoke & keep my head up & smile for her and not be dismayed.



I thought of my tia as the person who always gave me my 1st of everything.

She helped bring me out into this world & advocated for me to see things.



I will do as she wishes and with her blessing.

And look up at the sky & smile & laugh & live because I know she will be looking.



My life has been blessed by my family because of the unique traits they blessed me.

I won’t take that for granted, I’ll live my life with a bit more free.



I will not say goodbye, I will say goodnight.

I won’t forget you and carry your traditions throughout and with all my might.



I hope through this meaningful poem

Your Life, Your Smile,

Your Laugh, Your Spirit

will be instilled in me and always be known.

Jan and Hank VanSant

January 4, 2002

We miss Virginia, She became part of our lives through her Mother and Father. She is with her Father now He had passed away a few years ago. Her family misses her very much as do we all,We think of her often. We hope that her Family is doing well, and hope things will get a little better each day that passes. We were glad we had gotten to spend time over dinner in August. She so enjoyed Surprizing her Mom of our visit. We enjoyed so much seeing them at that time. Our hearts go out to them and all lost on that day 9-11-01.

Jackie Custance

January 1, 2002

I worked with Virginia at Reco for many years. She was always smiling and warm. I am so sorry this has happened and I will pray for her and her husband and family. I'm sure she has a special place in heaven.

Teresa Jahn

December 28, 2001

We are very sorry for your loss of Virginia. May Virginia's life and love (even her passion of collecting cats) live on in those who love her. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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