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Peter Milano Obituary
Thoughtful. He was always thoughtful.
The son of a good friend was starting high school. On the morning of the first day of classes, Peter T. Milano called the young man to wish him luck. At the end of the day, he called again to see how things went.
Arriving to take the commuter ferry to New York, Mr. Milano spied a pregnant young woman waiting at the end of a very long line, carrying a package. He whisked the package from her arm and escorted her to the front of the line and onto the ferry.
He never missed his son's basketball games, never missed his daughter's dance recitals. "He was an incredibly thoughtful guy," said William McGarr, a close friend.
Mr. Milano, 43, was a corporate bond broker at Cantor Fitzgerald and lived in Middletown, N.J., with his wife, Patti, and their two children, Jessica, 13, and Peter, 16.
About 20 years ago, he played in a pretty serious touch football league in Brooklyn. The field was asphalt; when the game ended, you felt it. After a championship game, he was introduced to Patti, who had come to watch. He spoke to her only briefly. When he got home, he told his aunt, "I met the girl I'm going to marry."
During every workday, even the busiest and most stressful ones, he found the time to call his wife several times, just to hear her voice and see how she was. "It always boosted his spirits," Mr. McGarr said.
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Cathy Cregan
August 31, 2021
Remembering Pete on September 11th. I met his lovely son on an Aer Lingus flight from Dublin to Rome. Both Pete and my cousin, Joanne Cregan, worked in the same company and died that day. Forever cherished and loved
Cathy Cregan
Scott Hammer
August 30, 2021
I did not know Peter. While visiting the September 11 Memorial a few years ago, I caught a view of a yellow rose, bathed in light reflecting from the Freedom Tower. It was placed in Peter´s name. I was struck with emotion and captured an image of the moment. Today, I was reminded of the photo and thought I should share it with Peter´s family and friends. May he Rest In Peace.
Frank Maehr
September 11, 2020
Peters family. Pete was a yr younger than me at Brockport. I always liked him. He had that special quality that you rarely see. A persons who's personality was so welcoming that people just wanted to be around him. Add that to an infectious smile, good looks and athleticism. He had all those qualities but still very humble. I listened for his name today and I just thought his family should know,
August 5, 2019
Peter wont fade away from ones memories. Be at peace..
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September 12, 2016
Peter was a great guy From a great family. May he RIP.
Carl
September 11, 2015
Peter used to come into the frame shop I worked at in Middletown. What I remember most about him is how polite and kind he was. He always introduced himself even though we knew who he was. I think about him often and especially every 9/11. God bless him and his family. He truly is an angel.
September 11, 2015
Old friend - you are once again sadly remembered because of our loss and joyfully remembered because of your life
Tom Cooney
Tracy Milano
July 20, 2015
I didn't know Peter but I visited the 9/11 memorial and saw his name and picture. My husband's last name is also Milano. I couldn't help but remember his name and face for weeks afterwards. Wondering if he could be related to our family, as we did not know anyone lost in that terrible tragedy. I searched Peter's name on the Internet and found this page. I felt compelled to leave some sort of message. Even though I didn't suffer a direct loss from that day, I can assure you that we still felt loss and mourned and prayed for all those affected. We would still be interested in knowing if our families could be related. [email protected] is our email. God bless Peter and your family.
S J. Friscia III
December 9, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Tom Cooney
September 11, 2014
To the family of Pete.
It was not until last year that I found out that Pete was one of the people to perish in the attacks of 9/11. It was quite by accident. I had been observing the memorial each year to share a moment of silence for each of the people I knew had passed and by happenstance as I was watching I heard his name. Immediately I get a pit in my stomach and hoped it was not him.
I met Pete at The Glenwood Racquet Club where I would lift weights with him and play racquetball against him and, I believe his cousin or perhaps good friend, John, who had dark hair and a mustache. Pete and John were a bit older than me and my friend and I would always look forward to the weekend where we would be able to play them and then retire to the juice bar to discuss the previous week's events. None of the conversations were of particular import other than I always remember thinking how beautiful a human being he was. In the entire time we were friends, Pete and John remained winless in our little tournaments, something that became a running joke of why he would never mix up teams for a different result. He was hell bent on winning once. Man, did I love to laugh with him. I recall him telling me he had a sister close to my age that went to Nazareth if memory serves me. I hung on every word he would say. He was insightful and comical but mostly he was kind, gentle, thoughtful and giving. I thought it was awesome that Pete would seem as excited to see us as we him. He was in his early 20's and we were 15 or 16. I remember telling him that when I get to be his age (funny how relative age is, huh?) I would be sure to make the younger guys feel like one of the guys. He made a lifelong impression.
Unfortunately I had lost contact with him but never forgot him. As I got a bit older I was in Canarsie. I would guess three or four years had passed and I heard a voice shout; “Hey! Don't I know that good lookin Irish kid?!?” I looked across the street and was overwhelmed with joy! It was Pete! I introduced him to my girlfriend and I recall he did not take the easy patronizing way out. He looked squarely at Holly and said; “You take good care of him because you got a great kid there. Actually, a great man!” We spoke for almost an hour and he parted with a hug. As he left I began to tear up and cry. Pete had been one of the nicest people I had met in my life at that point. I always held out hope I would run into him again when I saw a liquor store open in Staten Island called Pete Milano's and wondered … just maybe. When we shop there now there is pain and happiness I feel.
I lost touch with Pete until a year ago today when I finally got the awful news you got 13 years ago and cried again. I have been holding these thoughts for a year and decided to reach out formally to say that while you do not know me I did know your Pete. My condolences are with you. I empathize with your loss. He was a beautiful person that made a lifelong impression on me.
As I conclude this letter I have tears in my eyes yet again. I also lost a friend named Bobby on 9/11 and the irony is that they both share this incredible quality. They are the only two humans I have given the compliment; “You know, EVERYBODY likes you. It's just a matter of degree.” I have told my girlfriend that when my time here is done I can only wish someone would feel that way about me.
May all the friends and family members of Pete have found love and peace in the years that have past.
Fondly,
Tom
Stefano Fuschetto
August 24, 2014
Stefano Fuschetto
Maria Seminara
May 17, 2014
Peter,
We never met, nor have we ever spoken, as a matter of fact, I have never heard your name before December 2001. I was working at MetLife, and my boss had an appointment with your wife, I called to confirm and we got to talking, she told me that for the kids, she knows she has to put a Christmas tree up, but she just can't bring herself to do it, she explained to me that every one of the Christmas ornaments you picked out together. I told my boss, he told me to order her all new ornaments and get them there by tomorrow so I found a place in NJ, spoke to the manager and got it done. Now since I did not know Patricia's taste, I decided to order simply silver and gold ornaments. The next day, they arrived and Patricia called me. She said they were beautiful, then she said "how did you know?" I said "know what" she said "about the snow babies" ... In my head, I was starting to get upset that the ornament company got the order wrong, I was confused. She said no, the did send the silver and gold, but in a separate box, from the same company, with no packing slip was this water babies snow globe. .... Then she proceeded to tell me that Yo got her one EVERY YEAR. I was all choked up, and promised her I would call the company to find out who sent it. The girl who helped me the day before got on the phone, then her manager, there was NOTHING in their computer going to the Milano house other than my silver and gold order, they put me on hold and went throughout the factory asking if ANYONE added something to this order, but came up with nothing. She came back on the phone all choked up, not only did no one ship out anything additional, but THAT snow babies snow globe had been discontinued. I called Patricia back, and her mother answered. I told her what had just happened and all she could say as "Patti honey, have a seat, Peter just sent you a Christmas gift" with that, my eyes filled with tears and my heart with love. I ALWAYS think and pray for your family whenever I see a snowbaby. I consider it my own personal Christmas miracle, and I thank you for giving me the opportunity to be a part of it. I know you are in God's care. I am going to the opening of the memorial tomorrow and will be thinking of you and your family
Ann Marie Crescenzo~Somer
September 11, 2013
Dear Peter and Family,
God bless you all. Peter, you will always be missed by your friends of Canarsie Brooklyn NY. You inspired us growing up into adulthood.
Warm Regards
Ann Marie Crescenzo~Somer
Ann Marie Crescenzo - Somer
September 12, 2012
God Bless Pete and his loved ones.
Ann Marie Crescenzo - Somer
September 12, 2012
God Bless the memory of Pete and sending blessings and prayers to his wife, children, family and all that loved him.
Daniel Grant
September 11, 2012
I graduated Nazareth High school with Pete in 1976. God bless him on this 11th Anniversary of his afterlife.
September 11, 2012
Peter,
Its been 11 years and I still miss our talks at the legion during our Hibernian meetings.
SMSgt Justin Thomson, USAF
Rob Hughes
September 11, 2012
God Bless,Still thinking of you!
July 30, 2012
Hey Pete - Happy 54th in Heaven.
We had our differences back in school but at least shared something, our birthdays! Please continue to watch over us.
Frank Russo
911 Memorial WTC Site
Frank Russo
July 30, 2012
Cathy Cregan
June 10, 2012
Dear Peter, I had the pleasure of meeting your lovely son on a flight from Dublin to Rome last week. My cousin Joanne worked in the same company and died September 11th. Peter is a credit to you and he is happy with his beautiful wife, Milena. They are looking forward to the arrival of their baby. So strange, two days later we bumped into eachother in Rome. You are watching over your family still. How wonderful!
The Stolzenthalers
September 11, 2011
Dear Peter,
We are thinking of you, Patti, Peter, and Jessica today and remembering all the wonderful times we had at BY.
We think of you so often. Thank you for all you brought to our lives.
Renée Philie Rankin
September 11, 2011
In memory of Peter Teague Milano --- Lost on September 11, 2001. New tears were shed for you today. You were a shining, charismatic person who sparkled in life. Now you shine on in heaven. We who knew you, for even a short time, will remember you always. With thoughts and prayers from a childhood classmate.
I never knew this picture existed until recently. I love you Uncle Pete
Jennifer
May 4, 2011
September 11, 2010
Rest in peace Uncle Peter, the greatest person I've ever known.
Love,
Maureen
Anita Thompson
September 11, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
vincent armetta
September 13, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Julia, Scott, Sean & Caitlin Stolzenthaler
September 13, 2009
Pete,
We are thinking of you and your family. We will always remember your kindness and friendship. You will never be forgotten!
frank russo
September 12, 2009
Pete ~
for the 8th year now I think of you everytime it gets close to sept 11th or when I hear someone talk about it.
I will never forget the fights we had in HFS and then the friendship we developed after those fights. Thanks for being my friend.
I will never forget you Pete.
Hope you are at peace now...
Please watch over us here on earth
Debra
September 10, 2009
Pete was the delivery boy for the flower shop down the block from my old house in Canarsie when we were teenagers. He always had a smile for us girls hanging out on the stoop; I remember his curly blond hair -- "Petey".
D. Reyes
September 10, 2009
Hi Pete!
Just wanted to let you know that I'm still praying for your family. Your smile will always be my lasting memory. I feel peaceful now though...something I don't think I could have said last year....I know you're in a far better place.
I'm praying for peace for everyone!
much love
Doug Abraham
August 10, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Vinny
March 7, 2009
Pete you made me laugh many times at HFS.
D Reyes
September 12, 2008
Hey Pete:
I heard your name for the 7th time. I felt really sad yesterday. It really doesn't matter if it happened just yesterday or 7 years ago. It's hard to retrace those moments.
I hope your family receives great comfort in reading all these entries. Please know that Peter is missed.
Ann Marie Somer
September 11, 2008
Condolences to the Milano family on this sad anniversary of Peter's passing. Rejoyce in his memory. He was a great human being and role model to us growing up in Canarsie.
Patty Ann DeFillippo
September 11, 2008
When I was about eight or nine, I looked like a boy with my red hair , freckles and black high top sneakers, Peter said to my mom while I was listening, "She will be the prettiest one" speaking of me among my three other already very pretty sisters. When I saw him at one of the Milano parties at about twenty something years of age, he said to me "I knew you would be the prettiest one." I remember both times he passed along heartfelt words to me and they remain forever with me. I will always remember Peter Milanos kindness
Stephanie Long
September 11, 2008
I was friends with Peter's brother, Tommy, and remember him beaming after the birth of his first child. I visited he and his wife in his home and remember how proud they were. I know his family misses him and my memories where of a good brother to Tommy. He was a fine man and is missed by many.
Rob Hughes
September 11, 2008
The A.O.H is thinking about you Pete
God Bless
jenny teddleton
July 17, 2008
my condoles to you and your family and friends. i am sorry.
Ann Marie Somer
April 23, 2008
On Gola Island off the coast of County Donegal Ireland
Paul Burns
January 22, 2008
I came across this memorial on Gola Island off the coast of Counth Donegal Ireland. I thought you may be interested in seeing this.
JOHN MILANO
September 11, 2007
HEY CUZ-
JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU WILL FOREVER BE IN "ALL" OF YOUR FAMILY'S HEARTS!!! WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU.
D. Reyes
September 11, 2007
Wow! Thursday night youth night at Holy Family! That's so long ago, and yet it seems like just yesterday huh? That's age....and I ain't going there! I can still see Father D...and the Italian Feasts.
You were always smiling Pete...I was a bit too young for you...but I'll tell you this: ALL THE YOUNG GIRLS AT HOLY FAMILY HAD A CRUSH ON YOU! Only I had it a bit better....you'd come to my house with Joanne and Frank, and practice in MY living room, and sit at the kitchen table. I was the envy of every preteen girl at Holy Family! And trust me, I milked it for what it was worth!
I still see your face and smile. thank you for being part of my childhood! You will never be forgotten!
much love...Happy Birthday in Heaven!
Rob
September 11, 2007
There isn't a day that passes that Pete doesn't pop into my head.The thought of his laugh or smile.A quick joke or the damn toe ring he would occasionally wear just to see what kind of laugh he could get.The guys in the AOH remember him daily.Miss him coming into the meetings sharing a story a laugh a beer and teasing him about him being the only Italian guy in the Hibernian's.Even knowing he was half Irish.I think the best way for me to remember Pete is to take the time and do what Pete did.Take the time to tell people how you feel, Take the extra minute to help each other, Take a minute to hug someone,let them know you have missed them, Tell them you love them
This is what he did everyday.God Bless him and his family.
Rob(AOH)
maria
September 11, 2007
I was just watching the 9/11 tribute and saw Peter's picture. It has been thirty years or so since Holy Family & Holy Family Youth Nights -- but I can still remember Peter's smile and laugh. AND, of course, for a girl I remember how handsome he was and what a refreshing change from all the guys who had to act goofy and silly to be cool -- PETER was always the coolest by just being himself -- no goofiness needed. I read through some of these memorials and I am not surprised he turned out to be an outstanding man. I have a family of my own now and know how precious they are and how blessed we were on 9/11. I will keep Peter's family in my prayers always and pray that his wife, son and daughter are blessed throughout their lives and that their reunion with Peter in heaven is as joyous as their life was with him here.
Maria (Rye, NY)
THOMAS MILANO
September 6, 2007
HEY PETE,
YOU ARE ONE PERSON THAT I MISS VERY MUCH. I ALWAYS THINK ABOUT THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD WITH THE FAMILIES. LOVE YOU CUZ!
LOVE,
TOMMY,KELLY,TAYLOR,SHANE
D Reyes
August 11, 2007
Hi Pete.....I'm sorry I'm a little late. Happy Birthday. God Bless you and keep you always.
Doug Abraham
August 10, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Michael iezzi
August 10, 2007
Peter,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Franny
April 24, 2007
Dear Peter,
I knew your brother Frank from Canarsie. My heart goes out to your Wife, children, brothers and sister. To this date there are no words anyone can possibly say...Im sure you and the Angels next to you incuding your Mom and Dad are watching over your family. God bless you and your family.
Fran
Patricia Milano
February 11, 2007
We love you and miss you everyday.
Happy Valentines Day!
Love Patty,Peter and Jessica
JOHN MILANO
January 25, 2007
CUZ,
YOU WERE AND ALWAYS WILL BE A TRUE ROLE MODEL TO ALL OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS. I JUST WANTED TO TELL THE WORLD THAT YOUR STILL THOUGHT OF "All" THE TIME. I KNOW THAT YOUR LOOKING DOWN ON THE REST OF US WITH THAT SMILE THAT YOU ALWAYS HAD ON YOUR FACE!!
P Tabbernor
January 2, 2007
In memory....
Teresa Metress
December 4, 2006
Hi Peter,
I am so glad you enjoyed this book for your father and all of you...I did not realize you didn't know of it before. I was missing Uncle Eddie this morning so I logged in to see your father's book. While life goes on, its great to be able to take time out to remember.
I hope they are both playing scrabble with Nan. And I hope she is winning!
love, Teresa
Dora
November 9, 2006
Hi Peter!
It's great to hear that you've been able to read these great entries. It's going to provide an amazing amount of healing.....although, I don't know if one will ever heal from that day. I just want you to look at each and every single one of these entries - the measure of a man is not how he loves, but how much he's loved by others! Obviously your dad was awesome! I remember your dad.....God I was maybe 13 or 14 ----he used to sing in the church choir in Canarsie....I had the biggest crush on him! Your uncle Tommy was one grade ahead of me in grammar school at Holy Family. Now HE WAS A CHARACTER - A REAL CLOWN. I'm sure he still is.
Peter, any encouragement you may ever ever need can be found in your faith, in your family, friends on this page, and most of all in the memory of your dad.
you take care,
Dora
peter milano
November 8, 2006
I just wanted to thank everyone who has written in this guest book. I had never seen it before today (over 5 years later) and I can truely say it means very much to me that so many people memorialize my pop the way you all have over the past few years! Sincere thanks from myself, and my entire family!
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Dora
September 11, 2006
Hey Pete!
Somehow it's harder this year to hear your name being called. Maybe it's because this "5 year" block of time is just so hard to fathom. Five years....I remember this date like it was just yesterday.
It was a beautiful day today, just like it was 5 years ago. I was doing exactly the same thing too.....bringing the boys to school, and getting cupcakes ready for Andy's 10th birthday celebration in class.
It is hard to realize that your name won't be called out in remeberance after today at Ground Zero.....GROUND ZERO ....that was always a bad name.....That place is filled with so much love.....there's no "zero" there....and the next time we hear your name, it'll be in a beautiful monument....That's much more fitting. I'm not watching all these 9/11 shows, documentaries, reports...etc. It only opens up wounds. I prefer to hear the name of my friends and loved ones who were lost from this earth on that day.
Peter, I wish your family still had you here....but I know you're always going to be with us forever.
Happy birthday in Heaven....
Michael Iezzi
August 11, 2006
Peter,
Happy belated birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared. A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Joseph Lucas
January 25, 2006
I am very sorry.
DORA REYES
August 30, 2005
HI PETER:
I WAS JUST THINKING HOW MUCH OF A LOVE/HATE FEELING I HAVE WITH THE MONTH OF SEPTEMBER. PERHAPS THE GREATEST SADNESS OF MY LIFE OCCURED DURING THAT MONTH, BUT I CHOOSE TO REMEMBER TWO OF THE GREATEST JOYS OF MY LIFE. THIS YEAR I CHOOSE TO CELEBRATE MY BOY'S BIRTHDAYS, AND THE BEGINNING OF SCHOOL "IT'S THE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF THE YEAR....", THE BEGINNNG OF AUTUMN, AND WAITING FOR MY FAVORITE HOLIDAYS...THANKSGIVING, ETC. IF IT WEREN'T FOR MY KID'S BIRTHDAYS, I BELIEVE THAT THE STAIN THAT HAS BEEN IMPRESSED IN MY HEART WOULD NEVER GO AWAY. PETER, TRUST ME, THE HURT IS STILL THERE, BUT I THINK I WOULD HONOR THE MEMORY OF ALL MY FRIENDS WHO DIED THAT TERRIBLE DAY, BY CELEBRATING LIFE. IT WOULD SHOW THE GREAT RESOLVE THAT WE WERE INSTILLED WITH WHILE GROWING UP IN CANARSIE - HEY YOU CAN TAKE THE KID OUTTA BROOKLYN, BUT YOU CAN'T TAKE THE BROOKLYN OUTTA THE KID! WE'RE TAKING OUR KIDS TO THE PARK AND WE'RE GONNA SHOOT SOME HOOPS...I KNOW YOU'D APPROVE. I'LL BE PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY, AND MANY OTHERS WHO STILL HURT BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT SMILING AND LAUGHING HERE WITH THEM. I CHOOSE TO REMEMBER YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE. THAT'S HOW I REMEMBER YOU PETER. HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN.
Michael Iezzi
August 10, 2005
Peter,
Happy Birthday in Heaven...My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dora Reyes
September 11, 2004
To Peter's family:
I think of Pete often, and a smile always comes to my lips when I think of him. Today, as they read his name during the tribute, I didn't cry, I smiled and thanked God that he is home. Celebrate his life and the joy that still lingers from his simple, yet powerful impact on everyone he came into contact with. God Bless you and your family!
Michael Iezzi
August 10, 2004
Peter,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hands. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dora Reyes (nee Fernandez)
April 2, 2004
Dear Pete:
I wanted to wish you, and all those who love and miss you, a very Happy Easter.
My kids are getting bigger by the day. Ellie is 15 already (she just had a birthday last week, and is already planning a sweet 16!) you'd be incredibly proud of her voice....I know she would have loved the choir! Andy and Matt are 7 and 6 years old respectively, and fight constantly, but can't live without each other. That's just the way it was in Canarsie....especially the crew from Holy Family. Inseperable to this day. I guess it's just the same cloth we all came from: the threads in the cloth are interwoven, and I guess we'll all be forever.
God Bless you and yours, and thanks for the memories growing up. I'll cherish them always.
love,
Dora
Frank Russo
September 10, 2003
It was the last NY Rangers game of the year (2002) when I bumped into a old friend from Canarsie at the food consession. We both had our 2 son's with us. I bumped into Peter's brother Frank ! We cound'nt believe the last time we saw eachother, Since Holy Family School in Canarsie Brooklyn. We stood there on line talking about old good times and admiring our Son's that we were so proud of.
It was time to get back to our seats when Frank & I were shaking hands saying our goodbye's and gathering up our son's, when I said ...Hey, So how is Peter doing ? Please say Hi to him ! He of course just paused and I saw a look in his eyes. He then told me he was in the Trade Center that tragic day 9-11
I did'nt know what to say as I was very suprised to hear this news. It has stayed with me allmost every day since I heard this news. I think about Peter & his family every time we are reminded in the news and papers about this day. We grew up in Canarsie together, I went to Holy Family School with his 2 brothers & sister.
We fought alot but were friends most of the time. I will keep you Peter & your family in my Prayers forever.
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE PETER ... IN HEAVEN !
An old friend ....Frank Russo
Mike Kerwin
April 1, 2003
Pete
You were a great guy.
Take care
Mike
Dora Reyes (Fernandez)
December 20, 2002
Dear Peter:
As Christmas approaches, and the year 2002 ends, I want to tell you that your beautiful smile and the great memories I have of you are with me always. You may not know this, but I had such a crush on you when I was a kid. You and Joanne Panicola, Frank Chierico and my mom used to sing by the piano almost every week, (that's after you ate two or three platesful of rice and beans), Mom would never take "no" for an answer...and you, well you were always willing to please...especially when it came to food. No one had to twist your arm!!!I think you were about 6 years older than me, but you were IT! Always sweet and kind, you were an important part of my growing up in Canarsie---a place that can only be revisited in my heart. God Bless you and your family. Merry Christmas!
Elise Miller
September 21, 2002
I just found out that Peter was one of the victims of the tragedy in the Twin Towers. I'm very sorry to read about his loss as a husband and father as well as many of his close friends. Peter went to Brockport State University at the same time as I did and he was a wonderful person with great energy. I'm very saddened by this news and he will be missed. If anyone in his family would like photos of him, please contact me at my e-mail address at [email protected]. God bless and take care.
Shane Parouse
September 11, 2002
I am David Parouse's brother. Unfortuneately, I never met Peter. But I heard many times from David what a really good guy he was. I am very sorry for your loss, and wanted to take this opportunity on the anniversary to wish you peace and healing.
Sincerely,
Shane Parouse
Stacey Waxman
September 11, 2002
My sympathy to Peter's family.I am so sorry for your loss. I was a good friend of Pete's from Brockport and have so many wonderful memories of our times there. I know he must of been a fabulous husband and father as he was that kind of friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chris Fazio
September 11, 2002
My sympathy to Peter's family. I know your wife and children are proud of you and although they miss you terribly they can be comforted in knowing that you are in heaven.
I knew Peter and his family in Canarsie. I knew his brother Derf somewhat better, because of our ages, but it was Peter who seemed to know me better. I will always remember his smile and friendly greeting whenever he hasppened to pass our home on East 96th Street. It was on his way home from the Station, many people passed at that time on the way home from a long day at work in the City. But it was Peter who never failed to go out of his way to greet my Grandmother and whoever was in the front yard so respectfully and sincerely.
My prayers are for the entire Milano Family as your loss is so great. May Peter rest in heaven and look down on us with a smile always.
The entire Fazio family sends their regards.
Beth
September 9, 2002
On Sept.8, 2002, Bay Ridge Brooklyn had a Memorial walk in memory of the 9/11 victims. My family and I felt it would be a good way to show our support in remembering. I was very honored to have carried Peter Milano's name for the memorial.
To Peter's family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be including you in my prayers.
MICHAEL COLGAN
May 12, 2002
PETER WAS A GREAT GUY. ALL HE WANTED TO DO WAS GOOD THINGS.I MEET HIM TWICE. I HOPE NOW I CAN LIVE UP TO HIS IDEALS.
SIGNED ONE OF HIS HIBERNIAN BROTHERS MIKE COLGAN
Rebecca Gebman
April 16, 2002
My husband Clark went to college with Peter and and his brother, Derf. I've heard many stories of the "animal house" that they shared in Brockport. My heart goes out to the entire family as I know everyone is affected by the grief of this senseless tragedy.
Jim Bob Meyer
March 24, 2002
I went to Brockport with Derf and Peter. Although there are stories that can fill a couple of books about Derf and I, there are quite a few I can tell about Petey and me (including one time when he saved my life!). What I will always remember about Peter is his smile. He had one of those incredible smiles that made you feel happy, welcome and safe. I often find myself returning to the picture posted on the profiles just to see that smile. We were all so blesed for kowing Peter.
JB
Nick Pierro
March 11, 2002
I pratically grew up with the entire Milano family. I always considered them family. My thoughts and prayers will always be with them. God Bless.
Susan Habermann
March 11, 2002
It is 6 months today that the world lost one of the finest people I have ever known. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of Pete, Patti, Peter and Jessica. My family and I were truly blessed to have the honor of knowing and becoming friends with Pete and his family.
I met Pete while commuting on the ferry. We began by just saying hello to one another and eventually my friends new his friends and so on. Over time, I learned about his love (and sometimes frustration) for crossword puzzles (and his being a terrible speller), his dedication to his family, and his general love of life. No matter what was going on, Pete always had a smile and nothing but kind words to say, to everyone. He would consistently offer his seat if one of the "boat girls" didn't have a seat, a true gentleman.
Pete helped me through some difficult family times by sharing his knowledge and experience, but mostly by just listening and being supportive. He was there when I began dating the man who is now my husband and after meeting him, had nothing but wonderful things to say about him. He even hired him to do some work in his home. After coming home that first night, my husband said what a pleasure it was to work in a "HOME" vs. at someone's house. He was immediately touched by the love that was shared in their home. My son, although a little younger than Peter and a little older than Jess, said that the loss of Pete really couldn't be put into words, at least not by him. He remembered how "cool" Pete was and commented that that was the reason he probably had such great kids. I mean, a dad with a toe ring who listed to Green Day....who could ask for better?
Pete, we will never forget you. Our love is with you always and our prayers. Until we meet again.....
Love,
Susan
Ellen Cuccurullo
March 11, 2002
Although I did not know Peter, my children grew up with him and his brother "Derf" in Canarsie, Brooklyn. We were all devastated to learn he was among the victims. I just found this website and wanted to express my condolences to his family. God rest your soul, Peter.
Melanie Reilly
March 11, 2002
Patty and family - not a day goes by that all of us froom Pete's boat family don't think of him - The relatively recent obsession with crossword puzzles, the kind words, the calls home to you and the kids -meeting you for dinner at the beach club - we will never forget. Six months, six years, six centuries - Pete will always be in our hearts.
Melanie Reilly
Don Kelly
March 11, 2002
A day does not go by without mourning the loss of such a great man. I never met a more genuinly compasionate caring and friendly person. God Bless you Peter and your family
Alison Milani
March 10, 2002
I am making a block for Peter to be included in the WTC Memorial quilt. It is an honour and pleasure to be able to make this block after reading what a wonderful husband, father and friend he was. My condolences to all his family and friends.
March 7, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL ...THOUGHTFUL MAN PETER T.MILANO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE..CHILDREN..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...MAY JESUS AND ST.PETER GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Tom Ansbro
February 11, 2002
I was so sad to read the news Today in my High School Alumni Letter. I have not seen him since High School, yet I will always rememember him.....Always Smiling and just a kind word for everyone!
Rest in Peace Pete!
Until we meet again my Friend!
Tom Ansbro
mb
February 11, 2002
I knew Peter thru my friend Nancy. We would all commute together on the ferry.
He always had a smile on his face except when he did the crossword puzzle. Many times he would try to get Nancy's attention...hey Nance, what's 12 down? He would try to finish it before the guys he worked with did. If he was unable to finish the puzzle, he waited till his co-worker stepped away from the desk so he could call Nancy for the answer and be the first one to finish the puzzle. (Or so everyone thought!)
Peter always made us laugh and was a true gentleman. We think of you often Peter and are praying for you and your family.
Brian Van Schoonhoven
February 7, 2002
Petey was one of the kindest, most caring people I have ever known. We used to play basketball together every Wednesday night for the past 6 or 7 years and I am very confident in saying that in all of that time that there wasn't one time that I saw him where I didn't get a hug (Petey was definitely a hugger). When we first met he would gush about little Petey's basketball accomplishments and milestones. With a burly body like his dads little petey was destined to be forever battling under the boards and Pete was the perfect teacher for that assignment. Pete was the ultimate family man whether discussing Patty, Jessica, his brothers, or whomever. Wednesdays just aren't the same without his combativeness, his competitiveness, or his compassion. He is very deeply missed.
Dora (Fernandez) Reyes
January 16, 2002
Dear Pete:
How sad I am to know that you are no longer here to make us smile. I remember us all singing together in the choir at Holy Family. I had such a crush on you when I was a kid. You were so kind to my whole family. I think I was about 14 or 15 at the time. My mom would invite you for dinner at our house with Frank Chierico and Joanne Panicola. We'd eat and then gather by the piano and sing. It was great having all of you to look up to. I really did you know. That was the best time to grow up in Canarsie. Thank you for the memories you gave us all. I will remmeber your smile and your big eyes. Now, as a wife and mother I realize that the beauty in your eyes was just a mirror image of what was in your heart. You shared that heart with everyone you met. I am confident that you are with our Savior in His Paradise. I will see you one day my friend. God Bless you and your family always.
Love, Dora
Nancy & Bob Mulcahy
January 8, 2002
We are acquaintances of one of Peter's cousin..He sounds as if he was a wonderful person...Our hearts and prayers are with all those who knew and loved Peter...We have added his picture and some information about him to our Tribute Page (Attack on America)...This so little to give to those who lost so much, but we hope that web pages like this will make impossible for this Country to ever forget these people and the tragic day...
Nancy and Bob Mulcahy
lori adler
January 8, 2002
although i have not seen or spoken to peter since our college days at brockport, i remember him vividly. i just recently heard the awful news about him and i ran home to my old photo albums. i saw pictures of peter, always with a smile filled with joy, kindness and mishchief. i'm so sad now -- i only have wonderful memories of peter and his friends, and i'm happy to have been one of them if only for a few years. to his family and friends of today, i send my thoughts and prayers and sincerest condolences.
NOTO SCOTT
December 31, 2001
Two gangs of kids growing up in Canarsie, Brooklyn. One group from Farragut Road, the other from Foster Avenue. The guys on Farragut wondered why the guys on Foster Avenue came around. We thought it was because they liked hanging out with us. We soon realized it was because Farragut had the prettiest girls, and the guys on Foster wanted them as their girlfriends. Feeling territorial,we challenged Foster Avenue to a tackle football game in Foster Avenue Park-The deal was if Foster Avenue lost, they would leave our girls alone and take their good looks elsewhere. The game took place
after Thanksgivinging in what promised to be a war. Some kid from
Foster Avenue with blonde hair whom I never seen before, kicked the ball off to start the game. He was 12 years old.
I caught the ball and ran it upfield
until I was cheap shotted by Anthony Dimarco-and broke my arm completely in half. Both teams ran over to help as I lay in agony. They ran to call my parents who unfortunately weren't home. The irish kid with blonde hair ran home to get his father and rushed me to the hospital where they stayed with me for 10 hours. That
12 year old kid was Peter Milano.
Nothing changed that day, the guys on Foster Avenue still took our girls (and some cases married them), I had a broken arm but I also
found a new friend who never left me. Peter didn't let me down that day. Peter, I don't think you ever let anybody down. Love your friend,
Scott
Teresa Jahn
December 20, 2001
We are extremely sorry for your loss of Peter. May his thoughtfulness, his life and love live on in all those who love him. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
a friend na
December 7, 2001
I'll never forget when Peter told me he was the luckiest man in the world because of how much he loved his wife and kids. I rode the boat with him for almost 3 years. Peter was always calling his wife and kids. I'll always remeber him as never being afraid to tell them "I love you". I remember walking down the dock with him that morning and as we got on the boat he said "I'll see you later". Peter will always be in my prayers. I'll miss my *pisano
*Italian for friend!
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