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Lincoln Quappé Obituary
It would not be accurate to say that Lincoln Quappé attended every one of his son's baseball and soccer matches; his job as a firefighter with Rescue 2 in Brooklyn required him to work all hours.
But he never missed a game, thanks to the Quappé Broadcasting Service, otherwise known as his wife, Jane. "If I was at a game and Lincoln was working, I would call and give him the play by play," she said.
And when Mr. Quappé, 38, was at home, in Sayville on Long Island, he was all kid- business — "a true sit-down-on-the-floor- play-G.I.-Joes-play-Barbies-build-Legos- 100-percent kind of dad," Ms. Quappé said.
On weekends, taking care of the children, a son and daughter, often meant nature trips on the boat Mr. Quappé's stepfather kept behind his house in Brookhaven and pointing out the herons and egrets and osprey nestled in the reeds or soaring overhead.
Mr. Quappé, who, like his father, was also a volunteer firefighter in his town, showed the same devotion to his job as to his family.
"Being a firefighter defined him," Ms. Quappé said. "It was his blood. It was his life. I've said to many people that if he had to die at such a young age, this is how he would have wanted to go."
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January 19, 2020
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The Lucas Family
November 28, 2019
Our deep sympathy we send to your family. With each new day may God give the help needed to cope. Lincoln touched the lives of others and will always be remembered.
Erik Eades
October 9, 2019
We have not forgotten your sacrifice. My mom is there for you always.
Erik Eades
Christine Kortbein
September 30, 2019
To Lincoln and his dear friends and family. Yesterday, Sept. 29th, 2019, I participated in the first Highlands County stair climb for the fallen firefighter hero's of 9/11. Everyone that participated picked a name from the 343 fallen firefighters and we were encouraged to research and remember our firefighter, of which Lincoln was the firefighter I was honored to remember. For every one of the 110 steps and the entire day thereafter I was thinking of Lincoln and all of the people touched by Lincoln's presence in the world and sending love and light to everyone touched by his life, past, present, and future. What a wonderful husband, father, son, friend: his legacy lives on and I will never forget. Kind Regards.
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September 13, 2018
Gone too soon. Thinking of you and your family Tara. ❤ Grace
Tom H
September 11, 2018
Today, 09/11/2018, ( 17 years ...) we remember you Lincoln. Thank you for courage and service ... We will never forget. Wishing all the best to your family and friends. Much regards.
John Dowd
September 12, 2016
We attended the same high school and my sister, Christa, was his classmate. She remembers him well as a man to be admired. We all honor Lincoln and refuse to forget him. God bless his family and all families who lost heroes on that terrible day.
Linda Topping
September 11, 2016
I didn't know Lincoln Quappe but Charlie and Heidi Quappe were once my neighbors in Camden, Delaware. When someone told me that Charlie's son lost his life on that fateful day, I have made a point of waiting for Lincoln's name to be read on every 9/11 tribute. Prayers have gone out to Lincoln's family ever since. I am thankful for this hero's sacrifice. God bless.
Maria Smith
September 11, 2016
Just went to a 911 memorial here in Windermere Florida and was thinking of my cousin Lincoln . Strangely the speaker tonight was John napolitano senior who "s son was also in rescue 2. My early memories are at the beach plum with uncle Jeb and aunt Suzy and the Quappes we were only children then . But my prayers are with you all who knew Love and miss him today and everyday
September 11, 2016
may you be blessed with precious memories . thank you , sir, for your sacrifice
Holly Sanderson
February 6, 2016
RIP
Todd Thomas
November 4, 2014
While standing at the memorial I was fortunate enough to overhear a relative of Lincoln's tell about her last memory of him. At a family reunion at the beach, one of the young cousins started to struggle in the ocean. Lincoln swam out and rescued the boy. Her last memory of Lincoln was of him carrying his cousin out of the ocean, “like the hero he always was.”
Rachel Rose
September 14, 2014
Hello, Jane, and Clint and Natalie. I hope you are all well. Thinking of you on this day.
September 11, 2014
September 11 2014
We have not forgotten your sacrifice. In the past 13 years I have taught over 300 students and they all know about your bravery and the tragedy. God bless your children.
Erik & Diana Eades
Fisherville, Ky.
G Bryan
November 26, 2013
Thank you for lending me your strength and courage today.
Ross Greenberg
April 15, 2013
What I've read about Lincoln in the Guest Book confirms every wonderful thing I imagined he must have been, for I met Jane and her children this weekend at her 50th birthday. I worked as a waiter; I'm a 9-11 survivor and wept when I learned of their loss before the event. Singularly kind people are rare; Jane and her children are; so too must have been Lincoln; taken too soon. G*d bless Lincoln; G*d bless the Quappe family.
Quappe Carlos
January 2, 2013
I have just knew about.
I live in Chile, my name is Quappe,Carlos, I'm really sorry.
Please send receive my condolence to Lincoln's family.
[email protected]
rachel rose
September 12, 2012
All the best to you and Clint and Natalie. I hope these eleven years have been kind to you.
Rachel Rose
September 11, 2012
I never knew Lincoln, but a good friend here in Louisville was his teacher in Bellport and he was good friends with Lincolns mother when they lived in Bellport before he moved to Kentucky. I visited Rescue 2 in May 2002 and was treated wonderfully. I have carried the names of the Rescue 2 firefighters in my wallet for 11 years now and probably will forever. I hope their families find peace.
September 11, 2012
I recently visited the memorial in New York. I had taken a picture of it and today decided to research the names in my picture, one of which was Lincoln Quappe. I am touched by each story I have found on these men (all who were firefighters). My thoughts are with all of you.
Charles/Chaz G .III
September 11, 2012
My heart goes out to his family , I not sure if his sister was my teacher at the time at Hobart ,but the 9/11 victims will never be forgotten.
Cody W
September 10, 2012
Climbed in Nashville's 9/11 Stair Climb in honor of Lincoln Quappe. Proud to take a hero to the top.
April 30, 2012
Dear Uncle Charlie,
Your on my mind as always. I found out what happen to lincoln about 2 years ago when I was typing are family name on the internet. 911 came up with LINCOLN QUAPP'E 'S name I thought this can't be true when I started to read and saw that this was my cousin, my family! I was in shock I could't stop crying, I know that the last time I saw Lincoln is when we we'er kids, when my mom and I came out to see the family in New York for a visit. Uncle Charlie words can't express how deeply sorry I a'm for your loss our loss. Iv'e tried to get in touch with you as soon as I found out. I wish I would of got to known LINCOLN all grown up as the great man he became. He will always be my HERO, each and every day for the rest of my life. He will be in my thoughts! he will be missed deeply. Uncle Charlie I hope that you see this I don't know where to find you. You and your Family are in my prayers my GOD watch over you and you family always . I miss you and would love to here from you . Here is my #(702) 544-0117 or (702) 685-7406 also my email is [email protected].
Love Always
Your niece
SUZY QUAPP'E
LINCOLN I'm so PROUD OF YOU,
YOUR my HERO may GOD bless
you. I love you, and will miss you
deeply.
Always & Forever
SUZY
September 27, 2011
Hello, our names are Hannah and Madison. We go to Amurchee Middle School in Gerogia.This Thursday we are going to plant flowers in memory of you. Thank you for what you did for our country.
Roxane Rush
September 14, 2011
This past Sunday, September 11, 2011, I also participated in a 110 story stair climb in Georgia. We were given a photo of a firefighter to wear as we made our climb, and I was given Lincoln's name and photo. I am a government employee/civilian but many of the firefighters I work with participated in full gear. It was a very humbling and moving experience. I am honored that I was able to wear Lincoln's photo and represent him. May God bless the Quappe family.
Rachel Rose
September 11, 2011
Dear Jane,
I hope you and Clint and Natalie are well. I am glad I knew you at work. I hope you have a good life.
All the best,
Rachel
Dustin Moore
September 10, 2011
Tomorrow I will embark on a 110 story stair climb in Kansas City Missouri in memory of Lincoln. I will wear his name proudly has I ascend to the top. It is with his strength that I will complete this task. God bless Lincoln and his family.
Dustin Moore Lieutenant
Lenexa Kansas Fire Department
Sean P Moran
September 10, 2011
It hard to believe that tomorrow will be 10 years since you passed. I did not know you, I know your mother , Dorry, a wonderful lady from Old South Haven . I rember seeing you in Bellport Village and at OSH with your children. You were holding them by the hand . That image has been emblazed in my memory and one I keep with me forever. Rest In Peace Lincoln.
Susan Moger
September 10, 2011
Lincoln, I still take credit for getting you to the firefighters' test on time. I was proud to know you and will always hold you close in my heart.
Wendy Sykes
September 9, 2011
You are missed terribly. God Bless You.
Eleanore
August 24, 2011
I received Lincoln's name from my church. We each received a name of a victim of 9-11 to pray for in the weeks leading up to the 10th anniversary of the terrorist attacks. Lincoln and his family will be in my prayers.
Sharon
August 13, 2011
Lincoln was a wonderful person, dad, and husband. He was my son's Cub Scout Leader and my son and his son Clint were in the same class on 9/11/01. 10 years later he remains in our thoughts and always will. God bless and rest in peace.
Brian Gliboff
June 22, 2011
I never really known Lincoln, but my parents' friend did. I only met him twice, but I was two years old then. Rest in peace Lincoln Quappé.
Mary Jo
June 8, 2011
Jane.....
I will always remember him....Mary Jo
Deborah Berglund
May 2, 2011
At one of the many tributes following 9/11, I drew the name Lincoln Quappe (missing/presumed dead) as someone I would pray for and honor in memory of the horrendous attacks on NYC. I had a gold-colored "name tag" made with Mr. Quappe's name, FDNY station number and the date "9/11/01." Every year I have worn that lapel tag to work, the grocery store, library...and received many questions & comments. Last night, we got the word that Bin Laden has been brought to justice. I will now retire the pin with Mr. Quappe's name, but I will never forget his sacrifice and honor. God bless his family, friends and FDNY for their courage. You have supporters who still send you love and good wishes from all over the country. I know you'll never forget, and neither will we.
JORDAN H
January 28, 2011
LINCOLN- IM SO INSPIRED BY YOUR HEROISM ON 9/11. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR BRAVERY ON 9/11. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY NIGHT. GOD BLESS YOU HERO. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU GAVE ON SEPT 11TH.
SUZANNE QUAPPE-HAMPTON
December 29, 2009
UNCLE CHARLIE, I JUST FOUND OUT WHAT HAS HAPPEN TO LINCOLN. ALL OF YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS. I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS. I DIDN'T KNOW LINCOLN WAS A FIREFIGHTER. HE WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.I KNOW HE WAS A GREAT MAN. MAY GOD BE WITH HIM,HIS LITTLE GIRL AND WIFE.PLEASE CONTAC ME AT: [email protected] LOVE ALWAYS, YOUR NIECE, SUZY
Susan Moger
September 11, 2009
Thinking of Linc. He is my hero and I treasure the memory of our friendship. My heart goes out to his family and brothers in FDNY.
Rich and Family
September 11, 2009
On this day may God's bleesings and comfort be on you, and your family.
Daniel Quappe
October 2, 2008
ay cuz im sorry we never got to meet but i respect u u have alot of guts doin all the stuff your dad told me u did an it waz a shame how i had to meet him i met him at my grandpas funeral so jus now im prayin for ya
MUCH LOVE DANIEL QUAPPE
julie hitt
September 19, 2008
Shortly after the attacks, a small company was selling sterling bracelets with the names of people who died that terrible day. You could pick a specific name or have them send a random one. I requested a fire fighter from NY. I got Lincoln's name. For one year after receiving the bracelet, I prayed for him, his family, his friends and his family at the fire house each and every night. I wore it non-stop for 2 years. Now, reflecting on that day, I pulled out my bracelet and decided to google his name, never thinking I would find a page for him. To his friends and family, there was a woman in Colorado who knew nothing about him, but he was in her thoughts daily.I have often thought of traveling to NY to try and find his fire house, not knowing even where to start. The country thanks you for your sacrifice and courage Lincoln. And bless those you had to leave behind.
Chip Tremper
September 14, 2008
Linc,
Sorry we never made the time to have you up to Vermont for a hunt. See you in Heaven.
Cousin Chip
September 7, 2007
Thinking of you Lincoln.
I only met you once, at Montauk with my brother George. And now you two are together, and your mom and I keep in touch..God Bless you and your family. I'm glad I got to meet you, if only for such a brief time.
Nancy Nee
sister of FF George Cain..ladder 7
Kristine
March 5, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
February 6, 2007
In memory....
Susan Moger
October 2, 2006
Lincoln's family: I have always been so proud of Linc's accomplishments in FDNY. I'm so glad I met Dorrie and played a small part in making sure Lincoln "took the test." Everything he did as a fighter in FDNY and as a volunteer made me proud to know him. I miss him and my heart goes out to you.
manuel fraire
September 13, 2006
thank you for risking your life to save others people are really thankful to have someone as brave as you to others
Janet Klug Stewart
September 12, 2006
mr. Quappe
LINDA KEMP
August 31, 2006
I HAVE MR QUAPPE'S MEMORY BRACLET AND EACH DAY I THINK OF HIM AND THE FAMILY THAT HE LEFT BEHIND. GOD BLESS THEM +
david thompson
October 21, 2004
When the attack occurred, I heard about the firemen and their sacrifice, but in the wealth of information coming in, I did not really understand it. Months later I looked at the September 11 Memorial on the CNN website, which displays photos of the victims. I noticed several were in black and white, showing men in some sort of uniform. I began to read about them and only then realized how many firemen gave their lives that day. A great sadness came over me and for the first time the whole tragedy became real for me. Even now, I sometimes return to the CNN site to remind myself of how much they gave and how much they are missed.
ronald taylor
September 13, 2002
i am a firefighter/engineer in jacksonville,fl.on 9/11/02 our dept. was involved in a event honoring all the fallen brothers of the tragedy of 9/11/01 called "brother to brother".in short,343 of my fellow firefighters(matching the exact number of our fallen brothers in new york)was given a name by random, of a fallen brother in new york & we marched through our downtown to the park where we read the name of the fallen brother whom we represented.i read the name of lincoln quappe(rescue 2).this, for me, was not enough.i wanted to relate to the person whose name i read.so, in my endeavor, i found this website & a picture & brief summary about him & was compelled to write something here.i feel close to lincoln, although i never knew him.just as i,i know he loved his wife & family dearly,for these are the very reasons for which we get up every day & drag our behinds to the fire station.they are our hearts.i`m sure i`ll never be able to know the grief the family has had to deal with, but know this.we are all (firefighters)cut from the same cloth as lincoln & his sacifice will serve as an inspiration to many as well as to all of his fellow brothers for generations to come. he will never be forgotten!!!! i will take his picture & burn a candle for "a true hero of mine".lincoln quappe`.god bless you brother & your family & may god watch over you & yours.we will always remember,we will never,ever forget!!!!!!
Christina Baca
September 11, 2002
Dear family members,
my school, Saint Agnes Academy, held a prayer service today for all of the people lost this time last year and each person got a wrist band with the name and age of a person lost. I got your father/husband. I read his story and think he was a wonderful man. God bless ya'll!!!
Cheri Dusek
September 2, 2002
Lincoln's bravery and sacrifice won't ever be forgotten. God bless you, his family and friends,and all of America.
Erik Eades
September 1, 2002
Dear Family Members,
Lincoln will never be forgotten. Every student that I ever have will know of his sacrifice. I know that he is in heaven laughing and joking with Rose Marie.
August 14, 2002
WHEN WE VISITED NYC IN APRIL, I WENT TO RESUE 2 IN BROOKLYN. MY FRIEND IN KENTUCKY, KNEW LINCOLN AND HIS FAMILY WELL. THE FIREFIGHTERS AT THE FIREHOUSE WERE GREAT AND WELCOMING. IT SEEMS THAT LINCOLN WAS A GREAT JOKER, BUT A VERY DEDICATED FIREFIGHTER, FATHER AND HUSBAND. I THANK THE PEOPLE AT RESCUE 2 FOR SHARING THE TIME WITH US WHEN WE VISITED. PEACE, KENTUCKY
Katie Haley
July 10, 2002
To the family of Lincoln Quappe:
I am honored to have received a 911 bracelet with Lincoln's name on it. I have chosen to give this bracelet with your hero's name on it to my hero, my mother. As we are both members of the EMS family this is even more special.
God must have a bigger and better plan for Lincoln for choosing him so early. May God and Lincoln watch over your family and know that he has touched hearts all the way to California where he will be remembered always.
Nick & Susan Delihas
June 7, 2002
Lincoln,
We will never forget your friendship nor will we forget your heroic accomplishments. You made a lasting difference.
Angie Campbell
May 9, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Julie Propes
March 27, 2002
To Lincoln's family,
I have received Lincoln's name on one of the 9.11 bracelets I have ordered. I have decided to order a bracelet for everyone of my loved ones who mean as much to me....as Lincoln did to you. I will choose very carefully who this will be given to....I would wear it, but I have decided that the order of MY loved ones will receive the names of your loved ones in the order I receive them. This is only a small way of trying to help with some of the funds set up for your families....but more importantly getting as many of these brave souls names out into the public. I am glad we receive these at random...because at random God chose each and every person because of their importance in our history. I have lost family in an instant...my mother....and I know the shock, pain, disbelief, and anguish one suffers. Time heals... and while we don't understand the reason now....we will someday when we are all together again. Thank you for allowing us to honor your Lincoln. You are in my prayers,
Julie
Anonymous
March 27, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL HERO...LINCOLN QUAPPE AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS...STAY CLOSE..PRAY...AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK FOREVER..MAY GOD AND HIS ANGELS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Mary Lane
March 22, 2002
Dear Quappe Family,
I think of you everyday and want you to know that it is an honor to wear this bracelet. Lincoln gave his life for all of us. Since 9/11
we are all New Yorkers, I love your wonderful city. You and yours will
be in are Easter prayers. Thank you
for all that you have given to all
Americans, Our FREEDOM, May you someday find PEACE.
God be with!!!!
Steve Panasuk
February 1, 2002
Dear Lincoln,
My Hero. My mentor. My inspiration. God Bless you and all of our other fallen brother firefighers . You are dearly missed and never forgotten!! For all the good times and high spirit you brought your family and friends. Although it has been almost five months from the tragic events of Sept. 11 there has never been a day you and your family have not been in my thoughts and prayers. Things at the Sayville Fire House have not been the same without you there, however; we all know your in theTrusted Hands of God. There is so much more I'd like to say but not enough time and space to say it. One last comment as we all raise our "longnecks" to salute you "This Buds For You!!" God Bless you Lincoln Quappe, you will never be forgotten!!
Steve Panasuk
Judy C
January 1, 2002
Rest In Peace with God, Lincoln. Bravery knew no bounds on September 11 and you are a shining example of what heroism is all about. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and the loved ones you left behind.
God Bless you all!
Teresa Jahn
December 16, 2001
We thank Lincoln very much for dedicating his life as a fire fighter to help others. Such a dedication comes with a huge heart that is full of warm and caring. We thank him tremendously for helping others. We are extremely sorry for your loss of Lincoln. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Paul T. Devine
December 12, 2001
God bless and keep you Lincoln. My grandfather was a Boston fireman. Maybe someday you will meet him. His name is John M. Devine.You are a hero as was my grandfather.
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