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Leonard Ragaglia made a mean breakfast. Long ago, his 11 brothers and sisters were swapping chores for a meal of crispy bacon and eggs — sunny side up, with unbroken, dead-center yolks. Later, he fixed his special omelets for Donna, his wife; Anthony and Lennie, his sons; and the other firefighters at Engine Company 54 in Midtown Manhattan. They were vast, wobbly things with bacon, onions, cheese, potatoes and tomatoes, said Maureen Ragaglia, his mother.
His father, Leonard Sr., was a firefighter, and the younger Leonard, 36, had always planned to be one, too. He commuted from Staten Island, where he was surrounded by relatives. Like his siblings, he and his family were constantly in and out of his mother's house, where he would toss footballs and pitch whiffle balls to his sons and nephews and nieces.
"He was Mr. Mom," said Linda Taccetta, an older sister. "He wasn't just a father at work. He was with his sons all the time, took them to all their sports and watched pro games with them.
"He was faithful to the teams he liked," Mrs. Taccetta said. "The Mets. The Dallas Cowboys. The Islanders. I'd tell him, `You're true to the wrong teams.' Even when we were little, he was that way. He'd argue about who was better — King Kong or Godzilla. And he'd pick Godzilla."
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Gigi
September 11, 2024
Today, 23 years later I walked for you. I am 23 years old as well and this was my 1st tower challenge and I walked beside and for you. You will never be forgotten, a true hero.
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2024
Lenny..23 years on, the names are still being read, tributes pour in and the pain and sorrow of those lost and those continuing to succumb to the effects of the tragedy of that day are acknowledged. We are still not safe from those that want to do us harm. It’s an ongoing battle but we stand strong and do our best to keep evil off our shores. I know where you are it’s peaceful and quiet and you’re much better off being at rest. I still reflect on our short time as friends and our “club” adventures which seems like yesterday but is actually nearly 30 years ago! Time just whizzes by and you don’t really notice it until you remember certain events. You and I standing on the lonely sidewalk with a full evening of party-goers soon to besiege us was quite interesting and kinda fun. Long gone now, different times, different attitudes. Our memories keep it alive however. Take care Lenny, always thinking about you and I’ll see you one day when it’s time for me to be called home.
CJ
September 11, 2024
Remembered today.
Ken Cubiotti
September 12, 2023
Another tribute for you and all the others that ran in while others ran out. 22 years and not a day passes that 9/11 doesn’t cross my mind. Whether it be as I’m driving and the sun reflects off of my arm or walking into our firehouse and glancing at some memorabilia there, we never forget. I watched a special program last night about that day and the announcer said that not only did the day take so many FDNY firefighters, but that just as many that worked for months at Ground Zero have succumbed to the effects that the air they were breathing.
Another comment was mentioned that so many young people have no idea about 9/11 other than it happened.
I and my wife are hoping that this can be taught to them and the sacrifices that were made on the fateful day.
I saw the pictures last night of your huge family, mom and dad in the center and they gathered at your gravesite. That in itself was such an amazing statement to witness of your legacy.
God Bless you and your beautiful family
Fraternally,
Ken Cubiotti
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Allan Prescott
September 11, 2023
Lenny: Still thinking about you on this 22nd anniversary of the horrible day 09-11-2001! It doesn't get easier for sure but everyone is carrying on, ground zero is making a decent effort to memorialize the tragic event, people are paying their respects and as always, we will never forget those who perished and sacrificed to try to save the unfortunate people trapped in the towers. Continue to rest well buddy, until we meet again.
CJ
September 11, 2023
Remembered Today
CJ
September 11, 2021
Not forgotten - 20 years later - honored and respected
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2021
Lenny: Twenty years gone and still the pain and sorrow of that fateful day lingers and stings the soul. So many mixed emotions. We all still remember and I personally still recall our times together - having fun, no cares and making some extra $$$$ which was always handy and helped our families out. I'm not sure where we as a collective society are headed, just hoping for the best for everyone. Continue to rest in peace buddy, you'll never be forgotten and neither will the thousands of other souls that fell victim to this unimaginable nightmare.
S.J. Friscia III
March 14, 2021
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2020
Lenny: Still think of you often buddy! The planet has changed so much since 9-11-2001 and now we have a new terrorism threat in the form of a virus. Rest well my friend, many people still keep you in their thoughts and I for one will never forget the times we had together!
Cj
September 11, 2020
Not forgotten
Cj
September 11, 2020
Not forgotten
The Kindred Family
November 8, 2019
Our continued heartfelt condolences we send to your family. There are no words that will ever remove the pain. May God always give the comfort and peace needed everyday. Lenny touched many lives and is still sadly missed. He will always be lovingly remembered. May the time come when these vicious violent attacks end for all time.
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2018
Lenny: Still here and thinking about you buddy! Ah, all those times of days past; such sweet memories. I may have mentioned this before but I still remember when we were working together in Manhattan at a now closed venue and the owner was "upset" because you were listening to the baseball game while working! If we only knew then what we know now - such a trivial matter in comparison to what was to come, sadly. Well the good news is that no one is forgetting this nightmare of 2001 anytime soon and all of your brothers and sisters along with thousands of others came out yet again today to honor those who sacrificed everything trying to save some lives. Rest well sir and we'll remember it all again (formally) in 2019.
Tom H
September 11, 2018
Today, 09/11/2018, ( 17 years ...) we remember you Lenny. Thank you for courage and service ... We will never forget. Wishing all the best to your family and friends. Much regards.
D Ray
September 15, 2017
I had the honor of carrying your name during our annual stair climb in Sacramento California. We will never forget.
Go Cowboys!!
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2017
Lenny: Hey brother, another anniversary of the nightmare now 16 years past. The good news is that I, along with many others, make the time to stop by here and say a little something, to let you know that we still think about you and all the others that perished that fateful day 9-11-2001. As has often been said, "some gave all, all gave some." You gave your all sir and for that, we are eternally grateful. You are missed but never forgotten and the tributes each year continue, while the nation maintains vigilance to ensure such evil never happens again. Continue to rest well buddy, your tradition of excellence continues within the FDNY and other agencies!
Cj
September 11, 2017
Remembered again on this day.
Sonya Morath
September 10, 2017
Sonya Morath
September 10, 2017
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Sonya Morath
September 10, 2017
Leonard, we never had the honor of meeting you until today. We had the opportunity to represent you and your family today in an event in Richmond, Va. we honored the sacrifice that you and your family made on that fateful day 16 years ago. You are not forgotten and our family will continue to share your legacy that has touched our family and that you will never be forgotten, my husband climbed 110 stories today and an honor to have carried you on his journey today. Your memory and family are in our thoughts, thank you for your honor to your country and the ultimate sacrifice you and your family has offered to this nation, god bless you
Ken
September 12, 2016
Lenny, it's September 12th 2016 and yesterday was another day to reflect on the horror and tragedy the came that day.
I like millions of others thought of the clear blue sky and the destruction that marred it.
It just didn't get any easier. I will always carry your memory and your legacy in my heart.
Rest easy brother! I will never forget!
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2016
Lenny: Here again brother! It's another day of remembrance down @ ground zero although they are trying to get things back in shape with a mix of "what was" with "what is" and "what shall be!" I guess it's good but as always, this day brings it all back and yeah, the tears flow once again. I'll never forget our time together and how you were as a friend and 'cool' guy and always there when I called upon you. Miss you much and yes, I'll see you again one day for sure!
Cj
September 11, 2016
15 years. It has gotten to the point that some of my students were not even alive when 9/11 happened. Seems like yesterday but it's been 15 years. Remembering you today and wearing dog tag with your name on it.
CJ
September 11, 2015
Never forgotten. Your picture was up on my smartboard in my high school once again for the students to learn about your sacrafice....Thanks!
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2015
Hi Lenny! We're here again buddy. Yet another "anniversary" of that fateful day. Still thinking about you, hoping you are at peace in your new dimension. The firefighting tradition carries on, you would be proud of the resilience of the City and its rebound down at Ground Zero. We're Americans . . . . nothing can keep us down. We're strong as ever! Continue to rest well my friend; we'll be together again some day and I'll be glad to rub shoulders with you once again.
Ken Cubiotti
September 11, 2014
Never ever forgotten!! The longer we walk from this day the more it influences me. I knew you only briefly but talk about you often.
I wear your tribute with pride and tell people you were my friend and I know in my heart you are. I see your mom and dad in pictures and in person and I know they miss you so much.
I chat with you sister Lauren and you are the center of her world.
Now with her having Domenick in her life she has to share her time with both of you. She is truly and angel that misses her brother.
I can only hope to meet you when I pass this world and shake your hand once again. With much love for you and your family, Ken
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2014
Lenny: 9-11-2014 and once again, we remember the awful date 9-11-2001. We're still in turmoil in some areas and trying our best to not let something like this happen again. Watching some news footage of that day, brings it all back, like it happened yesterday. Still miss our time together and hope you are doing O.K. Rest well, my friend. Thinking of you always!
Thanks
CJ
September 11, 2014
Not forgotten. I wore your dog tag again this year. Talked about 9/11 with my students. Your name is always brought up in my classroom on this day. Your sacrifice is not forgotten.
Nellie Dalles
September 11, 2014
Today is September 11, 2014... Lenny and family, our prayers are with you. You will never be forgotten. God Bless!
john garofalo
September 11, 2014
Hey len, another year bro...your never forgotten.Lets go back to the 5th for some Mongolian beef.Peace
Becky Martin
May 15, 2014
I ran a 5k race on Saturday, May 10, 2014 in Lancaster, PA in memory of Leonard Ragaglia. The race was called neverforget5k.org. It was an honor to run in his memory. His service and sacrifice is deeply appreciated.
David Tate, III
January 10, 2014
Mr. Ragaglia, nearly 13 years has gone by and you will be dearly missed. You sounded like a wonderful firefighter, father, uncle and son of a firefighter. You did what firefighters do best - save lives and property. You may not be with us anymore, but your firefighting legacy lives on in spirit. Gone too soon! Way too soon! :-(
Ken Cubiotti
September 12, 2013
Lenny, I went to the 9/11 memorial on Friday and was able to spend some meditative time with my hand on your name. It only brought back the pain of that day. I could feel the warmth of the sun and see the sky so blue reflecting off the Freedom Tower and see the millions of drops of water that splashed down into the footprint of the south tower. All the while thinking that they represent the tears that have been shed since you left that day doing what you loved so much. I found an acorn from one of the many white oak trees that were planted in the park there and I am going to plant it in my yard to remember you.
That night I and my son as well as my neighbor and his son spent the evening with your mom and dad, Lauren and your nephew Dominic at your childhood home. The love and hospitality they showed all of us made me realize that I am truly blessed to have known such an awesome family. Then,now and always we will never forget!
CJ
September 11, 2013
Another year has gone by Leonard. Once again I wore your dog tag and told my high school students about that day and mentioned your name to them. My students always ask if I knew you personally - I did not, but feel as if I did. I have carried your name with me for 12 years...and will continue to do so, so that you are never forgotten.
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2013
Lenny: Another year in heaven. Unbelievable. Here, the tributes go on. There's a new tower now, the "Freedom Tower" standing tall against the harbor. Visitors come daily to see, understand, reflect and pay homage to the nightmare that was 9-11-2001. Next year a museum opens with artifacts from that miserable day. On television, they show footage of the incident and its aftermath - still very tough to watch and listen to; it brings it all right back in your face and stirs every emotion to a boil. Still, we remember those who "gave all" and those that continue to be sick and sometimes fall victim to their illnesses, as a result of trying to save lives that day. Your memory lives on. For me especially, as we interacted quite a bit in the time before 9/11 and I got so used to calling you at work or at home, always getting to speak with you and having you help me out when needed, on a moments notice. It truly does seem like only yesterday that we talked with each other; hard to believe more than a decade has passed. Rest well my friend; we continue our daily treks here, trying to keep some semblance of normalcy in a world that is seemingly in constant conflict. Hopefully peace will reign over all. Goodnight my friend!
Kelly Ciferni
September 12, 2012
Hi. I have never met you, my name is Kelly. I knew your brother Paul. I was thinking of you and Paul yesterday. This is my first year on Facebook and decided to post my memory of 9/11. I mentioned that on September 12th I sat with Paul, the two of us waiting for word from you that never came. I decided then to look you up on the Internet, which I had never done before. I found this memorial and have gone through most of the posts. It touched me how BEAUTIFUL it was. How are family and friends speak of you. I got to meet your sister-in-law Tracey once and was moved by her letters to a man she had never met. She sounds wonderful and I'm so happy to know that Paul and the boys are happy and doing well... I finally got to know about the man I sat waiting for. I'm glad I did even though I cried for most of the hour and a half it took me to go through it all! I pray for you and your family and that you keep sending them signs! :D
Rest in peace Leonard,
Kelly
CJ
September 11, 2012
Leonard, Once again I wore your dog tag all week. I also mentioned your name to my math and chemistry classes today. My students were 3 - 5 years old when 9/11 happened....our school had a moment of silence for those lost and I played that day on DVD for them so they also know what happened and will not forget. Thanks for all you did!
Eddie Demarest
September 14, 2011
10 years has passed and it still feels like yesterday. Lenny you are forever missed and loved. It is my honor as your cousin to keep your memory alive with not only each passing year, but each day. You are what is right in the world, thank you. I think of you all the time and wear t-shirts and hats to honor you as much as my dad wears an american flag shirt, hat, or pin! :) so pretty much all the time! your legacy will forever be remembered by all Americans, but your family will carry your loss till we meet again, I love and miss you cuz, Eddie.
9/11 monument dedication
Ken Cubiotti
September 12, 2011
10 years and many tears have passed. when I look back it seems a blur.
Yesterday was so filled with memorials here in Rochester and in our town of Gates to honor all who lost their lives that day.
We dedicated a monument at our
headquarters with a remnant of steel from the north tower to honor those brave souls who went in while other ran out. Lenny you have been in my thoughts and prayers then,now and always.Rest well my brother and we will keep your honor until ours time has come.GFD112
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2011
Lenny: Another year has passed and now, it is amazingly, the 10th anniversary of this nightmare. I watched some of the cermony at the WTC this morning. I saw James Taylor and Paul Simon sing; this sent me over the edge my friend. My heart is heavier than it has ever been. That you and all those innocent people are no longer here because of unspeakable, savage acts, stirs so many emotions inside me, it is hard to sort them out and make sense of it all. I still think of the days and short time we had together, what a guy you were. Never said "NO" when I called you, always ready to drop what you are doing and come help me. Who does such things in this world today? No one!! You should at least be proud that the WTC is rising again, to show them that we will not "fall" or succomb to their evil deeds and in fact, they will see and feel the wrath of the USA until they themselves become extinct. Sadly, we have to pay an additional price to see this to conclusion but, it will be worth it, to protect the good names of persons such as yourself and all the others that perished on 9-11-2001. Rest in peace my dear friend; we will all be together again one day and hopefully, at that time, there will be PEACE ON EARTH. Love you big guy!!!
CJ
September 11, 2011
I wore my dog tag with your name on it all week. Remebering you this week and especially today. I will never forget your heroism and bravery. Thank you.
Sandra Cole
September 10, 2011
Will sneak over to the firehouse in my city and light a candle in honor of you. You are the best Firefighter that ever walked the streets of NYC. RIP.
Rebecca Walters
August 28, 2011
I have started a facebook page called "Remember Me" Each member who joins, receives the name of someone who died on 9/11 to honour. I have just given a member, Leonard's name. Please know that your loved one is prayed for and not forgotten.
JORDAN H
January 28, 2011
LENNY - IM SO INSPIRED BY YOUR HEROISM ON 9/11. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR BRAVERY ON 9/11. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY NIGHT. GOD BLESS YOU HERO. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU GAVE ON SEPT 11TH.
Anthony Taccetta
September 14, 2010
The Taccetta's in AZ send their love to all of the Ragaglia's. This Saturday Roe and I went to Tempe Town Lake to pay respects. There is an American Flag for every soul taken on 9/11. The First Responders surround all the others as though they are still protecting the fallen. My heart goes out to the Ragaglia's and to the six other families of my friends who died at the WTC. I let everyone in AZ know how close and personal 9/11 is and that it is not just something tragic that happened 3000 miles away and 9 years ago. At Tempe Town Lake the roll call of the First Responders was read aloud. I tried real hard not to show any tears. As the last name was read the sun was just rising on the eastern horizon. The bagpipes started to play and it hurt my heart as I recalled too many funerals that I attended in one week back in 2001. At that moment seven birds in v formation began to circle the dais. Roe tapped my leg but she did not have to, everyone saw the birds. They circled several times and as if on cue when the bagpipes stopped the birds turned and flew towards the rising Arizona sun. Seven birds for the seven families I know. And I thought they are flying towards NYC, towards HOME. I cried like a baby. I know Lenny and my friends are in a better place and truly believe their spirits were in those birds. I felt their spirits wanted to let me know that all seven families will be okay. That they too are free to fly like the birds.
I have struggled like so many others to come to terms with that fateful day. I really do. For the past year I have considered things to do, to make a gesture to the Seven Families and to my fellow New Yorkers. I just couldn't figure out what. Saturday I went and got an elbow to shoulder tattoo. Anyone who really knows me I was the anti-tattoo guy. I get it now. The tattoo is my permanent gesture. My tattoo at the bottom reads FOREVER and above that word is an American Flag waving in the wind agains the black silohuette (sp?) of the Twin Towers, which has also been an intergal part of my growing up in NYC.
I feel that Lenny would think it is pretty cool that my middle daughter Alicia is currently training in SC to become a Combat Engineer in the USMC. She became an EMT years ago because of Lenny and now Alicia is compelled to stand and fight for the rights of our next generation.
Yeah I think Lenny would think it pretty cool.
Nine years ago as I hugged Maureen she painfully asked me to believe in miracles. Maureen I still do.
PS psst Lenny do us a favor and pull some strings to get new managers for the METS.
Allan Prescott
September 13, 2010
Lenny: Another painful year has come and gone and I waited to hear your name read at the memorial tribute on Saturday; all the memories came flooding back. I still think this is all a bad dream and that I really will see you again at the next gig or just chat with you on the telephone and have you tell me how busy you are around the house BUT still have time to talk with me and help me out with the security gigs. I miss calling the firehouse and hearing them drop the telephone as they call out your name: "Hey Rags - telephone!" Even though I only knew you for a short while, it seems I knew you longer - you were ALWAYS there for me and always so personable. To say I miss you is the understatement of the century. We'll be together again one day and we'll have plenty of time to reminisce about our time here on earth. Rest well my friend - everyone here misses you and thinks about you all the time.
sandra cole
September 12, 2010
Once again we are reminded of your greatness as a man and your humanity that is inspirational too all. You are the perfect angel to us all.
CJ
September 11, 2010
Remembering you today. Never knew you - but I have a red dog tag with your name on it that I got 9 years ago. I will never forget.
GCFD 112
September 11, 2010
A few minutes of friendship, a life time in our hearts. Prayers to you and yours from Tree and Myself. God bless you
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Lauren Ragaglia
September 11, 2010
It's soo hard to believe it's been 9 years since I've seen you. I look at your picture everyday and think about you alll the time. Sometimes I feel like you are still here with us but when reality sets in I realize a part of me will always be missing. MISS YOU N LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!!! R.I.P big brother
Love Lauren
Allan Prescott
September 11, 2009
Lenny: Miss those nights with you listening to the baseball game in front of Lot61 or calling you at the last minute to help out with a special event! Who would know that you would leave so soon, so unexpectedly? Miss you big guy - thanks for all the times you helped me out without hesitation. Regards to your family as well.
Ken Cubiotti
September 11, 2009
LENNY , A PRAYER TODAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FROM MY SELF AND MY WIFE.
I WILL SAY A PRAYER FOR YOU AT A MEMORIAL SERVICE TOMORROW ALONG WITH MY BROTHER FIREFIGHTERS TO HONOR YOUR MEMORY AND ALL THOSE THAT PERISHED.
FRATERNALLY, KEN CUBIOTTI GCFD 112
September 11, 2009
Miss you Lenny, always thinking of you...love you cuz.
Sandra Cole
September 10, 2009
I'll say a prayer for you Lenny, tell Donna I said hi. God Bless you.
Natasha Morris
June 11, 2009
A happy belated to Lenny...
Tom Tabaczynski
June 8, 2009
I learned about Firefighter Ragaglia on Larry King Live. From searching online, I know that he would have turned 44 today. I have the greatest love and respect for firefighters and police officers because they not only risk their lives to protect people and property, they are also Samaritans when off duty. They are always looking to help someone in need--by holding holiday toy drives, collecting food for a soup kitchen or food pantry, donating their vacation time to work at a camp for children who have suffered burns, to name just a few of their charitable efforts. My heartfelt thanks for sharing your memories and photos--and for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care."
Doug Abraham
June 8, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Alexandria H.
April 1, 2009
Hey Uncle Lenny!!! Its Alex. I miss you and i love you. i remember when i was a baby we ate at Grandma's and we had fun.
i love ya
lenny ragaglia
March 22, 2009
hey dad...just wanted to say hii, i would have done it alot earlier but i didnt know about this thing and i see everyone on it.....i lovee u and miss u soo much and i think about u and all the great times we had together weather it was playing basketball or playin video games and wrestling.....ohh yeaa the cowboys sucked this year because of course all the teams we pick never win...the mets didnt make the playoffs again of course lol but they better this year they finally got a new closer...also ive been playing really well in basketball thanks to u teaching me everything..ok well just wanted to say hii and i love u goodnight
C Wood
March 7, 2009
"We live as long as we are Remembered" -Russian Proverb" Lenny you will exist forever.
Tracy Ragaglia
October 4, 2008
P.P.S. One more thing...when we took Gavin Leonard on his first car trip and flipped on the radio to hear "The Summerwind", I could not stop crying. It was so great to see that glimmer in Paul's eyes because it is in those moments that he starts to realize that these are not coincidences.....that you are reaching out to us from heaven and it warms us to the core. Paul needs to know that you are not too far....and I thank you so much for reminding him that you are with us. We love you so much Len.....hope to see you again soon.
Tracy Ragaglia
October 4, 2008
Dearest Lenny,
It's me again....on my knees in gratitude. I know that you were with Paul and I as we gave birth to your newest nephew...proudly called Gavin LEONARD. I realize I am hormonal now, but I haven't stopped crying of thanks since seeing him for the first time. He is so precious....and certainly looks like you and Paul...a true Ragaglia. :) As you know, each day I hold him in my arms and we talk to you....I see him looking up and even smiling at you and it just moves me to tears....I can't thank you enough for his safe arrival and ask you never to leave us! We love you so dearly! I think about that rainy day walk on the Jersey shore, when it was just you and me and the waves. As the song, "The Summerwind" rang through my heart, I asked you in such desperation to help Paul and I be blessed with child and knew somehow if you could, that you'd pull some strings for us.....and when we discovered our due date was between little Len's birthday and Sept 11th, I almost fainted. My heart just sank to my shoes and my eyes filled with tears of thanks for your successful strings. hahaha. they say to follow the signs and in that moment, I knew that he would be healthy and happy and full of your spirit. I was so confused when Gavin came So EARLY on August 18th.... and not on the 11th as anticipated on my last doctor visit....but then it struck me that he would be a LEO in the astrological signs....and I thought---how fitting--- and being almost a month early, it was the practical joke that everyone says you liked to play...this year on the anniversary of the 11th, we had our usual fit of tears and sadness as we watched the memorials but this time we held tight to the angel you helped bring us....and I can't honestly thank you enough. Please Thank the BIG MAN up there for this most incredible blessing that has been given to us. I feel you with us all the time, and I hope you know that Gavin Leonard will know his Uncle Lenny through every funny story and every precious memory our family has. I feel so absolutely honored to be able to be a part of our family and I still feel so cheated not to have hugged and loved you on earth, but like me...Gavin LEONARD will feel your love surrounding him and be eternally comforted. Never forget that you hold the honored seat our table....and that last sip of beer or wine is always left for you! Paul, Paul Jr, Darren, Gavin and I are holding you so dear in heart and pray you continue to guide us on the right paths through life.....or at the very least, keep us company on the journey. To say we adore you is such an understatement. We hold you in the highest regard and until we can finally hug you in person....we are hugging you in our hearts. well...your nephew beckons....so I must go....but I'll talk to you soon Love....
all our love and then some, your family in florida.
and P.s. say Hi to Paul Gill for us and thanks for the meeting in the pizza parlour. signs that you are out there with us are the greatest gifts of all. We can't wait to see you again.
Eddie Demarest
September 12, 2008
Lenny,
I don't know where to begin... I guess I'll start by saying you are missed so much everyday! My girlfriend Lizz found this guest book and showed me. I had no idea it was even out there. I read all the entries, cried a lot and saw it as a sign that you are truly here...everywhere, showing us that you love us and want to reach us all, no matter how far away we are. I will never forget you or that day as long as I live... I am so proud to be your cousin and in this size of family, you should know, you touched us all! I miss you and I miss New York. I lived there for nearly 2 years and other than seeing Lauren at 6am on the ferry,coming home from a night of partying, my 2 favorite memories of living in new york were taking my sister Connie to your firehouse to meet everyone there and going to Aunt Maureens and seeing everyone. Having a BBQ and sitting around talking all night... I feel a closeness to you and think about you all the time...I am deeply saddened by the loss of you and I dont think that goes away. 7 years later, I think about you still and I will not let anyone forget about you or that day. I love the city of New York, my family there and you! To my family that reads this: I love and miss you all and I think of you all very often...Be safe and love each other...take care! Lenny, I love you and I will never forget you.
-Eddie Demarest
Ken Cubiotti
September 11, 2008
Just a note to say we lowered our flag at the fire house this morning and rang our bell in 4 sequences of 5 rings. It was in memeory of those who lost their lives but for me it was for Lenny !! I held the bracelet I wear in his memory and touched the inscription as the bell rang in his honor
WE WILL NEVER FORGET!!!!!!
FF 112
Terry & Annette O'Brien
September 11, 2008
Lenny
Thinking of all who died and just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you. I am going to where the shirt with your name on it when I get out of work. I wear it every Sept 11th. I see your mother and father everytime my sister Chickie's family has a party. They are doing okay.They really don't have a choice with the size of the family. May you rest in peace---
Anthony Taccetta
September 11, 2008
Friends I share this because people need to know and besides it is therapeutic for me….This time of year is the only time my heart feels heavy and I miss NYC…. I sent this to everyone I know and work with in AZ.
The tragedy of the WTC attack had a direct personal impact on me and my family. Lenny Ragaglia ‘s sister married my brother. He was one of NY’s Bravest who gave his life that fateful Tuesday morning. I knew Lenny since he was eight years old and even coached him and my little brother’s basketball team. The Taccetta and Ragaglia families grew up together in the same neighborhood in Staten Island. We attended the same Church.
September 11th was Lenny’s day off but he went in anyway. He left behind a wife Donna, and two boys, Lenny Jr and Anthony.
There were six other people (five of them Firemen) that I knew who gave the supreme sacrifice. Four of them I played softball with for more than 20 years. They all had families and children.
I hugged one Mother too many when I was able to fly back to NYC. I will never ever forget the love and hurt I felt especially as Lenny’s Mother cried in my arms asking me to believe in miracles.
My brother Michael is a Detective and was at the WTC while it happened. He saved lives that day. My brother-in-law Rob is also a Policeman. He had the distinct task of sorting body parts at the Staten Island landfill. My brother Joe works for the DOT and drove huge trucks during the rescue efforts. He could only do it for three days, it was too much for him. My brother Louis had an office at the WTC and was late coming in that day. My brother Mark worked at Bank of New York directly across the street and ran for his life as everything came down.
I have a very difficult time thinking or talking about 9/11. In trying to cope I break it down to simplicity. It is not about religion, or government. That’s ridiculous to me because those factors are merely determined by where you are born.
This is about good and evil. Love and hate.
So this I will say to Lenny’s Mom; Yes Maureen I believe in miracles. That the loss of our loved ones on 9/11 strengthens my belief in humankind and that the miracle of peace and coexistence is possible. I am one who has faith and believes in humankind, now more than ever. Imagine.
As always there will be seven American Flags flying in my front yard tomorrow.
I SEND A HUGE HUG TO ALL OF THE RAGAGLIA'S....especially Maureen. I make sure people in Arizona never forget.
Sandra Cole
September 10, 2008
12:40 am September 11, 2008 Earth is a happier place now because your spirit has come back to embrace those that love you so much...God Bless you Lenny, NYC'S FDNY Greatest hero....
Georgette Gill
July 16, 2008
To Lenny & his family,
I am the step mom of FF Paul John Gill, Engine 54 who perished with Lenny on 9/11.
I want to share a story with Lenny's family & friends -- those of whom have not yet heard what happened this past July 5th in Orlando, FL.
My husband John & I, together with our best friends Jo & Jack, went to the Marriott Resort in Orlando for the 4th of July weekend. It was to be a time of reflection as tragically Jo & Jack lost their son Jackie only three months earlier. I had known Jackie since birth & he was like a son to me. Four friends sharing the most painful of losses – looking for signs from our sons that they are together and at peace. After a day at the pool, we set out for dinner at what we thought was a local seafood restaurant. Unfortunately, our restaurant turned out to be a bar and after several failed attempts at finding a place to eat, we ended up at a local pizza parlor.
Soon after we sat down, a young couple walked into the restaurant. The husband was wearing a FDNY 9/11 shirt. My husband called “hey, 9/11, come here” and we asked the young man if he lost someone on 9/11. He told us that he lost his brother. I asked “what house?” He said “Engine 54”, Lenny Ragaglia. We told him that we were Paul Gill’s dad and step mom and then I asked the young man his name. He said “Paul.”
After talking some more, we asked Paul & Tracy if they eat at this restaurant often and Paul told us that they only ate there one night before – that the restaurant was someplace they go for lunch only.
What brought Paul & Tracy and the four of us to this restaurant on that evening? What caused Paul to wear his FDNY tee-shirt that day? In case we didn’t get the message that our sons are all together, they delivered several more messages. The bill for our dinner was $54.00 and when we filled our truck with gas, the total was $54.00. The address of the restaurant started with 54 and Paul told us that there was a firehouse just a block away – Engine 54.
Lenny, Paul & Jackie were clearly telling us that they are at peace, watching over us always and that we will be together again.
Georgette Gill
Sandra Cole
June 9, 2008
Happy B-day up there in Heaven.....Oh can you tell Donna to call me sometime....
Doug Abraham
June 8, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
November 30, 2007
hey lenny,
just wanted to say hi and let u know that the cowboys are doing good but as for the mets this year well i wont even start to talk about them.Miss you so much!!!
love your brother stephen
Nellie Dalles
November 26, 2007
To Lennys family, Lenny will always be remembered as a shinning light in all our hearts forever. I am Nellie, mother to Stephanie, Jennifer and kristine. Some years back, Lennys, two sisters babysat for kristine? I knew then, you were a wonderful and loving family and very lucky to have eachother. My prayers are with you all, and a special prayer and blessing for LENNY.
Sandra Cole
September 12, 2007
Hey Lenny,
I lit a candle in your honour and placed it by the local fire house. I know you are the lead of the angels up their in heaven...
God Bless
Ken Cubiotti
September 11, 2007
Lenny , just a thought of you on this day to know you are still in my heart and your family is in my prayers daily.Sleep well my brother.
Ken Cubiotti GCFD 112
Doug Abraham
June 8, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Debbie Ragaglia
May 28, 2007
Lenny,
I am at work on Memorial Day , and decided that I think it's about time I come back on here and write to you again to tell you that you are still greatly missed and forever loved ! Your birthday is coming up next week and I thought I could give you the best gift ....The Mets are better then the Yankees! We just won 2 out of 3 games in Shea Stadium and I know you were watching over that game cheering those "AMAZING METS " on . Well next week we will celebrate as usual at the cemetary so I will speak more when I get there. The boys are doing great and little Lenny isn't so little anymore ! He is built just like you ! Love you with all my heart ! Talk to you soon ! Love always , Debbie P.S Miss U SOOOO MUCH !
Cat Wood
April 5, 2007
Dear Lenny,
Thank you for the brief visit... We honor and support you and all NFFF on May 2. Smile down on us!!!!
Kristine
March 5, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Tracy Ragaglia
February 27, 2007
Dearest Lenny,
It's been almost 7 months now since I married Paul, and I apologise that it's taken me this long to write you again and thank you for being there for our special day! After the rehearsal dinner, when those fire trucks left the firehouse blaring away, we were brought to tears knowing you were on your way to our house for the pre party....then when you made your prescense during the Mass, we were all stunned and just looked at each other like.....wow...how cool that you came to celebrate with us......and then again with the firetrucks that followed our limo down the road....I just cried so hard as we toasted to you in the car. We love you so much Len, and even though I can only celebrate your life through the memories of your family...that is enough for me (for NOW anyway) and I can't wait to someday sit with you and laugh for hours! I feel so cheated that we did not meet, but somehow our friendship is so strong and I hope you know how much I love the family I've been welcomed into. I'm so proud to be a rags.....and I'm forever grateful for your guidance and love. p.s. paul is doing so great....as promised, I will not let you down.
All my love today and always,
Tracy
P Tabbernor
February 6, 2007
In memory....
Lauren Ragaglia
November 30, 2006
Dear Lenny,
As much as I love the holidays it's still extremly hard to celebrate them without you. Thanksgiving was interesting as usual but great because the boys were here with us. They are both so gorgeous just like their Dad. Yeah I'm finally admiting your good looking haha. Danny is finally looking into taking the FD test.. he thinks hes going to pass but we all know if he does it will be a struggle = )... I love you and miss you soooo much.
Love always, Newt
Sandra Cole
September 27, 2006
Lenny,
I just got back from NYC and your cousin Donna gave me the shirt they made in your honor.
I held it tight on the train as I made my way back into Manhattan.
Thanks for being everyones hero.
Sandra
Toni and the rest of the Amato's
September 26, 2006
Lenny,
I saw Donna and the kids a few weeks ago at my uncle John's wedding. The kids got so big! They are such good kids you and Donna did a good job! My mom told me about this guest book so i decided i should write something in it. sorry its so late. It was a wonderful thing that you did and we all think you are very brave! you are a truely a HERO. We all miss you!
Sandra Cole
September 12, 2006
Dear Lenny,
I just wantd to let you know, that as promised I will never forgot your love of life.
Yesterday I went to the American Consulate and I placed two roses on the front steps with a card that read "Now I know that heaven has one heck of a fire department!"
God Bless you and your family...P.S Tell Donna I said Hi....
Ken Cubiotti
September 11, 2006
Debbie, Lauren and Family, You have never met me but I'd like to tell you how much Lenny has touched my life.
I have hesitated for five years to write this because the thought of him being gone has left what feels like a hole in my heart.
I am a volunteer firefighter in Rochester NY and I a two of my brother firefighters and our wives were in NYC staying at a hotel on 8th Ave and 48th St for a long weekend of fun and sight seeing.
We walked past E54 L4 house a few times and were curious if we would be embraced as brother firefighters.
Finally getting the nerve up we knocked at the garage door to one of the bays and it opened and this good looking Italian guy asked if he could help us .
We introduced ourselves and our wives and he introduced himself to us along with another firefighter there. The good looking guy was Lenny and he and his fellow fireman let us look around and take pictures of the house along with pictures of us in front of E54 "Never Missed a Performance" stuck in our minds and in my heart especially.I was so full of pride being recognized as brothers and feeling like we had known them for years rather than seconds. We Thanked him and his fellow firemen and told them we'd come back next year and bring T shirts from our house and company for them. We left there feeling like school boys after our first firehouse tour it was awesome!!!!!
That was January 2001 and we haven't been back since. When I heard of the attacks I ran to the TV and looked to see if E54 or L4 were on scene to help out and as the banner read "Never Missed a Performance" but I never did catch a glimpse of them. Later learning that many of them if not all were in the towers was such a sinking feeling for me and knowing that it was unlikely they would make it out just made it worse.
The events of the 9/11 attacks have scarred most of us but we cannot feel the pain you and your family have felt in these past years.
I have read many of the guest book entries for your brother on his memorial sight and cried many tears. He knew us for such a short time but we could feel his loyalty and love for the job and he instilled in us that loyalty and love.
We were called by our chief to standby for deployment to ground zero for 8 days but never left because of the overwhelming response from everyone around who wanted to help. Sadly we have moved on but there isn't a day that goes by that if I plane should fly low or the sky is crystal blue like it was on that day that I don't think of him and feel him.
I had a bracelet made with the with the inscription "FF Leonard Ragaglia and under it 9-11-01 FDNY Engine 54" I wear this everyday of my life since then and will keep wearing it til I am gone in memory of him and the other brothers that have touched my heart so deeply!!
I WILL NEVER FORGET !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love to you and your family and may God bless you all and your amazing Brother who I am Proud to call my Brother also
Thank you again, Ken Cubiotti FF 124 Gates-Chili Fire Dept.
Sandra Cole
September 10, 2006
Hey Lenny,
Like I always promised today I will say a pray for you and lay some flowers at my neighborhood firehouse in honor of you.
I know you are in heaven.
The world loves you Lenny!
September 1, 2006
God bless you Lenny! You are truely missed and loved by many. You are a hero. xo
Sandra Cole
August 14, 2006
Hola Lenny (looking up in Heaven) I know you are watching over everyone (wink)
Lauren Ragaglia
June 8, 2006
Dear Lenny... I'm sitting here again watching old videos of you and remembering all the great times we had together. It's almost 5 years now and it still hurts like day one. I know your with us all the time and when I started to watch the videos I kind of felt like you were here but then reality kicks in. The pain of not having you here is unbeliveable n the thought of me not being able to tell you how Proud I am of you kills me. I just hope I make you half as proud as u made me throughout your short lived life. I love and miss you more then words can say. Happy Birthday!
Love Newt
Colleen Rags
October 26, 2005
Lenny,
I miss you terribly, the pain NEVER GOES AWAY! I so wish you were here! The boys are getting so big & their personalities are you in so many ways! I think of you every single day. Your ALWAYS on my mind. I know you are still around...lol. A lot of crazy things happen & we know its you in some sort of way! We love it so keep it up! =) Anyway I just wanted to write to you since I haven't in a while! I LOVE & MISS YOU! XOXOXXOXO
PS - How bout dem Cowboys!!!
Love always,
Colleen
Sandra Cole
September 11, 2005
Dear Lenny,
May God Bless you. You will never be forgotten, you will always remain close to many. You touched many hearts, you are with us always.
God Bless you Lenny---FDNY----HERO
DEBBIE RAGAGLIA
March 26, 2005
HEY LEN,
I JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU A HAPPY EASTER IN HEAVEN. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU OR TALK ABOUT YOU. I JUST MOVED TO FLORIDA AND SO FAR SO GOOD!HOPE YOU ARE TAKING CARE OF ANNA FOR US, YET I KNOW SHE WILL REALLY BE TAKING CARE OF YOU ..LOL..A SUM -A SUM !!! I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU AND "HAPPY EASTER !!!LOVE DEBBIE
DEBBIE RAGAGLIA
September 11, 2004
HEY LEN ,
WELL TODAY IS 3 YEARS SINCE I LAST SAW YOU AND I MISS YOU MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY. WE KEEP YOU ALIVE BY TALKING ABOUT U EVERYDAY.I GOT MARRIED 3 WEEKS AGO AND I DID A LITTLE MEMORIAL FOR YOU AND HAD YOUR PICTURE UP ON AN EASEL AT THE HALL...I LOVE U LEN AND PLEASE STAY WITH US ALL DAY TODAY AND HELP TO MAKE US ALL STRONG CAUSE OUR HEARTS HURT, ME AND COLLEEN ALREADY HAD A CRYING FIT LAST NIGHT . WE LOVE U WITH ALL OUR HEARTS AND I CAN'T WAIT TO GIVE U A BIG HUG WHEN WE MEET UP AGAIN ! LOVE YOU DEBBIE P.S. RING THE BELLS TODAY TO LET US KNOW YOU ARE HERE ....LOL AND LOOK OUT FOR MOM AND DAD CAUSE THEY ARE READING YOUR NAME AT GROUND ZERO TODAY ...
Lauren Ragaglia
June 8, 2004
Len,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!Well it's another Birthday your not here to celebrate with us but we are thinking of you and missing you more and more eachday.I know you are always watching over us but soemtimes I just feel that's not enough I want you to be here celebrating occasions like this with us. But since your not I hope your up there celebrating with Mr. D and Uncle Richie. I love you!
<3 Lauren
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