Lesley Thomas-O'Keefe

Lesley Thomas-O'Keefe

Lesley Thomas-O'Keefe Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 28, 2001.
L. Thomas-O'Keefe, 40, 'lit up a room' Lesley Thomas-O'Keefe came to this country a year ago not in pursuit of the American dream, but rather to live it.

"I've been telling people she took a real bite out of New York," said her husband, Joseph O'Keefe. "She went to museums, did tours and also went throughout the surrounding area. But most of all, she absolutely liked the Hoboken waterfront."

The O'Keefes moved to Hoboken a year ago from Sydney, Australia, where they had met in the mid-'90s and married in 1999. For him the move was a return home, and a chance to reconnect with family in Elizabeth, after years of work in the financial markets of Australia.

For his wife, he said, it was "quite exciting, a new opportunity and challenge."

Three months ago, Mrs. Thomas-O'Keefe, 40, began work as a broker for Cantor Fitzgerald Securities on the 105th floor of One World Trade Center.

On the morning of Sept. 11, O'Keefe retrieved a message on a mobile phone from his wife. In a calm voice, she said the building had been struck by a plane and there was total chaos in the office. Mrs. Thomas-O'Keefe said she was calling to say she loved him and that she was all right and would see him when it was over.

O'Keefe, a self-employed futures trader, left his Midtown office and rushed to the World Trade Center. He arrived in the vicinity as the building in which his wife worked collapsed.

"It was horrible," he said, adding that he got as close as he could to observe search-and-rescue efforts. "I was there until 3 or 4 in the morning, walking the streets."

O'Keefe said he is comforted by memories of his wife and how she "touched people in small ways that are important, and made everyone feel better."

Mrs. Thomas-O'Keefe had worked in Sydney for the Bank of New York, Bankers Trust and the Dutch bank ABN-AMRO. Shortly after moving to New Jersey, she became active in the American Australian Association in New York and began editing its women's newsletter.

"She was very unique, beautiful and had a great accent," recalled a sister-in-law, Claire Bockenhauer of Roselle Park. "She lit up a room, was very friendly, outgoing and got along with everyone."

In addition to her husband and sister-in-law, Mrs. Thomas-O'Keefe is survived by her mother, Jackie Thomas of Green Point, Australia, and her brother, Mark of Tascott, both in New South Wales; her mother-in-law and father-in-law, Teresa and Joseph O'Keefe of Brick; brother-in-law Thomas of St. Petersburg, Fla.; and two more sisters-in-law, Ann Marie Scanlon of Westfield and Terry Sheils of Shelton, Conn.

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September 1, 2021

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February 8, 2020

The Lucas Family posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2019

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Antonio Arteaga

September 1, 2021

Hello, My name is Antonio. I'm in 8th grade and I'm writing about you. I know no one will see this since it's been 20 years.

The Lucas Family

February 8, 2020

In our hearts are thoughts of deep sympathy. Lesley is still greatly missed and remembered with love.

September 12, 2019

I had the pleasure of working with Lesley at Capita for a few short years. She was the smartest, nicest, funniest, most genuine and generous person I had ever met. Her tragic death at such a young age is proof that only the good die young. I was lucky and blessed to have met Lesley and to spend a few short years with her. She will remain in my heart forever.

Adele Small

September 11, 2018

You were a role model and inspiration, it was a honour to have worked with you.

Rhordon Balthazaar

March 13, 2018

Will never forget you Lesley.

Tim Campion

March 8, 2016

In memory of a beautiful young lady from an old school friend

David McCulloch

September 11, 2015

....In memory

Victoria Dench

September 11, 2011

Beautiful Lesley,
I think of you often...you were a lovely, caring woman and the world is a sadder place without you in it. I feel blessed to have known you.

Roly Chalmers

September 11, 2011

RIP Lesley
You were a standout on the SFE.An attractive lady with strength in character.We only ever had a few short conversations.I will hold them precious and my heart goes out to your family and loved ones left behind XO

September 11, 2011

I saw your husband read your name along with many others just now. I was moved by his love for you. No matter the nationality, we are all together as one. God Bless America. God Bless Australia. God Bless the World.

I promise to never forget.

Gordon McNaught

September 11, 2011

We will always remember the beautiful person you are. Your light shines in our hearts forever.

Marita Guarino

September 10, 2011

Miss you my friend!! Your sweet smile is embedded in my <3

anna russo

November 17, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Barstow Forbes

September 1, 2009

I lived in Sydney and worked on the Sydney Futures Exchange in the 1990's. I did not know Lesley, but know who she was. I saw her once at the NATIONAL GALLERY OF AUSTRALIA, Canberra. I wanted to say G'day, but she did not know or recognize me. I have always thought of her every September since 2001, how she was taken before her time. Rest in peace Lesley. C.B.W.Forbes

kristine

October 23, 2008

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

March 30, 2007

In memory....

Wendy Juergens

September 12, 2006

Dear Lesley, I never had the honor of meeting you, but like all of the people who lost their lives on 9/11, I have had you in my prayers. I live in Kennesaw, GA, and yesterday at the Kennesaw National Battlefield, the local Kiwanis Club had over 3000 United States of America Flags flying, one for each person who lost their life on 9/11. I took my children, Matthew and Emily there, to pay tribute to our country, and to all of the people we lost. Our governor spoke, and it was a very moving ceremony. I can't begin to imagine the pain the families who were touched directly must feel, but I know my heart goes out to each and every one of them. After the ceremony, the flags that were flown could be purchased. I bought one, which I picked up today. Along with the flag, I was given a certificate, that showed who the flag was flown in memory of. I am honored to say that it was Lesley. I just wanted to share that story with your family, and to let them know we will always honor this flag, and that your family will always be in our prayers.

michael

September 12, 2006

Each years anniversary I think of your smile and our fun chats, always in my memory of better times at BTA Sydney when the world was a nicer place with you still in it.

Katie & Phil Ebner

September 10, 2006

Dear Lesley,

There is not one day that goes by that we do not think of you. Your lovely smile, your beautiful personality, your amazing glow that made everyone you met feel like someone special. We were very blessed to have you in our family even though it was for a short time. You will forever be a part of our lives. It's been 5 years, but it feels like yesterday that we were all together. MISS YOU!

Love, Katie & Phil

Myfanwy Tilley

September 9, 2003

My closest friend for nearly thirty years and 'special aunt' of my son, Aeddan, Lesley still shines in our heart and souls. We miss her more than ever, but her presence will be ever felt.

Michaela Cook

April 14, 2003

May angels watch over you lesley and bring peace on this earth.

My sincere thoughts go out to all your family & friends.

God Bless xxx

Guy A Thomas

December 15, 2002

Rest-in-peace Lesley. I share your name.

Melinda Joslin

October 27, 2002

Lesley

you will be missed greatly by all whose lives you had touched

may you rest in peace

with love

Melinda

Pennie Jenkins

September 11, 2002

Lesley
It was an honour to know and work with you at ABN Amro. May you rest in peace.

Jonathan Cattana

September 3, 2002

Remembering you always with your smiling face.

chris zwolinski

August 22, 2002

Terrible events can't erase our fondest memories of you. Rest in peace, our hearts are with you.

July 22, 2002

Lesley,



May your wonderful soul rest in peace with God and the others that were lost that morning.



You are truly missed.

Graham Rush

May 30, 2002

From all who knew you at the Sydney Futures Exchange, Be at peace.

Angie Campbell

May 29, 2002

May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind that horrible morning last September. Rest in peace forever more..........

May 14, 2002

MAY THE SOUL OF LESLEY THOMAS OKEEFE AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE AMEN.

May 14, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS LONELY NAME...LESLEY THOMAS-O'KEEFE AND MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS YOUR LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ST.THOMAS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Brian Fritz

May 12, 2002

My prayers go along with those who knew and loved Lesley. My hospital nurse in Albq. had a mercy band on her wrist. I got one too and it has Lesley's name. May God's mercy reign over all. Psalm 103.

Linda Hall

April 14, 2002

Lesley,

I purchased your mercy band this weekend. I never knew you and I'm so sorry your life was cut so short by the in-humanity of man. You and your family will be remembered, and prayed for often. Soar high, Lesley.

Teresa Jahn

December 10, 2001

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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