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Mark Rosen Obituary
As a partner at Sandler O'Neill, Mark H. Rosen knew investment banking. As a father, he knew baton twirling.
His daughter, Amanda, now 13, got the twirling bug early, becoming a member of the PAL Sparklers, a club in Brentwood, N.Y., near the family's home in West Islip. For a couple of years, no family vacation was complete without at least a few days spent in some out-of-the-way place at a competition. "He was quite happy to sit in hot gymnasiums in places like Grand Rapids or Dubuque and watch his daughter twirl," his wife, Patti, recalled.
Twirling also aided Mr. Rosen, 45, in fulfilling another familial obligation, playing Santa Claus at annual holiday school breakfasts. Mrs. Rosen isC atholic, and the children — Amanda, Matthew, 12, and Bryan, 16 — were raised in the church. Mr. Rosen was Jewish, but that did not matter. "We talked him into it," Mrs. Rosen said.
He borrowed the red suit from the Sparklers, who also recruited him to play Santa in some local twirling shows. He would be surrounded by jumping girls, with batons constantly whizzing past his nose, but he never flinched, having removed his glasses for that authentic Claus look. "He couldn't see a thing without them," Mrs. Rosen said.
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Patricia Rosen
September 12, 2020
The heartache will never cease and the void you have left still deep. I believe your divine intervention has had an influence in blessing Amanda and Fernando a most beautiful baby boy, this September, who definitely resembles you! Please continue to watch over us and guide us with your love.
Christine Sears
September 11, 2020
You will always be in our hearts Mark. We know you’re looking down upon Patti, your children and new grandson, loving all you see as their lives blossom. You are missed by all. God’s Blessings and love to the Rosen families . ❤
Chris
September 11, 2020
Dear Rosen family,
You don't know me, but I want to bless you guys on this day. I send deep sympathy to your family as you remember Mark. In loving memory of Mark H. Rosen.
The Lucas Family
May 24, 2019
We send our deep sympathy to your family. Words sent can never take away the pain but they do show that others still do care. May God and your loving memories be of some comfort. Mark is still missed and will not be forgotten.
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Sue Caranante
September 11, 2018
Mark, you never be forgotten & will forever be missed! Such an amazing person & wonderful memories!!!
Love you Patti, Bryan, Amanda & Matthew!
September 11, 2018
You are missed by all. Rest peacefully Mark. Blessings and love, Christine
Bob Pearsall
September 11, 2018
Mark, you were one of the finest men I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. I owe much to you and remember your kindness and generosity often.
Alice Hunt
September 10, 2018
How blessed we all are to have had you pass through our lives. May you Lord keep you safe and watch over your beautiful family. Rest in peace.
Christine Sears
March 2, 2018
May you be at peace with our Lord , your loved ones, on this day of your birth and always. You are so missed by all. Blessings and love,
Christine Sears
Michelle
September 11, 2017
Remembering Mark today. I was given his name as I gave blood this afternoon at our 9/11 blood drive. What a huge loss for your family. Bless you.
Christine Sears
September 11, 2017
Another year has gone by yet it seems like yesterday that you were here with your family and friends. May the Lord hold you close to him.
Rest In Peace Mark.
With love, Christine
Sue Caranante
September 10, 2016
Another year has past & you're missed just as much!!! I see pictures of Matt & see you! You will always live on through the your family & friends! So many wonderful memories of an amazing person!!
Jill Rosen
September 15, 2015
Thinking about you and sending love to your family and friends. You were a great guy!
Heather O'Connell
September 14, 2015
Mark, Patti, and the whole family will always remain in my thoughts and prayers... In my heart. Xo
Mark as Santa @ Manetuck Holiday Breakfast!
Diane Lane
September 12, 2015
Patti, the depth of sorrow after 14 years still grabs my soul with the intensity of that very first reality of Mark's death. I have never seen this Newsday interview until tonight, 9/12/15. You are remarkable, and Mark has given you all strength from the heavens to endure these voids, now along with your parents. He shows signs of hope along with the other victim/angels...like a rainbow over NYC on the eve of 9/11/15. You never cease to amaze me how you cope, and you are an inspiration to your children, your family, friends, me & my children, and your town, West Islip. The way you honor his death with every ounce of love & devotion with tradition of flowers, luminaries, togetherness of family just is simple unconditional soulful, faithful LOVE. I am proud to stand with you and the kids (that are now adults). Your example teaches us all how precious life is appreciating one moment at a time. Mark has left an indelible stamp in our souls. I love you, my BFF. God's Blessings for peace in your heart. Diane
September 12, 2015
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Still missing you always, but know you are near. Please give us strength on October 3rd and bless us with a beautiful day for Amanda.
Christine Sears
September 12, 2015
You are missed more each year. I pray that Charlotte and Ed are with you. Peace be with you.
Sue Caranante
September 11, 2015
Always in our thoughts! Miss you Mark!
Christine Sears
September 12, 2014
God Bless you and keep you by his side forever...
Sue Caranante
September 12, 2014
Never forgotten! An all around incredible man!!
Love you Mark!
September 11, 2014
Dearest Mark,
Once upon a time... when you met Patti, what a beautiful story of love. Your face is so dear... May you be resting at peace and waiting for the day your family will join you again...
We all miss and love you very much... We will always be thinking of you Mark, Christine & Howard
Patricia Rosen
September 10, 2014
There are no words for a loss so deep and devastating. May your love continue to shine down on us always.
Susan Caranante
September 12, 2013
Remembering you always but especially today! You were truly a wonderful friend! Love you Mark!!!!
Diamond Wilson
September 11, 2013
i wrote about you today remembering you on this sad day,it has been 12 years today and tho i didnt know you i still hate that you and everyone lost their lifes on this day
Patricia Rosen
September 10, 2013
Marty-I miss you more and more each day. My only solace is to believe that you are always looking over us. Our three children have grown to be incredible adults. They are loving, kind, and caring -all attributes that attracted me to you. I carry you with me all through my days and nights. I was so very blessed to have a man like you to love me. My only hope is that you will be there waiting for me.......
Austin MacDonald
September 13, 2012
Marc was truly a great guy. He was always nice to everyone. He was very smart,liked to laugh and had a great sense of humor. He also gave you a dig when you needed/deserved it. I went to St. John's with him and played intramural flag football with him. He was on the offensive/defensive line and he battled it out with some pretty big dudes especially from the varsity baseball team. We hung out with a group in between classes and for a beer or two on Fridays and weekends. I will always pray for him, his wife,his children and his family.
Jennifer Lamirata
September 12, 2012
My heart still aches for your family everyday. I am saddened deeply that you do not get to see how truly wonderful your children are. Though I know you are within them. I was blessed the day you moved in and I was blessed to know you at all. I continue to be blessed by having your beautiful wife and children in my life and my childrens lives. Still to this day there is no man like you. Like the man Patti talks about all the time. May God keep you always, until we are once again neighbors.
September 11, 2012
Eleven years- my heart remains broken.
Sue Caranante
September 10, 2012
Another year has gone by! You are always in our hearts & thoughts!! We miss you Mark!! I know you've been watching over all of us!! I'm sure you know how much you are still loved and never forgotten!! XO
Lori Conte
August 27, 2012
Dear Mark its almost eleven years since you have been gone. My heart still aches. I miss you. Love. Your little sister
Patricia Rosen
June 9, 2012
Mark-my heart still aches, my eyes still weep. I miss you more and more each day. How we all continue to survive is a miracle. The void you have left can never be filled. I only hope you are at peace and are patiently waiting for me to join you.
Carol Van Schaick
September 12, 2011
Mark was remembered at the memorial celebration mass celebrated at Davis Park, Fire Island and the lovely beach service overlooking the Atlantic. I had just finished reading the newsday article of Mark before attending mass on 9/11.
Wishing you and the children my best. Carol Van Schaick
Kindergarten
sheldon legon
September 11, 2011
Mark you were my little brother. we grew up as children together. I should have said I love you more often but I certainly respected you. I never expected all my bros. to go long before me. It does'nt seem fair. If i could sacrifice myself for either of you, in a heartbeat.
Meanwhile rest assured I will always take care of our mother. With that respect for you who everyone who knew you must certainly have, love Shelly
Phil Saiz
September 11, 2011
Ten yrs ago on a Sunday morning We saw each other at the West Islip Deli. You were getting egg sandwichs.We spoke about how the summer went.Little did know I that would the last time would see each other again.I think about you alot.You were one of the most increible person I ever met.Never a bad word about any one. God Bless You
michele durante
September 10, 2011
I didnt know marc but i know his sister Lori..My heart goes out to his whole family...prayers thoughts and love to all of the rosen family..
Susan Caranante
September 10, 2011
Mark you are truly missed! There are so many wonderful words to discribe you. Your family always came first. You have given us such incredibly fun & wonderful memories that, to this day, we still can roll on the floor laughing over. We will never forget the best jewish Santa, Halloween & Ohio to name of few favorite. Keep shining down on us always & know you will never be forgotten!! R.I.P. Mark we love you!
Jill Rosen-Berusch
September 10, 2011
Mark, I remember the holiday dinners when we were kids. They were filled with love and laughter. I will always cherish those memories.
Doug Abraham
March 2, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Robert Pearsall
December 4, 2008
You were a very good man and a great friend. You gave me an opportunity and I will never forget you.
Doug Abraham
March 2, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
kristine
April 23, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
February 22, 2007
In remembrance....
yolanda termini
September 9, 2006
Dearest Patti and family,
You are as ever in our hearts and prayers..I pray to Mark..and we are thinking of all of you this anniversary. I hope you and the children are well and always take strength from the legacy Mark left you and those of us who knew him...Always, Yolanda Termini
Philip Saiz
September 11, 2005
Mark, I can still remember the our meeting the Sunday before at the deli getting egg sandwiches.How your summer had gone.You have not been forgotten.God Bless You,Patti &the Kids.
August 11, 2005
4 years and we all miss you like it was yesterday.
David Rosen
March 20, 2005
Though I doubt we were related by anything other than name. I lost a friends and banking colleagues in the trade center. It saddens me to see the loss of someone who carried my families name. I mourn for you and grieve for your family's loss of a father and husband.
Dave Rosen
Lori Conte
August 26, 2004
Dear Mark It is almost 3 years since you have been gone. I miss you so much that it hurts.You were the best big brother anyone could have asked for. You will be in my heart forever. Love your little sister Lori. Rest in peace my dear brother.
LORI CONTE
August 29, 2003
To my brother Mark i miss you each and everyday you are always in my heart and on my mind love Lori- John & Joseph and Jonathan
March 2, 2003
Happy Birthday!
Mary D. Worthley
September 9, 2002
We received a small White Spruce from an anonymous donor whose daughter worked near the Trade Center and survived. We will be planting it in our yard to remember Mark. We never met him but as fellow Long Islander's we feel connected. My 11 year old son Ian Worthley will help plant the tree. We will pray as we plant it for the wife and family Mark left behind. Happy New Year to Mark and God Bless to his family. Much Love, Richard, Mary and Ian Worthley/ Oceanside, New York/9-9-02/
Angie Campbell
May 14, 2002
May God Bless you and the ones that you left behind last September. May you rest in peace forever more.
April 11, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..MARK H.ROSEN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WONDERFUL FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY..AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK FOREVER..,MAY JESUS AND ST.MARK
GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN
Patricia Butcher
March 18, 2002
Mark is forever in our hearts and his legacy will live on in his children. God speed Patti, Bryan Amanda and Matthew.
Patricia Nenadich
January 15, 2002
God knows my heart and tears go out to The Rosen Family and all the families who lost a loved one in all of the tragics. Mr. Rosen was a good and kind man. He was always nice to my son Richie, who is a good friend of his son Bryan. May his soul rest in peace with the angels in Heaven. I pray that his family has peace knowing this and he will be missed.
Teresa Jahn
December 14, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Michael Bondanza
November 29, 2001
I am so sorry for your loss. Mark will be missed.
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