Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
John Vigiano Obituary
Maybe there was something in the water.
For some reason, perhaps a dozen men who came of age during the 1970's and 80's in Deer Park, N.Y., developed an appetite for civic duty. They became New York City police officers and firefighters in their professional lives, and volunteer firefighters with Engine Company No. 2 in Deer Park in their personal ones. They called it the Deer Park Connection, and Firefighter John Vigiano and Detective Joseph Vigiano, two of the tightest brothers you could ever find, were among the best-liked and most accomplished members.
Both followed the unwritten manual on growing up right in Deer Park, said their father, John Vigiano, a retired captain in the New York City Fire Department. They were active in sports. They became Eagle Scouts. They hatched pranks that were wicked in their creativity but gentle in their impact. "They never embarrassed me," said Captain Vigiano. "They were good fathers, good husbands and they were good men.
John Vigiano, at 36, was older by two years, though his brother never let him forget that he was also four inches shorter and maybe 30 pounds lighter, too. John was the quieter of the two, and spent as much time as possible with his two young daughters, his father said. He was a terrific hockey player (and rabid Rangers fan) and he would occasionally rent out an entire rink for his family, his brother's family and a few other friends.
Joseph Vigiano, who was known as Joey, loved to mug for the cameras and played lacrosse on the Police Department team, said his wife, Kathy, a fellow police officer. On the job, he was commended for his bravery: he survived being shot on three different occasions. At home, he taught his two boys how to build derby cars of pine. Eventually, he was going to do the same with his youngest son, now 6 months old.
For now, the Vigianos are collecting anecdotes and tributes from friends and relatives on a new Web site, www.vigiano.com. Here, presumably, is one of the last stories: On the Sunday before Sept. 11, Kathy Vigiano returned home after the first game of the season in her soccer league, bruised and tired. She was prepared to make dinner, but instead, she saw that her husband had fixed prime rib, Caesar salad, mashed potatoes, and broccoli with cheese — while watching their baby, too. All this from a guy who had previously insisted that he only knew how to make spaghetti sauce.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
michael n
November 8, 2018
John so sorry for your loss my friend and your brother.You where a great guy. I remember you jogging around our block all the time. I never knew you played hockey until one day at rent out there you where lol It was amazing to bond with you like that..Miss you always buddy wish we had more time..I hope your at a better place now playing hockey and having fun. until we all meet again rip my friend
September 14, 2016
With respect and honor, your life, your service and your sacrifice are remembered and celebrated. May God richly bless your family with peace and comfort.
John (Dusty) Wall
March 6, 2016
It is my honor to Represent John next Sunday 3-13 at 4 World Trade Center for the firefighter stair climb. I never knew him, yet he was my brother
Kevin Kimmel
September 12, 2015
To a true All - American family. I can't begin to tell you how much I admire the Vigiano family and all they have done and all they have stood for. I played hockey with John with the "bandits" for a couple of seasons. Although I knew nobody on the team John went out of his way to make me feel comfortable and welcomed on the team. John was extremely selfless and a great person all around. I feel honored to have known him. To John senior, Semper Fi my brother. God speed and may God bless you and your family all the days of your life.
How you can show support
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Joseph Kalinowski
March 1, 2015
To the Vigiano family I express my condolences in the loss of a brother firefighter.I retired from the Wilmington F.d. several years ago and now I am employeed by the University of Delaware where I work in the Transportation dept. I have the honor of assisting a young lady names Nicolette Vigiano who has suffered a foot injury by driving her to class.. I happened to be wearing a fire dept.hat and she asked if I was a firefighter.Out conversation got around to talking about her grandfather John who I had the pleasure of meeting a long time ago...I can assure the Vigiano family that your grandaughter and daughter is in safe hands she has top proritywhen I am working...I have also had the pleasure of driving to class Tom Mandella who' s father is a Deputy in Brooklyn and a young lady who's father works in Battalion 1...Sorry for the long letter just wanted the Vigiano family to know all is well with Nicolette...My name is Joe Kalinowski retired Deputy Chief Wilmington F.D. [email protected]
Brenda Cannon
September 12, 2014
September 11,2014 I participated in the Patriot 5K Walk/Run in honor of all First Responders who served and gave their lives on 911 and those who serve today. On the Bib was your name- I was blessed to run in your honor and remembrance of your life and how you gave yourself unselfishly to help others. Thank you. My thoughts and prayers go out to and will continue for your family.
Gina Bryan
February 5, 2014
Thank you for lending me your strength and courage today.
Troy Eckdahl
September 7, 2013
John,
Today I rode in a 911 commemorative ride to honor those who served and died in the attacks. I was and am honored to carry a medallion bearing your name. God bless your family.
Sincerely, Troy Eckdahl
Beth Hill
September 11, 2012
To the Vigiano family: My thoughts and prayers are with you on this day. You are a true inspiration to the FDNY and NYPD and my grandfather retired Fireman Thomas J. Mahoney.
Debbie Parker
September 11, 2011
Dear Vigiano Family,
I saw Joseph’s picture while reading about 9/11 victims. Words can never express what your family has endured in the past decade. When I read of your families loss of two sons I wanted to learn more. They were remarkable men; "Thank you" for raising two admirable & honourable sons.
My condolences!
Debbie
Elaine Panzeter
September 10, 2011
My prayers are with your family. You have made the greatest sacrifice to kep us free and to save others. I will never forget your sacrifice.
Elaine
Rebeca Andarias
September 10, 2011
To the Vigiano family: my thoughts and prayers go out to you and will do especially tomorrow. I saw the story of the two Vigiano brothers in CNN and it brought tears to my eyes when I saw his dad talking about his sons, hands in hands with his wife.
Love from Italy,
Mike Sciales
September 10, 2011
I am writing from Kuwait and your friends here still remember the time you came to visit and have never forgotten the sacrifice your sons made so other might live. Their heroism will never be forgotten by the people here. God Bless them and all the others lost on that terrible day.
Tara Lichioveri
March 6, 2011
Almost ten years have passed and I remember that dreaded day like it was yesterday. Our families have been torn apart with grief. Thank you for always watching over me, especially when we were kids. Both you and Joey are angels on my shoulders.
JORDAN H
January 8, 2011
JOHN
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SACRFICE ON 9/11. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT SEPT. 11TH AND WHAT IT MEANT TI OUR COUNTRY. MANY PEOPLE HAVE MOVED ON BUT I HAVE NEVER FORGOTTEN. I PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY EVERY SINGLE DAY. YOUR MEMORY WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART. THANK YOU FOR GIVING YOUR LIFE HELPING TO SAVE OTHERS.
Niki Davis
September 11, 2010
I still remember. You will not be forgotten.
Josie Barnes
September 18, 2009
To the family Of Joseph & John:
My name is Josie Barnes. Recently my class has been learning more about your two sons.
They seem to be really caring and brave men. They would have been really cool to meet.
My prayers will always be with your family. May god bless you in this time of greif. xoxo.
Ali Seamans
September 18, 2009
To family and friends,
Our class has been talking about 9/11/01. My prayers shall be with you. You are honored by keeping the names of John and Joseph Vigiano alive. May peace be with you through these years. Thanks. xoxo
Tom Tabaczynski
December 2, 2008
Mr. Vigiano and Family, Thinking of you as John's birthday approaches. I recently discovered the Find a Grave website, where I found a picture of his stone. That's how I know that he would have turned 44 on December 8. By Googling your name, I recently discovered two websites that contain your photo and recordings of you reminiscing about John and Joe. One is the New York Times tribute for the first anniversary of 9/11 and the other is a site of oral histories. Also, on You Tube, I found the Connie Chung program on which you appeared. As always, my heartfelt thanks for so candidly sharing your memories--and for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care."
Tom Tabaczynski
September 22, 2008
Mr. Vigiano and Family, I wrote to you earlier this month c/o Constantino Brumidi Lodge. Then I found and signed Joe's Guest Book. I just found John's Guest Book today. Last March I wrote to you, and you were kind enough to reply. As always, my heartfelt thanks for sharing your memories and photos-- and for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care."
Mark Bloom
September 14, 2008
7 years since you've gone and the pain of it all remains.
John and Joseph, rest in peace my friends. And strength to your family, Bless them all.
Mark Bloom
Colette Hill
September 13, 2008
John & Jan,
XXOO
Our family loves you and is proud of you. I talked about the boys in class and both of you.I shared some of what you've been doing since 9/11/01 to make this world a better place. You are all heroes. I still proudly wear my silver bracelet.
Kathleen Hill
September 11, 2008
Vigiano Family-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all today, Sept. 11, 2008. Although I never knew John and Joe, meeting their father left a lasting impression on me as he stood strong, and comforted the men in pain around him. I'll never forget how he made a point to speak personally to each fireman that had come to see him. I don't know what he said to each, but it was obvious that he was doing the reassuring. God bless you family and may He always protect you.
Love from Kathleen Hill - Jeanne's daughter, from Catalina Island. My brother is married to your cousin Gail's daughter.
Mike Winston
September 11, 2007
To Mr.& Mrs.V as I knew you as. My deepest sorrow is shared with you day after day as I remember the wounderful Son's you raised into fine Men. I have a collection of Memorial tattoos that I have been getting to Honor Joey & John on my right leg between my knee and ankle. I would love to share some pictures of them with you once I get some good ones made. I will never forget them, and you both will always be in my prayers. I think about times we all shared growing up together in the Boy Scouts and it makes me smile. Remembering the songs we used to sing about John as we marched to the mess hall. We had to joke with him he was our SPL. I can remember finding Joey's High School ring in a wooded lot and returning it back to him as he begged my not to tell you( Mr.& Mrs.V.) were i found it. It's little things like that ,that keep they're spirits alive. I hope I made you smile by sharing some of my memories. May God Bless You Both! I will forever treasure the time and memories I had and have of them.
Sincerely,
Michael T. Winston
(formally of Deer Park)
kayla *****
September 11, 2007
r.i.p you are missed
courtney rappa
September 11, 2007
rest in peace
September 8, 2007
Thinking of you John.
God Bless you and your family.
Nancy Nee
sister of FF George Cain..ladder 7
P Tabbernor
April 11, 2007
In memory....
Haley Jones
February 16, 2007
To the Vigiano family,
I am reminded daily by your bravery with the silver band that I wear wrapped on my wrist. It never comes off and it helps inspire me to be as brave as you.
God Bless,
Steven Doran
October 3, 2006
My school is working on PowerPoint presentations of fallen fire fighters of 9/11. I had the privilege to make one dedicated to John T. Vigiano. After reading the obituary I've seen the great man John was. I would like to thank him for saving lifes. The Vigiano family will be in my prayers.
Sincerly,
Steven Doran
Mark Bloom
June 4, 2006
To the Vigiano Family,
I went to High School with John, the good times we had on the Lacrosse team or just hanging out are always in my memory. Not a day goes by where I don't pass by John or Joseph's memorial avenues and I think of how much I miss them. I can't imagine the pain Maria or their parents have felt. May they rest in peace until we meet again.
Mark J. Bloom
Linda Skaarup
September 11, 2004
I worked for the Office of Administrative Hearings in Albany, and am a friend of Sebastian's. My prayers are with you on this day, and although I am sure that the pain will never totally disappear, hopefully it will get easier as time passes, and you look into the faces of your grandchildren.
Peggy Campbell
August 24, 2003
Dearest Vigiano Family ...
Today I have read that John & Joe's father made a trip to encourage the troops in Iraq.
I am just overcome at the generosity of soul to have done that. But, then, I suppose it is indicative of a family that would nurture sons who would become heroes as well.
To all of you ... I simply want to say there isn't a time a firetruck passes that I am not filled with tears at the contemplation of what men like John & Joe did on 9/11.
Their example of sacrifice -- and your example in undertaking hardship to reach out to others a world away from home -- continues to empower me with commitment to aspire to selflessness, in large and small measure.
God bless you all and each one. You are in my prayers.
Theresa Brown
May 28, 2003
Maria,
You might not remember me, but my son Danny went to pre-school with your daughter Nicolette-he loved her! They even talked about getting married--at 4/5 years old! When Mrs. Massi told me about your losses, my heart broke for you. I remember being at the class picnic at Belmont Park earlier that year and thinking to myself how great it was to see a dad show up (your husband) and what a nice, loving family you had.
I passed by the memorial of the streets for John (by Grand Blvd.) and Joseph today and did not want to let another day go without telling you that I think of you and your girls often and you and your entire family are still in our prayers. God Bless you all.
Theresa Brown
Tommie E.
November 29, 2002
Johnny Vig....
I'm sure your the captian of God's hockey team now!!!
We all miss you....
May you rest in peace....
I am proud to call you my friend.....
John Moffitt
September 30, 2002
I rode my motorcycle (along with over 7,200 other motorcycles) in the 9/11 Partiot Day Parade to honor those lost on 9/11. I had the honor of wearing a wristband with John's name and riding in memory of John. This took on special significance to me since my father was a full-time firefighter in New York, and my son is a full-time firefighter in Prescott. It is just too bad that so many good lives were lost in order to bring the spirit of patriotism which is so pervasive in our Country now. My love, prayers and sympathy go to the Vigiano family, and to the families of all of the brave firefighters, police and EMS personnel who lost their lives in service of their city and country. These -- and the public safety personnel throughout the Country who put their lives on the line every day -- are the true unsung heroes of this Country, and should be honored not just on 9/11, but every day.
Maureen (Knight)
September 13, 2002
Dear Vigiano Family: I was a classmate of John's in high school i remember him vividly because he was always smiling and i could tell he had a gentle spirit. I first heard of his passing on the Oprah show when i saw his wife speak to her about the tragedy. My heart goes out to you and if you need anything, PLEASE email me.
As God will keep you close to Him, i will do the same in spirit and prayer.
God Bless the Vigiano family.
DOLORES Q
September 12, 2002
I KNEW JOHN FOR JUST A SHORT WHILE,I HAVE WRITTEN IN THIS TRIBUTE ONCE BEFORE,AND I FIND MYSELF LOGGIN ON TO THIS TRIBUTE ALL THE TIME,HE TRULY WAS A GREAT PERSON, AND NOT ONLY THAT A GREAT FATHER AND HUSBAND.
MARIA, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTERS.I THINK ABOUT YOU,THE GIRLS AND HIS PARENTS ALL THE TIME.
I REALLY TURLY FEEL SO PRIVILEGED TO HAVE KNOWN JOHN MAY GOD BE WITH HIM FOR ETERNITY.
GOD BLESS YOU JOHN VIGIANO II
DOLORES
Jozette Russo
September 12, 2002
Dear Vigiano Family:
I saw you and your wife on television a little while after 9/11 and my heart broke for you. I will not even attempt to tell you that I know how you feel, because I can only imagine, and that thought is unbearable to me.
I am a mother of two young boys, a 5 year old and a 1 year old (he was born 12 days before this horrible tragedy), and as a mother of two boys I can't help but relate to you even though my children are younger. I only hope my boys grow up as close and as loving towards each other and you raised your sons to be. My five year old tells me he wants to be a policeman when he grows up, this warms my heart but at the same time sends a chill up my spine considering the way the world is today. I pray that God watches over your family as I know he is watching over your boys. No one should have to go through the heartache that you have experienced. I wish you all of God's blessings from now on and know that you are in people's thoughts and prayers. You are definely in mine, and will never be forgotten.
Jozette Russo
[email protected]
sammy zanchelli
September 12, 2002
john may you rest in peace you will never be forgotton
Deborah Rankin-Moore
September 12, 2002
To the parents of John and Joseph Vigiano:
I cannot begin to imagine the pain that you must feel, knowing that your wonderful sons are no longer with you. I pray for peace in your lives.
I hope that knowing others still care and remember the supreme sacrifice made by all of the firefighters and police officers will ease the burdens that you are bearing.
You are in my daily prayers. God bless you and keep you in His care.
David Bevers
September 12, 2002
I received a white wooden cross with John's name on it at a candle light vigil for all the victims of the 9/11 tragedy. I looked for one with a firefighter's name on it as I, too, am a firefighter. I never had the chance to meet John, but I know he was a great guy. I will continue to think and pray for him. I am also carrying his name inside my fire helmet, so that from this day forward I will carry on the traditions of the fire service and the job we do in his honor.
God Bless John, his brother Joe, and all of the Vigiano family.
Paulette Bryce
September 12, 2002
My Prayer For Your Family
We were indelibly scarred by this act of terror
Our lives forever linked by this unspeakable horrow
Yet, if we believe in the promise of a better tomorrow
We shall get through this with a prayer amidst all this sorrow.
9/11/02
Joyce Montalbano
September 11, 2002
Dear Jan:
It's been so long since we worked together. Not a day goes by that I haven't said a prayer for you and your family. You and John have been through so much. Your strength and faith are a true inspiration for all of us.
May we all work together to find peace in a world that will never again see such destruction and suffering.
With hope and love,
Joyce Montalbano
(soon-to-be resident in Deer Park)
September 10, 2002
we will never forget sept.11th.Your family will always be in my prayers.
Mary Campbell
September 10, 2002
To the Vigiano Family,
My name is Mary, I live in NJ and I just saw your father on TV, on the Connie Chung CNN Special on 9-11. My heart just broke as your father was talking about yourself and your brother and seeing both your children and your brothers.
We will never forget 9-11-01.
God Bless.
Love,
Mary Campbell
Joseph Paolillo
July 19, 2002
Dear Vigiano family,
We have never met, so let me introduce myself. My name is Joseph Paolillo, a NYC Detective. My older brother is John Paolillo,a NYC Fire Dept Chief. I lost my brother in the north tower on 09/11/01. When I read the description of your sons and their names, I was shocked. John and Joe,fireman and cop. John was the serious one and I am the joker. I just wanted to say how sorry I am and know what you are going through. May we find peace one day with our lost loved ones. God bless.
Lydia Axelrod
July 17, 2002
Dear Vigiano Family,
I don'tknow if you remember me Jan; but in 1976, we all helped to put Deer Park Schools on the map..You were the president of the PTO and I was Assistant Superintendent. I remembered you were honored as outstanding citizen and I helped you with Public Speaking..I went on to Pa. and became a school superintendent and now we're retired in Fl..Grandparents and happy..I have been sharing your grief since I saw John on Nightline..I remember the boys with great affection..You have all my prayers and admiration and I hope you keep the faith and enjoy your wonderful grandchildren..God Bless.
Dr.Lydia Axelrod
([email protected])
Roseann Fornito
June 6, 2002
To the Vigiano Family, words can not express how sorry we are for your loss of both your sons. From my family to yours and a mother of 2 small sons, I only hope my children grow up to be as close friends, brave and caring as both of your sons were. So far, they are best friends. You must be so proud of them for risking their lives to save so many, such heroes do not come along very often but we saw that New York's Bravest and New York's Finest truly are heroes and for that I want to say thank you.
Angie Campbell
May 31, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Kellie Steele
May 30, 2002
Thank you
Michael Iezzi
May 21, 2002
Father we entrust our brother John to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
Michael Licitra
May 19, 2002
To the Vigiano Family -
I am sorry that I will be leaving on overseas travel in a few hours and will not be able to attend John's memorial service.
I had the privilige to know John and Joseph during their Scouting years and both were men of character. They knew what it meant to render service to one's neighbor and community. They are true and courageous American heroes.
Over the course of the past six months I have kept John & Joseph and your family in my thoughts and prayers, and I will keep their memory and the sacrifice your family made on 9/11 in my mind and heart forever.
May God watch over your family with kindness and healing.
Mike Licitra
Deer Park, New York
Gayle Murray
April 7, 2002
I too ordered a wrist band, but from a group called Bearing Anothers Name Daily (B.A.N.D.), and I received John's name at random. In my appreciation for what John and others like him sacraficed, I wear it and pray for John, and his survivors daily. Thank you John for your bravery, courage and strenghth of character which directed you to serve others and put your life on the line for total strangers. You were an angel on earth.....now in heaven! thanks.
Jamie S
March 20, 2002
Althogh I did not know anyone that perished on September 11th, I still felt extreme pain and loss for the famililes who did know someone who died. About 3 months ago I purchased a bracelet from American Heros Fund. The name printed on the bracelet was that of John T. Vigiano II. On the inside it says that he is an American Hero- and I believe that he truly was. Whoever had the gift of knowing this man, I believe, is truly blessed. Thank You for saving so many lives John.
DOLORES Q
March 11, 2002
JOHN IVE ONLY KNOWN YOU FOR ABOUT 4 YAERS, BUT I FELT LIKE I KNEW YU FOREVER .WE USE TO TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING AND ANY THING WHILE I WAS CUTTING YOUR HAIR,YOU USE TO TALK ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTERS AND WIFE WITH SUCH PRIDE.AND YOU USE TO TELL ME HOW MUCH YOU LOVED BEING A FIREMEN.GOD HAD DIFFERNT PLANS FOR YOU YOU AND YOUR BROTHER. HE IS YOUR LEADER NOW,YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Denise Theriault
March 11, 2002
I am writing, to express my deepest sympathies, on this, the 6th month anniversary of September 11. Though I did not know anyone personally, that lost their lives that day, all of them along with their families,
are remembered in my nightly prayers. I came to this page, to try and find something about John Vigiano. In rememberance of John, I am wearing a bracelet, that I ordered from the Amercian Heroes, that sent me a bracelet with Johns name on it. There was a card inserted that in part reads "The name on this bracelet belongs to a true American hero" I wear this bracelet in memory of John, with pride. My
love and prayers go out to Johns family. With this site, I now have a face of this American hero. May God keep John, his brother Joey and all the other heroes of September 11,close to his heart, as I am sure his family and friends will. I know I will.
February 21, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL HERO JOHN T.VIGIANO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01.MAY JESUS AND ST. JOHN AMD JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Patty Clemens-Marck
February 2, 2002
Dear John,
I always thought you were a wonderful guy. I am so happy to have known you when we were in school. I really wished that we could have stayed in touch over the years, but I know that I can still call you a friend. Forever in my heart my friend.
Patty
Judy C
January 6, 2002
Dear John,
We all knew that it takes a brave, caring person to become a firefighter and now in the wake of September 11, we are all painfully aware that it also takes a hero to put his life on the line to save others he doesn't even know.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the loved ones you left behind.
May you rest in peace with God in Heaven because I believe that is where heroes go when they leave this earth to become Angels.
I also believe every Angel has a special star that is all their own and in the darkest of night I look toward the Heavens and wonder which star is yours!
I never had the pleasure to meet you, but I wanted to express my sympathy to you and to the loved ones, friends, and fellow firefighters who lost their lives and those who survived.
God Bless you all!
Teresa Jahn
December 7, 2001
What a wonderful caring heart John must have had to dedicate his life to helping others. We are so sorry for you loss. Our hearts are so shattered along with yours.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Showing 1 - 62 of 62 results
Make a Donation
in John Vigiano's name
How to support John's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor John Vigiano's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
Sponsored