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Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 29, 2001.

Robert L. Scandole, 36, of Pelham Manor, New York, a vice president with Cantor Fitzgerald.

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29 Entries

September 11, 2021

In memory of Rob on the 20th anniversary

Thomsine Aberle

June 2, 2021

My nephew Rob was the sweetest person in the world. He loved his family beyond measure. He was taken from us way too soon. Pray for him.

The Kindred Family

November 1, 2018

Sending our continued deep sympathy to your family. Everyday may God give you the help needed to cope. Robert continues to be missed. May these acts of violence finally be ended.

Bjorne Teeuw

May 4, 2016

Dear family of Robert.

I went over to new york to get married. I live in Holland (europe) and visited the memorial. There was a flower on a name and I took a picture. Now, back home, i get emotional (again). I fell in love with the city and the more i get to know it, the more I understand the impact of the attack. It's not just a name, these are all people. Therefore i decided to google Robert, and came across this site.
I Just want to let you know that even an unknown tourist from the Netherlands is still thinking and remembering your Robert.
best,

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Susan Cusner

September 11, 2012

Thinking of your family.

Veronica Cassidy

September 11, 2009

Never forgotten!

Doug Abraham

February 9, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

samantha scandole

August 26, 2008

dear uncle rob
i miss you so much and i know that you are watching over us all form heaven right now so i know how pround you must be of how good aunt sheila emma and katie are doing. we all miss you so much uncle rob and we all love you,
love always
sam scandole

Doug Abraham

February 9, 2008

Happy Birthday!!!

kristine

May 9, 2007

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

March 2, 2007

In memory....

John Sanchez

December 13, 2005

Dear Rob, We met in high school and ran cross country track together one year, you were good and stuck with it. We met again several years later at Shea when the Mets were good in the mid 80's. We talked breifly and you seemed to have a plan, as usual. You were a funny guy, in a quiet way. I hope that those who knew you better than I ever got the chance to will share that some day with your children. See you on the other side........

Sister Martha Hoyle

November 4, 2003

I met you once many years ago through your cousins, your grandfather and Aunt Mary. They were so proud of you and loved you. you are in the toughts and prays along with your family even as time passes. God bless and be with you.

Jean Jacobsen

September 11, 2003

I've never met you, but I know you, through my very dear friend, your cousin Cathy. You sound like a wonderful man with a great spirit, you will always be remembered.

Dawn Abbaticchio

March 28, 2003

I think of Rob, Sheila and the girls every day. He still makes the world a better place even though he is not physically here. I express my love, out loud, to my family more often because of him, I think we all try to.

Susan Majewski

November 18, 2002

Rob was the most wonderful people on Wall Street along with being a devoted husband and father. I will greatly miss him. My heart goes out to his family. Our great loss is heavens gain. I too wear his name on my memory bracelet every day.

Ken Dietrich

October 23, 2002

It was my great pleasure and honor to wear Roberts name band as a tribute to him and his family during the 9-11-02 memorial motorcycle ride. I pray for his grieving family and would be proud to have him as an honorary member of my family. We are all brothers and his bracelet hangs in my office as a reminder of this tragic and sensless loss.

Anita & John Trainor

September 20, 2002

At this time of the first anniversary of Robert's tragic and senseless loss, we again want to express our deepest sorrow and condolences to his wife, Sheila, their children and the entire family. May God Bless Robert and all of you.

Andrea Hopkins

September 18, 2002

I'm so sorry for the family's loss of Robert Scandole. I wore his name last week during the 9/11 Vigil at my church. He is and will be in my prayers. May God watch over and bless you all, and may the knowledge that he is safe in God's arms gradually bring you peace.

Rob McLaren

September 17, 2002

I knew Rob from spending Summers at Breezy Point. He was one of the nicest guys you would ever want to meet.I will never forget his broad smile or his pleasant Disposition.My sincerest sympathies go to his entire family and especially to his brother Chris, who I used to see thru work quite often but haven't since I 've been tranferred to Manhattan. One Memory I will always have of Rob is how he lent me $5 on Flatbush ave. while riding my bike to Brooklyn from Breezy when I was about 16 or 17. I had left my house in a hurry and forgot to bring some money.I must have run into Rob near Marine Park golf course and stopped to say hello. At that point I was ready to pass out from thirst, and explained to him my lack of funds. Rob was more than happy to lend me the $5 and would never let me pay him back whenever I saw him again in Breezy. It became a little joke with us, until the best I could do was buy him a beer at the Sugar Bowl quite a few years later.Breezy Point will never be the same without people like Rob, Vinny Kane, Pat Sullivan, Matt Burke and countless others who will never be forgotten in our hearts and Prayers, May they rest in Peace....

Dawn Abbaticchio

September 15, 2002

There is a huge void in the family without Rob - I miss him at every family gathering. We grew up with big Christmas Eves and Thankgsgivings together. I love and respect Rob and will miss him forever. He is on my mind every day, sometimes I feel like I'm pulling his spirit away from Sheila and the girls by thinking about him and talking to him - but then I remember that Rob's spirit and heart are big enough for everyone, always have been. Sheila, the girls, Chris Annmarie and the kids and of course my Aunt Peg and Uncle Bobby are in my thoughts and prayers every day.

Angie Campbell

May 14, 2002

May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind. May you rest in peace forever more.

April 22, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN...ROBERT L.SCANDOLE AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Thomasine Aberle

April 19, 2002

My sweet nephew,

You were a joy to all of us. Your good nature and your natural ability to make people laugh will always be remembered. We will keep your memory alive by always talking about you, telling stories about you and loving you.

Thomasine

Patrice Riordan McCann

April 17, 2002

I was fortunate enough to know Rob through his sister in law, Maura. Rob was always such a friendly guy. He would pass by my house in Breezy Point - on a bike or pulling a wagon & he always waved & yelled out a greeting.

Sheila, Emma & Katie are in my thoughts & prayers often! God bless!

Kate Walsh

April 12, 2002

Dear Sheila, You are never out of my thoughts and prayers all these days since 9-11.

Our memories of the Woodside families are treasures forever and hopefully I'll be up to see you soon. Love Sully.

alex castino

January 3, 2002

Dear Bob sr and family...my deepest

sympathy and may god love him...may

he rest in peace

alex castino

maggie mcgovern

January 1, 2002

i knew rob in high school and college. He always made me laugh. I can never erase his great smile. God Bless him and his family.

Teresa Jahn

December 13, 2001

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL