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Steve Huczko Obituary
Stephen Huczko Jr. was never one to do anything halfway. For three years, he went back to college to earn a nursing degree while working at night as a police officer for the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey. He cooked dinner for his family and didn't hesitate if that meant preparing a holiday meal for as many as 25. An avid runner, he finished the New York City Marathon in 2000.
"Steve always had bigger vision than most people," said Kevin Byrne, his brother-in-law.
And he always tried to include his four children, according to his wife, Kathleen Huczko. "Everything he did was for the kids, with the kids," she said. For two years, he encouraged his three oldest to participate with him in a local triathlon — he swam with Kaitlyn, now 17; biked with Liam, 14; and ran with Cullen, 7. When the family went hiking two summers ago, he carried the youngest, Aidan, 5.
Officer Huczko, 44, of Hampton, N.J., was at the Port Authority's Jersey City headquarters on the morning of Sept. 11. He was among those who rushed to help with the rescue effort. Officer Huczko's plan was to retire in five years and start a second career as a nurse. "He could never sit still," Mrs. Huczko said. "It was the idea of continuing to help people."
Officer Huczko is buried in a cemetery near Ken Lockwood Gorge, an area in Hunterdon County, N.J., where he used to like to jog, especially with his children.
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Alex
October 5, 2019
Hey Stephen,
I am terribly sorry you died while on duty for the Port Authority on Sept 11th. Your efforts to save many lives that day shall not go unnoticed. Hope we meet in heaven, sir.
Tamar Daniels
June 17, 2019
To the Family of Steve Huczko,
I offer my heartfelt condolences to your family. May the God of all comfort continue to supply your individual peace.
A Freind
September 11, 2018
You and your family our still in our thoughts and prayers
Scott Huczko
September 10, 2018
Sadly missed by your cousin Scott.
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A Friend
September 9, 2016
We still think of you and your family every year. You came to my sons preschool and twirled them around. I remember the day picking my son up at creative basic preschool asking if any parent was missing. And the school rallied around your family and your youngest son.
Thank you for the joy you brought my son.
Our thoughts are with your family.
Sandra
April 25, 2011
It "is" so sad .. so many wonderful and helpful people suffered consequences, but we'll NEVER forget, our children will NEVER forget. Steve and family you're in our lives forever .. Thank you!
Kathy Schlotterbeck
October 30, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Marsha Hutchinson
October 29, 2007
In September I sponsored a flag in the Healing Field at Floyd Bennet Field in Brooklyn, NY. I asked to receive my flag and it came in the mail today. What I did not realize was that each flag was specifically dedicated to a person that lost their life on September 11. The green ribbon that came with my flag was named for Steve Huczko. I did not know him, but as I look through the records of his name and accounts of his life, I am honored and quite touched to learn of his heroism. May God bless and watch over the Huczko family. There is now one more person in this world that will never forget him.
P Tabbernor
November 12, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Johanna DuBord
July 26, 2005
Dearest Mrs. Huczko, family, & friends,
I've been wanting to write from the start & express my deepest emoitions to you all. I never met Steve, but I wear his M.I.A. bracelet everyday. So, everyday I think of you & your family & it breaks my heart. But, I'm also very proud to be wearing the name of a HERO. God bless to you & yours.
Charles F. Billings Jr.
September 10, 2002
God bless you Stevie and your family.
Fran Chadwick
July 21, 2002
Through tears of sadness, I have read so many of the Portraits of Grief in the New York Times and also the larger picture that appeared each day on that page. The one I found most touching to me was the one of your youngest son and oldest daughter at the tree lighting ceremony at Rockerfellar Center. I cut that picture out and have it on my refrigerator. I look at it every day and though I will never forget that horrible day and the men and women like you who gave their lives so unselfishly, I keep that picture there as a constant reminder of all the children who lost a parent on that day.
May God take good care of you till we all meet again. God Bless you.
Doug Pollina
April 19, 2002
To the family of Steve Huczko,
I just want you to know that the heroism and dedication of Steve Huczko will not go unforgotten. I proudly wear a memorial bracelet bearing his name. His service and his sacrifice inspire me each and every day. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your fellow Americans will never forget.
mary ann bluszcz bluszcz
February 27, 2002
Dear Mrs Huczko & family,
I knew Steve thru a cousin from the
PAPD and a very good friend Sgt.Jeff
Baumbach. On the few occasions that
we had together many years ago we
did have lots of fun you were some-
one special with your sense of humor
and boy could we drink. Remember when we went to see Andrew Dice Clay
I don't think we ever stopped laugh-
ing all the way home. I never did
find out what was under your kilt at
Mike Warnocks Dad's party but you
can't blame me for trying. Linda W.
and I were deeply hurt and heart
broken to find out you just happened
to be there on that awful day. You
would be happy to know that Jeff and
I got in touch with each other after
all these years and speak of you all
the time as does Linda and I. Mostly
we laugh through our tears. May you
rest in peace. I also believe that
there has to be a bar up there and
your are having a beer or two or
three while you write out the
summons for the illegally parked
cars with a cig. hanging from your
mouth. You will be missed by a world
who THANKS YOU FOR GIVING YOUR LIFE
FOR ALL OF US.
Matthew Fay
February 20, 2002
STEVE WAS A TRUE HERO AS WITH ALL OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS WHO PERISHED ON 09-11-01. WHEN I HEARD THROUGH MY FAMILY THAT STEVE WAS AMONG THE MISSING I FELT GREAT SORROW. BUT AT THE SAME TIME I FELT AN OVERWHELMING SENCE OF PRIDE TO KNOW THAT STEVE DIED DOING THE JOB HE LOVED AND PUTTING OTHER PEOPLES LIVES BEFORE HIS. I AM EXTREMELY PROUD TO SAY STEVE WAS MY COUSIN. STEVE WILL BE MISSED GREATLY. WE LOVE YOU STEVE.
February 4, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL HERO STEVE HUCZKO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01.GOD BLESS ALL THE PORT AUTHORITY POLICE ...MAY JESUS AND ST.STEVEN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Teresa Jahn
December 28, 2001
We thank Steve for dedicating his life to protecting others as a police officer. Such a dedication comes with a warm and caring heart. May Steve's courage, life and love live on through those who love him. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Steve. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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