Mark Shulman

Mark Shulman

Mark Shulman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 29, 2001.
No Average Joe
Mark Shulman was a "kind of quiet guy who loved sports," said his wife, Lori, suggesting the personality profile of an average Joe. But there was more.

He was, undeniably, a sports fan, attending Giants and Rangers games as often as possible, or taking them in on television at home in Old Bridge, N.J. But overriding all was a dedication to his daughters, Jamie, 13, and Melissa, 17, in whom he instilled a zest for accomplishment.

Mr. Shulman was the coach of Jamie's soccer team, the Old Bridge Road Runners, spending weekends traveling to games across central New Jersey. He had been looking forward to Jamie's bat mitzvah, which was celebrated on Nov. 17, a day Mrs. Shulman recalls as "bittersweet."

He was also working closely with Melissa, a high school senior, on college applications. His advice was "go for the best," Mrs. Shulman said, adding that "he would have been so proud" when news came this month of Melissa's early admission to Princeton.

A 47-year-old mechanical engineer, Mr. Shulman worked as a fire protection specialist for Marsh & McClennan on the 100th floor of the World Trade Center.

"He did evacuation plans for clients," Mr. Shulman said. "If anybody knew how to get out, he would have been the one."


Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 24, 2001.


Mark Shulman, 47, loved by all he knew By day, Mark Shulman was a disaster inspector, fire prevention and risk consultant for Marsh & McLennan in New York. His nights and weekends were spent with his family.

He organized a baseball team for the Knights of Pythias in Old Bridge. He coached the Roadrunners girls soccer team there.

For the past 12 years, he took his wife Lori and daughters Melissa, 17, and Jamie, 12, to Disney World in Florida.

"He loved his family; he loved Disney World," said his mother, Evelyn Shulman of Toms River.

On Tuesday, he was memorialized at a service at Temple Shaari Emeth in Manalapan. Mr. Shulman, 47, has not been seen since the World Trade Center was destroyed by terrorists Sept. 11. He worked on the 100th floor of Tower One.

"He was in the building when it was hit," his mother said.

Though Mr. Shulman loved his job, it wasn't his first priority, Evelyn Shulman said.

"His family always came first," said his mother. "He did everything for his family. I lost a treasure."

Shulman said her son loved everybody, a trait that was noticed by others.

"There were 800 people at the memorial service, and they gave him a tribute I will never forget. Everybody loved him," she said.

Mr. Shulman received an engineering degree from Pratt Institute in New York and worked uptown before being transferred to the World Trade Center 17 years ago.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, Mr. Shulman and his wife moved to Old Bridge 17 years ago.

Besides his wife and daughters, Mr. Shulman is survived by his parents Ira and Evelyn Shulman of Toms River; a brother, Larry of Port Jefferson, N.Y.; and nieces, nephews and other relatives.

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September 3, 2019

Jenn Reiss posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2013

Theresa Friedman-Cashion posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2011

Jeff Melo posted to the memorial.

Jenn Reiss

September 3, 2019

I did not know Mark personally, but know the hardship his family must have gone through dealing with 9/11. I lost a brother that day, and when I first met my husband 4 years ago and told him about my brother, he mentioned that he attended a memorial service in his home town and was given a card with Mark's name and photo on it. YEARS later, he still had it hung up in his bedroom at his parents house - not realizing years later that he would end up marrying someone who lost a loved one. Every time we go to the memorial in NYC, we always stop to pay our respects to Mark! Know his memory lives on, even through complete strangers!

Theresa Friedman-Cashion

September 11, 2013

Although I didn't know Mark personally, I knew his wife and daughter, Lori and Melissa, through Girl Scouts! I have moved to West Virginia but will always pray for the Shulman family to have peace!!!

Jeff Melo

September 12, 2011

I worked with Mark for many years while Mark assisted us at ITT to make the working environment and our facilities as safe as they could be. He really was a great guy and I enjoyed all the time I was able to spend with Mark.

Jeff Melo

September 12, 2011

I worked with Mark as he visited our ITT sites often and we worked together to make the facilities safer. My thoughts are with the Shulman family, Mark was a great guy.

Alice Krumenaker

September 11, 2011

My thoughts and prayers to the Shulman family. We were connected through the OBHS marching band and I remember how incredibly sad we felt that a member of our band "family" was taken so tragically from us on that dreadful day. Mark, may you rest in peace.

Gail Kubik

September 11, 2011

Remembering your family on this saddest of days. God hold you in his arms until the great reunion.

Sandi Edelson

September 11, 2007

You may not remember me, but I was one of your neighbors in Whispering Pines. We now live in Atlanta but I remember your family. Plese accept my sincere continued condolence for your tragic loss.

kristine

June 9, 2007

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

March 10, 2007

In memory....

Tom Wellen

September 11, 2003

Mark lifted me and provided endless encouragement when I worked with him at Marsh on property accounts.

What a class act. I have never seen his face or picture, but his voice with the NY accent is still with me. I sure miss him.

Rabbi Phil Schechter

September 11, 2003

May Mark always be remembered for blessing!

Joseph Kapsch

September 12, 2002

Mark, May you rest in peace. I ran in your honor in a recent Corporate Challenge Run 5k in Orlando, Florida. My prayers are with you and your family each and every day. May God Bless You.

Allyson Goldfinger

September 12, 2002

Dear Lori and Family,

My name is Allyson Goldfinger. I am a 15-year-old sophomore. Yestarday, September 11, 2002, my school did something special in memory of 9-11. Every sudent recieved a necklace with a victims name on it. I was honored to wear Marks name for the enitre day around my neck. My family and I send our condolences to you and your family.



-Allyson Goldfinger

Sue Powe

September 12, 2002

I first met Mark at a conference for the company I work for. He came hopping in with a broken league to give his presentation. I didn't know him before that day. All I remember is that big smile, even though I knew his leg was killing him, yet he still gave his talk about corporate risk assessment.



We joked with him about his giving a speech about accident prevention with a broken leg.



Mark,

You are with us everyday, in the showers from heaven and in the rays of sunshine that warms our face.



You will never be forgotten.

Sue Powe

Ken Schiffman

July 23, 2002

I just received the news of Mark's death in the Pratt Institute Alumni booklet. We attended Pratt Institue together for Mechanical Engineering and graduated the same year. I will remember him as being quiet, intelligent, and a hard worker when he needed to be. He worked on his assignments and projects solo and was one of the few Mechanical Engineering students who appeared to have a need for an Engineering degree and also a need to have a life outside of his studies. These were good traits hopefully passed on to his children.

Keith Wilson

July 10, 2002

I barely knew Mark from one visit to our facility and a 4-hour meeting. But, I quickly picked up on his helping personality. He quickly began interpreting things for us with our perspective in mind. Meeting him was memorable because of this - Mark was genuinely helpful in a very humble way.

Angie Campbell

May 16, 2002

May God Bless you and watch over the ones that you left behind. Rest in peace .......... forever more.

April 29, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN...MARK SHULMAN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...MAY JESUS AND ST.MARK GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN....AMEN

Terry Felt

March 23, 2002

Dear Lori: I regret never having met you personally, but Mark & I were good friends for over five years that started out as business acquaintances when I was Risk Manager for Bundy Corporation ( a division of TI of England). Mark & I traveled together quite a bit while visiting numerous company locations. Mark often spoke lovingly of you and your children. The timeframe was about 1988 - 1993.I thoroughly enjoyed participating in the NFL football pools.We would spend hours talking sports. I considered it a privilege to have known Mark and send you my sincerest and deepest sympathy.

Nancy Shanley

March 12, 2002

Dear Mark,

I, too, did not know you personally, but have known Melissa and Laurie since kindergarten. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. From all the people who spoke at the memorial service, I came away with a personal feeling of loss that I had never known this wonderful man. What fun he was! I hope that your family and friends find peace. May Melissa and Jamie have beautiful memories of you always, and of course Laurie.

Lynn Lewis

March 11, 2002

Mark, I didnt know you well, but I find myself thinking of you often. You and your family are always included in my prayers as Ive know Melissa since Kindergarten.

Chris

January 22, 2002

I thought about you today Mark. Rest in peace.

Lillian Rosenzweig

January 16, 2002

We knew Mark as a very young boy of about 6 years old when we first met him.he was so very cute. He was my youngest son's friend and was frequently in our house. We grieve for him and his family who we knew very well.

Teresa Jahn

December 12, 2001

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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