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Ann Nelson Obituary
She was a small-town girl with her sights set on the world. She grew up in Stanley, N.D., population 1,000, but eventually traveled to China, studied in England and hiked on her own around Peru. Ann N. Nelson loved grand plans and had little patience for details — a quality that sometimes left hungry dinner guests in the living room while she was still reading recipes off the back of boxes in the kitchen.
"Life's purpose is not to find a fun party, it is to make one," was the quote Ms. Nelson had selected for the yearbook her senior year at Carleton College.
Exuberant. Spontaneous. Ambitious. Determined. Introspective. Passionate. Irreverent. Brilliant. That is how friends and family remember Ms. Nelson, a 30-year-old bond trader at Cantor Fitzgerald. She had worked at the firm less than nine months, after having worked five years at an investment firm in Chicago.
"She was my dear little friend," said her mother, Jenette Nelson.
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Sharon Hume
September 15, 2023
The tributes to you Ann each year are so wonderful and know that you were loved by many and especially your Mother!
Ann with the rest of the Cantor gang at Steve Colaio's ( Behind Her) Surprise Bday Party <br />March 28, 2000 She was the life of the party that evening....
Greg Rellis
September 13, 2023
Sharon Hume
September 12, 2021
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September 10 at 8:43 AM 2021
I didn't know Ann Nicole Nelson but as we sat there in my living room watching the coverage of the catastrophic events unfolding before our eyes, we couldn't understand what was happening. There was Kelly, Pam, Tom and Me. We all were teary eyed and worried about all the people high up there on all the floors of the World Trade Center. Well one person in that room knew that her cousin may be one of victims and that was my friend Pam. She was so quiet and not saying too much of the very thought that her cousin may be one of the many victims of this terrorist act. Unfortunately we all now know that she was! Many ask do you remember where you were on that day? We all absolutely do! God Bless you Ann and may you rest in peace!
Dannial Roben
September 11, 2021
Ann, Though we never met I honor you every year. We are 2nd Cousins on your moms side ( Kulczyk) . I have met your Father Gary once in 1988 when I was traveling across country. Wish I had met you & the rest of your family, But your dad was the only one at home that day. Maybe this note will be seen and we can be in touch . Your parents friends & family LOVE you. You will never be forgotten. Dan Roben
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Sharon Hume
September 12, 2020
I'm a little late this year to honor you Ann but not really, I posted two days before 9/11/2020. Nineteen years and it still feels like yesterday. I haven't made my trip to the memorial yet but Ann you are always in my thoughts on this day and I bring out my button with your picture on it, in a place of honor. We will never forget what your life could and should have been. Sharon Hume
Barbara Stein
September 11, 2020
On this day 9/11/2020, I am remembering Ann. Rest in Peace.
Sharon Hume
September 11, 2019
For seventeen years now I have written in remembrance of Ann, although I had never met her. But on that day, September 11, 2001, I sat in my living room with her cousin, watching in dismay and horror of what was happening before our eyes on the TV. Needless to say, WE WILL NEVER FORGET!
Anne wysocki moum
September 10, 2019
Respectfully remembered today and always!
The Kindred Family
September 24, 2018
Sending our continued heartfelt condolences to you and your family for your loss. Words will never remove the deep pain of losing someone that is dearly loved but may God's word of daily strength and comfort be of some help with each new day. Annie touched the lives of others and will always be lovingly remembered.
Jenette Nelson
September 13, 2016
Love and miss you Annie !
Suzanne Krupp
September 12, 2016
Thank you sweet Annie, for having confidence in me to bring through your amazing words of Love and Peace. Peace and Love to you always my wonderful friend!!
September 12, 2015
As always, condolences and sympathies to the Nelson family..........we will never forget.
Tom & Sharon Hume, Goodyear AZ.
Jodi Johnson
September 11, 2015
We will Never forget
S J. Friscia III
May 22, 2015
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
j issendorf
March 19, 2014
Ann,I know you were with us during the grand opening of Annie's House,oh wait,I mean Annie's Home!The lanterns that were lit were so beautiful as they lifted up into the air & swirled up into the beautiful North Dakota night time sky.So many children & adults gathered to celebrate a dream of yours that has come true! I hope you continue to watch over us while the work continues in your honor! Now let's go ski the bumps!
Annie and Cindy Nelson ( Olympic Skiier). Annie was the only one to beat Cindy in the races that day. She was also the youngest skier to race.
Jenette Nelson
September 20, 2012
Annie age 4
Jenette Nelson
September 19, 2012
Building Annie's House
Jenette Nelson
September 19, 2012
Annie, the building of your house was a true miracle! People from all over this great country of ours came to help make your dreams come true!
Todd Briggs
September 18, 2012
Ann...Thinking of you and the fun times we had at Wayland. God bless you and your family.
September 14, 2012
Ann, thank you for the sparkle that you left at Wayland.
September 12, 2012
Your spirit and dreams live on!
J Issendorf
September 12, 2012
Ann, you have been watching over me all the time. I can feel it. Thank you for keeping all of us safe during the building of your new beautiful house at the Winter Park! Now lets go ski the bumps!!
Larry Colson
September 12, 2012
Hi,
Ann, you did alot in a very short time. I know Gary and Jeannette are very proud.
Kathy Knutson
September 11, 2012
Thinking of Ann's family today and always.
Sharon Hume
September 11, 2012
Another year has past and now it is eleven years later to the day that you went to our heavenly Father. Just want your parents to know you will never be forgotton from people around the world and including me. We have never met, but I still promise to visit ground zero with rose's for Ann.
A friend in Arizona, Sharon Hume
Suzanne Krupp
December 25, 2011
Hi Ann, I'm listening for your messages all the time, you're such a pure spirit. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!
Love,
Suzanne
Angie Smith
September 14, 2011
Loves & Hugs :)
Jenette Nelson
September 12, 2011
Thanks for writing Jill. I love your funny story! So Ann.
Jenette
Larry Colson
September 12, 2011
Ann, I'll never forget the little girl who needed a piece of cheese.
Dawn Nelson
September 11, 2011
Jyl thank you for sharing!!! How Ann.. I am married to Scott. She told me once that every birthday (until she found out where babies really came from) her birthday wish was for a sister!! It just so happened that I had always wished for a sister too so we figured it was destiny !!! And she was just the one I had always wished for too. Once she was walking across the living room and tripped on the coffee table, just as natural as could be, she picked herself up, through her hands in the air, and yelled... Tada.... I use that one to this day!!! She later confessed that whenever she made a mistake, she always laughed at herself first.... That way , people didn't laugh at her.. They were laughing with. What beautiful logic!!! She was awesome. I'm glad fate chose her to be my kids Auntie Annie!!!!!!
Kimberly Tsoukalas
September 11, 2011
I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you, especially today. I hope your family and friends find some peace knowing how much you are loved and missed. You will never be forgotten.
Jyl Albertson
September 11, 2011
In rememberance of Ann I thought I would share funny stories from HS:
Im sure all my classmates would agree, Mr Lowes History class was always every girls favorite. Not only was he REALLY good looking, but a really laid back teacher. After every test you could always count on Ann to argue her case for any question she had gotten wrong (or even if she didnt) and get that question thrown out. Mr Lowe didnt stand a chance against Ann's logic. Most of the time he just gave up and threw the question out because he knew she wasnt going to give up. All of our grades were better thanks to Ann! I always thought that she should have been a lawyer. One day as we are sitting quietly in class Ann let out a big gasp and when everyone turned around she was pointing down at her feet. Turns out she had been walking around school half the day with mismatched shoes, they were not only kinda different (like two different tennis shoes), but REALLY different I think one was a flat and the other a strappy sandal. She gave us all a good laugh. I dont even think she went home and changed them. She just went about her day laughing at herself. The last time I saw her was at our 10 year HS reunion and she was still chuckling about that.
Gary and Jenette, just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you!
Kimberly Dikker
September 10, 2011
Ann...I worked w/you briefly in Chicago at Dain...My husband and I remember you well and always think of your family at this time of year and say a prayer. May God bless your family.
Jessica Davis
September 9, 2011
Missing you on this sad weekend. Thinking of our times together at Wayland. Remember when we did the skit for Commencement weekend? We were too funny. You were saying how you loved Steak Diane, that it was your favorite meal. I remember Ann. I remember it all....
judy covington
September 8, 2011
Ann... thinking of U and your family.... I will never forget that day in NY. complete chaos... I know you are safe and well loved and may God hold you close until we see each other again one day!! sending my love and thoughts always.... a friend always... love Judy
Lorie
September 8, 2011
Ann's family is in our thoughts and prayers this weekend. Every time I hear stories of 9/11, the tears begin to well up as I remember Ann and her sweet smile and zest for life.
Sharon Hume
September 8, 2011
Dear Ann,
I feel I know you because a close friend of mine who is your cousin was with us the day we lost you. It still is unbelievable and I think of you and your family a lot knowing the pain they feel without your presence. One day I will go to ground zero and search out your name and leave you beautiful rose's. I know you will know me then. With Love, Sharon Hume
September 7, 2011
You are loved by many,...forgotten by none. Never had the chance to meet you but know a relative of yours who cherishes your memory and legacy.
Pamela
September 7, 2011
Thinking of you again!
Amy Mcglothin
September 2, 2011
God be with you and your family it saddens me that your life was taken away for no reason. But now your in a place where no more harm can affect you rest in peace.
Dawn
August 28, 2011
Do you get to have birthdays in heaven
Please tell me cuz I'd like to know
Are there candles to light on your angel cake
And gifts wrapped with beautiful bows?
And is it the same day you had here on earth
Or does God give his Angels a new date of birth
We don't want you to think we've forgotten
To spend it up there all alone
So we'll celebrate one on you "Earthday"
And one the day God called you home
Missed every second of every day
In each and every single way.
Until we meet again Annie.
And I think I will keep you too!
Dawn
August 28, 2011
Do you get to have birthdays in Heaven
Please tell me as I'd like to know
Are there candles to light on your Angel cake
And gifts wrapped with beautiful bows?
And is it the same day you had here on earth
Or does God give his Angels a new date of birth
We don't want you to think we've forgot
To spend it up there all alone
So we'll celebrate one on your "Earthday"
and one the day God called you home.
Missed every second in every day, in each and every single way!!!
Jan Wysocki
June 18, 2011
No one can erase the wonderful memories we have of you, Ann. Your bubbly personality, wonderful smile, and North Dakota niceness will live on in our hearts and minds. We miss you!
Nelson
June 17, 2011
An original songby Wilson Gillette called Annie's Gone Home
accompanied by a beautiful video presentation can be found on U tube and her web site -also on my facebook page. annnelsonmemorial.tripod.com
Jenette Nelson- Annie's Mom-http;//www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQfDBOO6XoY
Dawn
June 17, 2011
Do you get to have birthdays in heaven
Please tell me cuz I'd like to know
Are there candles to light on your angel cake
And gifts wrapped with beautiful bows?
And is it the same day you had here on earth
Or does God give his Angels a new date of birth
We don't want you to think we've forgotten
To spend it up there all alone
So we'll celebrate one on you "Earthday"
And one the day God called you home
Missed every second of every day
In each and every single way.
Until we meet again Annie.
And I think I will keep you too!
Anne Moum
May 1, 2011
Justice served to you, Ann, by the US Special Forces! Your memory lives on with a fist pump to our own men of the Special Forces.
Annie waterskiing
Jenette Nelson
September 15, 2010
Annie and Newman
Jenette Nelson
September 14, 2010
Annie and her family
Jenette Nelson
September 14, 2010
Ann Nicole Nelson
Jenette Nelson
September 11, 2010
Wayland Homecoming
Ann Nelson
September 11, 2010
Jenette Nelson
September 11, 2010
Dearest Annie,
Today marks the 9th anniversay of that terrible day when the evil forces of hate and violence took you from this world.
For us that was the day when smiles and laughter turned to despair and tears and yet somehow we had to live on.
Since I believe we have come to this life to learn from the experiences that we face, I ask myself what have I learned from this.
I have learned that God, and only God, must reap vengence.
I have learned that human beings must pursue ways of love and forgiveness.
I have learned that the systems of operation that govern our world today are inadequate and that we all must strive to do better.
I have learned that we must not dwell on our losses, but we must rather maximize our opportunities, for life is short.
I have learned that though the spirit leaves the physical body, it lives on and comforts and sustains those that it loves.
I have learned that nothing can separate you from me, my dearest love.
Mom
Wayne Papke
August 23, 2010
Dear Nelson Family;
Every year I honor the local police and fire departments in Bismarck and Mandan in honor of all 9/11 victims but with a special thought of Ann. I never knew her but I've been a 30 year friend of Gary's and I just wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers and friendship are with you. Wayne Papke
Suki Larson
November 26, 2009
Hello Ann! I think I just passed the restaurant we ate at when we came to London together to get your new passport after we were robbed when we were studying Cambridge. I have lived in London so long now and always wondered where we were that evening... Happy Thanksgiving. Love, Suki xxx
Monique Whitcomb
September 14, 2009
I know your dear sweet daughter was my nieces roomate at Wayland. What I read about her ,she seemed like she knew what she wanted in life. What a sweet face, what a life.Please know this ,we will never forget our brothers and sisters (related or not ) we are all part of one, and we all hurt for you. This was not the plan, I'm sure. Gods speed with this message. Monique
September 11, 2009
To the Nelson family,
I never knew Ann. On this 8th anniversary, I was going through the entries of a dear friend's dear childhood friend, Aaron Horwitz and came across Ann's name. It was then I looked at her tribute to see she was from ND. I grew up just outside of Fargo and consider anyone from ND a dear friend and like long lost family. My heart breaks today as it did 8 years ago. I can only hope your family has found some peace. God bless.
Eileen Swartout
September 10, 2009
Ann,
I miss you dearly! Each fall I think about not only the tragedy of September 11, 2001 but also the joy of September 1989 when we first met! You are in my heart always!
Love you,
Eileen
Jenette Nelson
September 10, 2009
Dearest Annie,
We love and miss you every minute of every day.
Mom
Brooke Nelson
September 7, 2009
My aunty Annie- I'm thinking of you tonight. Actually I've been thinking about you for 9 years. every thing fell apart after you left but i guess you already knew that didn't you. every one misses you with all there hearts. And i know deep in my heart that you miss us too. I wish that you were with us just one more day. but i know that we will see you soon in the final journey.
Love your little Brookey
Lisa Lyons
August 31, 2009
Ann - I am thinking of you tonight and all the great times we had at Wayland. For it was about finding simple joy, humor and little surprises in every-day life, striving to be something more, showing love and compassion to others...I cannot say how important it is to me that I take your example and teach my girls these values, recognize their beauty, and help them find joy in unexpected places. I was your teacher, but in truth, you were mine. With love and joy,
denis mcnicoll
July 21, 2009
Ann--We never met, but I was married to Sara for a short time and met your dad in 1967 in Stanley. We just now chatted on the phone and I heard of the incident, 8 years later. This is such bad news. a lovely North Dakota girl perishes in a senseless, barbaric action. my express sympathies to your wonderful parents.
Denis McNicoll, San Rafael, Ca.
Suki Larson
May 18, 2009
Happy Birthday Ann,
I still miss you.
Love, Suki
Jenette Nelson
May 17, 2009
Dearest Annie,
Happy 38th Birthday! We love and miss you and are so grateful for the time we had together.
Love, Mom and Dad
Doug Abraham
May 17, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Jenette Nelson
September 11, 2008
Seven years have passed now, Annie. I keep you close to my heart always and know that you are with me.
Love,
MOM
Jenette Nelson
June 6, 2008
Dearest Annie, Another birthday has come and gone! How I miss you! If love could have saved you, you would have lived for ever. Love,
Mom
Doug Abraham
May 17, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Jamie
September 15, 2007
You are always in my thoughts... God bless you, Ann.
Rabbi Alan Lachtman
September 10, 2007
Your death was a tragedy, but your memory will strengthen others. Your list was part of sermon that hundreds heard on the Jewish New Year
September 10, 2007
Ann - You are never forgotten.
- Your Carleton friends
gloria miller
September 10, 2007
I have a Mercy Band Bracelet that I purchased in 2001 - all the deceased were listed in our local newspaper here in Wichita and I closed my eyes, pointed, and lo and behold, it was Ann Nicole Nelson...the bracelet has her name on it and when I wear it, I say a prayer for her and her family...tomorrow, 9/11/07, I will share this story with students at Magdalen Catholic School where I am a para...sorry it took me so long to get in touch with you all; would love to hear from you, if possible...
Sonja Bot
July 4, 2007
Dear Ann,
I just watched your parents appearance on the Ellen show in the Netherlands on 3 juli 2007.
Your story and your life list inspired me to make one of my own.
Thank you for your inspiration.
Rest in peace Ann.
Love Sonja
Doug Abraham
May 17, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
rebecca castro
February 9, 2007
may god bless you and your family. You were so young like me and may u be with the angels up above..
april jolly
February 8, 2007
god bless you
P Tabbernor
January 15, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Lesia Niamke
September 24, 2006
Your memory lives on. Rest with peace and stay in the light.
Vasu Brown
September 19, 2006
I was planting blueberries today. I suddenly became aware of Ann Nicole's name in my thoughts and I had a strong feeling to look her up. I did not know who this was I assumed this is Ann Nicole the celebrity and when I was looking in the internet regarding new for Ann Nicole I came across her list. I was deebly touched. I decided to plant one blue berry plant per ann nicole's list to recognize her dreams. I am glad I learnt about her today. September 19th 2006.
Love to Ann Nicole's family
LYNN TACHICK
September 15, 2006
Because of you, Ann, I have created my own "Lynn's Life List" and because of you, I am trying to live that list. Without knowing you, I have been encouraged by you. You are truly wonderful and inspirational!
Emily Oandasan
September 11, 2006
Dear Ann,
I just watched your parents' brave appearance on the Ellen show. I didn't know you but I spent every summer in North Dakota, so when I heard where you were from I had to write. I will do my best to live by the example you gave in your time here, and will always remember you.
Michelle Eichler (Bratton)
September 11, 2006
Ann,
I just watched Gary and Jeanette on Ellen Degeneres' show talking about your life list, and you would be so proud of them, as proud of them as they are of you. I want you to know that I miss you dearly and that your presence in my life has made me a better person. For all the times that you made me believe in myself, I thank you.
I was in law school when the planes hit the trade center and after I had been watching the news all day long I got a call from my mother saying that you had just started working there. I remember how the horrible tragedy suddenly became so much more real to me, knowing that you, my very special friend, were there. I also remember believing with my whole heart that you, of all people, had been able to outrun the collapse of the buildings, and that you would turn up the next day. Although your time with us was too short, the time you spent with me, and I am sure with everyone in your life, touched me to the very core.
Ann, when I tell people about you I always say that you should have been the one to go to law school--you loved to argue and loved to win! I always say that you were the one who inspired me to be more daring and to really experience life. And I always say that I lost a dear, special, wonderful friend that day, but that I know that you are smiling down on each of us still...
Ann, I got married last weekend to a wonderful man, the same man you and I spoke about at our 10 year high school reunion in 1999. I wish you could have met him. I wish we had had more time together, but I do know that the time we had was enough for you to show me how precious life is every day. Your "life list" simply verifies to me how real you were, how honest you were and how I strive every day to be more like you.
I miss you my friend.
Michelle
Cheryl B.
September 10, 2006
I just saw a CBS newsclip about Ann, where her mother is reviewing a list of "top 100" things Ann wished to accomplish in her life. It's truly tragic she was taken away so young and was unable to do all the things she had on her list. However, I want her mother and family to know that her list inspired me, at the age of 50, to start compiling my own list, beginning with some of the things Ann had on hers. I hope it gives her family some comfort to know that Ann's life is still inspiring others, even complete strangers. You can tell by the list that Ann must have been a very special person. My heart goes out to her family as the 5th anniversary approaches.
Liz Westbrook
September 10, 2006
Dear Mr and Mrs Nelson,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was given your daughters name as part of a project to remember all the victims of Septemeber 11. From what I read your daughter was an amazing girl. I'm so sorry for your loss and I'll always remember Ann.
Pamela Nelson
September 9, 2006
Gary & Jenette-
As the 5th anniverary of the attack on America nears, I just want to let you know that Ann and the other innocent victims haven't been forgotten nor have their families. God Bless You and God Bless America!
Jenette Nelson
September 3, 2006
Hi Annie,
It's been five years ,Darling. In many ways time stopped for me on that terrible day. I love and miss you sweetheart.
Love,
Mom
Donna Jean
August 29, 2006
I don't personally know the Nelson famlly, but I was moved by an article I read in "Guideposts" magazine about Mr. and Mrs. Nelson and their struggle with the loss of their precious Ann. May God bless you on your path to healing.
Judy Growden
August 27, 2006
As Sept 11th is nearing you are so very much on my mind,as you are so often. I had the privalege of knowing you through my son.And what a sweet special person you were indeed. When ever I see Ken at some time or another you are always in the conversion. You are not forgotten and surely will not be.Thank for the time we were given with you. God Bless each and every one who lost loved ones on that horrific day.
gary nelson
November 19, 2005
annie--you wouldn't believe this,i'm helping your mother with the web site communications-naturely this is not my strong suit either,particularily with your lab top.ann mom misses you so much,it achs in her heart ...there isn't much i can say or do but i understand that is the way it is--you know us earthlings aren't equiped as you now are--but we love you as always and we'll try to stay in contract with your friends..dad ll-l9-05
Rach Brew
November 30, 2003
I am a complete stranger meandering through the photos in Portraits of Grief. But something about Ann caught my eye. Reading about Ann really made a connection, I found a lot of similarities in her as in myself. I hope I can live my life as fully and happily as it seems that Ann did. I am dearly sorry for your loss, my prayers are with Ann's family and friends. God Bless!
Anonymous
September 17, 2003
I grew up in New Town, not far from Stanley, and only knew Ann enough to say hello. When I heard of her passing, it was a shock, but it wasn't surprising to find out all of the things that she accomplished in this life. There always seemed to be something about her that set her apart, even way back then. As it turned out, she lived her life, really LIVED it, to an extraordinary extent. I hope we can all aspire to be more like her on some level. My thoughts and prayers are with Ann's family.
Alan Bosworth
September 11, 2003
To The Nelosn Family,
I worked with Ann in the Bond Business for several years. She not only was bright and beautiful, but her zeal for life was overwhelming. Thank you for your daughter and her gift of life she gave everyone she touched. God Bless.
Elaine Escobar
September 10, 2003
To Mr. & Mrs. Nelson,
The horrific occurance of 9/11 has injured us all. Please know that we can not and will not forget those martyrs, your lovely daughter amongst them, that were sacrificed that day.
September 9, 2003
To the Nelson Family,
I'm sorry for what has happened to Ann and for what you have to endure.
Please remember you're in my daily thoughts and prayers. God bless the Nelson family.
Mark Staley
February 27, 2003
As I sat here tonight going through all the names and pictures of those America lost on 9-11, I came upon ann's picture, it reminded me of a friend I had lost as a boy in my early 20's. I am now in my 40's and still think of my friend often. To the Nelson Family I send you my love, and these words that were spoken to me by my friends father; as long as you remember Ann, she will never be far from your heart, as with my friend, I feel her love and warmth, and the memory of their love will never fade. May God Bless you Ann, and may God shine down his love on your family, and may they find peace knowing your still there beside them, watching over them.
gary and jenette nelson
October 16, 2002
Ann-it has been awhile but you should know that we think of you and remember those precious moments that we shared. as you know, i went to new york to celebrate your memories over the 9-ll-02 ground zero services. i placed a few of your posters around st.paul's chapel and elsewhere in the city to assure that you will be remembered. that same day mother spoke with governor hoeven on the steps of north dakota's state capitol. aunt leann spoke at the 9-ll american legion service in tioga,nd. carleton college,northfield,mn. and wayland academy,beaver dam, wi. each dedicated a bench on their campus grounds in your honor during their homecoming weekend. you are remembered and celebrated, but most of all dearest annie, you are loved-dad 6-l6-02
Maria Wilhelmi-Schmaltz
September 29, 2002
Ann,
You are and were a friend I'll always cherish. I just want to thank-you for the friendship we had.
I always enjoyed playing any sports with you. It seems like just yesterday. The Summer we both went to International Language Camps. Your cousin, Melanie, and you went to the Norweigan Camp, and my sister, Kelly, and went to the German Camp. Only a mile apart
from camps; yet it seemed worlds away once I seen you on, "International Day." The countless hours of playing tennis, either at the courts in Stanley, at Botno, or going to Tennis Camp. Getting together at Lake Metigoshe you would call me to go play tennis, water,snow skiing, biking around the lake, which is 8 miles. Recording music, watching movies, and cooking, etc... Even when we were young we'd play Jacks for hours. You would stay overnight. After that we'd play Pac-Man and Tennis on Nintendo. You were a perfect friend. Also, when ever we started laughing, and your parents were around they just joined in laughing too. We could hardly stop laughing to explain what was so funny. Your bother, Scott, would just smurk, and just start laughing too. What a nice family you have. All your nieces and nephews. I remember when Scott and Dawn first had their 1st baby, Brittany, and how very proud you were of her. You have more qualities of anyone I 'll ever know.
Thank-you, Ann.
Ria Wilhelmi/Schmaltz
Brett Bartlett
September 12, 2002
Ann, I flew a special flag in remembrance of you today. I knew you well enough to know that I wanted to know you better. You may not have known it, but everyone who met you felt that way.
It’s been ten years, but I remember very clearly your perpetual smile, exceptional intellect, and undeniable exuberance for life. You are a hero for living life as completely and passionately as you did. Remembering you makes me strive to live my life like you did.
Family and friends – you have been and continue to be in my prayers. Ann touched many people, and her spirit continues to inspire us. I extend to you my deepest sympathy.
Brett Bartlett, Carleton '93
A Stanley Grad
September 11, 2002
Gary,Jenette, and family,
I just wanted you to know that we still think of Ann and will always miss her. Take care and God Bless.
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Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
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Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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