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Douglas Oelschlager Obituary
ometimes Douglas Oelschlager's consuming twin loves — his family and fighting fires — conflicted. "I used to tell him all the time to get your priorities straight," said his wife of 13 years, Suzanne. It wasn't easy.
Firefighter Oelschlager, 36, had been a volunteer fireman on Long Island for nearly two decades before joining the New York Fire Department in 2000. Over time, he learned how to balance things. "He would try to make my life easier so he could go to his meetings," Ms. Oelschlager said. He gave their daughters, Kayla and Brittany, baths and cooked dinner before his wife got home from work so he could slip away from their house in St. James, on Long Island, to Fire Department meetings at night.
He slipped away from work sometimes, too, taking his family out on the water in their 32-foot motorboat, Island Hopper, which they took to the Hamptons, the Connecticut coast and even as far as Cape Cod, with Ms. Oelschlager the first mate.
During one of their favorite vacations, they moored the boat on the New Jersey side of New York Harbor so they could soak up the view of the Manhattan skyline.
Since Sept. 11, Ms. Oelschlager has become captain of the boat and Kayla and Brittany have become the first mates.
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Geoffrey Kirwan
September 11, 2023
I'm sorry I didn't get to know Firefighter Oelschlager before his untimely passing. On this terrible day I choose a life to learn about and mourn their loss of what they could have become, but also celebrate all the good they did. I'm sorry his children didn't get to know him better but they will know he was a good man. From a grateful Canadian.
September 11, 2023
Doug you are never forgotten. Today we remember you and celebrate your life, your courage, and your service to others. Thank you for your sacrifice. May God bless you family and friends with peace and comfort.
Mark Sigmund
September 12, 2019
Honored to have climbed in your memory at the 9/11 stair climb this year at Lambeau field. Mark Sigmund AVFD
Stefanie Shell
September 5, 2019
On Saturday, September 7, 2019, I will walk 110 stories in Springfield, Missouri in memory of Douglas. Before I take that walk, I want to get to know Douglas and his family. What a legacy and what a man. As my son and I were talking about the stair climb and wearing my gear or not, he said to me "mom, it doesn't matter whether or not you wear your gear, you can never carry the weight they carried that day." That speaks volumes about the lives that were consumed that day but I know those first responders wouldn't want it any other way. I am honored to carry Douglas Oelschlager that 110 stories this Saturday and I am very thankful for his sacrifice. God spoke to me about the loss of a loved one and the hole they leave in your heart. If you allow them, they can leave you whole by absorbing into your heart the person they were and shining their light by talking about them and remembering them and honoring their life on this earth. RIP Brother
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Tom H
September 11, 2018
Today, 09/11/2018, ( 17 years ...) we remember you Doug. Thank you for courage and service ... We will never forget. Wishing all the best to your family and friends. Much regards.
Jennifer Brantmeier
September 16, 2017
I have the privilege of wearing this "badge" with your picture and name on it today, as I climb the 110 flights of stairs. I didn't know you until today and I'll never forget you after today. A beautiful soul is not forgotten. And to live on in the hearts of others is to never die. You, sir, will live on forever.
Tina Perry
September 11, 2017
Hello,
I purchased a memorial bracelet from the 911 Memorial Center with Douglas' name. I wore it today in his honor. I am keeping your family in my prayers. Tina Perry, Ohio
Barbara Mellinger
September 11, 2017
You will always be remembered. Rest in Peace
Niamh Kennedy
September 11, 2016
It was a couple of years ago, but I had the honor of climbing the stair climb at Red Rocks in Colorado in honor of this hero. I would have left a note before, but I did not know there was a way to do so, now that I know, I figured it appropriate on this 15th anniversary.
Never, never forgotten. RIP Sir.
Dave Fischler
September 9, 2016
Doug "O" - Always a great firefighter and fire officer! You were always a true gentleman and friend. You made a difference to the St. James community and the people of New York as a firefighter.
Always rest in peace brother!
S J. Friscia III
October 26, 2015
In memory
With Honor & Respect.
Amanda O'Connell
September 12, 2014
Yesterday, September 11th, 2014 I had the honor of climbing 110 floors in full turn outs in the 343 9/11 Memorial Climb representing you Mr. Oelschlager. As a fellow Fire Fighter you have forever given me strength! Your name was on the back of my jacket pushing me to the top, your picture and brief story was around my neck close to my heart, but now forever engraved in my heart! I will always honor you and our other fallen and continue my career with you all. With that, thank you is never enough! Till we meet again brother!
Greg Lander
September 11, 2014
Dear Oelschlager Family:
Doug and I were classmates at Dos Pueblos High School, please know Doug makes an impact on people he does not know. He is a true American hero! I am truly sorry for your lose and will never forget that day. God Bless Doug!
Kerry Gregg
September 11, 2014
Brother, I come here every year to say hello and let you know I keep you close everyday brother. You were and are still my friend and I wait for the day to see you again on the other side...VAHALLA...I MISS YA. AS MANY OTHER DO ALSO.
Katie Oelschlager
May 8, 2014
It's been almost 13 years, since you passed Uncle Doug. Daddy and Grammy still miss you more than ever. I do too. I know aunt sue, Britney and Kayla are all doing well. We all love you.
Steven B.
October 9, 2013
Doug....you will be missed by all...I treated you in St James for many years....and you were always the most incredible man and family man...our lives were all blessed because you were in it...you will never be forgotten to all that you have touched...
At the top after 110 floors 9/11/2013
Meg Wright
September 12, 2013
Hi, my husband climbed 110 floors yesterday with a picture of Doug clipped to his bunker jacket next to his heart. We took a moment before the climb to thank him for his dedication and pray for his family while bagpipes played 'Amazing Grace' in the background. I want his friends and family to know that people all over the country still remember and hurt for this tragedy.
September 12, 2013
Love you, Dougie. I always liked the long island volly pic better than the FDNY one; definitely shows your personality.
HOWARD ROSSMAN
September 10, 2013
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER DOUG WHAT A PRIVLEDGE TO HAVE KNOWN HIM HE WILL ALWAYS BE MY HERO AND IN MY MEMORIES FOREVER HOWARD ROSSMAN PORT JEFFERSON STATION NEW YORK
Colton Bowing
September 12, 2012
I carried your picture up 110 flights of stairs in Keene hall at Eastern Kentucky University for the 9/11 memorial. Thank you for giving the ultimate sacrifice and saving other lives. You will never be forgotten.
Tom Velasco
September 11, 2012
Miss you, Doug. May God bless your family and all those you touched in your short, but full, life.
KATHY SCHLOTTERBECK
September 11, 2012
WE REMEMBER RIP
Andy Tangel
September 11, 2012
I also went to Fairview Elementary School with "Peachfuzz" Doug in Goleta, Ca. He was a friend to everyone and all around GREAT GUY! No supprise that he chose a profession to put others first.
KATHY SCHOTTERBECK
September 11, 2012
WE REMEMBER RIP
Kerry Gregg
September 11, 2012
Miss ya brother. 11 years later and you are on my mind daily. I will be seeing you again sometime in the future. Semper Fi.
John Kubant
September 10, 2012
I went to Fairview Elementary in Goleta, CA with Doug. He was fondly referred to as "Peachfuzz" for his short buzz haircut. Great person. Always happy. He is a true hero.
Tom Schuman
September 5, 2012
My uncle dougy ill miss you forever and ever ill always love you and i wish you could still be with me i love you
BOBBY JOE
December 16, 2011
THAT DUDES AWESOME!
Robin Deissler
October 18, 2011
Every day I read the heroic story printed in Newsday, LI Remembers 9/11 a Decade Later.
Although I have never met the Oelschlager Family,
their story touched me very deeply. Upon reading the story in Newsday, I felt very sad, and would like to extend my
thoughts and prayers to Mrs. Oelschlager and her two daughters.
Jim Spink
September 19, 2011
I didn't know Doug, but we went to the same grade school, Mt. View Elementary in Goleta (he was a few years behind me.) Now my own kids are going to Mt. View as well, and I've shared Doug's story of heroism with them so they too can be proud of a fellow Mt. View-Goleta alumni.
Todd Randall
September 12, 2011
Doug,
We were best friends in SeaBee A School in Mississippi. I heard your name during the memorial sevice of 9-11.....I'm shocked! I remember the day you bought that firemans belt buckle and couldn't wait to put it on. I still have pictures of you wearing it. Lol. The good times will never be forgotten, nor will you my friend..GOD Bless you and your family.
Shelby Wilson
September 12, 2011
My name is Shelby Wilson. My son Colin is a firefighter with the Walls, MS Fire Department. On September 11, 2011 he participated in the Kansas City Stair Climb that honored the 243 fallen firefighters. 243 firefighters came from 6 states and each was assigned one name. Colin was assigned your husband's name and climbed 109 flights of stairs in his honor. Your brave husband's mission is now complete with help from my son. It is an honor. We shall continue to keep you in our prayers.
Justin Farley
September 11, 2011
Doug names remains in my mind after we purchased a truck from a company I was told he served on and after we recieved the truck we dedicated a panel in his honor.I would just like to say Thank You for your sacrifice and may God Bless and comfort your family and friends each moment your gone Rest In Peace Brother.
Keith Haugrud
September 11, 2011
Douglas -
I had the opportunity to climb in your honor this morning in Denver during our annual 9/11 stair climb. I wore a lanyard with your picture close to my chest for all 110 stories of the climb. I had the opportunity to learn more about you this evening after the climb - what an incredible husband, father and firefighter. Truly honored to have climbed for you today.
Keith Haugrud - Captain, Evergreen Fire/Rescue - Evergreen, Colorado
In honor...
Ryan Pulis
September 11, 2011
I had the honor this morning of wearing Firefighter Oelschlager's name over the top of my own on my turnout coat as we climbed 110 floors to a rooftop ceremony in our annual Climb to Remember in downtown Sacramento. All 343 names were carried by 343 firefighters from all over the state of California. I placed his name with the others in a memorial sculpture and rang a bell in his memory and honor. I wanted those reading to know that his family, friends and co-workers remain in our prayers and that Firefighter Oelschalger's sacrifice will NEVER be forgotten. Having read a bio written about him, he was no doubt the father, husband, firefighter, and man that we are all striving to be. - Ryan, Sacramento Metropolitan Fire District
Samantha Horne
September 11, 2011
I've written in this guest book for the past few years, and I wanted to keep the tradition alive. It's hard to believe that 10 long years have passed since Douglas was lost on this horrible day. I cannot even imagine your loss and sorrow. I am sorry beyond words. I hope his family and friends stay strong, I wish you only the best today and every day. God bless, stay safe, and take care.
Alison DeMoustes
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you today! Your daughters have gone into such beautiful woman, you would be very proud! There isn't a day that goes by I don't think of you or your family. Thank you so much for all you have done!
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you today, Doug.
You are a Special Angel!
Love You,
Trena Oelschlager
Cathy Milliken
September 10, 2011
My name is Cathy Milliken and I am a volunteer Paramedic/FF and I have worn a copper bracelet with Doug's name on it since March 11, 2002. This bracelet has never let my arm and I pray for him and his family everyday. I would like to mail this bracelet to his family on March 11, 2012. My email address is [email protected]. I would like to know where to send this special part of Doug and myself.
Trish Carr
September 10, 2011
10 years ago, a few days after 9/11, we drew a card out of the communion basket at our parish here in Atlanta, GA. We were instructed by our priest to take the card home and pray for the soul of the name on our card and his/her family. We drew "fireman Doug" as we affectionately refer to him. His card sits in a glass frame in our home and we have prayed for him and for you, his family, for these past 10 years. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow!! I am so excited to have found this site and his picture. Peace be with you!
Kerry Gregg
September 5, 2011
Miss ya brother. I think of you everyday and you still make me smile. I will see you soon enough and I await that day with pride and anticipation.
Crystal Oelschlager-DeAnda
September 5, 2011
Thanks for being there to serve and protect!
David Oelschlager
September 4, 2011
I never get tired of reeding these articles of Douglas. America lost a great man that day.
Sandy Swift
August 12, 2011
I live all the way across this country, in Kaua'i, HI. I wear a copper bracelet that bears his name that I got 10 yrs. ago. My Aloha goes out to this family and all those who lost a loved one that day. (I am also a radio DJ at kkcr.org and plan to share this with my listeners.)
katie scarlett oelschlager
August 4, 2011
doug was my uncle and well he had a family that loved him and now we love him and miss him, his daghters his brother his mother and hin neice, and well lots more people!!
July 25, 2011
While doing a search on the internet, I discovered that my late husband's son was one of the brave firemen on 9/11. Doug and Daryl and I lost touch of each other after their father's memorial service in Orlando in 1980 and I later left Orlando and moved to Dallas. Doug was a kind and gentle spirit even as a child and I am very proud of him. I know Bill, his father, would also be proud.
Trena Oelschlager (Mrs. William Henry Oelschlager) 1700 E. Calle Corta
Cottonwood, AZ 86326 928-254-9304
Monica Novak
February 2, 2011
I am doing my family history of Oelschlager's from Westenholz in Germany and came across this website. My mother's maiden name is Oelschlager so I feel really proud of the efforts of Douglas Oelschlager and pass on my best wishes to his family.
September 11, 2010
Like Samantha Horne, I also have a metal bracelet with Douglas' name, and wear it with pride, and am often asked about it: it provides many opportunites to provide a testimony as to the sacrifice of those who gave their lives. Today, 9/11/10, we remember with sadness, that fateful day 10 Years ago, and recall the heroism of those involved in the rescues, and those who gave their lives. We will never forget. Our thoughts and prayers are with the families of those left behind. The Stars and Stripes flew proudly in Hull, England, today as a reminder, and in memory of Douglas and all those who lost their lives: For us too, here in the UK,(across The Pond, as to say) their sacrifices will never be forgotten. Our Prayers and thoughts are with Douglas' family. God Bless you all.
Eddie Mansfield, Hull, UK.
Samantha Horne
September 10, 2010
Last year I wrote in this guest book because Douglas' name was on a bracelet I received at my high school. And I knew I would be out all day tomorrow, so I wanted to write on here again, in remembrance of Douglas. I was never fortunate enough to have known him, but I cannot express the amount of sorrow I feel as I have to write on here in memory of him. What he sacrificed nine years ago for this country cannot be forgotten, and I will never let it be. I will put my bracelet back on tomorrow and I will carry this heroic man in my heart, now and always. God bless him and his family. I wish you only the best.
Rob Pobjecky
June 3, 2010
From all of us here at Mt.Sinai Fire Department......we wish you and your family well. Know that Doug is always in our hearts and will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
Michael Oelschlager
February 27, 2010
Came across this article just yesterday.What a hero!
TONY PEDRON
September 22, 2009
I am a fire fighter in north Denver Colorado. On September 11th, 343 firefighters from the Denver metro area as well as 6 different states climb 110 floors in full gear to pay tribute to our fallen brothers. Each firefighter is given a picture of a fallen brother from 9-11. I had the extreme privilege to carry FF Douglas E. Oelschlager up the Quest high rise tower with me. LET IT BE KNOWN.... WE WILL NEVER FORGET!
Samantha Horne
September 11, 2009
I also have a bracelet on my wrist, and on this bracelet is the name Douglas Oelschlager. Every year my High School passes out bracelets with the names of four people who were unfortunately lost on this day eight years ago. Even though I will never have the pleasure of meeting this wonderful and brave man, I will always carry him in my heart from this day forth. I just wanted to sign this to let his family and friends know that they are not the only one's thinking about Douglas on this day, and that they are not alone. The pain that I felt when reading his name was so deep, and I can't even imagine how it must feel to those of you who actually knew him. Even though I am sadden to have had Douglas' name on my bracelet, I am happy that it was there as well, for if it wasn't I never would have been able to learn about this incredibly heroic man. To his family and friends, I pray that you will stay strong this day and every other day. I hope you can find some sort of peace. God Bless You, and God Bless this man.
Eddie Mansfield
September 8, 2009
I have a bracelet on my wrist:
It says "DOUGLAS OELSCHLAGER 9-11-01 FDNY LADDER 15"
I have worn it continuously for the last 7 Years. I work with young people. They often say, "What's that on your wrist?" I take it off, give it to them to read out aloud for themselves. I have lost count the many times his name has been read out aloud: every time, it is read, it is another remembering. It inevitably provides an opening to tell them the story of fire-fighters like Doug, whose bravery that day, knows no bounds. His ultimate sacrifice will not be forgotten. As we come close to the 8th Anniversary, our thoughts are with Doug's family and relatives - that even here, in England, we remember his sacrifice, and honor his memory. We remember all those who lost their lives that day - may God grant them all an everlasting Peace. As we get ready to hang out The Stars and Stripes in our own garden here in the UK, on Friday, Our thoughts and our Prayers are with you all.
Peter Devine
May 29, 2009
Was just thinking of Doug today,Googled his name & found this. What a fitting tribute to a wonerful man. You are deeply missed,Doug. Rest in Peace.
katie oelschlager
March 1, 2009
unle doug we all know u were brave but we didnt know that u were brave anaf to sacerfise your life i love u uncle doug.love katie
katie oelschlager
December 12, 2008
dear,uncle DUOGi really miss you! love,katie
katie oelschlager
November 1, 2008
unkl doug i miss you!
September 12, 2008
In memory. God Bless. We will NEVER forget!
Annonamous Annonamous
March 9, 2008
hi i miss you!<3333
September 7, 2007
Thinking of you Doug!
God Bless you and your family and the girls.
Nancy Nee
sister of FF George Cain..ladder 7
P Tabbernor
January 19, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 22, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
sheena dale
September 11, 2006
I didnt personly know douglas but today i recieved a braclet with his name on it. I am proud to wear the name of such brave man and i want you to know that others are thinking of him nd praying for him i am sorry for your loss
Margie Bang
September 11, 2004
Sept. 11, 2004
I can't imagine the loss that Teri Oelschlager, the mother of Doug felt after losing her son in such a tragic but heroic way. My message to her and Doug's wife and children is written in the Bible. 1 Corinthians 2:9
"No eye has seen,
nor ear heard, and
no mind can imagine
what God has prepared
for those who love him."
Donna & David Waltzer
September 13, 2002
Dear Oelschlager Family,
We did not know you but our sister and brother in law (Lisa & Kevin) live right next to your family. We think of you and your family everyday. I can't imagine what all of you are going through--I sometimes cry for you. I wish there was something I could say or do to ease your pain. For now just know that all of you, and Doug, are in our prayers.
Dale Graff
September 12, 2002
To Doug's family and friends,
I only met Doug once, but he answered my request for help quickly and he was very generous. Even in the short time that we were together, he mentioned his wife and two daughters. He is truly a hero and I will keep him in my prayers.
Coleen Farrell (Coffey)
September 11, 2002
Sue,
I think of you and your children often. Remember my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Love
Coleen
Jessica Craft
September 11, 2002
Dougie ~ You were great friends with my father Ronnie Craft, and I knew you as a child. To know that you are a truly a hero makes me even more proud to have gotten the chance to know you. You would be proud of Jason as well he was there that day. My prayers go to your family and thank you for all that you did. I will miss you!!
David Strawn
September 10, 2002
The Doug Oelschlager family,
Today I received A 911 bracelet with Doug's name on it. I did not know him, but as a fellow firefighter, he is a brother & will not be firgotten. May prayers go out to you, your loss was great. My God bless you & the FDNY.
P.S. "A firefighter isn't a hero for what he does, he is a hero for what he is willing to do"
Tom Velasco
September 4, 2002
To the friends and family of Doug O.,and those who never knew him,
I am lucky enough to have grown up with Doug (and his brother Darryl) in Goleta, CA. I hung out with him just about every day from when he was five years old until he moved to Long Island when we were in high school. For those who didn't know Doug, the solitary picture of him from the FDNY doesn't capture the sense of humor, the smile, and the deep sense of honor that he carried with him even as a young boy. When a man dies, people tend to remember him better than he truly was, and that's probably as it should be; but Doug was a great kid, and he was a great man. He gave more than anyone else I know, and he was always laughing that Dougie laugh. Everything he did he did 100%. Doug's dream as long as I can remember was to be a firefighter; to help people in need.
When Doug was taken in that building, a huge part of my childhood was taken too, and my loss was just mirrored and amplified by the many others who knew him.
I will see Dougie once again in Heaven, and there I'll thank him for being a hero, long before he ever stepped into that crumbling building.
Sue, I want you to know that my family still says a prayer every night that God will give strength and comfort to you and the girls.
ROBERT FARLAND
September 4, 2002
DEAR FAMILY OF DOUGLAS OELSCHLAGER MY NAME IS ROBERT AND I WEAR YOUR SONS BRACELET IN RESPECT OF HIS HEROISM I MYSELF WAS IN THE NAVY DURING THE TIME OF THE TERROR I TO LOST A FRIEND THAT DAY I JUST WANT TO SAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP PRAYING THANK U FOR YOUR SONS HEROISM
Stacy Pope
September 2, 2002
Dear Oelschlager Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you as we approach 9/11. I wear his name on a bracelet as a reminder to pray for his family and friends. May God be with you all and comfort you as our Nation remembers 9/11.
God Bless!
Rhonda Cortez
August 15, 2002
I didn't know Doug but I grew up in Goleta. I graduated from San Marcos High School. I do know his niece "Katie Scarlet". I'm one of her teachers.
I just want to say GOD BLESS YOU AND CARE FOR YOU!!
Doug wasn't a soldier but they made him one. He did die for freedom.
GOD BLESS YOU!!
Bradley Matthews
May 30, 2002
Dear Oelschlager Family, I recieved Douglas' name braclet thru the Macy collection for Firefighters lost at the WTC on 911. I wear it in honor of his supreme sacrifice and as a reminder of what Fire Fighters are all about. I know he was selfless in his actions and he is a hero to his family and all Americans. I have been a Fire Fighter for 22 years and now my son follows in those same footsteps. I can appreciate that Douglas would probably say,"I'm just doing my job." I feel quite sure he would dismiss his actions to this common thought instead of claiming it as an act of heroism....Thank you Douglas for just doing your job....You are a HERO....to Americans, FDNY, and to your loved ones. God bless you and your family. May God give them your strength in the future. Your brother Fire Fighter - Brad Matthews
Jenn Hafer
May 26, 2002
God Bless You Doug!!
I am a friend of Doug and his family. I got the pleasure to be in Doug's company in our volunteer fire department. He was my captain and taught me a lot. He was also a good friend. I want to thank all of you who wrote very nice things about Doug, even though you didn't know him. Thank you very much to those who wear a bracelet and hat with his name. It truly is an honor. He is a hero to his friends, family, wife and two daughters. He will be greatly missed. We love you Doug. You won't be forgotten!!
Nina Kataria
May 26, 2002
Oh Dougie O, This town just is not the same without you! I miss you sneaking up in back of me with that smirk, and scaring the you know what out of me. You are greatly missed, that goes without saying. You will never be forgotton...never!
Everyone that had the pleasure of being in your company will smile, you did that alot for people. I am so glad that I had the pleasure of knowing you, you were really one of a kind!
Nina
Chand Kataria
May 26, 2002
Dougie- I knew you personally, not all that well, but you knew my mom and my brothers to the fact that you'd freak out my mom when driving in down. I'll miss you deeply. I can't believe you're gone from our lives. I think about you often, and hope that you're watching over SJFD. You're a hero, and inspiration in our eyes. I'll never forget your great personality...
Miss you, and Love Always,
Chand Kataria
Angie Campbell
May 8, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
David & Linda Hassell
April 2, 2002
God Bless Douglas Oelschlager! We did not know you, but we owe you a debt of gratitude for your bravery and proving to the world such men do exist in the United States of America. You will not be forgotten!
March 18, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL HERO..DOUGLAS OELSCHLAGER AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Ron and Diane Craft
March 11, 2002
We had the privilage of knowing Dougie for many years. He was like a part of the family when he was younger. Ron enjoyed being a volunteer fireman with him at OBFC. He was truly a good friend, and always someone you could count on. He will be grealy missed.
Julie Lewis
March 4, 2002
Dear Oelschlager Family,
I recieved Douglas' name braclet as a gift. I wear it with honor for his sacrifice and in remembrance. Of his life and all it was, though I don't know anything about his life...I know he was selfless in his actions and he is a hero to his family and all Americans. I am a nurse and know what serving the public is about. I can appreciate that Douglas would probably say,"I'm just doing my job." I feel quite sure he would dismiss his actions to this common thought instead of claiming it as an act of heroism....Thank you Douglas for just doing your job....You are a HERO....to Americans, FDNY, and to your loved ones. God Bless You, Julie Lewis
Shelby Davis
January 9, 2002
We hold your family in our thoughts and prayers. Both my husband and son are volunteer firefighters. Some of the guy from our station got FDNY caps with memorials embroidered on the back. The one my son wears has Douglas' name on it. He wears it proudly. Simple thanks are not enough to make up for his loss, but always know that Douglas is one of the true American heroes.
Judy C
December 31, 2001
Dear Douglas,
It takes courage, compassion and caring for your fellow man to become a firefighter. How well we all know that, since the beginning of time, but even more so, since September 11. God Bless you for making the ultimate sacrifice and may you rest in peace with God. I know you are there in Heaven, because that is where Angels live.
Teresa Jahn
December 17, 2001
We thank Douglas for sharing his life with others as a firefighter. Such a profession comes with a very warm, caring, generous heart and we thank him for sharing his heart with others. We are very sorry for your loss of Douglas. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Cyndi Dinkel
December 14, 2001
I will wear Doug's name on my wrist every day and think of him and what a hero he was! And I will say a prayer for his family every time I look at my band. God bless you !!!!
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Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
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Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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