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Joseph Ogren Obituary
Joseph J. Ogren and his brother Lance were always close.
Tall and athletic, Joseph, who was called Jay, and Lance earned swimming scholarships to St. John's University. They both ran the New York City Marathon -- twice. They both loved music and played guitar. And they rented a house in Staten Island and lived upstairs-downstairs from each other. "We knew each other inside and out," said Lance Ogren.
The youngest of five children, the two brothers enjoyed each other's company, sometimes a little too much. Their mother, Dorothy Ogren, said that when they visited their siblings and nieces and nephews, the siblings sometimes said the brothers "were too wild for their children."
In 1992, the brothers took the exam to become firefighters and both scored well. Even so, it was four years before there was an opening for Lance Ogren. Jay Ogren had to wait another two years.
Once he joined the Fire Department, Jay Ogren was assigned to Ladder Company 3, one block south of Union Square, where he was working on Sept. 11. Lance was off-duty that day.
Mrs. Ogren was surprised by their career choice. "Of my children, I never expected them to go into the Fire Department," she said. But once Lance Ogren became a firefighter, it was likely that Jay Ogren would, too. After all, they were twins, born 31 years ago today.
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David Eaglesham
October 6, 2019
I had the privilege of working with Jay and his brother Lance as a lifeguard at Sandy Hook, NJ many years ago. I remember how much joy and happiness they brought to everyones life. They always wore a smile and offered a helping and for those in need. Both brothers gave everything they could and that fateful day back in September 2001 I grieve the loss of Jay and on this day of remembering fallen firefighters, I say a prayer for both Jay and his brother Lance and their families. You will always be remembered Jay.
Arlene Everett
September 13, 2019
I wear Joseph Ogren name on my wrist most days, a fund raiser after. Im blessed and very proud to have if only learned about Joseph and his family this way. The kind you wish youd known growing up. I grieve, so I cant imagine your loss, I pray for you all. Thank you for sharing Jay memory this way, he will forever live in our hearts. Warmest Regards, Arlene
Mark Sigmund
September 12, 2019
Honored to have climbed in your memory in the 9/11 stair climb at Lambeau field this September. Mark Sigmund AVFD
Travis Fischer
September 22, 2018
I was honored to participate in the Lambeau Field stair climb in Green Bay, WI today in your memory. You are a true hero. I've got 15 years In with a volunteer fire department.
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September 11, 2017
Remembered and honored for your service, your courage and your sacrifice. I pray God provides your family peace this day. And the ability feeling joy from memories of love shared. Rest easy.
S J. Friscia III
December 14, 2015
In memory
With Honor & Respect.
Josie Navarro
September 12, 2015
Hey Joe...visited the memorial over the summer specifically to find you. Although we lost touch after i left NY, i always remember you fondly...i pray you are sleeping in peace my friend. Your sacrifice & courage will never be forgotten
Lynda (Condon) Wilburn
September 11, 2015
I knew him as "Jay", one of the twin lifeguards at Great Kills Swim Club. I was friends with Jay & Lance during their time working at GKSC. I eventually moved to Florida and lost contact - but was saddened to hear of Jay's passing on September 11, 2001. On this, the 14th anniversary of 9-11, I pray for Jay, his family, friends and our great nation. Thank you to the Ogren family for your dedicated service and God Bless.
May 19, 2015
Hi Jay, Thinking of you and family often, Robbie too. You know of the little man, Hudson Jay! Keeping both the Ogren and Golden family in my prayers. You will never be forgotten
October 25, 2014
I never got to know you, but I know that you were a true hero and an amazing person.
Arlene Everett
August 6, 2014
My heart still aches to this day. I'm honored and somehow feel unworthy to wear your name on my wrist. You will be remembered always. No words can say what the heart feels. You live forever in the hearts of these here that love and miss you so much, count me please as one of them. I will never forget.
God Bless your family and loved ones. I pray for their peace beyond understanding. Thank you Joe.
June 18, 2014
I really miss you...
September 12, 2013
dear Jay...we keep you in our hearts and minds every day. I miss you my friend.
Aimee
Charles Donohue
September 11, 2013
Today on this 12th anniversary of 9-11,I pause to reflect.I had the privilege to work with Jay as a Sandy Hook Lifeguard. My thoughts and prayers are with him today.
Kathy Manetta
September 11, 2013
Always in our thoughts and hearts.
Kayla
September 10, 2013
Uncle Jay, I wish I could have known you better and I wish you were here to see how our family has grown, it's not the same without you and uncle Robby but we all know you're always looking over us, love you so much <3
Joseph Streisfeld
June 6, 2013
Lance, I never knew your brother but it is awesome to think there was another like you. You have been so helpful to me as a swim instructor and I look forward to more. God bless you and your family.
Ken Shanahan
January 25, 2013
Jay, I never met you, but worked with your brother Bobby. In 2001 I carried your helmet plate with me in the NYC Marathon in your honor, since you couldn't be there. Bobby told me you were registered and looking forward to running. I will carry your name with me this coming Sunday in the Miami Marathon. I wish you were still with us to do these things yourself. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten. Take care of Bobby. We miss him too.
Ken
September 16, 2012
Hello my name is Michael Lonewolf. I am a native american indian ( Cherokee ). This man and the the rest of the firefighters who passed away on 9/11 are true warriors.I pray that GOD will bless their loved ones.
Josie Navarro
September 13, 2012
Think about you every day, not just in September. Your spirit, your friendship, your smile & your sacrifice will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! God Bless. My heart & prayers go out to all your loved ones. RIP my friend.
Lori M
September 11, 2012
hi Joey, I seen your fiance speak your name today, and i seen alot of people speak their loved ones names , but I cried when I seen your girl! She is beautiful and the love she still has for you showed in her soul today! Wow, you must have been one heck of a Nice Guy, she loves you dearly! I hope to meet you one day in heaven, You are a true hero! Very Handsome!
Dave Eaglesham
September 11, 2012
Thank you for your selflessness in a great time of need; a hero is a title that does you little justice. I'm proud to have shared a beer with both you and Lance. Bless you both and may the road rise to meet you back at the Hook. Gone but never forgotten!!
Aimee
September 11, 2012
Though oceans away
Waves roll in my thoughts
Hold tight the ring
The sea will rise
Please stand by the shore
I will be there once more.
We miss you so very much.
Ligia Jarquin-Sanchez
September 10, 2012
I remember you always, and I remember your smile and your gentle way of being, I can only say that I thank God to have met you while we worked together at the D.A. Office, TB 60. You will always be remembered on matter what time of year it is. May God have you in his arms and may your shining star bright up forever.
Jacqueline Schoengold
October 21, 2011
On 9/11/11 I was proud to have been the one to fly a flag in Hanover, PA in the honor of Joseph J. Ogren & in loving memory of my father Michael Petyo & father in-law Stanley Schoengold. I thank them all for the service to our country that allows me the freedom that my family has today. I wish I could know more about Mr. Ogren but I do offer my thoughts & prayers to his family. J. Schoengold
Karen Formica & My daughter, Arianna
Karen Formica
September 18, 2011
I can remember much younger time with you and your brother. Catholic school. St. Joseph St. Thomas. You two were the ones all the girls wanted. I think of you on every anniversary, and still am trying to find a way to get in touch with your brother, Lance. See if you could tap him on the shoulder and throw him a hint that I've been looking and trying to get in touch with him. I can only say - I'm proud to have been one of those girls that did nothing but abuse and bother you two. My thoughts and prayers are always with you and Lance.
Karen Formica
September 13, 2011
you inspire me so much! i love you forever!
aimee
September 12, 2011
dearest jay...you are in our thoughts, you have pieces of our hearts and your laughter will always bring smiles to our faces. we miss you...aimee
Casey D.
September 11, 2011
Today I was at our city's ceremony and they had a flag for every person that died. I picked Jay's flag. I looked him up on my computer and read his story. It is such a wonderful story. I will remember Jay's story forever. Thank you for your sacrifice!
September 11, 2011
to Dottie & family on this 10th anniv. of 9/11 we heard the name of Joe, your son & brother, who gave the ultimate sacrifice. As we are so saddened for this senseless act, we realize the enormous loss you all have had to bear. the courage of your son will always be remembered as well as his brother, & all of our brave men and women who give their very lives to save others. Your family is truly blessed to have these heroes. God bless and give you strength. Allen & Alice, 1406
September 10, 2011
To the Ogren and Golden families, It is every day I think of Jay, which brings me to Lance and the rest of your family. Lots of love and support from on old friend. We will never forget. Stay strong. Lots of love...
Kate Stumpf
September 10, 2011
Jay I never met you but my mother and family were childhood friends of yours at the SouthShore Swim Club on Staten Island (Joann Labriola Stumpf). You shared the same birthday as my mom and she has always spoken fondly of you and Lance. I pray you are in heaven at rest. Thank you for your sacrifice!
Josie Navarro
September 9, 2011
I remember you today as if it were the 1st we meet at the NY County DA's officer where you were a paralegal and I was the secretary in Trial Bureau 60. An overall good guy, who was always smiling even on the hectic days. You were taken from us too soon, but I know you are looking down on us and keeping us safe. God Bless your family. I remember helping you type up a report using carbon paper & what a pain it was for both of us, but we laughed it off at the type-writer & got it done. Miss you & I will NEVER FORGET you & your kind/sincere smile.
Melissa
September 7, 2011
You are forever in my thoughts and prayers.
JORDAN H
January 28, 2011
JOSEPH- IM SO INSPIRED BY YOUR HEROISM ON 9/11. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR BRAVERY ON 9/11. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY NIGHT. GOD BLESS YOU HERO. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU GAVE ON SEPT 11TH.
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Kristen B
September 15, 2010
Never Forgotten.
September 11, 2010
I love you
Aimee
September 11, 2010
Jay- you will forever dance in our hearts. We miss you so very much.
James Haughey
September 11, 2009
I am thinking of Jay today and the entire Ogren family. You are all in my prayers. I had a great summer in Sandy Hook working with Jay and Lance and will never forget it. Jay was a great guy and I have thought of him and Lance often. God Bless
Kathy Manetta
September 11, 2009
Thinking of you today.....
Aunt Kathy
Catherine McINtyre
June 7, 2009
We are foster puppy-parents for a male yellow lab named in honor of Joseph Ogren. We have submitted his photo and hope the dog passes all phases of training and serves woth honor.
The McIntyres of College Station TX.
TSA puppy- Ogren
June 7, 2009
Dave McIntyre
June 7, 2009
I direct the homeland security education program at Texas A&M. We are sponsoring a TSA puppy that will be an explosives detection dog when he grows up. Each dog is named for a victim of 911. Ours is named for Joseph. We will take good care of him for you.
Doug Abraham
December 28, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
September 12, 2008
Remembered always! God bless you and your family
Stacee Montague
September 12, 2008
To the Family of Joseph,
I am a firefighter/EMT from Evergreen, Colorado (population 40,000). We are a small volunteer department in the heart of the Rocky Mountains. We were invited to participate in the Denver tribute to the heroes of September 11. This is the fourth year of the event with 343 firefighters climbing 110 flights of stairs in full bunker gear to honor our fallen brothers and sisters. This year, we were all given a small picture of a firefighter who gave all. I had the honor of receiving Joseph’s picture. My thoughts and prayers were with you, the family, but also with Joseph.
http://photos.denverpost.com/photoprojects/galleries/cologalleryV6.html
http://www.rockymountainnews.com/videos/detail/firefighter-911-memorial-staircase-run/
Darin
September 11, 2008
Aloha Jay,
Remembering our days working together at Sandy Hook and the fun we had. You are always with us.
Tracy Ogren
August 29, 2008
To the Ogren Family,
I didn't know Joseph, but I want to offer my condolences to his family and friends.
Though many years have passed, I felt the profound need to remember, and to thank the men and women who risk their lives everyday to keep us safe.
I want you to know that my thoughts are with you always, along with my deepest sympathies.
Diana Flynn-Anderson
March 21, 2008
Dear Ogren Family,
I'm sorry I am just now coming across this guestbook. I swam with Jay and Lance at SJU and have the fondest memories. May your family endure continued strength.
Warmly,
TC
Karl Schaefer
February 23, 2008
I used to swim with joe in college. It's amazing how time flies. I pray for his family and friends that at some point they may have peace.
Doug Abraham
December 28, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
September 11, 2007
just remembering you are a hero
P Tabbernor
January 20, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 22, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Melissa Leyva
September 11, 2006
I worked with Joe in the Manhattan District Attorney's office. He was a great friend and always made me smile. I think of Joe very often and especially on this day. I will be forever grateful that I had the honor of knowing Joe. I hope his family will find peace.
Mary McGowan
September 11, 2006
To the Ogren Family,
I wear a bracelet with Jay's name in remembrance. I pray that you find peace and comfort on this day. My Dad was a firefighter in a tiny upstate town and I share the same birthday as Jay. We all share the conection of loss and grief. God bless you and be with all of your family.
Jacie Bruns
November 30, 2005
I too wear a bracelet with Jospeh Ogren inscribed, and I am honored. It is strange how close and proud you can feel of someone you have never met. Thank you Jay! You are remembered and honored everyday and always.
Thomas Manetta
November 5, 2005
To my father's sister, her entire loving family and the memory of so many priceless moments filtering eternal in our "family" forever:
I love you Jay. I miss you Jay. I will never forget you Jay. We will surf someday, with Lance and it will break better than ever.
So many tragedies have befallen this family; Your standard of love remains and carries us forward.
Dottie...
miss you.
francis napoli
November 5, 2005
The courage displayed by all who fought to save that day is not forgotten. My deepest sympathy to all.
Kathy Manetta
September 11, 2003
We miss you Jay and think of you often.
Love,
Aunt Kathy
Christine Charles
July 18, 2003
I worked in the Manhattan District Attorney's office with Joe. What a great guy!! Always a smile. I remember he had a friend who's dad was a firefighter and was killed in a fire started by an arsonist. He was so wonderful to that family. So concerned and so compassionate. On September 11th I was walking up 2nd Avenue to get away from the towers and saw so many firefighters speeding down towards them. On motorcycles, packed into fire engines and cars. It is something I will always remember. I knew Joe was a fireman but didn't know what company he was with. What a shock when I heard he was lost. I think of him and of his family often. I hope they find peace. My prayers are with all of you.
Bob Dettinger
February 27, 2003
I recently purchased a 9.11 memorial bracelet engraved with the name of one of the NY Firefighters who were lost in the Trade Towers disaster. Joseph's name was on the bracelet I received and I quickly did a search to find out more about him. Reading of him brought a period of sadness to me but now I am very proud to wear the bracelet, tell others of its purpose and relate what I know of the brave young man whose name is engraved on it.
Jeff &Karen Buscher
October 26, 2002
To the Ogren Family,
My husband is a firefighter here in Northern California and we were saddened by the events that took place on Sept. 11th and the lost of so many firefighter who gave their lives to help save others. AT the time of this tragic event our dog had just delivered a litter of puppies for an organization called Canine Companions for Independence. These are dogs that are raised to help assist people with handicaps such as Guide dogs for the blind. The litter is given a letter from the Alphabeta to identify/track the litter. The letter "O" was the litter we were given and we went straight to the firefighter list. We hope this honors his name and will continues his memory in service to others.
Sincerely, Jeff & Karen Buscher
Eileen Santiago
September 17, 2002
My school held a memeorial for 9-11 by putting the name of those who died on american flag pins. I had the honor of wearing the name of Mr.Ogren. I will cherish the pin in his memory for as long as I live. Thank you to his family for having such a heroic man such as he fighting for our country. My condolences go out to you all.
Amy Ogren
September 13, 2002
I, too, was surprised to see a fellow Ogren as one of our fallen comrades. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I work with Jeffrey Ogren, who also signed this guestbook, and as we feel a kinship because of our unique last name, I especially feel for you and your family.
Jeffrey Ogren
September 12, 2002
Dear Ogren Family,
As I watched a tribute to our fallen fire fighters on September 11th I was caught by suprise to hear the name Joseph J. Ogren. I have not done extensive research on my own family tree but know Ogren is not so common a name. I thusly felt compelled to write and express my sincere condolences regarding your loss of Joseph on behalf of myself and my family. I'm proud to share the same name as one of the people I consider to be one of the greatest Heroes of my generation. To loose one's life in the attempt to save the lives of others is as great a sacrifice as one could possibly conceive. Today I walk a little taller and with a renewed sense of family and country, I feel I owe this to Joeseph.
Yours in name and spirit,
Jeffrey M. Ogren
Jackie Esposito
September 11, 2002
I went to St. Joseph St. Thomas with with Lance and Jay. When I saw Jay's name in the paper 1 year ago I was so upset. I just wanted to say my prayers and thoughts are with you. And Jay may you rest in peace and one day we will all meet again.
Jennifer Bollaert Martin
September 11, 2002
I was friend with Jay & Lance in high school and we also shared many great memories at the Jersey Shore. I just want the entire Ogren family to know that they are always in my thoughts and prayers. Jay is a true hero.
Kevin H
September 11, 2002
Hey Buddy
It's been a few years since i ran into you and Lance on St Patrick's Day in front of Tammany Hall after the parade and more than ten since college. we exchanged numbers but never followed through. I never knew you were in that Union Square Firehouse, I live only a few blocks away. We had a great time at SJU and now I'm even more sorry we didn't keep in touch.
Look for Lester.
CHRISTOPHER MOORE
July 29, 2002
To the Ogren Family,
I purchased a 911 bracelet with Joseph's name on it. I was a firefighter in large borough in Pennsylvania before joining the US Army. My fellow firefighter's and I were always aware of the dangers when we responded to call's and in the back of our mind, we knew it could be our last. Joseph knew the dangers as well, unselfishly serving his fellow New Yorkers. I never knew Joseph but I would like to extend my deepest sympathy and condolences for such a tragic loss. Your family and the memory of Joseph will never be forgotten.
God Bless,
The Moore Family
Frank Bertola
July 18, 2002
To the Ogren Family,
We go back some ways. I went to St. Joseph - St. Thomas catholic school in S.I., and was also a member of the S.S.S.C. for quite some time. My prayers go out to the entire Ogren family. J.J. will always be in my prayers & thoughts.
Frank Bertola
P. L. Parault
May 17, 2002
I am a Firefighter in a small town in Southwest Arkansas, Local 502, I wanted to send my condolences to the family of Joseph Ogren. I have purchased a 911 bracelet with his name. I didn't know Joseph,but, I know my brother Firefighters. As a Firefighter I know that each call that we make could be our last,but we still do it. The Firefighters of FDNY have my respect and will inspire many others to choose this profession.
Angie Campbell
May 8, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Meghan O'Regan Coleman
April 16, 2002
I knew Jay from swimming and highschool. Many times our paths would cross from knowing different people and friends. Thanks Jay for growing into an honest and noble person. Your efforts on 9-11 were not in vain. My prayers go out to Carrie, Lance, the entire Ogren family, and all of his many friends. Although it has been over 10 years since I last saw him, I think of him often and smile.
April 12, 2002
To Jay - A Hero among Angels. This is for you:"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded." -Robert Waldo Emerson
Just a Friend
April 9, 2002
I know how much we hurt and miss our loved ones but if Joe could, this is what he's say to you- -
When I must leave you for a little while - please do not grieve and shed wild tears and hug your sorrow to you through the years, but start out bravely with a gallant smile; and for my sake and in my name live on and do all things the same. Feed not your loneliness on empty days, but fill each waking hour in useful ways. Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer and I in turn will comfort you and hold you near; and never, never be afraid to die, for I am waiting for you in the sky. Helen Steiner Rice
God Bless and Rest In Peace with the Angles Joe.
David & Linda Hassell
April 2, 2002
God Bless you Joseph J. Ogren! We did not know you, but we owe you a debt of gratitude for your bravery and proving to the world such men do exist in the United States of America. You will not be forgotten!
Hank Romeu
March 29, 2002
Dear Lance, Carrie, Ms. Ogren and the entire family.
I find it so hard to put into words how sorry I feel for not really keeping in touch with everyone. As kids, we had the school and the woods in the summer and the pond in the winter. Even just watch Young Frankenstein in your basement. It was always me, Jay, Lance and Zeeke. The best times a kid could ever have. Always remember we are all a phone call away. You are all in my thoughts and prayers every day. May Jay rest in peace. Amen
Leslie Blair Gallagher
March 18, 2002
I pick Joseph Ogren out of the list of heros from 9/11 to memorialize in a quilt project that is being created like the AIDs quilt. He had a such a serious expression in his official picture but a tinkle in his eye like he could be really fun too. God watch out for him and his family.
With a grateful heart for his sacrifice and kindest regards,
March 18, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL HERO.JOSEPH J.OGREN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS BROTHER LANCE..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ST.JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN
Enzo Villani
February 12, 2002
I knew Jay and Lance in HS. We all went to St.Peters Boys on Staten Island. Even though they're twins, you always knew the difference, because Jay was funnier than Lance.
(No offense Lance)
Jay was a brave a good man, we should all hope to acheive the level of kindness and sacrifice that he put forward on 911.
God Bless the Ogrens and my family and I pray for you.
Danny Grzejka
February 11, 2002
Thanks for your heroic effort in the 9/11 tragedy. The memories you left behind will always be remembered.
I thank you and Lance for being my friends in High School. Even though we lost touch I will always remember the great times that we had. God Bless your family and friends.
Danny Grzejka
St. Peters HS class of 1988
Mary Worth
January 12, 2002
Dear Lance:
We swam together at St. John's for a brief time. I believe that you were a freshman when I was a senior. My husband, Tom Sartorio also swam for SJU, but graduated the year before me.
I recognized Jay in the NY Times and could not believe my eyes. I am deeply sorry. I, too lost someone very special. My 21 year old nephew, Tommy Ashton was working his second day on the job in tower 1. We have reason to believe that he escaped the building (even though his job was on floor 95) and was helping others outside when he was killed. My sister and our entire family is devestated. I believe that someday our pain will ease a bit, but I know that not everyone in my family is as confident as I.
I wish you and your family my sincerest sympathy. All my love...
Bryan Harkins
January 7, 2002
Dear Ogren Family and Carrie Bergonia,
Close to 4 months later, words still cannot describe my sorrow for your loss. I hope my fond memories of Jay will help in some small way. I will always remember Jay's infectious smile, his love of music, and quite simply his dedication to making sure he got the most out of life. I have many great memories of good times that I shared along side Jay: running in the NYC marathon, FDNY races on Staten Island, and most of all just hanging out and laughing along side him at various parties.
We all want our lives to mean something. We all have jobs to make a living to provide for ourselves and to provide for our families, but beyond that, we want to be productive citizens and want to make a positive impact (however little) on our place in humanity. We can no doubt say that Jay Ogren's life made a difference. And that while it is a tremendous tragedy that his life is over at age 30, he experienced a great deal of the good things that life has to offer. He experienced things that people that live to age 90 never experience. He gave his life to save others. Is there a better way to make a difference than that?
I will always consider Jay a friend. I will never forget him and what he meant to a countless number of lives. Thank you for giving the world Jay Ogren.
Jenny Kellner
January 4, 2002
I just want to say that all those who risked their lives so bravely and their families that have been left beind, you are always in my prayers! Especially my best friend Leigh and her family that lost Jay.
Charlene Ahrens (Stieg)
January 4, 2002
Dear Dottie and family:
I watched the events of 9/11 unfold in front of my eyes in shock and horror. When Marge told me about Jay I was stunned. I pray that as time goes by your pain will lessen. I know you are proud of Jay and have every right to be so! God bless. Your famil are in my thoughts frequently.
Love,
Charlene
Ronald Dau
December 31, 2001
To the Ogren Family,
I knew Jay when we swam together along with Lance for FSPY swim team in NJ. He was a terrific guy. Please accept my family's sincere condolescences. He is a hero.
Ronald Dau, Leslie Dau, Rachel Dau and Jake Dau
Judy C
December 31, 2001
Dear Ogren Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved son and twin. There can be no greater sorrow than losing someone who is a "part" of you.
May you find peace and comfort knowing people all over the world are praying for you, Joseph and your family who was left behind.
I believe in Angels and I know your beloved Joseph is living in peace with God, because that is where Angels live. Rest In Peace, Joseph!
Teresa Jahn
December 17, 2001
We thank Joseph for dedicating his life as a firefighter. Helping others the way a fireman does shows the world that he had a very warm, caring and loving heart. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Joseph. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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