Vijayashanker Paramsothy

Vijayashanker Paramsothy

Vijayashanker Paramsothy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 4, 2001.
Daily Caller to Malaysia

Vijayashanker Paramsothy, known to one and all as Vijay, had been just about everywhere in his 23 years. He was born in Petaling Jaya, Malaysia; he had visited friends in Turkey, Switzerland, Argentina, Brazil, Mexico, Japan, Germany and England.

On Sept. 8, 2001, he attended a wedding in Spain. "He was looking very elegant that day," the bride, Ana Oliver, wrote to Mr. Paramsothy's father. "He made lots of new friends." But he loved New York, and he came back Sept. 10, in time to return to his job the next day as a financial analyst for Aon Corporation in the World Trade Center

Though he lived half a world from home, in Astoria, Queens, he called his parents in Malaysia every day and visited them when he could.

"He was a great companion to me," said his father, Paramsothy Sivapakiam. "We were on the same level. We would drink together. We liked to play jokes on each other. When he got a movie camera, he said, `The first thing my father will do is take pictures of me in the toilet.' "

The son lived through a close call in the World Trade Center in 2000. He was in an elevator that overshot its highest floor, hit a ceiling and then fell 15 feet. His back was injured, and he spent four months in a cast.

Five days before Mr. Paramsothy died, his father had a heart scare in Malaysia. "A palpitation, 199 beats a minute," Mr. Sivapakiam said. "But I survived. If only I had died he would have come home and he would still be alive."

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November 11, 2024

My dear Vijay, It’s been over 23 years since that fateful day I think about you so often, our friendship at TCI, our lunches on Sunday, hugging you at graduation last You helped me pick my first suit, prepare me for my first interview, took me to my first off broadway show My favorite songs today are the ones you introduced me to 25 years ago. I wish I could tell you today how much your friendship meant to me then, and still means to me now. RIP my friend. I will see you one day again. Until then, your memories will live in my heart.

Sean Roberts

September 12, 2021

Rest in peace Vijay, kind soul

G Ang

September 11, 2021

Memories of a special person like you are special treasures.

Jennifer Gabriel

September 11, 2021

Rest in peace. On my behalf of my dad, Anthony Doss Gabriel.

September 11, 2020

Rest in peace, on behalf of my late father Anthony Doss Gabriel.je

Sean Roberts

September 12, 2019

We loved Vijay! Rest in peace our friend❣

Jennifer Gabriel

September 11, 2019

Rest in peace. On behalf of my father, Anthony Gabriel.

The Kindred Family

November 26, 2018

Sending our heartfelt condolences for your loss. Vijay touched the lives of others and will always be fondly remembered. May the time come when these acts of violence are ended forever.

Martina Bedin

September 12, 2018

i miss you every day... you are in my heart . i know one day we will see eachother.

Jennifer Gabriel

September 11, 2018

My prayers to the Paramsothy family, on behalf of my late father Anthony Doss Gabriel, who was acquainted with Vijay's father. Rest in everlasting peace.

Rina K

April 22, 2017

I visited 9/11 reflection pool and saw the flowers on Vijaya's name today. It msg be his birthday. Happy birthday. May you find peace and eternal bliss.

S.J Friscia III

February 22, 2017

In memory with
Honor & Respect.

Nina Peguero

September 16, 2016

Seeing your picture again brings back great memories.
Rest In Peace.
I remembered you, as the time hasn't passed.
Thanks again!!!

Jennifer Gabriel

September 14, 2016

From dad and myself.

Jennifer Gabriel

September 14, 2016

On behalf of my dad, Anthony Doss Gabriel, who was acquainted with his father. Rest in peace brother.

Alexandra Gamarra

September 11, 2016

Always in my heart my dear friend

September 11, 2015

Thinking of your family today - Jennifer Gabriel

Martine Bedin-Unternährer

September 11, 2015

My dearest friend VJ, still miss you every day.... You are always here with us

Shazia Salerno

September 11, 2014

My dearest Vijay, I miss your friendship so much. I will always hold fond memories of you close to my heart. Thinking of you, this day and every day... Sending my heart felt condolences to your family.

Jennifer Gabriel

May 15, 2014

from my dad and I - Anthony Dass Gabriel and Jennifer Gabriel

Jennifer Gabriel

May 15, 2014

My dad knew your dad - not so well but a connection nevertheless. My dad has passed since, I think of you sometimes because my dad visited your father a few times after 9/11. Have peace in heaven.

Francesca Storer

September 17, 2013

I will never forget your smile, dear friend

Jonas Enstrom

September 11, 2013

Your are still here in my heart. All my love to your family.

neha soni

May 16, 2013

i went to ground zero and re lived the tragedy . May god bless his soul in peace.

February 11, 2013

Dear VJ,
last night I watched 9/11 on NATGEO channel and once again I remembered our memories with you at NY and TCI school and also saw your lovely mother and father on TV you have told to me about your home your family in Kuala Lumpur during our education at your room at eight floor.
Dear Vj family; he lived and passed away as a hero, no one can steal his memories from his friends all over world.

Madhu Deepak Menon

September 10, 2012

Reading past articles of this gentleman. I have tears in my eyes. Good people are loved by God more. But they are also destined to live among us. God bless his soul ! And my heart goes out to his parents.

Adriana Balthazar

September 10, 2012

My dear friend VJ is always in my mind, my heart and my sweet memories. I'm sure he is a kind of angel and that he is fine wherever we go or rest after death!!! God bless his family !

Alexandre Pontara

September 10, 2012

RIP my dear friend.

February 11, 2012

Dearest Shanker,
You will always be remembered as a candle in our lives.
May you rest in peace.
Love your evergreen auntie

Ian Kenwright

February 1, 2012

An amazing story and Vijay is an amazing person. You can be sure he is still around in spirit looking after people connected in love.
Love and Prayers to all

Sean

October 27, 2011

Dear VJ,
Our dear friend,we were friends in college,you were one of the first people we told when we got engaged, you were in our wedding party and met our first daughter. We will always remember with joy our time at Orange Bear, in the cafeteria, in Queens in our first small apartment.
God rest your soul.
Sean and Ianina Roberts

Shanna Tyrrell

September 14, 2011

RIP Vijay. Thinking about the College of Insurance Days.

Lisa

September 13, 2011

Can someone please tell me how I can buy the book his dad wrote, I would love to read it.

Bob & Cathy Needle

September 12, 2011

Some years ago, you gave my husband a book you published about Vijay. We cherish that book and show it often to visitors.We also tell them about Vijay's courage and sacrifice that day. It is so important to us that he, and all the Aon victims be remembered.
We send you our thoughts and prayers. And we assure you that your beloved son will never be forgotten,

Dashini

September 12, 2011

The pain from 10 years ago, still lingers today, a testament of how great a friend you were. You are still missed Shanker. Deeply.

Priya Thiagarajoo

September 12, 2011

to dearest uncle and aunty. my heart goes out to you both. i have never met vijay but i lost my brother this march. he was only 29 years old , a most generous loving son. your boy was placed on earth to bring joy and love to so many others just like my brother. atma never dies. you will see your son again. i thank you for your courage and for the foundation you have set up. that's a plan my parents have for my brother for he was such an enthusiastic accountant. end of the day only love matters and your vijay has shown us that. thank you for your courage .

September 12, 2011

May you rest in Peace...

Kelly

September 11, 2011

Hi Vijay. I'm proud of you just reading your story. As a Malaysian and a mother, your story left me with tears, as I only could wish my son would grow up being the perfect son for me and my husband too as you did to your parents. May god bless you.

September 11, 2011

True Malaysian hero

Shazia (Momin) Salerno

September 11, 2011

I miss you Vijay. My heart weeps. The world is a sad place without your smile, your friendship, your wisdom, and your chivalry. I will always cherish the times we spent together. Love, always.

shayla williams

September 11, 2011

Still missing you Vijay! Such an awesome person warm soul...I will never forget.RIP
Love Always,
Shayla

jonas Enstrom

September 11, 2011

Vijay, Ten years and I still don't know what to say. I miss you.
Love,
Jonas

Prashanth Martin

September 11, 2011

My heartfelt prayers and thoughts go out to Shanker and his parents. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to lose one's only son.I hope to get a copy of his biography to learn more about this fine gentleman.

Aishah

September 10, 2011

I don't have any relations with Mr. Vijay but as a fellow Malaysian, my heart goes out to him and his family. I've read stories about him and what I learned that he was a good man. He stayed behind to help a friend. May you rest in peace.

Lisa

September 10, 2011

RIP

Lisa

September 10, 2011

I don't know Vijay but watched a programme last night and his parents were on there talking about him. I feel for them so much but they are and should be utterly proud of what Vijay acheived. He was gone too soon but may he rest in peace. I am so sorry for your loss

August 31, 2011

THINKING OF YOU

KATHY
MERCERSBURG PA

September 10, 2010

I didn't know you, but was drawn to your picture because of your smile. After reading your biography, I thought you seemed like a fun and nice person. I hope your soul finds peace. We will be thinking of you and all the others whose lives were taken senselessly that day. May you and your family be blessed today and always.

Sharika Tucci

May 26, 2010

Vij, you will never be forgotten. Time moves on with the demands of family, work, life....but your character, your spirit, they live on. I still have that B&W photo of you that I took in my room at TCI after I dragged you all around NY shooting scenes for my photography course (you really didn't mind!) This photo proudly sits among the photos of family and friends in my home, reminding me of some really great times in NY with you. I miss your wit and your advice. I'm sorry you had to leave so soon......

xoxo
Sharika (Richardson) Tucci

Angel Unzueta

November 23, 2009

Hi my friend,
Im sure that you would laught about my english, as always. I couldn´t return to NY anymore after the day that you are not there ...and that´s because it won´t be the same without you. I would like to tell a lot of things about you, but I can´t....just because I would need much more space and a better english. I really , really miss you my friend...and really hope to see you again.
Love you

P & I Fernandez

September 21, 2009

Mr & Mrs Paramsothy,
We lost our son two years ago, and everyone said it'll take awhile but time will heal. I don't know about that. But we never took the trouble to ask God to heal us. Instead, we asked what we might do for Him for this gift of a son given to us. And slowly, God is guiding us to fulfil His will. The pain will always be there. So will the tears shed in the depths of our hearts but I think we're living life the way our boy would have wanted.
And so are you.
You could have chosen so many other paths since you lost him but you chose the one of Benevolence and Generosity. I'm sure you that's exactly what your 'little fellow' would have wanted of you. May the Angels always be with you.

Nina peguero

September 11, 2009

When I met vijay at the College of Insurance,I was a simple cashier at the college cafeteria and sometimes I passed for difficults moments and I found in vijay the friend and counselor that I needed at the moment, thank you vijay.
I'll always remember you my Dear FRIEND.
And will always honor YOU.

Nassar Rasool

September 11, 2009

Though I never met or knew Vijay, I have had the honour of meeting, first, his father, Mr Param Sothy, at MACEE, and then his mother, Raji, to whom Vijay is still very much alive, at their family home, to which I was honoured to be invited and shown Vijay's room. May God Bless Vijay's soul and continue to give his beloved parents the strength and serenity to survive the loss of their very special son, whom God loved more and took to be with Him. God Bless.

Peter Arriaga

September 10, 2009

I was a weekend security guard at the College Of Insurance on Murray St, and I remember Vijay was one of the nicest people living at the dorm. Always said hi to me every day and was always in a good mood. R.I.P. Vijay!

Melissa (McDonough) Galetto

September 11, 2008

We still think about you, Vijay, and still miss your smile, laugh and wicked sense of humor. We were blessed to have you as a friend for the years that we did. Our hearts still grieve for your dear parents, who raised such a wonderful son. May you rest in peace, dear Vijay. We still miss you.

Sree Sannasey

September 10, 2008

Always know that your whole family always remembers you as the fresh prince himself and talks about you almost everyday, especially your dear and near Sooms..On this day I extend my condolences to Mr. Paramsothy and family. Like many things in life, only time can heal.JSR.

Tan

September 7, 2008

To the father of this wonderful young man :
Dear Mr Param,
My condolences and God bless you for having a wonderful boy.
You were a wonderful person as well.
Stay strong. Words would not be able to describe your loss.
Tan

Ana Oliver

November 27, 2007

Love you and miss you so much it hurts.

jaquita ingham

September 11, 2007

Vijay - the world is missing out on a wonderful person and a great actuary!! You were taken too soon but you had great experience in your short life. I remember when you cut your hair - you looked like a different person. Rest in Peace and God Bless.

fikret kütük

January 31, 2007

V.J.,

you will always live in our souls like a hero.

Fikret

P Tabbernor

January 25, 2007

In memory....

Jonas Enstrom

January 9, 2007

Happy new year 2007 my freind.

Kristine

November 29, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Lauree Nuccio

September 11, 2006

Vijay,



I have the great memory of you hopping by me on the dance floor with a huge smile on your face at our company party. It then became a joke where you started hopping whenever we saw each other. I was glad that we were going to be working for the same company again and happy that we had lunch before you left for Spain. I will always remember that we took some extra time to have ice cream at the WTC fountain.



I will always remember your smile. God Bless you and your family.

jonas Enstrom

September 10, 2006

Vijay,

Sometimes I think of you every day, sometimes I think of you once in awhile, and sometimes I don't. Years pass by but what you left inside of me remains intact. To be honest, you have unwillingly become an icon of my great years in NYC. When I think of good times (fondue at my place) or bad times (exam results and so on) or even times with no special meaning (watching TV with you and the boys); you automaticaly pop up. You have had (and still have) a truely positive inpact on my life. This is no B.S, I catch myself thinking "I wonder what Vijay would think or say about??)

You know what....I am going through some hard times and I wish you could be here to tell me to shape up and to give me advice.( when I pray i keep on talking to you but you never answer, you bugger. Maybe it's Manschester United's poor result that pisses you off :-) )

See ya later dude,

Jonas

Russell Ong

August 2, 2005

Vijay,



This is not how I imagined our reunion. Been awhile since I found out, about a year I guess. I hope you're in a better place. Had I known you were in the States as well, I would've found you earlier. Primary school wouldn't have had been as fun without you. Rest well.

fikret kutuk

February 1, 2005

Dear V.J.



You were such an extraordinary great man, I were lucky to met you and sent a year together in TCI .I never forget you in my life period.

Doris Leslie

September 12, 2003

Dear Vijay:



I know that your ears must be ringing constantly. Juanita, Michael and myself talk about you every chance we get. It's a shame that life cheated you at such a tender age. I know you were aware of how beautiful your parents are and one must think that they did have a more beautiful son. You are terribly missed and will NEVER be forgotten....so RIP, sleep well and God's richest blessings and guidance to your parents to bear such a tragic loss.

Melissa Williams

September 11, 2003

Though two years have gone by, the pain and sorrow of losing you has not gone away. I think often of how cheated you were, of how cheated we all were that we didn't get to have you in our lives longer. I'm grateful to have called you my friend and hope and pray that you are in a better place. We miss you. Some things won't ever change.

Monica Rivera

September 12, 2002

Vijay,



It has been one year since that horrible day and I can't believe you are gone. I would never forget wednesdays at Windows singing New York, New York with you.

You were the most amazing friend and you will always be in my heart.

I really miss you.

Monica

Yanni Zhu

September 11, 2002

To my friend Vijay:



Still couldn't believe the fact. You'll be never forgotten my friend: the presentation we made together for our marketing class at TCI; Alumni party....and of course your lovely smile! You are the hero in our hearts. We miss you so much and you will be always remembered.

Paul Niewdach

September 9, 2002

Vijay,

It's been about a year since you left us and we miss you so much. I still remember leaving your cubicle and saying goodbye to you the day you left for Europe. Not knowing that would of been the last day I would ever speak or see you again. You were a great friend. We all miss you and one day we will all meet for a drink together again.

Paul

Robert, Nancy, Dustin and Laura Sutton

September 9, 2002

In memory of Vijayashanker Paramsothy

We did not know Vijayashanker, but my husband is the brother of Cam Sutton who works for Aon. I came across this on the internet and wanted to express our deepest sympathy. I have thought of all the lives lost that day and especially of the ones from my brother-in-laws office and it still hurts deeply. Our deepest deepest sympathy to the family.



Nancy Sutton

nirmala nadarajah

September 8, 2002

To my dearest Vijay,



Although we had never met, I heard how special of a person you truely were.



To this day, whenever I hear stories about what took place, your name always pops up and I cannot begin to tell you how much I miss you. I can only imagine what your parents are feeling through your loss.



You are deeply missed and remembered fondly.



With love,



Mani Aunty (Canada)

annie

September 7, 2002

vj



you were a hero. you are remembered as September 11 is upon us.



annie- TCI

Rob Marshall

September 5, 2002

VJ-

You will always be missed by all the people who knew and worked with you at Aon. I think about you often my friend.



See you in the next life...

Siva

August 22, 2002

When death came face to face with you.

You did not take flight.

But true to your name Vijay

Confronted death in combat.

And made the ultimate sacrifice – of life.

So death lost.

You won.Vijay.

J P

July 14, 2002

Shankar,



We've never been close!.The usual squabbles of secondary school students.I remember the horror on your face when you found out that we were distant relatives.I enjoyed that moment : )



For a boy from Kelana Jaya Secondary School,Malaysia you have come far and achieved much.



Your are an inspiration ,to me,to many....



I'm glad that I at least knew this star,now shining ever so brightly in the heavens.



Thank you



regards



J

ALEXANDRA GAMARRA

June 13, 2002

VJ (DJ!!) My friend..I miss your smile, and the way you always cheer me up.. I miss our friendship, I miss the things I let go..but I will always keep all the good memories in my heart, but most importantly you left me your love and frienship through two wonderful people, your mom and dad..Thank you VJ, my DJ(you know why)..God keeps you next to him, Hasta muy pronto

Alex

Sharika Tucci

April 18, 2002

Not many days go by where I don't think of you. Though your life was cruelly cut short, I take great pleasure in the fact that the few years you were given on this earth were lived to the fullest. The entries in this guest book are a testament to how your zeal and zest for life touched so many others. I will miss the times we spent at Yaffa’s, Windows and the days we spent photographing ‘life in NY’. Rest in peace my dear friend, and may your memory live on in the hearts of your friends all around the world.

March 21, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG PERSON..VIJAYASHANKER PARAMSOTHY AND MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY GOD AND HIS ANGELS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Nicolas and Christine de La Chaise

March 11, 2002

Dear Vijay,



It is hard to believe that it has been 6 months now since we last saw you. We still have your postcard on the frig that arrived on September 14th saying that we should all go for drinks when you came back.



We miss Tea & Sympathy dinners, dancing at the Windows on the World, eating nutella at the Swedish festival, watching a good Manchester United game, drinking Guiness for breakfast, quoting Austin Powers, running away for the weekend, emailing everyday jokes, making cheese fondues, laughing about you falling asleep on the N train for 6 hours, making the worst drinks at our first party, dancing to 80's music and last, but not least, dreaming about traveling together and taking over the world... It isn't the same conquest without you along the way to make us laugh.



As the years pass and time heals most wounds, we will always remember you as we open our wedding present of wine not to be opened until 2021. We love you and you will always be in our hearts, minds and prayers.



Nico and Christine

Robert Coste

January 22, 2002

Vijay- I won't say good bye because I believe you're still here, in my thoughts, my memories, and in my soul. Your impression I will carry as long as I live. I'm grateful for our time together, and hope we meet again in the next life.

Paramsothy Sivapakiam

January 15, 2002

Shanker darling, you left us suddenly and broke our hearts. We love you so much, our precious baby. The light has gone out of our lives and there is darkness everywhere. Shanker, you are no more… You are dearly missed… Perhaps we are wrong to say that. Nevertheless we will not see you again as we have seen you these many years.



Shanker, we cannot run to you for love and to seek solace from you, and that is a terrible blow to us. From childhood, you had an amazing appetite for life and you believed in living everyday as if it were the only day. It’s fun to be around you, with your wonderful sense of humour. You were the most loving, caring and affectionate son and we cherish every moment we spent with you.



Remember Shanker, one afternoon, when you touched Amma's hands, you said that her hands had soothed away your pain and her smile had chased away your anguish! When you say such wonderful things to us, we just can’t believe we are blessed with such a wonderful son. You have been the source of some of our greatest joys.



We look forward to the day when all of us will once again, be together.. Take care our darling.

No goodbyes love, until we meet again….



Love, Papa & Amma



January 15th 2002

Kelana Jaya, Malaysia

[email protected]

Baby Aunty

January 11, 2002

Dearest Shanker,

Your absence is greatly felt and we miss you tremendously by the day.Reminiscing the past memories that we had with you is still fresh in our minds and we cherish those precious moments.You're simply the greatest nephew and cousin one could possibly ask for.You made a priceless sacrifice at a young,tender age that only an angel is capable of!You're truly god- send....

We'll always miss your smile and charisma.

Love,

Siva Uncle,Baby Aunty,Ashvin,Kapil and Sachin Nesan.

Chris Hull

January 4, 2002

VJ, your razor sharp mind and wit never failed to amaze me. Nor did your capacity to make legions of friends so easily. I'm quite sure you're the life of the party wherever you are and you're warming the hearts and lives of those you loved with your infectious smile.

God bless my friend.

Chris

Neelam Patel

January 2, 2002

Dearest Vijay,



we didnot spend much time togather but I always felt a connection with you because I felt like we came from a similar back ground and similar culture. I am very sorry you are gone. Some how the knowledge that now we have a world where you are no longer in it is terribly upsetting for me. I wish I had known more things about you . Known and met your family and done lunch and other things that brings people togather with you. I will miss you.



Neelam

Melissa Williams

December 30, 2001

The best way I can think to describe Vijay to those not lucky enough to know him is that he was the kind of guy who, if you met someone who didn't like him, you wondered what their problem was. Everyone loved you, Vijay, and it was never hard to see why. You could bring a smile to anyone's face (even mine when I was being grumpy) and you were always kind, good-natured and fun to be with. You were one of the people that made me glad I went to TCI (and you know that's saying a lot!). I'm sorry we never got to see the cherry blossoms in bloom, but I promise to go and see them this year and think of you. I'll never forget you...thank you for always being a good friend.

Ana Oliver

December 17, 2001

My Dearest Vijay, words just can't express the way I feel. Like everybody else who had the great pleasure of meeting you, I miss you terribly. You brought a smile into my life when I needed it the most, and you cared about every single one of us. That is why, as long as we live, we will all miss having you around, or simply hearing from you. You were THE BEST, and we will all love you always. I'll be forever grateful for having you in my wedding on Sept. 8th and having the chance to see you one last time. Boy did we laugh on our last day together... Take care sweetness... Anita.

Teresa Jahn

December 16, 2001

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Giancarlo Donato

December 11, 2001

Hi, Vj, i really miss you!



Giancarlo

Jonas Enstrom

December 11, 2001

Shanker, thanks for the few years we all spent together at TCI. It would not have been the same without you. I am happy we got to spend some time with each other in Geneva before you had to leave. I will keep great memories of you. You have been a true a loyal friend, and I guess we'll meet somewhere down the road.

All my love,



Jonas

Doris Leslie

December 7, 2001

Well VJ: I only met you a couple of times but you must have been some kind of a guy for everyone to be talking about you so. Wish you could hear them, you would be very proud. I also met your Mother, Father, Aunt, God-mother and friend and what a lovely family you have. No wonder you were such a talk about the office. They should feel very proud to have had a son like you and it's such a pity that you had to leave them at such an early age. I hope they draw strength from the knowledge that your spirit will always be with them throughout this very difficult time. Rest in Peace, VJ.

Juanita Daley

December 5, 2001

Vijay - my big/little brother. What can I say but that I miss you a heck of a lot. We used to have such good times in the RAM Group. Everyday was like an adventure with you there. Sorry my visitors chairs was always so filled with files that you could never sit down, except that one time when I did file them all just so you could take me to lunch. The discussions that you, Michael, Donnie and I had were always so enlightening. I promise to always keep in touch with your parents to make sure they are doing okay. I will never forget you because you've become a special part of my life. I'll cherish the good times we've shared and may God keep you safe until we meet again.



Love you always your big/little sister Juanita

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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

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The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

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Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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