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Monica Lyons Obituary
If you were making dinner, she'd say, `Oh, what can I do?' " Angela Gottlieb said of her cousin Monica Lyons, who would always arrive with a small statue of a child for Ms. Gottlieb's collection. "That was so typical of her."
Ms. Lyons, 53, was an executive assistant at Marsh & McLennan, where she had worked for 30 years.
Ivory Sidberry, Ms. Lyons's boyfriend of six years, sees evidence of her thoughtfulness all around his house. She bought kitchen gadgets, including a huge pepper mill.
"In fact, I just finished using it now," he said recently. "I had a roast beef sandwich, and said, `Hey, what about some fresh pepper? Wow. Monica.' " She organized his constantly growing CD collection, alphabetizing and sorting titles on the computer. "Needless to say, it's sort of outdated now, because she hasn't been here," he said.
Ms. Gottlieb said: "We miss her more as time goes by. You would've thought you wouldn't feel that, but I really do."
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Pat (NASH) Borowski
September 12, 2023
Dear Monica, As I do every year, I speak your name, and remember your kindness. Thank you for being so kind and helpful over the years. Our prayers continue for you and your fmaily. Our forever best
Patricia Borowski
September 11, 2018
Dear Monica, Have not forgotten your warm style and quick smile. Prayers continue for your family. You are not forgotten.
Patrica Borowski
September 15, 2016
Dear Monica,
To the woman who was always in early, loved to help and support others with the talent to lead her own group, and with such a warm smile and manner, I always remember, and you are forever in my prayers. Pat
September 11, 2015
I remember you from when we use to drink at the bar on stone street, you always were a hoot and i remember doing karoke and you cheering me on and i thank you Monica, you are one of may of my Wall St friends who have made an impact on my life and still 14 years later shows you i will never forget you. Thank you.
-Salvatore Governale
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S J. Friscia III
June 1, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Bette Norton Himes
September 14, 2011
Monica was a classmate from Berner HS, Massapequa, 1966. She was always smiling, and had a quiet, gracious determination about her. Her hearts desire was to become an Executive Secretary. May God's good graces continue to gently enfold you and your loved ones.
Barbara Stuart Richard
September 13, 2011
Monica was in my high school graduating class. I did not know her well, but fondly and with a smile. As every 9-11 approaches my thoughts & heart go out to Monica and her family. According to these postings I have read, Monica "grew up" to be just the kind of person I thought she would be.
Linda Finkle-Roser
September 13, 2011
Many years ago when I was a guest of a mutual friend at his prom you and your family welcomed me into your home I will never forget the kindness shown to me a complete stranger Thanks for such a wonderful memory May you rest in the palm of God's hand until we meet again
Francine Adams
September 11, 2011
I have known Monica for many years at the Blarney Stone and the White Horse she was such a wonderful person always lauging and making other people laugh around her you are dearly missed and always in my heart.
John Brady
September 11, 2011
I was with Monica when she was working for Johnson & Higgins in NY I think she was one of the nicest people I worked with. A very loyal and considerat person. Whe was always willing to help when people needed and was very efficient.
Pat Borowski
September 11, 2011
The years go by, but Monica, you remain in my prayers. At the time you were the best Ext Admin one could even have & compared to today - you had ever so much to teach the current lot professionally & in being a lovely person.
September 11, 2011
Dear Monica & Family: You are forever in our hearts & prayers. Monica was THE BEST Ext Admin in the world & I'd told Dennis that more than once before 9/11!
Pat B., PIA National
Patricia Borowski
September 11, 2008
Several times a year, I remember, & say a prayer for those who died, were injuried in many different ways, families, friends, those that helped & for us all. Monica is among the lovely people I knew (NY, DC) & included specifcally by name. I've still not entirely comprehended all this, but the love & joy of their lves is what is real & lasting.
P Tabbernor
December 16, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 14, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Patricia A, Borowski
September 10, 2003
It may be two years later & no one will read this - but I still remember. I am a friend & business associate of Denis'. I had the pleasure of working with Moinca on the kinds of administrative follow-throughs & follow-ups that are a part of business. Monica was always a joy to work with, helpful, successful in her duties, and clearly a lovely individual. I still have the last hand signed letter she sent me. God Bless her & her family & friends that keep her forever in their hearts & minds.
Susan Murren-Azad
February 17, 2003
Monica, I had not seen you in many years. You were married for years to my cousin, John and, since you had dated for years before getting married, I did know you quite well once. You had a warm and lovable personality--very down to earth and kind. My Aunt Helen, your former mom-in-law adored you so and she suffered to hear that you were gone. I will always remember how you and Aunt Helen came out in a real blizzard to see me sing at Arthur's in Manhattan years ago. Only eleven people had showed up because of the weather and the two of you had come in all the way from Long Island.
You were a terrific woman and you are sorely missed. I wish things had been different.
Alexis U.
September 9, 2002
I never knew Ms. Lyons but I feel a connection with her. I bought a bracelet from the Wristband Aid foundation. Engraved on the band I received is the name Monica Lyons. I have searched many times for information about her. God bless your family and please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you always and especially as the one year anniversary approaches.
Alexis, 16
Judy Conroy
May 29, 2002
Monica,
My buddy. Rarely a day goes by that I don't think of you. I miss you tremendously. I never took the time to tell you how special you were to me. I can honestly say that I've never had the priveledge of knowing a kinder or more compassionate person. The "good times" and laughs that we shared are memories that I'll treasure always. Thank you for your friendship, and most of all, thank you for just being you. The gang from McStone's and the White Horse miss you dearly as do I. Every St. Patrick's Day or holiday I'll remember you fondly as the one to organize the festivities. You always brought everyone together. I love you my friend - until we meet again.
Angie Campbell
May 5, 2002
I did not know you or anyone else who passed away on that horrible day last September. I will never forget any of you or what happened to you. May God BLess you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind. Rest in peace forever more.
Denise O
March 21, 2002
I was cleaning out a closet and found a bunch of old photographs and found one where you and Diane were in my guest room, a little tipsy after a great party, laying in bed with umbrellas over your heads. It reminded me so much of the good times that we had. Like the time you insisted you could put hotels on the railroads in monopoly. All the parties we shared and the closeness. You were always there for me through my dilemmas, from the day I first met you, you always jumped in to help. I grew up at J&H with you sitting right beside me. I was married and heard about wedding plans for a year and a half til the subject of babies came up and then you listened to that. I probably talked your ears off, you were such a good listener, and I a yapper. You always made me feel comfortable. You took over in work when you knew I needed a break. You were a very special person. You dealt with alot in your lifetime, and I know that now you are in Heaven with our many other friends and family, happy, peaceful and watching over us, laughing at all the things we do. I miss you.
Ellen Frey
March 13, 2002
Monica:
It has been 6 months and still can't believe that you are gone. You are now with your parents whom you loved very much. You were a very special person who is very much missed by all her friends.
May you rest in peace.
February 26, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WOMAN MONICA LYONS AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ST.MONICA GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN
Teresa Jahn
December 24, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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