Judy H. Fernandez

Judy H. Fernandez

Judy Fernandez Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 20, 2002.
Hard Worker, Hard Player

Judy H. Fernandez was not supposed to be at her office in the World Trade Center on Sept. 11. She was scheduled to leave for a business trip later that day, and could have taken the morning off. But she went in to take care of a few things.

For Ms. Fernandez, 27, being conscientious was a way of life. She worked as a benefits specialist in the human resources department at Cantor Fitzgerald, and made a habit of using her skills to help friends with their careers, even landing her cousin Maria Santillan a job at eSpeed. She was so organized that she made lists of all her goals and preferences: everything from her favorite flower to her desire to marry her boyfriend, Jon Plamenco. "She knew what she wanted in life, and she was going to do what she had to do to get it," said her sister, Emma.

"She wanted to be on the go all the time," said her mother, Corazon. "She loved anything exciting." Years after her brother, Rich, taught her how to ski, Ms. Fernandez took up snowboarding and taught everyone she knew. She had a large and tight-knit group of friends, and her organizational skills would often be put to use planning parties and ski trips.

Ms. Fernandez and her friends had a tradition: a monthly girls' night. There was a girls' night scheduled for Wednesday, Sept. 12, but because she was supposed to be out of town, her friends moved it up to Monday the 10th. Nearly all of Ms. Fernandez's friends were there, and her family has a photo of all of them, snapped at 10:45 p.m.

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on June 2, 2002.


Judy Hazel Fernandez, 2 vibrant cousins loved working in New York

Maria Theresa Santillan and Judy Hazel Fernandez had always been close so the 27-year-old first cousins welcomed the chance to work together at the World Trade Center.

Miss Fernandez got a job at Cantor Fitzgerald about three years ago. When a job opened up at the company's eSpeed subsidiary, the first person she thought of was her cousin.

"It was always a dream of my sister's to work in the city," Miss Santillan's brother Victor said. "I think it was just New York and the prestige of actually working at the World Trade Center."

Working with her cousin made the dream even better.

"They were closer than cousins," recalled Miss Santillan's father, Ex. Some people even thought they looked like sisters. Both majored in biology and were Rutgers University graduates. Miss Santillan attended the Newark campus; Miss Fernandez, New Brunswick.

Also very close to her family, Miss Santillan lived with her parents in Morris Plains. Her father dropped her off at the PATH station a few times a week -- Sept. 11 was one of those days.

"We carpooled that morning together," said Ex Santillan, who is the brother of Miss Fernandez's mother. She worked in the North Tower on the 103rd floor, her cousin on the floor above.

"The North Tower was the first that was hit," Santillan said. "She called me about 9, after the building was hit. She had a frantic, high-pitched voice and was crying that the building was hit by a plane. I thought it was a small plane, and I told her to get out of there, to keep cool and not panic."

He didn't hear from her again.

Just two months earlier, the families celebrated Miss Santillan's engagement. Everyone was looking forward to the May wedding. Miss Fernandez was to be the maid of honor.

"She was very smart, very intelligent, very loving, very witty -- everything you can think of," Miss Fernandez's mother, Corazon, said of her daughter, who lived in Jersey City but was a frequent visitor to her parents' Parlin house. "Whenever she came home, she said, 'Mom, I'm here,' and kissed me and asked for her dog (an American Eskimo named Brook)." Miss Fernandez could not have pets in her apartment.

The weekend before the tragedy, Miss Fernandez told her mother she was going on a business trip on Sept. 11.

In a Sept. 10 phone call, Miss Fernandez mentioned she would go to work before leaving. She told her mom a limousine would pick her up at the Trade Center.

"I asked her why she was going to work when she had such a long trip, and why not stay home and have the limo pick her up at the apartment?" Mrs. Fernandez said. Her daughter said she had things to do. They exchanged, "I love yous."

Mrs. Fernandez said her daughter and her niece "were full of life, full of ambition." Since Sept. 11, Mrs. Fernandez said, the words "beautiful, intelligent and caring" loom large in her mind when thinking about her daughter and niece.

Rich Fernandez of Pennsylvania, Miss Fernandez's brother, said his sister had talked about a future with her boyfriend, Jon Plamenco.

"The four (the cousins and their boyfriends) spent a lot of time together -- they were inseparable," Rich Fernandez said.

Everyone was looking forward to Miss Santillan's wedding. The engagement party held July 6 had been such a good time.

"They had about 90 guests -- friends and relatives -- everybody was happy and looking forward to the wedding next year," Ex Santillan said. "We considered her fiancé part of our family. He and his parents have been with us almost every day since Sept. 11. He is like a brother in our family."

"We were together since my sophomore year in high school," Darren Sasso of Parsippany said of Miss Santillan. "We were together like 91/2 years through thick and thin."

The 26-year-old added, "There was just something about her . . . her personality . . . she was obviously a beautiful girl . . . she had a great family. There was no reason I wouldn't want to marry her."

A memorial service for the cousins will be held at 10 a.m. Nov. 3 at Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart, 89 Ridge St., Newark.

In lieu of flowers, the families ask that contributions be made to a scholarship fund that is being planned.

Miss Fernandez also is survived by her father, Cirilo Fernandez, and her sister, Emma of Philadelphia.

Miss Santillan also is survived by her mother, Ester, and brother Raymond, both of Morris Plains.

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September 15, 2023

Patty

September 11, 2023

Depressed and angry this weekend for what you could have had, and the life you should have lived. Missing you always.

Cindy Roe

September 11, 2021

Remembering Judy on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

Jon P

September 11, 2020

Hi Judy... think about you often, but more today, Sept. 11, now going on 19 years since that fateful day. I can literally remember that morning, which was a beautiful day, going to work together, dropping you off at work and watching you go up that escalator at the WTC as I’m driving away, waving good bye, not knowing that would be the last time I’d see you... your family and friends miss you, as do I... say hi to Peter for me, or Budes as you would call him... Take care!

19 years an Angel

JL Cook

September 11, 2020

I'm a Photographer and got this photo from Sept. 11th.
The Butterfly Tattoo are not Her only Wings.......

Her name whispered to me.

Tamara Moore

September 11, 2019

My daughter and I visited the 9/11 Memorial in January of 2017. Something about this name and the single white rose spoke to me. I often think about this "name" and the beautiful soul behind it. I just wanted you to know her memory lingers on...

The Lucas Family

December 20, 2018

So very sorry for what has happened. We send our heartfelt sympathy to your family. May God continue to give the help and comfort needed as you try to cope. Judy is still missed and will never be forgotten.

Patty

September 11, 2017

Hi Judy - still doing what I do in your memory and of course protecting others from the same. Miss you lots.

Robert Pollando

September 11, 2017

Thinking of you today Judy. We were classmates and I can never forget you. You were kind and beautiful and full of life. I am so so sorry you had to go thru this tragic event. I pray that you are at peace.

Patty

September 11, 2016

Thinking about you. Keep smiling!

Patty

September 11, 2014

Hi Judy,

Just checking in. Miss you much.

joe balli

September 12, 2013

god bless u judy

Joe MANLEY

September 12, 2013

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

By Lamaretta Simmons

Mark Campbell

September 10, 2013

12 Years In Heaven....You Are An Angel Judy. May God Bless Your Beautiful Family.

Kelly

October 23, 2012

I am a New York City Police Officer. On September 11, 2001 I eventually made my way downtown along with many other co-workers. Today, on October 23,2012, while cleaning out an old filing cabinet I came across a business card belonging to Judy Fernandez. On September 11th I came across it in the rubble. I remember looking at it and thinking....please be alive. I put the card in my pocket and kept in on me for weeks after the attack. I misplaced it until today. Rest in Peace Judy.

Joe Manley

September 11, 2012

Thinking of this very special family

Filipinas Santillan

October 7, 2011

Dear Tito Ex, Tita Corazon, Titos, Titas and cousins,

My husband Marc and daughter Sofie visited the 9/11 memorial last Monday, Oct 3.We were given family access. We were able to visit the site of Judy and Maria Theresa. We are very much touched by the incident. We were able to rob the scroll for their name-imprints as remembrance.We are in New York for a week Oct 01-08. This is Filipinas, daughter of Felipe and Marina of Bayambang Pangasinan; Koninginnelaan 10, 3090 Overijse, Belgium

Brenda Serrano

September 11, 2011

Here a Puertorrican family to pray for you and your family. We pick your name on a flag, at Orlando activity today. God bless your family and have your soul with him. with respect Daniel, Arnaldo and Brenda from Kissimmee Fl

Bobbi Martin

September 11, 2011

May you rest in peace

Brittany Alaniz

September 2, 2009

Even though i never really new Judy I just want to say that im really sorry for her families and boyfriends lose and i just want to say that she will be horoneed by every one cause she will always be in there hearts ans thoughs

Doug Abraham

January 8, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

Patty

September 10, 2008

Hi Judy,

It's been a while, but every year around this time, I lose it and can't believe you're gone. Remember those crazy days at Rutgers? I do. I lost it this morning at work and thought I wouldn't be able to get through it. I thought of you and what you must have been feeling those last few moments. I'm sorry. I'm sorry to your family, to everyone that knew you because I know you touched everyone you ever met. Keep smiling that beautiful smile ok?

Doug Abraham

January 8, 2008

Happy Birthday!!!

Doug Abraham

January 8, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

Kristine

November 2, 2006

As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

October 5, 2006

In remembrance....

Bernard Plamenco

January 8, 2003

Happy Birthday Judy! We love you!

Rey Burgos

September 12, 2002

Yesterday, as I watched the Ground Zero commemoration from across the street at my still closed workplace (The Millenium Hilton), I remembered Judy in the congo line at my wedding in 1995. The then 6yr old ring bearer was behind her holding onto her tiny waist and trying to hang-on-for-dear-life as the line snaked around the tables.



As I listened intently for her name to be announced, I remembered "almost running into" Judy on a late spring day in 2001 as I was running to catch the PATH train to NJ. As I ran through the revolving doors into WTC #5, Judy was on the opposite side of the glass "running" out of the building. Not knowing that she was already with Cantor/Fitzgerald, I ran to the escalators while still glancing over my shoulders thinking "nah, that can't be Judy...or is it?" I remembered her glancing backwards over her shoulders too as she walked away onto the side walk, probably thinking "nah, that can't be him or is it?". I never knew that she was only a couple hundred feet away from my office until it was too late.



Today when I got home from work, my wife and I broke out our wedding album to look at the pictures with Judy in them. We showed the pictures to our 3-1/2yr old son and shared with him about how we knew Judy and explained to him how Judy's family loved her in the same manner as we love him.

He may not completely understand what has transpired in the last 12 months, but tonight he learned how Judy Fernandez's love lives on in the lives of those that she touched.



God bless her family, friends and co-workers.

And GOD BLESS AMERICA!

Tracee Fanuncio

September 12, 2002

Taking my first trip ever to New York along with 6 of my other girlfriends was an adventure. Of one of those friends, Mia Cosico - my best friend, is the cousin of Judy's boyfriend, Jon. That day of the tragic event I had called Mia to make sure her family and our friends we have met on the trip to New York in February 2001 were okay. As Mia constantly, one by one, received phone calls from loved ones on the other side of the country, she kept me up to date. So far, everyone was okay. Except her cousin's girlfriend, Judy. She was missing. Mia said, "Do you remember her? She went out with us to this one club when we were there. Look in your photos that we took." Of over 40 pictures we took in New York, there was a picture of Judy, with all of us girls, along with other friends from the vicinity. Although I did not know her very well, I do know we had a great time that night and we have something to remember her by. May she rest in peace along with her cousin, Maria and the others that have lost their lives due to this horrific event. Condolences go out to the families that have lost a loved one. May God give us the strength to heal. And I'd like to give praise those who helped others in need, whether it was rescuing or just comforting others. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!

PS - Attached is the picture of Judy and all of us from our trip to New York in Feb. 2001. L-R: Anthony, Colean, Lisa, Judy, Geemoy, Mia, Jocelyn, Sue, Claude, Me, Dinah
(I'm trying to attach the picture but it's not going through for some reason)

Darnell D

September 12, 2002

To Judy~

Last winter, I read a story of your life and your cousin's, Maria Theresa in my city newspaper. Your father's recollection of the both of you touched me. I honestly don't know why...maybe because I'm Filipino myself and my friends and I are all around ur age and Maria's. I did not forget either of you on this sorrowful one year anniversary. Like the many other countless victims of last year's tragedy, I remembered and prayed today that all of you are resting in heaven peacefully. I hope u and your cousin are finding joy with god now and keeping each other company. Take good care of your family and friends and give them strength. Your life, your cousin's life and the many innocent lives that passed away will never be forgotten!

Priscilla Castro

September 11, 2002

i can not begin to feel the pain you are in, but a couple of years ago one of my closest family memebers died. he was my best friend. i am a student at a school in houston, texas call ST. Pius X high school. our school is doing sometihng amazing for the people of 9/11. we are wearing the names of people who died in the attack. i have been blessed and received your daughters name. we are going to wear our wrist bands for two weeks starting two days ago and going until the day of peace. i thank you for you time and may God Bles you all the days of your life.

Lisa

August 3, 2002

Worked with Judy at Copeland/Smith Barney ...I still cannot believe she is gone. I remember her talking of her new job inthe city and that she was excited to be going into NY to work. She was not a close friend, although and acquaintence but she will never be forgotten. She was funny, hardworking and serious all rolled up into a teeny tiny package, with lots of energy. God Bless her family, and her friends. Rest in peace....

John Bader

July 14, 2002

I don't know by what right I am writing here - I never knew Judy Fernandez or anyone in her family or circle of friends.



However, it was often the case in New York during those searing September days that one missing person, one flyer, for some reason stood out. It was a way of treying to understand what had happened and to come to grips with still being here when so many others also deserved to still be here.



For me, it was Judy and her cousin Maria, smiling, pretty and confident even in the despair across the street from St. Vincent's, their picture over so many phone numbers of friends and families - "please contact us".



Reading recently in the NY Times, I was happy to hear Judy had such a full life of devoted family and friends.



Remembering her when thinking about 9/11 one Sunday early last Winter, I entered Judy's name in the book St. Joseph's keeps on Sixth Avenue near St. Vincent's. I have prayed for her since and know all the prayers directed to the people in that book by me and my fellow parishioners are reaching Judy and her cousin. May they rest in peace.

dem

June 7, 2002

Had a pleasure of working with Judy at Copeland while i was consulting there. A friend of mine introduced me to Judy and the three of us occasionally went to lunch together.



We miss you Judy.

carmelina arias

May 17, 2002

I had the pleasure to meet Judy at my cousins house, Lisa Plamenco. Judy always made it a point to give me a big kiss and hug.She was always warm and loving.

Judy, I will never forget your beautiful smile and your thoughtfulness. Rest in peace my friend and may God have you in the promised paradise. You're one of his Angel's now.

Darnell

March 12, 2002

A few months ago, I was reading thru my local paper and came across stories about victims from Sept 11th. Each family/friend shared memories about loved ones lost/missing that tragic day. One story that still sticks in my mind was of Judy Fernandez. Her father talked highly about her and her cousin and how tight knit they were since they were youngsters. They went to the same college together, got the same degrees, and worked at the same company. He also mentioned that she was to be the bridesmaid at her cousin's wedding to be held this year. Two beautiful young ladies, Judy Fernandez and her cousin, Maria Santillan, were sadly taken however on that Sept 11th. I may never be able to understand the pain and suffering that the families and friends of these pinays go thru daily. However, as a Filipino American myself, my heart aches for you and I extend my sympathies to all of you. Judy and Maria~I'm sure the both of you are together and in a better place now. Watch over your loved ones from heaven and rest in peace. Your pictures/stories will forever be etched in my mind.

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