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Michael Benson
February 6, 2025
Tom and i met through a mutual friend, Allen Geddes...we were young teens and Tom would bring his guitar to Allen´s house and jam in the basement...Allen was perfecting his drumming and the 2 of them would play Cream, Zeppelin, Grand Funk Railroad, Ten Years After...you could just tell how good Tom was even then...i was surprised to find out he was moving to Nashville later, figured he would be a rock legend, not country...boy, how wrong i was...prayers for his family, RIP Tom
Gregg Alexander
February 6, 2025
Tom was the very first friend I ever had, toddling around as backyard area neighbors in the Marlboro Drive area in Chillicothe, OH. I even remember how sad I was to be moving away from my friend around 4-5 years old. However, we reconnected in junior high and through school and rock-n-roll days, even though we weren't always close or even in touch, the friendship remained. Despite time and space and separate lives, I somehow never felt distant from Tom. It was always easy with him, perhaps the easiest friend one could find. Whenever we did reconnect, it honestly just felt like, "Oh, yeah" and we could connect as if it had only been last week since we chatted.
He was remarkably unassuming with a wry smile that seemed to belie a deeper awareness of the world strangely combined with an oh-so-pleasant naivete. I suspect most people found him charmingly approachable.
Regardless of his remarkable musical talent - I can hardly remember a time in junior high or high school or after when if you went to Tom's, he wasn't sitting in his room, guitar in hand, practicing licks over and over and over. (I think of Alvin Lee, Woodstock, and how Tom could rock "I'm Going Home" better than Alvin!) Of course his virtuosity on steel was even more remarkable.
Contribute to the ASPCA in lieu of flowers because of Tom's love of animals? Why doesn't that surprise me?!? Couldn't click the link fast enough.
I wish I could be there to attend the Celebration of Life Service tomorrow because there aren't many lives more worthy of celebration. A good, kind, humble, talented, caring family man, whose world travels and musical success appear to have done nothing to diminish those so admirable traits.
I said the other day that the world feels a little emptier when I heard Tom had passed. It's true, but somehow, and perhaps maybe not so strangely, I still feel like he could walk around the corner tomorrow, and it'd just be like, "Oh, yeah."
A friend I didn't want to outlive, but a friendship that feels like I never could.
I look forward to toddling together again one day!
As Jimmie Vaughn wrote "Six Strings Down... Heaven done called..."
Love ya, Tom. My heart is with you, your family, and all who love you.
Deke Davisson
February 5, 2025
I met Tom in the late 60's as we were forming a rock-'n'-roll band. He, at age 14 was already amazing playing an electric guitar with licks others couldn't duplicate. Ten years later he joined our moderately successful band HANNIE HOOKER as a guitar player.He and my brother ,Jim ,also an excellent guitarist were immediately trading licks and play harmonies together. That part of the show only lasted a short while as Tom found a 3 pedal Show Bud sitting in our local music store. He couldn't stay away from it. Soon he bought it and in just a few days set on the stage with us in HANNIE HOOKER. I think he may have had some very valuable expert advice from another steel guitar in our town named John Call. Those of you in Nashville might recognize that name. Tom soon blossomed into excellence on the steel as well as regular guitar. Everyone had a ball playing in the band together. Over the years I have had memories of Tom , rehearing in my mind's ear his steel parts on many of the songs we played together. My condolences to his family, friends and fellow musicians who knew and loved him. Fly high in harmony heaven Tom.
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Kris Griffith
February 5, 2025
Lori, Holly and Matthew... I was so sorry to hear about Tom´s passing. He was so full of life and was very easy to talk to. God must have needed a musician in his band, and he wanted the best! May you find peace in the memories you´ve shared together as a family. And I hope feel blessed that he was part of your life. May he rest in peace.
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