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Patrick J. Vallee

1934 - 2021

Patrick J. Vallee obituary, 1934-2021, Rensselaer, NY

BORN

1934

DIED

2021

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W.J. Lyons, Jr. Funeral Home, Inc.

1700 Washington Ave

Rensselaer, New York

Patrick Vallee Obituary

Vallee, Patrick J. RENSSELAER Patrick J. Vallee, age 87, was born in Troy on March 9, 1934, and passed away at the Albany Stratton VA Medical Center on September 7, 2021. Patrick's early years were lived in the St. Joseph's Infant Home in Troy. Once he was school age, Patrick was moved to Mount St. John's, the orphanage lovingly tended by the Sisters of the St. John the Evangelist Church in Rensselaer. He had many fond memories of his childhood there, and always considered the Sisters to be his "family." He was doted upon by Father Moore and Sister Rita Mary Melcher, whom he loved dearly. Patrick attended St. John's Academy, and was a proud member of the Valiant Crusaders Drum and Bugle Choir. Upon leaving St. John's, Patrick enrolled in the U.S. Air Force, where he attained staff sergeant in less than four years, as a very young fellow of 21. After leaving the Air Force, he became the proprietor of Pat's Submarines in Hudson Falls, and later, along with his wife Virginia, the owner and operator of Angelo's Submarines in Albany, for 25 years. After they sold their business, Patrick went to work for Curtis Lumber, where he worked for two decades and from which he retired. Patrick thoroughly enjoyed being part of civic organizations, and was very active in a number of them, holding both local and state positions in Kiwanis International, Key Club International, the Elks Club, the Knights of Columbus, and was a past Commander at the Melvin Roads VFW Post 1231. He loved the folks at the Post and enjoyed spending his time regaling stories with its members. Patrick was born a true songbird, gifted by God with a beautiful voice. He sang in the children's choir as a child, and as an adult was part of the St. John the Evangelist Choir, and the Festival Celebration Choir, along with others. Music was very much part of his identity and it was a joy to hear him sing. Patrick was predeceased by his loving wife of 66 years, Virginia A. (Polsinello) Vallee in June of this year. He was also predeceased by his in-laws, Angelo Polsinello and Mamie (Carpinello) Polsinello, and brother-in-law Louis Polsinello Sr., who, along with their extended families considered him as one of their own; the French/English "son" in a loving family of Italians. He is survived by his children, Patricia J. Colbert (William Oryell) and Carol (Edward) Mackey; his sister-in-law, Joan Kaiser; and his grandchildren, Tammy (Ernest) Stewart, Leanne Cooke, Nicholas (Kayla) Colbert, Amanda Mackey, Alison Johnston, Maria Colbert, Ashley Mackey, Amy (William) Valerio, and Meghan Mackey. He is also survived by his great-grandchildren, Rachel Van Vorst, Shannon LaBarre, Jaxon Stewart, Jazzalee Valerio, Annalee Valerio, Nehemiah Stewart, Liam Valerio, Zachariah Stewart and Albhie Mae O'Loughlin. A funeral Mass for Patrick will be held in the Church of St. Mary at Clinton Heights, 163 Columbia Tpke., Rensselaer at 9:30 a.m. on Friday, September 10. Interment will be in the Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in East Greenbush immediately following the Mass. A tribute and celebration of life luncheon will then take place at 12 p.m., at the Melvin Roads VFW Post 1231, Columbia Turnpike, Rensselaer. Condolence page at www.wjlyonsfuneralhome.com.



Published by Albany Times Union on Sep. 9, 2021.

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Priscilla Polsinello

September 13, 2021

Patty and Carol, I'm so sorry for your loss. Pat was a wonderful kind man with a beautiful voice. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Barbara Welch

September 12, 2021

It was a pleasure to sing with Pat in the choir. We will miss him and his beautiful voice.

Dorothy Hager McKeon

September 9, 2021

Oh, how I remember Pat Valley. He was the kindest, most loving man you would every want to meet. Pat will be missed and may all his family be in God's loving care during this time of loss. May God grant Pat rest in peace. God comfort all of his family. I was in the SJA school band and school with him. Truly a fine guy.

Charlie Twiss

September 9, 2021

So sorry to hear of another child from the Mount passing. Did not know him but RIP

David Shamlian

September 9, 2021

Pat was a terrific guy and incredibly generous. He was our Kiwanis district advisor to Key club. Pat was a class act and great role model. Thanks for all you did fort so many Key Clubbers. RIP

Kathleen Collins

September 9, 2021

I don't know what to say. Pat & Ginny were friends for many years - such good people. May they rest in peace. They will be missed!

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10

Funeral Mass

9:30 a.m.

Church of St. Mary at Clinton Heights

163 Columbia Tpke, Rensselaer, NY

Sep

10

Interment

Holy Sepulchre Cemetery

East Greenbush, NY

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1700 Washington Ave, Rensselaer, NY 12144

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