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Donna M Bulger
November 11, 2021
I’m sitting here realizing it’s been almost 6 long years since you went home with Jesus. There is not a day that goes by that I’m not thinking of you or talking about you. Jimmy it took 42 years of my life but I finally found my soul mate. I’m sure you already know his name is John and he is truly the other half of my heart. Jimmy I know you would have loved your future brother in law. He loves so much of the good things in life that you always did. Fishing, seafood, Video games, cooking, laughing, retro and nostalgia. John and I could be having any random conversation and the first person I will always talk to him about is you. I could see you sitting there with him and just talking for hours. Although he’s not a person who drinks alcohol, I could see you sitting there, offering him a beer and a toast welcoming him to the family. I know regardless he would have sat with you for hours and shared many stories. Much like us he grew up surrounded by family especially Grandma and Grandpa. He would have loved to do a fishing excursion with you, Bobby and David. A real man’s “official guys day out”. I’m crying now knowing you’re gone to heaven and this is my dream of what would have been. I hope that Bobby and David could still do that one day with him and bring along a small pinch of your ashes that the 3 of them could sprinkle them in the ocean and toast (non alcoholic) to you, having you along in spirit. My biggest sadness is knowing one day soon David is going to give my hand away to him in marriage and you and daddy aren’t going to physically be able to be there. I feel since daddy is gone and David loves John like a brother already, that David is the right one to give me away since daddy can’t. I just Jimmy I wish you were here . I know when Reeses came home to heaven a month ago you were right there waiting at Rainbow Bridge. I felt you come to get him when he said goodbye. Please kiss our little copilot for me. I miss him terribly and I wish I could have him back. I wish I could have you all back, just not sick. My only solace is knowing that heaven and Jesus are REAL. I know you’re there, you are not in any pain, you are no longer sick and suffering. You only know peace. I don’t know sadly how long in this world before I follow in suit behind you (you already know why ) but when that day comes I’ll know you’ll be waiting for me. I just want it to be a “tad” later rather than sooner. I have so much more to see and do plus I have to marry the love of my life. Time will only tell as you already know when but I would rather not. Until we do meet again my sweet “Red”, Continue to rest easy my brother. I love you forever.
Robert Bulger [email protected]
April 4, 2019
3 years bro, it doesn't seem possible. Wasn't supposed to be like this. Miss you every day. Life isn't the same without you. Oh, I'm still me...larger then life...but only a part without my right hand man..my bro! Team, me and you, since kids. And no one knew how to have each others back like we did! I have great friends and friends like brothers, and an unbelievable bestie as wife who's like my right arm. Great support and great teammates in my life. My only regret is that we don't have you to add in to the mix and that so many never got to meet or know you. Our long time brothers "get it" because they struggle every year and sometimes every day without you being here. What I am saying bro is it sucks you ain't here! It's derby time and the major preps are going on...Monmouth will be opening....baseball season has started....Yankees have been lackluster but your Bosox are in the tank already LOL!!! Who do you like heading towards Derby? What's your gut telling you this year? Silly things right? No, just some things that we shared every year at this time and isn't quite the same since you left. Anyway, I'm just rambling bro. Hey, bro, I love you! Got your back in life and death! See you on the other side! Miss you!
Your gone from us a year today. We think of you daily. We tell the stories. We laugh. We cry. We never forget. This pic was our last day we broke bread. Seems like yesterday. Was so happy you were over. Wish I could of kept you there forever. Can't get it
Robert Bulger
April 4, 2017
Your gone from us a year today. We think of you daily. We tell the stories. We laugh. We cry. We never forget. This pic was our last day we broke bread. Seems like yesterday. Was so happy you were over. Wish I could of kept you there forever. Can't get it back. Will always miss us. We were a great team bro. Miss you so much. Love you forever.
Robert Bulger
April 13, 2016
My brother Jimmy....Hey Jimbo. "What you got there..Sketties??? LOL. Man O' Man my brother Jimmy could cook. Back in the day he'd call me up and lure me over with some pasta loaded with his meatsauce or chili or cheese steak sliders. Oh...he invented the "slider" long before bars/grills even knew what they were!!! Jim and I did everything together.....and if you were a brother to my brother, you were my little brother, and vice versa! and everyone knew and loved our dad "Fast Freddy"! We did everything together. Fishing, partying, going to the track, watching sports events, sharing movies or sitcoms at home, or going places together. Jersey Shore, NYC, whatever...we did everything. If a big fight was coming we'd go to our buddy Frankies for the fight. If a big race was coming, off to Monmouth we'd go. When we were kids, we played every sport together. He was a pitcher and me a catcher. He got great at pitching because I was always behind the plate. Football...we grew up in pick up games everywhere. Wrestling...once I got involved with it, my brother was involved and he got good quick. Jimmy was an awesome natural athlete with quickness and toughness. He was also ultra competitive and losing just wasn't an option. Bottom line is that we loved each other and had each others back for 45 years. We had a pretty great run brother. The last 3 since you've been in Florida, it's been hard not seeing you or talking as much. Regardless, I always loved you my bro. I can't believe this is it, for this life anyway. The Derby is coming up and I need to know who you like? I guess I'm still at a loss. This is so surreal. I really thought you'd make it through this. What I am trying to say is this. I miss you brother. I always loved you. I wish I could of done more for you. I wish we could have more time together. I know this isn't the end, but just a "see ya later".....so Jimbo, until we meet again. Love, Your brother Bobby (Booper)
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Donna Bonavitacola
April 11, 2016
Dear Bern, Alexis, and Family,
My deepest condolences on the loss of Jimmy. May memories of happy times get you through the difficult days ahead. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Much Love,
Donna & Frank Bonavitacola & Family
Ilona Daroczi
April 9, 2016
Our deepest sympathy with the loss of Jimmy..
Wayne Matthews
April 8, 2016
Jimmy, my brother from another mother and dearest of friends you will live in my heart. I'm sad to see you go but will surely see you again when I go home. For now Champ I will live my life to the fullest for you and will be here for your girls. I know you are at peace and your pain is gone. For that I am greatful. You have truly been a blessing in my life and I will always cherish the memories of the times we have had together. They were great times bro. I miss you Red but know you are in good hands kid. With love and respect. Wayne
Holly Torgesen Miller
April 7, 2016
So sorry to hear of Jimmy's passing. Many fond memories from Jr. High as he was always such a good friend. Christmas caroling became an annual tradition w/ Wayne, Cindy and I for a few years. Great athlete and always a gentleman. I am sure he was an amazing father to three young ladies. May all these fond memories shared fill their hearts. Thoughts and prayers to all whose lives Jimmy touched.
MHuff
April 7, 2016
My condolences to the Bulger Family and to all who have known Jimmy through the years. When I heard of Jimmy's passing, my heart fell on the floor. I hadn't seen him in a long time but in an instant, I was able to recall a ton of memories of the things we did back in the day. Most of the time the whole crew was together but there were also times when just Jimmy and I would hang out. We lifted together on and off through the years and that's when I got to see a different side of him. Jimmy encouraged and motivated others to be their best, while most often leaving himself and his own needs behind. He was a loyal friend and when Jimmy had your back, you could rest assured he would be by your side no matter what. I remember going fishing with Jimmy at a pond in Watchung one afternoon when we were in high school. Poor planning, lousy gear, and old bait didn't stop us from going. True, we didn't catch much but we sure did have a good time joking about the gear we had and how all the fish must have jumped out of the pond when they saw us pull up in the brown Regal etc... We took stupid humor (which we always loved) to a new level that day and we were rolling on the floor laughing long before ROTFL even existed! By the time we left, we had caught a fish or two between us but they weren't of any size to write home about. On that day, all we had was a fishing pole, our undeniably goofy (but good) sense of humor, and a little time. Ends up that was just enough. We made a memory that day, the good ole-fashioned way. Hard to believe that was nearly 30 years ago cause every time I saw Jimmy in the years that followed we'd talk about that fishing trip and other things we did long ago like they happened yesterday. I'm thankful to have such memories of Jimmy and those memories, I believe, will live on inside us all. Jimmy, you're in a better place now. Lots of big fish and better gear up there and while you'll be missed here, you'll not be forgotten. Rest in peace brother...
Beth Anne Dillon
April 6, 2016
Jimmy, was shocking and sad news to hear of your passing. I have great memories of us back in the day at St. Mikes, I always thought you were tough but also a real gentleman. I was just telling my daughter about you a week or so ago, her new teachers name was Bulger, so of course I had to tell her about my Bulger that I knew. You will be missed in this world, sending prayers for you and your family. R.I.P. Jimmy
Connie Samaco
April 6, 2016
Jimmy was like another brother to me. He was deeply troubled in this life and our good Lord decided to bring him home and end his suffering. We will all be together again some day. Until then may you shine in the presence of our Great Father and may he bring peace and confort to all those who knew and loved you.
Connie Samaco (Matthews)
Michael Melendez
April 5, 2016
I was deeply saddened to hear of Jimmy's passing. I have so many fond memories of my time with Jimmy. My heartfelt condolences go out to the Bulger Family. Rest in peace my friend....
Mike Melendez
David Bulger
April 5, 2016
Jimbo I'm gonna Miss You so much...Good Times and Bad....This is not goodbye just a pause in life together for us who come to know and love you....I know your in Heaven now and your job here is finished....Thank You for giving me 3 Beautiful Smart nieces....I will try to keep a watchful eye on them as u watch them from heaven....I love you Brother Until we meet again in paradise✝
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