Evan Tanner Obituary
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Unique Bryson
April 12, 2017
He was a good friend and a good guy to be around. He was so smart and talented. I hole his family and all of us will always rememeber he's still with us but in our hearts.
Ginger Cheeseman
May 8, 2016
Dear Tanner Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and apologize for the lateness for I just found out today. To Shawn I hope you find the strength to carry on. To the family, I hope many prayers find there way to you to get you through these hard times.
Julie Pruitt
May 1, 2016
Dear Tanner Family -- I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear son, grandchild, brother, nephew, cousin and friend. I didn't know Evan, but I've heard nothing but praise about him. I could never write anything that could ease your hearts, but I quote Don McClean from his ode to Vincent Van Gogh in the song, "Vincent," by saying -- "This world was never meant for one as beautiful as you." My sincere condolences to your entire family.
The day we got together as sophomores on November 23, 2013
Allie Farris
April 28, 2016
My deepest condolences go out to Evan's family in this time of sadness and grieving. My name is Allie Farris, and I met Evan the summer before our freshman year at St. Anthony's together. I'll never forget seeing him for the first time in his cowboy boots and a big cowboy hat, and noticing for the first time how handsome he was. We didn't have any classes together our freshman year, but sophomore year we had geometry class together. This is how we got to know each other better, and eventually ended up dating for a few months. He was my very first boyfriend. I'm so very lucky to have had such a special person in my life, and to have met such a beautiful soul. It warms my heart to know that we made each other so happy in those few months that we were together. I took him to my senior homecoming on September 27, 2015, and that was the last day I saw him. In a way, this was a chance for all of his St. Anthony family to be reunited with him one last time. I'll never forget how we had so much fun that night. It'll definitely be engraved in my memory forever.
Evan, we all miss you more than words can explain. I'm extremely thankful for the memories we made together. I'll never forget that sweet smile of yours and how you always called me Alliecat. The song "Thinking Out Loud" by Ed Sheeran will always be our song, because that's the one song I vividly remember off the top of my head when we danced to it at homecoming together. Thank you for believing in me and making me smile, even when I didn't want to. Thank you for dancing with me all the times I asked you to, even when you had convinced yourself that you couldn't. It's been hard trying to accept the fact that you're gone, but I know you wouldn't want any of us to be sad all the time. If anything, I try to enjoy life in a deeper sense now because you've inspired me to live life to the fullest. Heaven gained such an incredible angel... A piece of my heart will always be with you. I now find comfort in beautiful sunrises and sunsets, because they were your favorite. I love and miss you so very much sweet boy. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Terrell Mitchell
April 27, 2016
Evan it still doesn't seem real that you are gone. It was just last year, we decide to become best friends. I could alwayd count on your smile and wise thoughts to get me through the day, even the super hard ones.
Robert, Teresa and Bo Overby
April 27, 2016
We are distraught and heartbroken to hear about Evan. We pray The Lord bless you all, help touch your spirit and cover you with His love. Please know we loved Evan very much, and will always remember him with a heart of joy and a smile.
Barry Schklar
April 27, 2016
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Tanner family for your loss. I cannot image the loss of a child. I have known Sue for 24 years and have kept up with the family thru her. Please know that the loss will be part of the rest of your life but enjoy all the good memories and know it will get a little easier every day.
Aaron Rohrbacher
April 26, 2016
I didn't know Evan for that long, but when I did know him, he was everything a friend could ask for. It makes me sad that I never had a chance to say goodbye proper, but I know he rests in a better place. I am saddened by the loss of such a wonderful person, and I will keep him in my thoughts.
Jen and Hannah Barrow
April 25, 2016
"Your St. Luke's family is deeply saddened by the loss of your brother and son. We will hold the wonderful memories of this young man in our hearts forever. May God bring you peace. The Barrow Family-St. Luke's Episcopal School 2016
Rose Kyle
April 25, 2016
There are no words of comfort, but please know Evan and your family are in my prayers.
Sylva Howell
April 25, 2016
Tanner family,
You all have been in my thoughts and prayers since I learned of Evan's passing. I remember Evan as a kind gentle guy when I taught him at St. Luke's.
God bless you all with peace and may you find comfort from all Evan's friends who loved him.
Love, Sylva Howell
Nancy Gladu
April 24, 2016
My heart aches for the Tanner family. So sorry to hear that you lost your beloved son Even. May God watch over you and help you through this.
Skylar Vadquex
April 24, 2016
I was glad to get to meet Evan this year. He was the first person I met on my first day of school, he helped me find my classes and was very sweet. He is a kind person and heaven got themselves an angel to soon. He made a lot of perplex days by just walking into a room with a smile on his face. I'll always remember that smile he had walking into the school. He may not have known me but he took time out of his day to help and be there for me. My condolences on your loss he was a great and amazing friend. I will never forget that.
Rosa Baker
April 24, 2016
Our love is with you at this time. May God bless your family.
Pedro Juarez
April 23, 2016
I had the privilege of knowing Evan from my second period class this year. I didn't know him to well, but we talked quite a bit in class about everything. He was very open about his future and what he wanted to do, and while I didn't know Evan well enough there is one thing I can say of all the people who have come up and talked to me he was the most genuine. Evan never came off as mean or uninterested as others who talked to me did. He always seemed like he cared about what I had to say and wanted to listen to what I had to say. The one thing I regret is not being able to know more about him. Evan was a man with a heart of gold always willing to talk to someone and meet someone new a personality I'm jealous I don't have. My prayers are with the family for losing someone so outstanding and one of a kind.
Classmate Sophia Abbott
April 21, 2016
I sure will miss Evan's hellos, his bright smile and his laugh.My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I miss you already Evan.
Fay Wheatley
April 21, 2016
Shawn, Rebeca, Jordan and Ryan, sending deepest condolences for your tragic loss. Evan was a good natured and dear soul, with family that was always close and supportive. The world is a poorer place without your son and brother. His life is God's given gift. I know you will hold on to each other, and treasure it. Fay Wheatley
Margay Stillings
April 21, 2016
Rebeca, Shawn, Jordan & Ryan,
I am deeply saddened by the loss that your family has encountered. No one can prepare for such a loss, it comes like a swift wind, and no words can suffice to express the heartfelt sorrow that I feel.
I have such fond memories of Evan. He was such a gentle & beautiful soul, full of love & faith. He had such a sweet spirit, was kind, polite, a pleasure to be around, and had a contagious smile.
I hope & pray God brings your family the much needed peace & strength during this difficult time.
My heartfelt condolences...
Ms. Margay
Jordan Ryan
April 21, 2016
Evan was a wonderful caring friend and I am so glad I had him in my life. Last year he was in my lunch so I would sit with him along with a few other friends almost every day. And he was always really funny and awesome to talk to and loved cheering people up. And we became pretty good friends. I met him through AFJROTC because he was one of the cadets in my class and he was always very respectful to everybody and well behaved and everyone absolutely loved having him around he was extremely well liked by everyone around him and made them smile. He'll always be forever in our hearts.
Jennevieve Cantu
April 20, 2016
Evan was a great friend and a wonderful person. His smile could lighten up a room or any persons day. Meeting Evan my freshman year at St Anthony's was truly a blessing. He impacted many people's lives and is greatly missed. I will truly miss the laughs we shared and the memories we made. You were very close to my heart Evan Jacob Tanner, and now I know you will be watching over all of us. You are in my heart and always in my prayers. Rest easy baby boy. And my dearest condolences to the Tanner family. You're son was truly amazing and I'm glad to have been apart of his life.
Vickie Reyes
April 20, 2016
My condolence to the Tanner family. May God bless you and give you strength. My son knew Evan and he tells me he was a great person. His memory will forever stay alive among his friends who loved him very much.
Samantha Rodriguez
April 20, 2016
I knew Evan for a few months, he used to help me when I needed advice, and once I heard what happened... I broke down in tears! My dearest best friend I miss you very much, your family is in my prayers along with you! Fly high buddy
The Franken
April 20, 2016
Our deepest condolences. May you find some peace in knowing what a light your son was to all that met him. Thoughts and prayers to your family from ours.
Kim Hinojosa
April 20, 2016
Dear Rebecca, Shawn, Jordan, and Ryan,
I am so sorry for your loss of Evan. I have such fond memories of teaching Evan at St. Luke's. He was always so gentle,kind, cooperative, and polite. I have thought of Evan often since he graduated from St. Luke's. Please know that you are ALL in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Hinojosa, Teacher and Friend , LaVernia,Texas April 20, 2016
Skylar Vasquez
April 20, 2016
I'm sorrybto hear about Evan. He was a wonderful friend. He made a lit of our days with just a smile. He will be dearly missed by us all
TJ Mitchell
April 19, 2016
Evan, I remember it like it was today. You made m senior year the best. Thanks for the laughs and fun times. I am so happy to have you as a best friend. Thanks for always being there for me and having my back. I love you and I miss you buddy
Nancy Pattillo
April 19, 2016
Shawn and family. My deepest condolences. You and your family are in my prayers. (Redcats)
Biviana Yruegas
April 19, 2016
Evan Tanner was one of the greatest friends I've had that i have missed for a very long time. Last year, his junior, my freshman year, we met in ROTC class. I remember just how we met, too. Colonel, on the first day of school, told the flight to turn around to the person behind them and tell them three things about each other. Once he said to start, Tanner immediately turned around to me and said with the biggest smile, "Hi there! I'm Tanner!" He brought a hand out to shake mine. The way he spoke just filled me with happiness. He was always so happy. From that point on, we talked in the morning, and during lunch time in school. He told me about himself and i did the same. We grew closer, he always made me laugh! He told me I was "his little freshman sister" and he was my "big junior brother".
Sadly one day, I was alone, and a sex offender verbally harrassed me, I was shaken, and who was I to go to first? I told Evan. I remember him telling me "Biviana! You have my number! You can text me, I would've been there in a heartbeat!"
I wish I could say the same now.
I am truly sorry for your loss, we will all miss him.
I'm always going to miss Tanner. He was a true friend for the short time I knew him.
God bless Evan, and his family, and friends.
He'll make the angels smile as he does, and with his happiness, make the sun brighter up ahead.
Tiffany Derrick & Family
April 19, 2016
Tanner Family:
We offer our sincere condolence and deepest sympathy on your loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort of knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time.
Yours in Peace.
Tiffany Derrick & Family
April 19, 2016
Tanner Family:
We offer our sincere condolence and deepest sympathy on your loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort of knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time.
Yours in Peace.
Gaven Wages
April 18, 2016
So sorry to hear this passing. Evan was a great friend and an amazing person. The world won't be the same without him. May he rest in peace, and in a better place.
The Owenby's
April 18, 2016
May the thoughts, prayers, and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to you through the days ahead as we remember Evan. His kindness touched many. Our most sincere condolences.
Laura Davis
April 18, 2016
My deepest sympathy and sorrow for you all. Evan was such a kind, gentle spirit.
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