Bruce Farrell Cook

Bruce Farrell Cook obituary

Bruce Farrell Cook

Bruce Cook Obituary

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Dr. Bruce F. Cook-Long Serving Director of Bands and Founding Director of the Brooks Center Dr. Bruce Farrell Cook, former Director of Bands, Professor of Music, and Founding Director of the Robert Howell Brooks Center for the Performing Arts at Clemson University, passed away on October 21 at Hospice of the Upstate in Anderson, South Carolina, after a year-long battle with cancer. Cook, 81, was a resident of Clemson SC. Dr. Cook was born on August 24, 1933, in Quanah, Texas, to Earl Homer Cook and Dorothy Faye (Jarrell) Cook. The youngest of three children, Cook spent his early life working on the family farm during the years between the Great Depression and World War II. He often fondly recalled the trials of farm life, and the close relationships between him, his siblings and many cousins in this close-knit community. Particular among them were hijinks with his brother, Ray, his cousins, Jack Sides, Don and Galen Givens, Stanley and Doug Jarrell, and neighbors Jimmy and Charlie McSpadden; harvesting cotton and other crops, and going on cattle drives from one family ranch to another. He remained close to his brother, Raborn Earl (Ray) Cook and sister, Dorothy Lunette Dickson, throughout his life, and cherished opportunities to stay connected to their children and his extended family. Cook attended West Texas State College (Now West Texas A & M University) in Canyon, Texas. At WTSC, he was involved in Kappa Kappa Psi Honorary Band and Alpha Sigma Xi social fraternity, and played in a swing band, the Collegians, with his roommate, John Butler, with whom he would maintain a friendship for over 60 years. After a lack of acumen for accounting derailed a brief change of major to business, he was awarded his bachelor's degree in Music in 1954. Like many of his generation, Cook was moved to serve his country, following the examples set by his brother, who served in the Navy Submarine Service, and cousins Jack and Stanley, who served as fighter pilots in the European theatre during World War II. Both cousins were shot down. Stanley perished in a mission over Germany and Jack survived a crash in the Mediterranean to return to the States with the aid of Russian forces. The younger cousins, Don and Galen, would later become pilots. Galen served as a test pilot, and became a member of NASA's Apollo program before dying in a car accident in 1967. Despite the winding down of the Korean War, following graduation, he asked the local draft board to move his name to the top of the list, and with his father's encouragement, followed the harvest between their farms in Colorado and Texas until his number was called. He served in the US Army from 1954-1956. His musical talent led to acceptance to an Army Band training unit, and assignment to the 23rd Infantry Division Band at Fort Clayton, Panama Canal. He was released from duty in July 1956, with a final rank of Master Sergeant, and began his first teaching position, as Band Director for McLean High School in McLean Texas. In 1959, Cook accepted the position John Butler was leaving at Tulia High School. During his time at Tulia, the band program grew and earned many awards, including recognition as the Class AAA Texas Honor Band in 1965. In 1964, he met his future wife, Patricia Elaine Eakins, who had been hired as Tulia's new drama teacher. Later that fall, he worked up the courage to ask her out for coffee, and they began dating. They kept their relationship discreet, to the point of having dates in Plainview, which was over 20 miles away, to avoid becoming the object of small-town gossip. Not long after Cook introduced Eakins to his mother during the 1965 Easter Break, they got engaged, and set a wedding date for June 2, 1965. At the last band concert that year, students and colleagues surprised them, when, at the end of "Highlights from The Unsinkable Molly Brown," the band began playing "The Wedding March," and showered them with gifts. Following a honeymoon in Taos and Santa Fe, New Mexico, they would both enroll at West Texas State College for graduate programs, where Cook completed his Master's Degree in August 1965. They went on to enjoy 49 years of marriage together, raising four children, and enduring cross-state moves between South Carolina and Texas, as Cook pursued his education and career aspirations. In 1966, Cook accepted an invitation to visit Clemson University, to discuss serving as Interim Director of Bands, during Butler's leave of absence to attend the University of Georgia for doctoral studies. In fall 1967, Cook was invited to stay on as Assistant Director of Bands. Cook and Butler worked to expand and improve the Bands and the offerings of the Department of Music. From 1971 to 1973, Cook took his own leave of absence to pursue a Doctorate of Musical Arts degree at the University of Texas at Austin. During the Spring of 1976, he was promoted to Associate Professor of Music and was primarily responsible for the marching band and pep bands. The position did not include summer work, so Cook worked at the Campus Bookstore as well as taking over a friend's newspaper route to make ends meet. Appointed Director of Bands in 1980, Cook was actively involved in all aspects of Tiger Band until 1990, at which time he became the Founding Director of the Robert Howell Brooks Center for the Performing Arts. Under his direction, many Tiger Band traditions were established or ensconced at Clemson, including the revival of the football team's tradition of running down the hill through the band formation, the script spelling of "Tigers," the dotting of the "i" by selected honorees, and the re-emergence of purple as a Clemson color after the band made it their preferred color for sectional t-shirts, and began regularly chanting "Purple" during the cross-stadium "Orange-White" cheers. He was honored in 1984 to receive the Gator Farr Award for Outstanding and Dedicated Support of Clemson Athletics. Retired since 1996, he continued to be an avid Tiger Band supporter, and spent hours compiling and editing material for the Tiger Band Pass-in-Review DVD project. Recently, the Tiger Band practice field was renamed the Dr. John H. Butler and Dr. Bruce F. Cook Tiger Band Plaza. In his free time, Cook was actively involved in volunteer projects for Clemson Community Care, membership in St. Andrews Catholic Church and Tiger Brotherhood, and social activities as a member of the Clemson Fellowship. Survived by his wife, Patricia Eakins Cook of Clemson, SC; his children, Timothy Cook (of Kennesaw, GA), Sean Cook (of Athens, GA), Aaron Cook (of Clemson, SC) and Heather Cook (of Greer, SC); daughters-in-law Michelle Cook of Kennesaw, GA and Sarah Cook of Athens, GA; two grandchildren, Brendan and Susannah, of Athens, GA, his sister, Lunette Dickson, of Lubbock, TX and an extended family of nieces, cousins, and generations of students and Tiger Band alumni, who he was privileged to teach and serve throughout his career. He was pre-deceased by his parents, Earl (1963), Dorothy (1991) and his older brother Raborn (1997). Visitation will be held on Sunday, October 26, 2014, from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m., at Duckett-Robinson Funeral Home in Central. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, October 28, 2014 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Andrews Catholic Church in Clemson, by Fr. Dan McLellan, OFM. Interment and graveside services will be held immediately following the funeral at Woodland Cemetery, beside Memorial Stadium, where he spent many happy days directing Tiger Band. The family has designated memorials to be given to the "Dr. Bruce Cook Memorial Fund" with checks made payable to the Clemson University Foundation and sent to that address at P.O. Box 1889; Clemson, SC 29633. or to a music education program of your choice. Condolences may be expressed online at robinsonfuneralhomes.com. The family extends its thanks to the many friends, family, colleagues, and students who shared their lives with "Daddy" Cook over the years.

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Timothy Cook

October 17, 2024

I still miss you, Dad. Hard to believe it's been 10 years.

David Thompson

June 8, 2015

I arrived on campus 1968 about 3 days early for band tryouts and practice. I was a little scared and excited, didn't even know about shaved heads and didn't know much about Clemson (long story). Dr. Cook was WONDERFUL! He was calm, seemed a little nervous, was very nice and was not loud or intimidating. His nervousness made you realize that he felt pressure that every performance go well. I remember feeling that I wanted to please him and that he would help me if I ever needed it. You remember people like Dr. Cook because they are great leaders and kind. The Tiger Band was a place, a haven, professional, an honor to be a member of, a source of pride to be a part of Death Valley and to this day, Dr. Cook stands out in my memory as special! I hope they have great music in heaven Bruce.

kelley cloer

December 26, 2014

I was a trombone player in the Tulia, texas band from 1961 to 1965. Bruce Cook was a major influence in my life during those years. So sorry to hear of his passing.

Bruce and Pat Cook's wedding

December 15, 2014

November 17, 2014

Dad's name being spelled during halftime of the Syracuse game.

November 10, 2014

Linda Thornton Miller

November 8, 2014

As a 1968 graduate of Tulia High School I remember both Mr Cook and Miss Elkins with such fond memories. Rest in peace Dr. Cook and condolences to the family. Being a member of the award winning Tulia High School band is among my fondest High School memories. Reading about all of his success in Clemson is not surprising as he was incredibly gifted in music and leadership.

Tim Cook

November 4, 2014

I lived in awe of this man who could corral over 300 students on game day Saturday's, deliver a flawless performance, then come home to his family, offering them the same attention and love that he showed for his students. Because of dad, I know how to repair things around the house, how to manage my finances, how to care for my spouse. And, though some might mistake his kind, gentle, humble spirit for weakness, just talk to the thousands of former students, all of whom saw him as a gentle giant, but powerful and inspirational leader. While I will never be able to match his legacy, he has given me something to strive for. All sons and daughters should be so lucky.

Sad Clemson Tiger, with band helmet and Bruce Cook's initials on it.

Tim Cook

November 4, 2014

Stephanie Facelli Kelley

November 3, 2014

It was a pleasure to be in Tiger Band from 1985-1988 under Dr. Cook's direction. I have never known anyone else who could manage to get over 300 college students quiet and listening all at once. He had an enormous kind and gentle heart to put up with all of our diverse personalities and get to know each and every one of us as individuals. May God bless all the Cook family members.

Kathy (Barbour) Lust

October 30, 2014

I remember Bruce Cook as being a very kind and gentle soul as well as an inspiration to all of us in the Tulia High School Band. I fondly remember the romance that blossomed between Bruce and Pat and thought they were somewhat magical. I feel so blessed to have known "Mr. Cook" and I truly admired him.

John Miller

October 28, 2014

Pat,

It seems like just last year that you and Bruce came to Clemson to help with Tiger Band. I so remember your first "road trip" with the band, experiencing those crazy TB members "on the road" (we had been well trained by John Butler!). I treasure our memories together during your first years before my graduation. I kept up with you and Bruce all through the years from a distance while in the Air Force, but always with fond memories of our times together.

I was so saddened to hear of Bruce's illness just last week and then of his passing today. He was a great man and did so much for CU. He will be sorely missed.

All our love to you and the family.

John Miller - '68

Carol Suber

October 28, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Cook's passing. I loved my five years in TB in the 80's!!! He had the patience of a saint dealing with our "activities". My thoughts and prayers to the family.

Cindy Knight

October 28, 2014

Dear Tim, Michelle, and family,

I'm sad to hear about your dad's passing. What a legacy he leaves behind, what a full and rich life he led! He was an inspiration to so many, an will be remembered by them all. You and your family will remain in my prayers.

October 27, 2014

I so enjoyed the years when we were involved together with Daniel High School Band. Bruce was a community treasure. He will be missed.
Holley Ulbrich

Jim Hutson

October 26, 2014

Mr. Cook was my inspiration, my role model, and my dear friend. It was largely due to his influence on my life that I spent 29 years on the podium as a high school band director. I will never forget this kind, musical genius.

John Fulton

October 26, 2014

Pat, I am so sorry about Bruce. You and I and Bruce and Marie went back a long way. You and Bruce long were a major part of my life. I am sad that too many years have passed since we have been reacquainted. I will never forget Bruce. I regret that I was not able to be at the Memorial service for him since I have been ill.

October 26, 2014

So sorry Pat and family You all are a blessed family. Your Dad was proud of all and Pat you were a wonderful wife. Thinking of all, Karen Newton Culbertson He was truly a great man.

Tommy Stewart

October 26, 2014

Mr. Cook was my idea of what a great band director should be.

David Teel

October 26, 2014

I started band under Mr. Cook in 1963. He strongly encouraged me to play clarinet, and some 50+ years later, I still do. He certainly was born to teach, and I consider myself fortunate to have been one of his students. My condolences to his family.

Oran Watson

October 26, 2014

A truly great man. Mr. Cook had a tremendous influence on my life. This continues. Thank you Mr. Cook!

Anthony Foster

October 26, 2014

I have fond memories of Mr. Cook as a member of the Tulia High School Band. My Prayers go out to Mrs. Cook (my Speech teacher) and the family.

Lowell Smith

October 26, 2014

I was a freshman along with Bruce at WTSC in the fall of 1950 . I remember him as a very talented student especially in band/music.He was respected by teachers and fellow students. I wish to send my condolences to the entire family and wish them well. May God Bless .

October 26, 2014

Dear Pat & Children:
Please know that all of you remain in our thoughts and prayers.
We remember Bruce as always smiling. He is now smiling down on all of you.
Our sincere sympathy,
Jimmy & Robbie Nicholson

Jeff Tisdale

October 26, 2014

I am proud to have known Bruce since he and Pat first moved to Clemson. He has been a very special part of Clemson and my life.

Jeff Tisdale

Roxanne Ivey

October 25, 2014

Dr. Cook exemplified the best of Clemson spirit and the human spirit. So may our sorrow be joined with the joy of having known such a generous soul.

October 25, 2014

Judith (Young) Berg

October 25, 2014

Our sympathy to the Cook Family. Bruce was a delightful friend with a keen sense of humor. He will be missed. The Louderbacks

Elaine Bennett

October 24, 2014

My sincere condolences go out to the entire Cook family. I will keep you all in my prayers asking for strength for you during this difficult time.

Robin Lowe

October 24, 2014

I was never fortunate enough to know him as teacher & mentor. He was the father of my childhood best friend, Heather. The Cook home is clearer in my memory than my own home, largely to his & Mrs. Pat's willingness to have my brother & I invade their home. They were my second family in the way that can happen only in the magic of childhood. I am so sorry for the loss for this wonderful family.

Rosemary Hays-Thomas (Lowe)

October 24, 2014

Robin and I send our condolences (and hugs) to Pat, Tim, Sean, Aaron, and Heather on the loss of dear Bruce. We remember him with fondness as a good friend, wonderful neighbor, and valued member of the Clemson community. Go with God, dear Friend.

John Maurice

October 24, 2014

I have very fond memories of Dr. Cook and his family. His dedication to Clemson University and the greater Clemson community will be missed. Condolences to the Cook family. God speed Dr. Cook. God speed.

Stan Cole

October 24, 2014

I was honored to be in Tiger Band and Concert Band during Mr. Cook's first four years at Clemson from 1967-1971. He lived an exemplary Christian life in word and deed through encouragement and skill as a musician and teacher. The world is better because of him.
My prayers are for his family and many friends. May God bring comfort and peace to you all.

Mark Charney

October 24, 2014

Just sent a card, but wanted to emphasize how much I loved working with Bruce, his son Aaron, his wife Pat, and his son Tim. The love he had for the community was only eclipsed by the love he showed his family and his school. He made everything better, and he exemplified what it meant to be a good professor and leader. I know he will be missed. All of the Charney's send their love and condolences.

Al Vybiral

October 24, 2014

My condolences to the Cook family. What I remember most about Dr. Cook was his kindness and that he was always in good spirits. I very much enjoyed listening to him recall life on the farm from his youth. It was an honor to be in the band under his direction. May God bless you sir.

Trenna Page Metts

October 24, 2014

Extending sympathy to the entire Cook family and Clemson family. What a great man he was, always smiling, kind and gentle -- when he had every right to be a complete nervous wreck when it came to the crew of Tiger band members he was leading when I as a part of Tiger band. I only remember those days fondly and alot of it had to do with him as a leader. He not only was an incredible music talent but just an outstanding man who worked to instill the love of music, love of people and love of Clemson into those of us who were fortunate to be a part of his band programs. I am sure it has been a difficult year for all of you who have provided care for him but my prayer is that not only he is at peace but so are you knowing the life that he led and the inspiration he was to so many of us. Love to all --

Mike McLeod

October 24, 2014

Dr. Cook was a very special individual; a gentleman, a scholar. a patriot and an educator. Be with God sir.

John Adams

October 24, 2014

I would like to send my condolences to the family. I was in Tiger Band from 1987-1991 (Tuba Section) and had the honor of getting to know Dr. Cook. He was a very caring and kind man that managed to make everyone feel at ease. He also had the ability to get the undivided attention of over 300 college students instantly with 1 “Damnit band”. It only took 1. I will never forget the time he made the band stop in the middle of “Tiger Rag” at practice to have just the tuba players play our part. We glanced at each other and without a word played it the way it was written. He said “No. Play it the way you were playing it”. We did and he said “That does sound better”. He never mentioned it again. He will be missed.

Fr. Steve Bossi, CSP

October 24, 2014

Pat and Family, I was sorry to hear of Bruce's death. What a gentle caring man he was. He leaves a great legacy - in the Brooks Center, the many lives he touched in his students, and in the goodness he projected to anyone who knew him. He and all of you will be in my prayers in the coming days.

Ellen Hurst Griffith

October 23, 2014

Wishing the entire Cook family heartfelt sympathy in the loss of this great man. My father was a strong supporter of Dr. Cook when he was the Provost at the university and I had the great enjoyment of being a Tiger Band member. His life was rich and full and so many of us benefitted from his spirit, musicality, his kindness, and his dedication to learning. May he be at peace and memories for all of you help during this sad time.

Margaret Surber

October 23, 2014

I was very sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Cook. His gentle but strong leadership was an inspiration to me during my years in Tiger Band and beyond. My life was enriched by knowing him.

Deanie & Dan Shonka

October 23, 2014

Bruce was one of the kindest, gentle men I was blessed to know. He never had anything but a smile to acknowledge friends. As teachers of his children over the years, it was evident that they had great parental guidance. Pat and Bruce were great examples of top notch, caring parents. His music legacy will not be forgotten in the Clemson world. Our prayers are with the family as they remember the good times with him.

Doug Ellenberg

October 23, 2014

My deepest sympathy and condolences belong to the entire Cook family as well as Bruce's extended Tiger Band Family. I feel so very fortunate to have known Bruce and so blessed to be a Tiger Band member during some of his significant contributions to Clemson University, the Music Department and Band programs. Bruce's legacy will live on and I shall always think of Bruce with each and every Tiger Band performance. To Bruce's family, my prayers are that, while you will miss him tremendously, you will find strength and comfort in the fact that Bruce provided such a positive influence on me and so very many students and friends of Clemson.

Carrie Campbell

October 23, 2014

Dr. Cook was Director of Bands at Clemson University while my dad was Choir Director there. I remember fondly handing out at Tiger Band practices as a kid. I also remember him giving me a horn so that I could go to college at UGA even though we had not been able to get a horn yet. I was later able to pass that horn onto a student of mine who needed it.

He is one of the people of my childhood that WAS Clemson for me. I'm sure I'm not the only one!

Derek Paul

October 23, 2014

"BRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCE". We thank you for your service for Clemson University and for the Music education you provided for all of your students, Brothers, and Tiger Band Alumni. It will be my honor to salute you this Saturday evening's Clemson Homecoming at halftime. I don't stand alone when I say we will all miss your gentle smile and warm handshake each time we see you! Heaven has been blessed to receive your honor and Musicianship into His glory! God Bless you, Bruuuuuuuuuce! Peace be with your family at this time of celebration of your life!

October 23, 2014

Sending my prayers and condolences to Bruce's family. I send along sympathies on behalf of Mu Beta Psi music fraternity as well, for which Bruce was Chapter advisor at Clemson for many years and a beloved figure to its members.

Leigh James

October 23, 2014

Thinking of you and keeping you all in my prayers.
Leigh Anna James

Eddie Smith

October 23, 2014

It was such an honor to work with Dr. Cook and I will always have fond memories of him, Pat and their wonderful children.

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