Bendetti, Jane R. (Sasso) TROY Jane R. (Sasso) Bendetti, 97, entered into eternal happiness, on Friday, December 15, 2017, at Van Rensselaer Manor with her family at her side. She was the beloved wife of Michael J. Bendetti, for 37 years until his passing on March 18, 1987. Born and raised in Albany, she was the daughter of the late Pasquale and Donata (Viggiani) Sasso. Jane graduated Philip Schuyler High School, class of 1939. Jane moved to Troy with her husband in 1953 and had since been a lifelong resident. Jane was a devoted communicant of St. Anthony of Padua Shrine Church. Jane served as president, vice-president and treasurer of St. Anthony's School PTA. She also attended St. Joseph's Parish, in Troy, where she was dedicated to the support of the annual Christmas pageant, with her family. A life member of the Italian Community Center, Jane loved being a member of the Bocci League and supporting all the events sponsored by the Women's Auxiliary. Jane worked as a secretary for the Education Department in Albany, Sterling Lab in Rensselaer and retired from the Rensselaer County Health Department, Troy, in 1988. Jane loved to cook, travel, spend time with her family, always adding her special touch and encouraging them to join her in dance and song. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend. Memories of Jane will be cherished by all who knew and loved her. Survivors include her children, Michael G. (Nora) Bendetti of Clifton Park, Donald S. (Ruthie) Bendetti of Kansas City, Mo.; her grandchildren, Dana (Joseph II) Gardy, Nicholas (Sara) Bendetti, Marisa (Robert) Nadeau, Dillon Bendetti, Nicole Greklek, Danielle Greklek, John Michael (Sarah) Greklek, Nicholas C. Anthony III; nine great-grandchildren, Avery Curley, Jenna and Jake Gardy, Sophia and Nicholas Bendetti, Malena and Lucia Nadeau, Garret and Grace Greklek; her sister, Grace Thornton; and many loving family and friends. She was predeceased by her siblings, Mary Burns, Elizabeth Navarro, Pauline DiPietro, John, Michael and Leonard Sasso. The funeral service for Jane will be held on Wednesday, December 20, at 8:45 a.m. from the Bocketti Funeral Home, 336 Third St., Troy and at 9:30 a.m. at St. Anthony's Church, 28 State St., Troy, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Relatives and friends are invited and may call at the funeral home, on Tuesday, December 19, 4 - 7 p.m. Entombment will follow the Mass at St. Mary's Mausoleum, Troy. Jane's family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to the entire staff and community of The Van Rensselaer Manor especially the B1 unit for the tender love and care given to Jane. In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of Jane may be made to the American Heart Association.
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I had the pleasure of serving Jane's breakfasts at the Manor. She was such a joy to wait on.Always had a kiss & a smile for me.What a gracious soul! Phyllis L. Dietary Waitstaff
December 20, 2017
Dana, Nick & Marissa:
Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you for your grandmother was a very special lady. May she rest in peace.
Donna, Manny and Justin Ned
December 19, 2017
My grandmother's maiden name was Sasso. I think Jane may have been one of my father's cousins. My sincere condolences to Jane's family.
Joe Lanza
December 19, 2017
Mike, Nora, Don, Ruth and families,
I will always remember Aunt Jane fondly for her many gifts which she shared with her family and those she loved. When I visited her this past summer, she touched my chin with her hand and said, "You're beautiful Dolly, " a phrase I remember her saying to me as a child whenever I saw her. She was a true gem. John and I are so sorry for your loss. Peace and love in the days to come.
Debbie Bartz (Sasso) and John
December 19, 2017
Mike,I never had the pleasure of meeting your mom but I know she was a special woman because good men like you don't happen by accident. God bless her and God bless you and your family.
Charlie Jewett
December 19, 2017
Dana and family,
Very sorry for your loss.
Julie Crawley
December 19, 2017
I was one of the kids on fifth ave she was always a nice person always said hello I'm sorry for your loss
December 19, 2017
Sincere condolences to the family. May God be your strength in this time of sorrow.
Matthew 5:4 says this: "Happy are those who mourn since they will be comforted."
May you find comfort in this promise that is soon to be fulfilled!
December 18, 2017
I knew Aunt Jane to be a spitfire of a woman! She was always so cheerful and loved her family! She always dressed so beautifully! Loved her hair and nails just right ! Such a beautiful woman! RIP Aunt Jane! Gone but will never be forgotten! My condolences go out to her family! So sorry for your loss! Love Bob, Patty, and the girls
Patty Thornton
December 18, 2017
To the Bendetti Family - I'm so sorry for the loss of Aunt Jane. She was a sweet, wonderful person. I remember going to her and Uncle Mickie's house in Troy as a kid. God bless her always.
John Sasso
December 18, 2017
Our deepest condolences! Aunt Jane will remain in our hearts forever! James, Elena and Jeremy Thornton - Phoenix, AZ
December 18, 2017
Mike, Donnie and Bendetti family
My prayers and sincere condolences to you on the loss of your Mom. Jane has been throughout the many years that I have known her, a most vibrant personality with a welcoming smile and possess such charisma that you immediately fell in Love with her. I recall the years she would visit me in Florida, picking from my grapefruit trees or enjoying a card game with her friends at my home on a Sunday afternoon.
I am Most grateful for her friendship, love and kindness she has shown me though the years. She is with her Lord and one day know you will meet your Mom again. God Bless.
Carl Marzola
December 18, 2017
May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.
American Heart Association
December 18, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort prove to be your stronghold during this difficult time.
Psalm 18:2
Christian
December 18, 2017
Thank you for everything you did for us when we were kids. Chris, Bobby and I(Pat) owe you a lot and hope to make it up to you in the next life.
Pat Armao
Friend
December 18, 2017
Very sorry for your loss. One of my favorite Aunts. My Deepest Sympathy.
Len Sasso
December 18, 2017
To the Bendetti Family,
Gary and I are so sorry for your loss.. Jane was a great lady and we enjoyed her company.. I know she will live in your hearts forever!
Linda BERNER
December 18, 2017
My sincere condolences to Mike, Nick, Dana, Marisa and the Bennetti Family.
Joshua Green
December 18, 2017
To Jane's family, I worked with Jane and always loved talking to her. She was such a happy, lively person. May she Rest in Peace. My condolences to the family
Kathy Bruno
Kathy Bruno
December 18, 2017
I have very fond memories of Jane. My deepest sympathy to the Bendetti Family.
Deb Wager
December 18, 2017
Sorry For Loss Mike your Mom is Going Home Be glad She is with the Lord
Paul Ryan
December 18, 2017
One of my favorite people on Fifth Avenue. I will always remember her warmth and humor! Rest in peace, sweet Jane!
Mary Ann Debboli Morgan
Neighbor
December 18, 2017
Dear Mike and family,
So sorry for your loss.
She was a beautiful woman I'm so glad I got to meet her over the years she was in VRM..May God be with you all in your time of need.
Sandy (Ratigan) Roberts
December 18, 2017
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Bocketti Funeral Home
December 18, 2017
To the Bendetti family
We are so sorry to here about Jane you are in our thoughts and prayers, may she rest in peace
Theresa and Antoinette Muscatiello
Theresa Muscatiello
December 17, 2017
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