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James William "Jay" Birch, of Denville, NJ, died on November 4 after a long illness. He was surrounded by his wife, Diane, daughter, Courtney, and son, Jim.
Jay was born on November 24, 1940, in Boston's Dorchester neighborhood. He was the son of the late James Wilfred Birch and Elizabeth Birch (ne%C3%A9 Courtney). He grew up in Worcester, and received his B.S. in History from Clark University. As a youth, he was an avid hockey player. He married Diane Belisle in 1967, and returned to Worcester after living briefly on Cape Cod.
In the 1960s and 70s, Jay worked as a Scout Executive for the Boy Scouts of America, directed several Boy Scout Camps in Massachusetts, and later volunteered as a guide at Philmont Scout Ranch in New Mexico. After losing his eyesight, he developed new programs for Scouts with disabilities.
Jay returned to school in the 1980s, earning a Master's degree in Applied Mathematics and Computer Science from Worcester State College, and founded Secure Systems, a computer security consulting firm. He also worked in Boston for Inet, Inc., which later became part of Wang Industries.
In 1995, Jay began a 15-year career as a computer security engineer with Booz Allen Hamilton in McLean, Virginia, where he worked on contracts for many government agencies. He retired from Booz Allen in 2010 and moved to Denville, New Jersey, in 2011.Throughout his long and varied career, Jay was widely recognized as a tenacious and pioneering role model for people with disabilities. His many honors include the Disability Industry Labor Council's Employee of the Year Award, and the Worcester Area Chamber of Commerce Handicapped Self-Employed Award. He also worked as a fundraiser for the Massachusetts Association for the Blind.
Jay was a longtime fan of the Red Sox, Bruins, and Patriots, and never missed a summer trip to Cape Cod, where he enjoyed clamming and cooking out. In Worcester, he was also a choir member at Our Lady of the Rosary Church. At Booz Allen, he always looked forward to the annual Chili Cook-Off. In retirement, he became known as The Oaks at Denville's formidable trivia champion.
He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Diane (Belisle) Birch; his daughter, Courtney Birch, and her husband, Justin Warner, of Jackson Heights, NY; his son, James Birch Jr., and his partner, Vanessa Smetkowski, of Chicago, IL; two grandchildren, Ben and Lily; his sister, Barbara (Birch) Mahoney of Worcester, MA; and several nieces, nephews, grand-nieces, and grand-nephews.
Jay used Seeing Eye guide dogs for over 40 years. He loved his dogs and the independence they helped him maintain. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Seeing Eye, P.O. Box 375, 10 Washington Valley Road, Morristown, NJ, 07960 (www.seeingeye.org/youcanhelp), or The Foundation Fighting Blindness, 7168 Columbia Gateway Drive, Columbia, MD 21046 (www.blindness.org).
The funeral will be held on Tuesday, November 7 from Callahan Fay & Caswell Funeral Home with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 am at Our Lady of the Rosary Church, 25 Fales Street, Worcester. Interment will follow at St. John's Cemetery. Family and friends may call at the Callahan-Fay-Caswell Funeral Home, 61 Myrtle Street, Worcester, MA, from 4-7 pm on Monday, November 6.
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Lisa Laubgross
June 26, 2018
Just reading this on June 26, 2018. My heartfelt condolences. Jay was a dear friend when we worked together at Booz Allen.
Yvonne Lowery
November 6, 2017
To the Birch family so very sorry for your loss. I can say this about Mr Birch after listening to his many achievement he left no stone unturned and he didn't let anything stop him from doing what he felt he needed to do I'm sure he will be missed by many.
November 6, 2017
My deepest condolences to the Birch family.
May the Hod of all comfort bring you peace in your time of need.
Once again,
My sympathies
Ann Marie Incutto
November 6, 2017
To the Birch family
I am so sorry for your loss.
Ann Marie Incutto
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November 6, 2017
My heartfelt sympathy to the family on the passing of your love one please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Ry
November 6, 2017
Very sorry for your loss. He was truly a very gifted person. We had some good times on Mayflower Circle. Rest In Peace Jay. Marge Benedict
Whit
November 6, 2017
May our Heavenly Father and God of all comfort be with you in your time of need. May the memories you share of your loved one get you through each day and each minute. My sincerest condolences
Chip Brown
November 5, 2017
Dear Diane, Courtney and Jim,
My deepest condolences on Jay's passing. He was quite a guy. I had much to do with him when he was Nimat District Executive in the seventies. I am so sorry.
Sincerely, Chip Brown
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