Jackalyn A. "Pookie" Wilwerding

Jackalyn A. "Pookie" Wilwerding obituary, Freeport, MN

Jackalyn A. "Pookie" Wilwerding

Jackalyn A. Wilwerding Obituary

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Jackalyn A. "Pookie" Wilwerding, age 27 of Freeport, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on Monday, April 2, 2018 at Hennepin County Medical Center in Minneapolis, Minnesota. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, April 7 at the Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Freeport with Rev. Dan Walz officiating. Entombment will be in the parish cemetery. Visitation will be held from 3 to 7 p.m. Friday at the Patton-Schad Funeral Home in Melrose and from 10 to 11 a.m. Saturday at the church in Freeport. Jackalyn Ann Wilwerding was born June 24, 1990 in Melrose, Minnesota to Joseph and Kori (Kerfeld) Wilwerding. She graduated from Melrose High School in 2008 and continued her education at Rassmussen College in St. Cloud. She graduated college as a LPN (as she would call it, Low Paid Nurse) and began working at the St. Cloud Hospital for several years. She became severely ill and for the next several years, she made many trips to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester for treatments. She was a member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Freeport. She enjoyed hunting, fishing, riding horse, and watching wildlife out her parent's living room window. She also enjoyed cooking and baking. Even though she could not eat the food she made, she made sure everyone else could enjoy it. Her nieces and nephews were very important to her and she loved being their Auntie. Survivors include her parents, Joseph and Kori Wilwerding of Freeport; brothers, Josh (Kayla) Wilwerding of Freeport and Justin (Lindsay) Wilwerding of Freeport; sister, Jessica (Jeremy) Nietfeld of Greenwald; nieces and nephews, Bryan, Allyson, and Jack Wilwerding, Chloe, Lacey, Dale, and Ethan Wilwerding, Trevor, Delaney, and Carson Nietfeld; grandparents, Harry and Dianne Kerfeld of Freeport; and many other relatives and friends. Jackalyn was preceded in death by her grandparents, Glen and Betty Wilwerding; and great-grandparents. Serving as casket bearers will be Ryan Sand, Nathan Sand, Luke Wilwerding, Andrew Wilwerding, Spencer Van Beck, Marshall Hujanen, Jillian Hujanen, and Kasey Wiechman. Cross bearer will be Quinten Van Beck and scripture bearer will be Natalie Wilwerding. Readers will be Christina Sand, Richard Sand, and Kelly Kerfeld. Serving as gift bearers will be Rebecca Wendroth, Meredith Meyer, and Rosemary Flanders. Eulogies will be read by KatyAnn Wilwerding and Don Kerfeld. Honorary bearers will be close personal friends.

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May 9, 2018

Kindred Family posted to the memorial.

April 7, 2018

Terry Wiedl posted to the memorial.

April 7, 2018

Tom & Cathy Orth posted to the memorial.

Kindred Family

May 9, 2018

We send our heartfelt sympathy to your family during this very sad time for your loss of Jackalyn. With each new day may God give the needed strength and comfort as you try to cope. No words will ever remove the pain but please know that others do care. She touched the lives of others in positive ways and will always be lovingly remembered.

Terry Wiedl

April 7, 2018

Want to extend my utmost condolences to Joe and Kori for their loss.

Tom & Cathy Orth

April 7, 2018

Jackie was a very lovely young lady. We got to know her through Corey. She will be deeply missed. Rest In Peace beautiful lady.

Samantha Scherping

April 6, 2018

Tony and I wish to express our heartfelt condolences to the entire family, as well as her friends. Jackie touched many people's lives during the time she was here with us. May you all hold tight to the memories and the light she brought you all.

Don & Lois Hoppe

April 5, 2018

To Jackalyn's family, relatives, and friends our hearts, thoughts, and prayers go out to you. To Joe and Kori, we send our condolences and deepest sympathy for the loss of a precious child. No one should have to endure the terrible grief after the loss of a child. Know that over time the grief and pain subside and eventually you will come to the realization that they want for you, to live your lives in the light of their life and the happy memories.

Karla Cool

April 4, 2018

Jackalyn was always such a sweet girl with a smile always on her face when i worked with her at SCH. i can still remember the hug that we had when we ran into each other a few years ago....she was just that kind of person whom touched everyone's lives that she came in contact with. Following her on FB I know that she gave up quite a fight and lived life to the fullest; the fight is over and she is at peace. Thoughts are with her family. **HUGS** Karla Cool

Mary Benz

April 4, 2018

God gained a beautiful angel. Love and prayers.

Angi Marthaler

April 4, 2018

May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. My most sincere condolences.

michael geithman sr.

April 4, 2018

you don't know me, but my daughter in-law is Tabitha Geithman from Brandon,mn. She was friends with Jackalyn. In honor of Jackalyn I would like to share 2 of my poems that I have written. First one is called
" Tending flowers "
A flowers passion is for you to cherish,
knowing in time that it will perish,
you gave your love and touch of care,
her visions of life have filled the air,
we hold this fragrance within our hearts,
by remembering her beauty it fails to depart,
to be only a part of her life somehow,
you touched the water and its in you now,
you feel the strength of her love wash away,
the sadness you held and thought would stay,
if memories of flowers should ever dry,
they return like tears within your eye,
but its only the love I gave to you,
when I was a flower and I loved you true.

" Inner glow "
A light and its fire are never apart,
embraced by the love of one final spark,
the warmth we shared now ashes set free,
are burning like embers deep inside me,
life seems to take more than it gives,
but leaves something behind forever that lives,
the memories of you that never get lost,
they find their way some tears are the cost,
while gazing at clouds whoever knew,
I'd feel your warmth as the sun breaks through,
not even this sorrow nor depth of a pain,
can take the love I've already gained,
loneliness finds a heart that's cold,
and touches its darkness with nothing to hold,
but the faith that's held within my soul,
knows only my God has complete control,
when life seems to have more than its way,
hope reaches out for another new day
God bless the family & friends.

Joyce Hens

April 4, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with you Joyce, and with the Wilwerding families as you mourn the loss of Jackie. May you find peace in the Lord and with each other.

Shelli (Stueve) Parenteau

April 4, 2018

Such a special young lady! Prayers for all her loved ones mourning her loss. RIP and God bless.

Laura Goebel

April 4, 2018

Auntie LOVES you and Misses you with all my heart!

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