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Kim Fennell-Gale
October 18, 2025
It was a pleasant surprise to discover you as the train conductor on my train to Boston. You always took care of everyone. From the first time I met you in high school and beyond. You will be sorely missed by many.
Kim
May 31, 2025
Donnie, you were such a nice guy in high school. Always a truth sayer. Such a good friend to so many. I was crazy about Larry and you finally told me why he stopped seeing me. Wish I knew where he was or how he was doing now. Loved seeing you as a conductor on the train to Boston.Rest in peace, Don. Until we meet again...
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October 3, 2024
I found a memorial shirt of his in a thrift store. I bought it out of respect, and dare I say I made a good choice. I have no clue who Donald was, but I can say with full certainty that I would've wanted to meet him. His memory will live on within the fibers of this shirt and beyond only the circle of those who knew him.
David Del Rossi
January 29, 2019
My condolences to the entire Wheaton family. May Donnie R.I.P.
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Patricia Ussery
January 25, 2019
Rest In Paradise My Friend!!!!
Nikki and Jason Richard
January 24, 2019
Kathy and Jill and Nick;
Our hearts break for you and the kids during this tragic time. Please feel free to reach out if you need anything. ♥
Mary Buonopane
January 24, 2019
Sorry to hear about Donnies passing, he was the nicest guy, and condolences to Kathy, Jill, Nick and Family. He will be greatly missed. From the first time i met Donnie, i knew this man was special. Donnie was one to think of others, then himself. Others came first. Donnie Rest in Peace. The Patriots lost their number one fan.
Vinnie Mirisola
January 24, 2019
It is sad to hear about Donnie. I knew him as "Wheatoes". Back in the early '80's when he hung around with the Gunsmoke crowd. We wrote a song around '81 and named it after Donnie. It was called the "Wheatoes Express". I always cherish the participation in that song, and how Donnie inspired us to be creative. He frequented gigs and always helped. He was funny as heck sometimes. Peace to Donnie and his family.
Dirk Sampson
January 23, 2019
Donnie,
Was an excellent union representative and good friend to many of us.
I'm so sorry to his family for our loss.
Donnie was an icon and will be missed by us all.
I am so so sorry to his family for there loss , but am so glad that you shared him with us.
Donnie rest in peace and god bless.
Dirk Sampson
Christopher Burns
January 23, 2019
My Pats fan away game compadre along with Kym. I had the best times with you guys and shared so many good times with you Donnie. How many games & years? Since the 1990's. The last game at Sullivan; the tuck rule; the first Super Bowl win. So much success after that. My JD away game partner. So dedicated to the co-workers; always on the phone while we were away. On the phone all the way from Arlington cemetery to the Lincoln Memorial in DC. St. Louis, Nashville with my tooth. Charlotte and the Gentlemen's Warehouse party crashing. San Fran. twice, Muir Woods, Fisherman's Wharf, Buffalo, Charlotte, and finally Tampa with your buddies. You passed in your peace and I'll see you at the next game above. Love ya my friend. Burnie.
Bonnie Wright
January 23, 2019
We are so saddened and shocked to hear of your passing. You were a dear friend to my brother , Scot and then I was lucky enough to call you friend also.
I will never forget your infectious laugh and how you were always smiling. It's nice to read how others loved you too. Rest in peace my old friend.
Bill Matta
January 23, 2019
Donnie was an old school railroader whose presence, laughter and willingness to help all of us will be greatly missed. When you worked a run with Donnie, you were always in good hands! Rest in peace, my friend!
Bill Curran
January 23, 2019
Donald, my conductor and my friend
Our lives are richer because we were lucky enough to have known you.
Your a man who did so much for many.
I'm going to miss your contagious laugh and counsel everyday.
Rest In Peace my friend!!!!
John Parker
January 22, 2019
The best of the best. Great guy to work with, He will be missed by everyone.
Meaghan Buckley
January 22, 2019
Rest In Peace Donny. I'll never go to or watch a Patriots game again without thinking of you, birthday buddy. You will be missed by so many people.
Pat Finneral
January 22, 2019
Worked with Donnie for close to 40 years, great RR man and Union Rep, many women and men in the UTU owe their jobs to him, Rest In Peace my brother .
Jackie Saunders
January 22, 2019
My Condolences to the family. What a great guy. He had such a great personality whenever I saw him and will be sorely missed
Jill Schaffer
January 22, 2019
I am very sorry to hear of Donnie's passing. I worked very closely with him for 10 years. To me he is an Officer and Gentleman. He cared very deeply for his union constituents and always took time to assist me on various issues.
There are not enough words too state how much of an impact he has had on those who have known him. We should take his lead as we go forth in our lives.
My condolences to his beloved family.
Annie Judge(Plati)
January 22, 2019
Donnie you were a constant fixture in our home growing up. Always hanging out with Jay. You were there when we lost our Dad and then when we lost our Mom. My Mom suffered from dementia and only recognized her children. When you came to my Dad's wake, and we asked her do you know who this is?she said of course it's Donnie. There is a special place in heaven for you.
James Corcoran
January 22, 2019
Very sad to hear of Donny's passing. He was a good friend and dedicated railroad man. We will always remember the times we shared on the railroad ski trips where he earned the nickname "HEATER". Always smiling and ready for a good time-that's how we'll remember him.
With deepest sympathy-
Jim and Mary Corcoran
Mike & Sue O'Bryan
January 22, 2019
Donnie was my co-worker and a fellow union representative. He was a strong, intelligent, loyal, supportive, cooperative and a supremely dedicated representative and defender of his fellow workers, regardless of their craft. Most important, Donnie was a good friend to Susan and I, always there with a smile and an offer of assistance. We shared difficult times and good times and we had a lot of laughs. We are deeply saddened by his passing. Godspeed and rest in peace Brother.
Jackie Miller
January 22, 2019
Our condolences to Kathy. Donny was our friend, especially to Jackie's brother Nile Shipka who passed away years ago. Donny unselfeshly stepped up to the plate and helped our family during our time of need. He never asked or wanted anything in return.
The Pat's will miss one their biggest Fans!
God Bless you wonderful person!
Jackie (Shipka) and Don Miller formerlly from Ohio
Jackie Miller
January 22, 2019
Our condolences to Kathy. Donny was our friend, especially to Jackie's brother Nile Shipka who passed away years ago. Donny unselfeshly stepped up to the plate and helped our family during our time of need. He never asked or wanted anything in return.
The Pat's will miss one their biggest Fans!
God Bless you wonderful person!
Jackie (Shipka) and Don Miller formerlly from Ohio
Marie Power
January 22, 2019
I was so sorry to hear of Donnie's passing. I know how much he meant to so many people. This world will not be the same with out him.
Doug Silkowski
January 22, 2019
So sorry for Donnie's family's loss. He was a great man to know and work with and I enjoyed his company many times at union events. My condolences to his entire family and friends. We lost a great man.
marty LaCarbonara
January 21, 2019
sorry to hear about donnie.even during stressful times he never lost his good humor.
Jay Plati
January 21, 2019
He was my best friend,best man,hunting,fishing,biking buddy. The brother that I never had. He was best friend that you could ever hope for. Donnie was always there for me and my family. l was blessed to have him in my life for over fifty years. You made the different in many people life's God knows how hard you worked. We will see each other again thank you. Jay
John Lewis
January 21, 2019
Donny my friend, you truly are one of the best. I will always remember what you did for me and for others.
Andrea Meyertholen
January 21, 2019
I will miss you so much, Donny! When I think back to my earliest memories in Boston, I can't remember a time when you weren't there and I can't imagine life without you. For the first time ever, I will be rooting for the Patriots in the Super Bowl in your honor!
Bob,Debbie,Bobby & Rebecca DeMarco
January 21, 2019
We are so sorry to hear about Donny such a nice guy.
Walter & Wendy Nutter
January 21, 2019
Donnie was a wonderful friend to my wife Wendy and myself for many, many years. He was a terrific railroad man and a passionate union representative, who helped countless brothers and sisters with their careers. We will miss him terribly.
Danny (Byrd) LaCarbonara
January 21, 2019
My sympathy to the entire family and friends of Donnie, may you RIP and you laughter will always be in my heart ❤
Melissa Libby
January 21, 2019
Words cannot describe the sadness we feel for the loss of you!!! I've not only had the pleasure of working with you for 29 years but was glad to call you friend! Our hearts are broken. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies during this most difficult time! Donnie, may you Rest in Peace and Sleep with the Angels! Always in our hearts! ❤❤❤
Donny & Stacey Leeman
January 21, 2019
Rest in peace my friend
Dan Peters
January 21, 2019
Our prayers go out to Donnies family. He was loved by all his friends, fellow workers and patrons who knew him on the trains. To a true gentleman, rest in peace. Dan and Ruelaine Peters, Buffton, South Carolina.
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