Mary Sara McDonald Pascale

Mary Sara McDonald Pascale obituary, Chicago, IL

Mary Sara McDonald Pascale

Mary Pascale Obituary

Published by McInerney Central Chapel on Aug. 16, 2019.
Mary Sara McDonald Pascale died on August 16, 2019, in Chicago after a courageous and hard-fought battle against cancer. She was 64. Born May 29, 1955, Mary was the daughter of the late Robert F. and Mary C. McDonald of Naperville, Illinois. Growing up as the fourth of their six children, Mary cherished being part of a big family and remained close to her siblings and family throughout her life. Mary valued education and was a life-long learner. She graduated in 1973 from high school at Benet Academy in Lisle, Illinois. After earning a bachelor's degree in education from Western Illinois University in 1977, she worked as a first grade teacher at Hillcrest Elementary School. In 1979, she received master's degrees in education and business administration. Mary then received a Juris Doctor degree in 1983 from the John Marshall Law School in Chicago. She frequently joked that her law degree was the only one she really needed because being a lawyer was such a good fit for her. In one of her first legal jobs, Mary met her husband, Daniel Pascale. They were married on June 28, 1986, and spent many happy years together. Mary and Dan enjoyed restaurants and culture around Chicago. In 1993, they welcomed their son, Alexander. Mary loved being a mother, and the best years of her life were those she spent raising Alex. For fourteen years, Mary worked as a career law clerk for the Hon. Ronald A. Guzman, a federal district court judge in Chicago. Because of her outgoing and friendly personality, Mary was well-known throughout the courthouse, and she made friends with nearly everyone who worked there. Mary then worked as an assistant corporation counsel for the City of Chicago in the Federal Civil Rights Litigation Division for thirteen years. In this job, she defended the City's police officers and took more than 15 cases to trial - an accomplishment for any lawyer. Even after Mary "retired" in 2018, she worked part-time as an attorney at the Thomas More Society. Mary never missed a family event or an opportunity to connect with friends over dinner, preferably at a BYOB restaurant with great food. She had a unique ability to bring people together and make sure everyone had a good time. Mary always saw the best in people and believed that her loved ones could do anything they put their minds to. She was a true friend and gave the best advice. People knew that if they needed someone to talk to or wanted to hear an encouraging perspective, they could count on Mary. Mary lived a full and meaningful life. She loved to visit new places and traveled the world in her lifetime, including Hawaii, Russia, and cruises to Europe and the Caribbean. She especially enjoyed visiting Florida, Arizona, and anywhere else she could spend time with family. Mary was deeply religious and volunteered at her church, St. Chrysostom's Episcopal Church. She mentored many young attorneys. Mary leaves behind her husband Dan, son Alex, siblings Michaele, Patricia, Kevin, Mark, and Robert, and countless friends and family, who cannot imagine their lives without her. Visitation will be held Tuesday, August 20, 2019, from 3 to 8 p.m., at McINERNEY CENTRAL CHAPEL, 4635 S. Wallace Street, Chicago, IL. A memorial service celebrating Mary's life will be held on Wednesday, August 21, 2019, 11 a.m., at St. Chrysostom's Episcopal Church, 1424 N. Dearborn St., Chicago, with visitation from 10 a.m. until 11 a.m.. The burial will be atGraceland Cemetery, with the reception to follow, 2 p.m., at The Racquet Club, 1365 N. Dearborn St., Chicago. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to the Cancer Research Institute at: http://fundraise.cancerresearch.org/MaryPascale. Please visit MARY MCDONALD PASCALE BOOK OF MEMORIES. To express your thoughts or memories in the online guest book, visit www.chapelc.com or facebook.com/funeralmc. For information, (773) 268-0703 or (773) 581-9000.

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August 8, 2021

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October 10, 2019

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Susan Baker

August 8, 2021

I knew Mary when we were both paralegals at Servicemaster so many years ago. We lost contact, but for some reason, I decided to try to find her today. I am deeply saddened by her passing. She was such a breath of fresh air...already smiling and so energetic. She dragged me to
Jazzercize classes and we laughed till we dropped. I don't know Dan or Alex, but can only imagine their loss.

Marcia Fishman

August 13, 2020

I have wonderful memories of working with Mary at the District Court. We took belly dancing lessons together and had a great time.

Michael Tuchman

October 10, 2019

Dan, my sincere condolences for Mary's passing. She always prompted a smile. I enjoyed chatting with Mary about the practice of law.

Michael Tuchman

October 10, 2019

Dan, I am so sorry to heart of Mary's passing. My thoughts are with you.

Nancy & Steven Schwab

October 10, 2019

We are deeply saddened to have heard that Mary passed away. What a wonderful person she was, filled with kindness and generosity. Our hearts go out to Dan and Alex and Mary's siblings, especially at this most difficult time.

Cecilia A Mowatt

August 21, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with Dan, Alex and the rest of Mary's family on learning of her leaving you so soon. I recall her warmth for those she met, devotion, love and pride for her son and husband. May God keep Mary in His eternal embrace.

August 21, 2019

So sorry to hear this sad news, Mary and I were classmates at Benet, we were cheerleaders together! I knew Mary to be a positive and caring person. Dan and Alex, you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Laurie and Jim Deegan

August 21, 2019

My husband Tom McCarthy and I have known Mary since her days at Benet Academy. We have loving memories of Mary and will sorely miss her smile and jest for life. To Dan and family; our sincerest sympathy in your loss. She was loved by many.

Tom and Peggy McCarthy, Lisle Il.

Dave Mumma

August 20, 2019

As our family has had a long-time friendship and association with the McDonalds, beginning with my folks friendship with Bob and Mary. Cathy and I send our sincere condolences to the entire McDonald family on Mary's passing. She was taken far too soon. Somehow, I suspect that she and her Mom are already "organizing" things in the hereafter!

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August 19, 2019

I am saddened by the loss of Mary. She always had something positive to say. She was funny and loved being around family. Thank you, Mary, for being a part of our family. Kisses and hugs to Alex and Uncle Dan.

Love,
Kathleen Pascale Pieper

Juanita Esquivel

August 19, 2019

It was a pleasure working for her and her family for 18 years. I will miss her greatly. My condolences to her Alex, Dan, and her family.

-Juanita & Esquivel family

Bob and Kaye Wertz

August 19, 2019

We will miss Mary. She was a good friend. She was very brave during her final illnessBob and Kaye Wertz

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Marcia Fishman

August 19, 2019

I was so saddened to read about Mary. I met Mary when I worked at the District Court. I have wonderful memories of Mary - we would go to the gym together and took belly dancing classes! She always talked about Alex. I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonder human being.

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