Patrick Joseph Boyle

Patrick Joseph Boyle obituary, San Mateo, CA

Patrick Joseph Boyle

Patrick Boyle Obituary

Published by Sneider & Sullivan & O’Connell’s Funeral Home and Cremation Service on Dec. 30, 2019.
Patrick "Pat" Boyle was born in Belfast, Northern Ireland, and passed away in Palo Alto, California. Pat immigrated to San Mateo with his family in 1955, where he would be a fixture in the community until his death. A devoted husband, father, uncle and grandfather, Pat's love, humor and service to community were an example for all. Early on, Pat served as Cub Master for San Mateo Troop 132 and Vice President of the Fiesta Gardens Homeowners Association. More recently, Pat watched over his sons and their growing families, sharing his immeasurable pride in them with anyone who asked. Still, the stories Pat enjoyed telling and retelling the most were of his adventures with his Sherlee, his "sweetheart", his "doll-face" and his unwavering companion of 48 years. Pat graduated from Serra High School in 1965, and went on to serve for four years in the United States Army. He would go on to serve the hairstyling needs of countless customers-turned-dear-friends over his fifty one years in the hotel barbershop. Anyone lucky enough to sit in his chair could count on a flawless cut paired with abiding wisdom, razor-sharp wit and the warmest smile. For so many in San Mateo and the greater Bay Area, Pat was more than a barber - he was part of a cherished routine; a visit with a friend and confidante that would leave you turning heads wherever you went. Pat is survived by his wife Sherlee, sons Ryan (Korinne) and Colin (Mike), grandsons Joshua and Logan, and his siblings Robert, James (Nancy), Gemma Fahy (Martin) and countless nieces and nephews. Services will be held on Saturday, January 18 at 11:00 AM. Sneider, Sullivan & O'Connell; 977 El Camino Real; San Mateo, CA 94402. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: St. Jude Children's Hospital or the World Wildlife Foundation.

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March 23, 2021

Steven Vario posted to the memorial.

February 11, 2020

Tony Llanos posted to the memorial.

January 16, 2020

Dyanne & Tom Holmes posted to the memorial.

Steven Vario

March 23, 2021

I just found out about Pat's passing. Pat cut my hair for the first time on my wedding day in 1978, and for 34 years hence. He also cut both my sons' hair. I always looked forward to sitting in his chair and trading stories and jokes. Our profound sympathy to Sherlee, Ryan and Colin and their families for the loss of a great husband, father and grandfather. Sincerely, The Vario Family; Steve, Corinne, Chris & Austin. El Dorado Hills, CA March 23, 2021

Tony Llanos

February 11, 2020

Pat will be missed. He always made me look 10 years younger on the chair. And he was a great lunch buddy downstairs in the hotel cafeteria. I will miss chatting with you on exacta, trifectas, and superfectas at the Hotel or the latest in sports. Rest in Peace.

Dyanne & Tom Holmes

January 16, 2020

We are so very sorry to hear of Pat's passing - such a kind, funny, and all -around true gem in so many ways. We enjoyed our Riley/Billy pick-ups at your home and loved knowing that our grandkids were in Pat & Sherlee's care - they're very lucky and will never forget those days that go by so quickly. Our very deepest sympathy - cherish the memories.

Eileen Darcy

January 14, 2020

am so sorry to learn of Pats passing

our hearts go out to all the family

Tom Marriscolo

January 13, 2020

My deepest sympathies to Pat's family. Pat was always an outgoing and kind person. A good and caring person who will be missed. Rest In Peace my friend.

Bob Baker

January 12, 2020

I've enjoyed Pat's infectious smile and witty stories on a monthly basis for the last 32 years as I got my hair cut in the barber chair next to his. The world has lost a special soul and I consider myself blessed to have known him. My condolences to Pat's family, friends, and all who will miss his presence in this world. Gone too soon...

Stacey Holmes

January 9, 2020

We will never forget our surrogate grandpa and A-1 Barber. Thank you for the years of loving care you provided for Riley and Billy, you will live on through them. We love you always.

William Hildebrand

January 8, 2020

Soldier for Life. Rest In Peace fellow Serra Padre.

MaDonna Thelen

January 7, 2020

I am so glad that I met Pat through Sherlee, his beloved. What a wonderful outlook on life he had! He was an amazing grace.

John deBuren-Gelbert

January 7, 2020

May the Lord hold you close to him for eternity. May HE watch over your wife Shirlee and your entire family both near and far.

I graduated with Pat in the class of '65. However, after several years attending college, I moved away and lost track of everyone. RIP my classmate, RIP.

May the Lord hold you near him for eternity. May He also watch over your wife Shirlee and your entire extended family both near and far. John deBuren-Gelbert.

Joe Braun

January 7, 2020

I sat behind Pat for four years in home room and we shared many stories I remained in touch through email where he shared so many jokes and cartoons

He was one proud Irishman and a great guy. My life was enriched by knowing him

I was so looking forward to seeing him at the annual class of 65 Xmas lunch where I learned of his illness

Emily asino

January 7, 2020

There will be no greeter in the morning and asks if there is still hot coffee available in the lobby and if there is still USA today left? The back lobby area (sofa) where you always sit will never be the same without you because it will be empty forever. Rest now my brother. Thank you for sharing your biggest smile.I will miss the Lemons that you always bring at the hotel and most of all my yearly chocolate fudge that you and your wife always bake every Christmas.
Emily ( Crowne Plaza Hotel SFO) January 7,2020

Jamie & Daisy Po'oi

January 5, 2020

We love you Jeanne, Bobby, Brian, and Sean. Our deepest condolences to the Boyle family. We are keeping you all in prayer. Please let us know what we can do to help. All our love. Jamie, Daisy and Po'oi family

Peggy Burns

January 4, 2020

Pat, you are greatly missed! Your sunny smile, big heart and hilarious jokes! The way you chuckled at your own jokes...trips to the Monterey coast, not to mention the road trip to Arizona which was a highlight! All of these things enriched by dear friend, Sherlee, who shared your time by including me! Love to the wonderful Boyle family!

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