Donald (Don) E. Coates

Donald (Don) E. Coates obituary, Seabrook, NH

Donald (Don) E. Coates

Donald Coates Obituary

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SEABROOK, NH - Donald (Don) E. Coates, 59, of Seabrook NH, passed away on Thursday, August 20, 2020, at High Pointe House in Haverhill, MA, with his family by his side. He was the devoted husband of Mary (Barron) Coates with whom he shared 20 years of marriage. Born in Boston, MA, on January 8, 1961, he was the son of the late Ronald and Carolyne M. (Stark) Coates and lived in Newton before moving to Lowell where he was raised in a large and loving family and attended Lowell Public Schools. As a young man he worked in the construction trades and raised his children by Freeman Lake in Chelmsford, MA. In those years he was a Deacon at the Calvary Baptist Church in Lowell and active in community groups including the Community Table food bank. Don also took an active interest in the lives of family and friends helping many in his quiet and loving way. In the 1990's, he transitioned careers and excelled in the field of Information Technology attending technical and executive schools including the University of Massachusetts and Boston University. His position in the medical device manufacturing industry would bring him to see the world as he embarked on projects in Europe, Asia, and Australia. However, Don's most treasured times were with his children and grandchildren who he brought along on ski trips and boating adventures in the scenic areas of New Hampshire. Donald will be forever missed by his children Donald Coates, Jr. and his partner Teresa Shanley of Seabrook, NH and Christina Coates and her husband Jacques Morrow of Conway, NH and all of his precious grandchildren; Donald Coates III, Olivia, Noah, Penny. Don is also survived by his brother James Coates and wife Irene of Lowell, brother Ronald Kevin Coates of Chelmsford, sister Leona Panas and her husband Steve of Londonderry, NH, brother William Coates and his wife Brigit of Gilroy, CA, brother Gregory Allen Coates and his wife Diane of Dracut and many beloved nieces and nephews. Donald was also predeceased by two brothers, John and Mark Coates. Relatives and friends are invited to attend Don's visitation at the McKENNA-OUELLETTE FUNERAL HOME, 327 Hildreth Street, Lowell, on Friday, August 28, from 4 until 8 PM. (State required social distancing procedures will be observed including the wearing of masks upon entrance into the Funeral Home). Donald's interment will be held privately at the Lowell Cemetery. For those who wish, donations in Don's name may be made to: The Exeter Hospital, Community Relations & Advancement: Attention- Erika Spiegel-Sanborn, Exeter Hospital, 5 Alumni Drive, Exeter, NH 03833-9905. To Attend Donald's Services remotely please visit the following link on Staurday August 29, 2020 at 11:00 AM https://client.tribucast.com/tcid/1010677

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September 11, 2020

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Alex Walczyk

September 11, 2020

Donald was a great guy with a wonderful sense of humor. I enjoyed working with him very much at Cynosure. He always had great stories to share, especially of his grandchildren.

Paul Gianes

September 2, 2020

Rest in peace, Don. I first knew you at the Reilly School when we were young lads, only to meet you again 40 years later when we worked together. You were a character then and never changed, thank God!

Sheila Gavin

September 2, 2020

I'm sorry for your loss to all family members! . Donald was a great guy growing up memories ! May he rest in peace! Forever in my memory

June Lussier / Frechette

September 1, 2020

My dear condolences to Donald's families.
Don you're been such a strong man , I'm glad we got to connect after so many years. Never knowing you're illness . My thoughts and prayers to all your family and friends.

Thomas Sheridan

August 28, 2020

To Donald Coates III ....I am sorry for your loss. Thomas M. Sheridan

John Callery

August 26, 2020

Mary and the Coates Family
My Condolences for your loss, I grew up with Don on the gritty streets of Lowell. I was lucky to able to meet up with him years later and we would work out at the gym, go fishing, and have lunch when I worked at Hascom AFB and he was working at Photoelectronics . He was a smart and hardworking guy, but more importantly he was a nice guy, who always had a smile on his face and shared that happiness with others. As time passed I hadn’t seen him but will always remember him as a friend,
Fly high with the Angels My Friend

Suzanne Shanley

August 26, 2020

We are the parents of Teresa Shanley, Don Coates Jr.'s partner. We had a poignant relationship with Don and Mary during the recent phase of his illness, with a moving farewell at their home, with prayer and song. Precious Lord,Take My Hand, seemed to move Don. He was a vigorous man who loved life, and whose presence in our life, together with Mary, was too brief. Nevertheless, we felt his goodness, his love of the grandchildren, and his love of life, especially his boat and the water, whenever we were with him. We will miss him greatly and send our sympathy to Mary and Don, Chrissy and the entire family.

Liz Tarricone

August 25, 2020

Mary - So sorry to hear of Don's passing. While way too short, he had a life well lived and leaves behind a wonderful legacy! My heartfelt condolences, Liz

Robin Perron

August 25, 2020

My heart goes out to Donald's family and friends. You are in my heart and prayers. My you cherish and share the memories and lessons from life with Donald as his memory lives on in you and your passing on of these shared times. My love to you all. Find strength and love together at this time.

Vincent Thorne

August 25, 2020

Mary - we are sorry for you loss and will keep you and the rest of the family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Vinnie Thorne

Jim Coates

August 25, 2020

Mary, Christina & Don Jr,
We were all proud to call your Husband & Dad our brother and friend.It was very clear to us that when he was with you and his grandchildren, he experienced a true joy and happiness in life that most of us could only hope to have.
His caring and loving demeanor and hearty laugh which he shared with all who knew and loved him will truely be missed.
Sending our Love and prayers,
Jim & Irene

Leona Panas

August 24, 2020

Amazing accomplishment in life so proud of you see you again on the other side

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