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C
November 6, 2025
A five lane highway, darling
Dino
February 17, 2025
Good times friend.......always!
C
November 5, 2024
Two decades, and I still miss your laugh

C
November 6, 2023
Good Times
Dino DeIuliis
February 17, 2023
Always loved, never forgotten!
Dino DeIuliis
February 17, 2022
Love to you buddy!
November 6, 2021
I´m sure you smile down on us friend, and we smile back!
Claire
November 5, 2021
After a few years of pandemic madness where it´s been difficult to see the silver lining, in retrospect, I can only look back and say "good times". One of the things you taught me, was that good times could be had by all, anytime, anywhere. It´s one of the best lessons I´ve ever learned, and after all these years, I´m still full of gratitude. Gotta say, when this time of year comes around, it still hurts...because I miss you, my dear. All these years later, and I´m still single, by choice. Honestly, no one else compares, so I just have gone on my merry way. Thank you, for all the love you shared, with all of us.
Eddie B
July 25, 2021
I was so sad to hear about Tony. It just breaks my heart to learn that he is gone. I wish I could pick up the phone and talk to him. I wish I could say I am so sorry that we lost touch so many years ago. I wish I could thank him for making life a little better for me and so many other with his friendship, his smile, his infectious enthusiasm, positive energy and his "Come on-let´s do it" attitude that has really stayed with me for life... and I wish I could thank him for inviting me to be part of his crazy dream to start rowing at Central.
To think there are now two members of the Olympic rowing team who are from Central Catholic. It just blows my mind. To think they are likely on that team because Tony had the vision to start rowing at Central and the enthusiasm and drive to make sure it become a reality. It is his legacy!
Tony was so passionate and convincing about finding boats and getting us out on the water quickly that he made a believer out of me and he made it happen. He then taught me and the rest of those who signed up how to row and we never looked back.
Tony you were always such a good spirit back in high school and you literally made everything more fun. Too often in life we meet wonderful people only to lose touch with those people. But when one of those wonderful people loses their life, it hurts even more. I will always remember you Tony and I will always be grateful for all you did in such a short span to make my life better.
Dino DeIuliis
February 17, 2021
Ever missed friend!
Claire
November 5, 2020
This year, more than ever, I miss that laugh. I miss the way you always saw the silver lining, and could make others see it too. Life is just not the same, without you in it. ❤
Dino Deluliis
February 17, 2020
Never forgotten friend
Claire
November 5, 2019
❤
Dino Deluliis
February 17, 2018
In our hearts and minds buddy.
February 17, 2017
Buddy....still very much in our hearts and minds.

Elizabeth Schubert
August 5, 2015
Sorry my mistake. The Twitter handle for the RIPTonyPfiefer page is @RPfiefer
PLEASE SHARE!!
Any questions, I can be reached at @AnastasiaVonB Thanks!! :-)
Elizabeth Schubert
August 5, 2015
I have started a memorial Twitter page for Tony so we can share stories, pictures, etc to keep his memory alive!! I know he meant so much to so many so this is what I thought to do.
Twitter handle is @RIPTonyPfiefer
Would love to see you there!!
-Beth

November 7, 2014
I love how Tony could work hilarity and/or crazy-talk into any conversation. He was an irreplaceable friend, and I still feel the void. Thinking of him still makes me smile.
November 7, 2014
Miss you Tony!
Claire
November 6, 2014
10 years. And I still miss you every day.
willow
June 6, 2014
So grateful Tony walked this Planet. His heart has truly left an imprint. A stirrer of inspiration. I smile when I think of him.
May 8, 2014
Tony, you have been on my mind this week. You were a beautiful person in every way, and you touched my heart every time you laughed, or danced around, or wielded a paint brush. You made yourself a better person, and that alone changed the world.
Lyn
April 28, 2014
For me, he isn't far away. He's in my heart, and in my thoughts. I can still hear his energetic voice in my mind and remember his beautiful face, and all its different smiles. His spirit lives on in the people whose lives he touched, and in all of us who knew his love and the almost magical energy that made him so characteristically 'him'. Always missed.
April 26, 2014
You always were way too brite for this world to ever capture... Brother - friend - still with us and in my heart --/ but never stifled and never tamed! Only few saw your truth and only you let us... Thank you for you and sharing with us your beauty!!! Only one only once Miss you always... best friend...!
Claire
November 4, 2013
I haven't forgotten. You are still with me, even after so many years. You gave me the best taste of life, and I miss you.
November 6, 2012
Still missing you...

September 29, 2010
Carlos Dominguez
February 25, 2010
As I read this guest book, I'm still in awe of the life Tony led. How I should aspire to live a life that is so remembered. How I fall short of the true friendship he offered to everyone who was blessed to come into his life. I knew him but a year, but remember him fondly. On our birthday month my friend, I seek to emulate your compassion, kindness and humor-filled regard for our fellows. So, what was second nature to you, I am trying to practice in my life. Good Times, Tony Good Times.
February 24, 2010
Happy belated birthday! Still thinking of you...
November 23, 2009
Hey Bro, just thinking about your perpetually good humor and I am made happy. You often creep into my thoughts and I express you outwardly with a grin. Keep smiling at us!
daria deevy
November 14, 2008
my memories of you don't fade
February 20, 2008
hope you had a wonderful birthday my love...it was an especially beautiful day, and it rained when i fell asleep. thanks! miss you so much. <3
Lyn
February 19, 2008
Pfeif was a very special person in my life, and although I have not written much in this guest book, I have thought about him literally hundreds upon hundreds of times. My memories of him and his spirit stay with me as if he was just far away on an extended adventure somewhere. His voice still echos through my mind, and I know it must be the same for all of you, the people who knew and loved him. In so many ways his love was endless, and I think if anyone has taught me that love never dies, it was Tony. And, although I know he is gone in the physical sense, in some ways he is still right here with me, with us, and I very much cherish the times I feel his presence.
February 17, 2008
Thinkin' about you bro.....
November 5, 2007
still miss your smiling face my dear....hope the fishing is good.
Carlos
November 11, 2006
Miss you bro...your memory never fades...
November 9, 2006
good times....
November 7, 2006
i miss you baby. thanks for helping me get through....love you. always.
February 17, 2006
HBD
Kevin
November 6, 2005
I can't believe it's been a year. You have been in my thoughts for 365 days now and I've missed you every single one of them. I often wish there was some way for me to undo or travel back ...... I knew a year ago that the world had suffered a tragic loss and that it wouldn't be the same without you Tony.... I can say, one year later that it couldn't be more true. Last year I said to myself that I was going try to be more like you, constantly think of others, go to birthday night every month with a stack of cards and write them as people I knew went up to collect thier chips. I told myself I was going to do the cancer run this year in memory of you and I was going to volunteer time to some environmental cause. I was going to try to be thoughtful like you and call all my friends several times a week to tell them some random joke of the moment..... there were so many things I was going to do .... It's been a year and I've failed miserably... too busy, too selfish, too anti social... whatever the reason, the truth is, I can never be as good as you Tony. There aren't very many people on the planet that can. I got a tattoo to remind me of you, and the date we lost you.... the truth is, I forget that I have the tattoo but never forget about you or the tragic day, I will always remember that time of my life, some in vivid detail. I will continue to think of you Bro Ham and I will continue to pray for your loved ones.... I will miss you dearly, as I have for the last 365 days.
Good Times.
claire
September 21, 2005
you remember that time you made me drive down to the keys in the middle of one of those silly hurricane scares last summer? i had a moment last night. similar. although the destination was not as anticipated, cuz i was just going home, and you were not here when i got there. it was nice to think about it though. you know, it's almost been a year, and it doesn't feel like it. you have been burned in my mind and imprinted on myy heart so deeply, that your memory has not faded even a tiny bit. i still have a whole pile of clothes that i haven't washed and take out occasionally to smell. just cause. i miss you baby. every day. and every night. hope the fishing is good. love you. goodnight. good morning. whatever. come visit me sometime.
June 4, 2005
I heard a musician last night that you would love. I miss you so much Tony. I know your near though and that comforts me.
Mary Buchanan
March 18, 2005
I was never able to feel sorry for myself when I was with Tony. It was a wonderful quality of his. He made me feel good by just being himself.
I am thankful to have known him and have happy memories of the time I spent with him in Alfred drinking coffee, riding his bike,fighting in the snow, jumping off of the top of Harder Hall into an enormous snow bank, going to New York and New Mexico, and hanging out in the print shop.I think of new things every day and can still hear the sound of his voice.
I am very sad that he has died. I haven't been able to get it off of my mind. I am so sorry for everyone that misses and loves him.
I have some great photos that I would love to send anyone that would like copies.
Mary

We miss you Tony and Brad with us in Spirit and Love forever.. Glenn
March 1, 2005
Lilly Tsen
February 25, 2005
Dear Tony,
It's been a long time since Alfred, and I could not believe it when I heard the news. I've thought about you alot over the years and all the great times we had with Suggs,Julie, Daria, Brad, Glenn, Swartley...and at Alex's! So many times I thought of calling you. I think Suggs and I did when you were in Florida but that was a while ago. It should have been sooner. The world will miss you Tony. You were a beautiful person, one of a kind. Alfred would not have been the same without you. So many memories. I am so saddened by this news and can't believe that it's true. Life is short, and you lived it on your terms. You are so loved and will be greatly missed, Pfeifer. Say hi to Brad and Julie and I send you all my love. I miss you all.
BUCK
February 23, 2005
I only knew Tony for a brief Time during his time at Alfred.
He was a great person and always fun to be around.....
I'm sure he will be greatly missed...
Daria Deevy (Marson)
February 23, 2005
I am a friend of Tony from Alfred University. I am so shock to hear about his death. I have so many fond memories of hanging out with Tony and the rest of the Alfred gang - Tracy, Julie (she's gone too), Amy, Swartley, and Glenn. Tony was truly an amazing person and I could kick myself for not staying in touch with him. Thirteen years have passed since I last saw Tony and I can still remember his laugh....Tony riding his mountain bike (that thing was glued to his butt!), smoking camels, and getting into lots of good college trouble together...makes me smile. We had a blast, didn't we? I really enjoyed reading the guest book entries...seems like he found some really great friends and a love. My sincere condolences to his family. I am honored to have been one of his friends. Tony, I'll never forget you. Your pal - D
P.S. Say Hi to Julie for me :-)
Carlos Dominguez
February 18, 2005
Happy -belated- Birthday Buddy, I knew we had much in common(Aquarians)...you left this world a better place because of all the lives you touched. We will never forget.
February 17, 2005
Happy Birthday! I miss you.
February 17, 2005
It's your Birthday Tony and you are in our hearts.
claire
February 17, 2005
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY!! and while i am at it, happy belated valentines. kinda lonely this year. i love you baby. have a party for me up there, k? now you can have as much cake and ice cream as you want and not get fat!! k. it's late. g'night.
claire
December 31, 2004
thank you for the best year of my life baby. time to start a new one. i love you darling. happy new year.
December 25, 2004
Merry Christmas buddy, everyone's thinking of you.
claire murray
December 18, 2004
Ahhh...my love. it's been over a month now. And i still hear your voice in my head. i get excited when i see weatabix or vegemite in the grocery store. So many little things that remind me of you, so many little things i continue to see, feel and hear on a daily basis. I miss your morning calls, on our way to work. I miss your newest obsessions. I miss fighting over football, i miss crawling into bed with you, you talking to everyone in line. I miss you. period. I just keep thinking about what a good person you are. i check this thing everyday, because it makes me happy to read what other people have to say about you. how you touched their lives. Because you did. everyone who came across your path walked away a better person. And i am no exception. SO this is my thank you. I thanked you in hundreds of little ways, but i wanted to say it. My life will not be the same without you. Everyday gets a little bit harder, but a little bit better too. We had a good thing baby. I love you. I'm gonna go watch football now, ok? there's a good game on. Keep smiling love. i know you will. and makes sure those gates are pearly when i get there. PIGPEN. <3
John Musser
December 17, 2004
I have not been in contact with Tony for many years, and like some others of his friends from long ago, I did not hear of his passing for some time. I felt compelled to write something here as a tribute to him and the time he spent in Hidden Valley, PA.
As is evidenced in all the other memories written here, Tony connected with people in a deep and moving way. I first met Tony when were just kids, probably about 11 or 12 years old. Even then, we were all inspired and greatly influenced by his incredible energy and passion for life. It was always an exciting time when Tony came to Hidden Valley for the weekend, as he was so well liked and welcomed by so many people there. I think, in some important ways, he taught me how to be more socially adept. He was always making his 'fun' presence felt and 'turning up the volume' in many of our gatherings. Truly an unforgettable and integral member of the "Hidden Valley Gang".
It is really cool to read the other entries and realize how many other people he touched after we all "grew up" and moved away from Pennsylvania. He was always meeting new people and making friends so easily. It seems clear to me that in death as well as in life he was an incredibly powerful spirit. His character and his strong vibe will always remain in my memory. To all of us who knew him, his memory and his energy should always inspire us to enjoy life and to share that passion with others.
My deepest sympathy goes out to his surviving family and all his friends. (Ben, if you happen to read this, send me an email and let's just re-connect to stay in touch.)
Carissa Sutter
December 8, 2004
It is only starting to hit me that Tony is gone. I haven't really talked about how I feel about it too much, it's hard to express the shock of losing someone in your life you never thought would go. I really took it for granted that Tony would always be around.
His..lust for life was so incredible, his movement and style was so constant. I still stop and try to convince myself that I wont ever see him laughing about some incredibly random thing..that I wont see him standing with Kevin and exchanging amusing little ideas. His energy was so incredibly powerful that his absence from this world can actually be physically felt at times. It really can be.
I hadn't hung out with Tony on the regular for over a year, but I can feel he's gone.
When I was hanging around with him, he always managed to make me laugh or feel good. I think when he was alone, he would think of ways to make different people smile every day. He would stop me and pay me a compliment as he passed me by. Really great compliments. The best compliment I ever got on my name was from Tony. He stopped me one day, and said "Carissa...that's kind of like Charisma, but without the M." Such a Tony thing to say. Such an incredible way to make someone's day better with only a few moments of time. That was how Tony was.
He would do little things to make an outing special. I went canoeing with him once, with another friend, and he made this incredible seafood-pasta style salad with all fresh ingredients. He turned the trip into an adventure, with 16 foot alligators, off-road driving, hiking, fake-mustaches, helicopter hats and handguns.
I regret not spending more time with him, I regret not taking advantage of his positive, active, creative and kind personality.
I send my regrets to those who were much closer to him, because I know he had much more to offer than I got to see.
More than once he told me stories of his past...incredible, wacky stories that showed so much about his zest for life. Tony lived his life to the fullest, I don't think anyone could get more out of living than he did.
I just needed to take a moment to write something. It's been hiting me more now than before, and I think Tony deserves to be remembered in as many ways as possible.
David Frew
December 6, 2004
My heart is filled with sorrow and sympathy for a family that has had more tragedies than most. I met Tony at Mercyhurst Prep in the 80's, where we became very close through crazy antics played out over several years rowing, sailing, hiking, skiing, and generally hanging out in the same neighborhood. If I ever thought something was too crazy to try, the next thing I'd know, Tony would be doing it. Tony had a very kind heart and felt compassion for everyone. He had defined character. He was sensitive, though he handled all of his challenges with an even keel, a smile, and alot of humor. I can't tell you how many nights I had sore stomach muscles because I just could not stop laughing. A few years passed, and we crossed paths again in the early 90's at a mutual friends wedding. I was happy for the new couple, but mostly happy to have the surprise of seeing such a great friend. That was Tony though - he made you feel like you were the most important person, in a genuine and sincere way - and in my travels I have never met anyone that had that skill. We shared a room that night, and stayed up all night sharing stories and talking about the future. Today, I feel an overwhelming sense of regret because we fell out of touch these last few years, but when I look back now, he was the kind of guy you "could" see once a decade, and when you saw him, feel as if you were best of friends. I am deeply sorry for the loss, but extremely happy to be fortunate enough to be one of the people Tony came in contact with, and can rest easier knowing that his warmth, humor, compassion, all of his expressions, but mostly his smile and the sound of his laugh will stay with me forever and ever. Goodbye Tony! Knock 'em dead in heaven! You made me a better person, just for knowing you.
Steve Brakke
December 4, 2004
The few years that I knew Tony proved he was a man of determination. His perserverance through the bad times to better serves as an example to anyone who has had it tough. Tony would want us to continue living life to the fullest. Do so in Tony's honor and memory!
Dawn, Mark, and Tate Gilpin
November 22, 2004
For Tony's family:
Please know that Tony was on to the greatest truths of life - that laughter and relationships are all that really matter. Tony was a master of both. We will never forget his kindnesses to our family when we visited "the boys at the Reef." Tony always made us feel special. We will remember the sailing, the canoeing, the singing, the art, the inside of his apartment, and the mimosas. We will miss him - he could always make us smile!
Karin Passarelli
November 21, 2004
Our family met Tony through my youngest daughter when they were both in grade school and then, as throughout the years, he was always a joy to have in our house. He made us laugh but more than that, he somehow had the abiltiy to make you feel better about yourself than you did before he came in.
I'm so happy that he was a part of my childrens' lives. It's a gift they could not have gotten any other way.
Carol Ellis
November 21, 2004
At the celebration of Tony's life I was overwhelmed by the over-flowing chapel where many had come to pay respect. My experience knowing and loving Tony was not unique; he made each of us feel special in ways cherished by us all. Luckily he took the time to share, and now I have a little piece of Tony in my mind. My only regret is I didn't have an opportunity to learn more from Tony.
Marc Macfarlane
November 21, 2004
I learned a lot from this very special man. I'm not amazed by all the people from different walks of life he touched; made smile and laugh.
Lisa (Moore) Richards
November 19, 2004
Tony was a beloved member of the Hidden Valley gang. He told the best stories and everytime I saw him he made me laugh. When he would come to Hidden Valley he loved to gather us all in a circle for a story. He would put on some crazy hat, turn the lights down low and off he'd go. He'd keep us on the edge of our seats until the end.
Even though I have not seen Tony in quite a while, I think of him often. He was one of those people who made a lasting impression with people. He will be missed and fondly thought of by all who knew him.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Kevin Smith
November 16, 2004
When I first signed the book, I didn't know what to say or how to say it. I still can't think of the right words to write here.
Bro Ham (Tony)...I love you and miss you. My life will never be the same without you. You are the kindest and most generous person I have ever met.
I wish you were still here with us... I certainly was not ready to say goodbye... I still struggle with figuring out how to say it.........
I hope we meet again........
love always,
Kevin (brougham)
Peggy O'Toole
November 15, 2004
Tony and I were friends in High School. He was a kind, fun and intelligent guy. Though I haven't seen him in a while, I'm sorry that he is gone. Best wishes to his family and friends.
Mari Corral
November 15, 2004
Tony:
I still remember the day I met you. It was Saturday nite and you were hanging out at Starbuck's right before the meeting. You gave me one of the happiest days of my life when you took us sailing a couple of years back. I was there with you when we had that bad accident in Key Largo 2 years ago. But you made it through and you kept on living life to the fullest, like you always did. The last time I saw you I was picking up my one year medallion (finally) and when I spoke you looked at me with your big blue eyes and gave me a big hug and I thanked you for your support.
You may be physically gone but I will never forget you and the huge impact you made in my life. I will always carry the memory of your "good times" and your smile with me. Thank you for the moonlight bike rides, the midnight movie shows, the crazy bowling, the night at Purdy's, the silly voicemails and the sailing trips. My prayers and thoughs are with your family.
Paul Connelly
November 15, 2004
Our hearts are sorrowful at the news that an old, dear friend has passed, as many of you feel today. Tony was always the first to put his good foot forward and see the positive even in a difficult time, so let us learn from our friend here.
Good times were had rowing, skiing, listening to "new" music in the 80's and as others have said, making a generally boring night one of fun and adventure. So true. I remember as teenagers Tony and I spent many times shaking up our stodgy neighborhood. Tony always liked to try something new, extreme or different. There was a time had never gotten a cavity-- until he went to bed with Lemonheads in his mouth for a month!
Always a leader, he will be remembered for his hard work and dedication bringing Rowing from Erie to Pittsburgh and his work in the creative arts.
Our prayers, strength and condolences go out to his friends and family, he will be fondly remembered.
Shannon Fitzgerald
November 15, 2004
I am shocked and sad over the news of Tonys death. We were friends in high school and my memories of him always make me smile. Even then, at a young age, he was a very kind person who always had something nice to say. His spirit will live on in all of the lives he touched. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Mike Bonavita
November 12, 2004
Mischievous but never malicious is the way I remember Tony. Quick with a joke or a great idea for something to do on a boring summer night. A great Artist, a better person. Thanks for the good times Tony, you will be remembered.
Arlene Miller
November 12, 2004
I never met Tony, but only heard of him through the alumni of Central Catholic Rowing. Memories of the beginning of the rowing team at Central Catholic High School credit Tony for having been the person who started this wonderful sport at Central and my son and many, many boys have benefitted from Tony's love of this sport. My condolences to friends and family. We will remember his contribution to us all.
David DeIuliis
November 12, 2004
I did not know Tony as well as my brother did, but he started the rowing club at our high school in which I was very actively involved. What I knew about Tony was that he had a magnetic personality. People were drawn to him. He was energy and full of ideas, he had a good heart--which is evident from all of the great organization where he involved himself. Tony was a "do-er", not one to sit idly by on the sidelines. He was a leader. I feel honored to have known him and my heart goes out to his family in this hard time.
letty rojas
November 12, 2004
It's to unreal that he's gone we will miss and remember .
Deputy Larry Benedict Monroe County Sheriff
November 12, 2004
A personable, just plain nice guy who will be missed especially at lunch time where his smiles and kind words will not be forgotten.
Jennifer (Weiss)Hammerle
November 11, 2004
Tony was one of those people in life who leave a lasting impression on those they meet. He was a kind guy- in a fun and crazy way.
I feel for his family and friends. I know this is a very difficult time for them.
Lyn Avery-Jones (Brabant)
November 11, 2004
Tony has been a part of my life since we were both 16. I've known few people with such unbridaled enthusiasm and I've always been proud to call him my friend. He cared deeply and genuinely about his friends and family and made a point of showing it. His spirit will live on in my heart and mind for as long as I walk this earth. I can still hear you laughing, my friend. I love you and I will miss you dearly.
lisa abern
November 11, 2004
my life will never be the same without your smiling face .... You are truly AMAZING.... i miss you
Carlos Dominguez
November 11, 2004
As I remember Tony, I was always laughing around him. He was always uplifting his friends and sharing GOOD TIMES as he was so well known for, I will miss the opportunity to bike ride with you again my friend, you will not be forgotten.
Stephanie Van Houten
November 11, 2004
Remembering Tony and the list of exceptional qualities to describe the friendship he had to give, I could be writing for days. I know that our spirits live on, and Tony’s memory will live on forever in my heart. Tony was one of those friends that whatever trials or hardships were going on, he was always the FIRST to be there. The friend you could always depend on. Tony was loyal, supportive, and full of life, energy and optimism. Tony used his talents, his wisdom and many other wonderful attributes to benefit all that knew him. To think of the world now without one of the brightest, most thoughtful, insightful, generous, creative, caring souls who truly lived values of life to the fullest is hard to absorb and will truly be missed. I had the privilege of knowing Tony as part of a support group, sharing interests in the Arts, Music, the Breast Cancer Walks, and the list goes on… and learning from him was a true gift. I know that he is looking down on us, happy to see how well his life and his message was received and will live on for a long time. Thank you Tony for the friendship you gave. You will always be in our hearts and consciences giving us the courage to carry on the message to create a spiritual, healthy, and sustainable world.
ivonne azurdia
November 11, 2004
I only knew Tony a tiny bit. I met him through his loving girlfriend Claire when he would come see her perform in our show and bring her flowers (and bring us candy). He was kind, and funny and will be missed.
Bye Tony.
Chris Brown
November 11, 2004
God Bless the Family and Freinds of Antony P. Pfeifer.
claire murray
November 11, 2004
tony was the love of my life. i guess i should be grateful that i found that sort of love, and got to enjoy it for a time. but right now it's so hard. i miss him so much. especially in the mornings, like, it's a new day dawning, and tony is not there next to me. his vabrancy has been keeping me going though, i know he would want me to. but the deep hole he left, that will take a long time to fill. i love you, baby.
Dino DeIuliis
November 11, 2004
Tony had such an outstanding nature, it is difficult to sum up his best qualities in a concise fashion, as he had so many qualities that were so tremendous. Tony was a very talented artist,, a vivacious, gregarious and humorous man. Most of all, to me, he was a very dear friend who will be missed.
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