Thomas Adam

1935 - 2019

Thomas Adam obituary, 1935-2019, Pierre, SD

Thomas Adam

1935 - 2019

BORN

1935

DIED

2019

Thomas Adam Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 8, 2019.
Thomas Adam

Pierre - Thomas Conrad Adam was born on February 16, 1935, in Deadwood, South Dakota, to August Conrad Adam and Jesse Ellen Maxwell Adam. Due to medical complications, Tom lost his mother only two weeks after his birth, and was raised solely by his father until August was remarried to Bessie McGraw. Later, Tom's brother William was born and completed the family.

Tom was a miner's son and lived with his family in a variety of Montana mining camps during World War II, but was mostly raised in Lead, South Dakota, home to Homestake Gold Mine where August worked. Even as a boy Tom was resourceful and hard-working, always looking for ways to contribute. He often told stories about his childhood paper route, delivering the Lead Daily Call up and down the many tall streets of Lead, through very deep Black Hills snow, or of his time working in the mine as a young man. He also worked hard in school and excelled academically, earning the respect of his teachers and peers who voted him class president in 1952, his senior year. Tom played baseball and football for the Lead High Golddiggers, and was his team's captain.

Following high school, Tom attended the University of South Dakota. After his freshman year, he proudly served in the United States Army for two years then returned to USD where he was an active contributor on campus and a member of Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity. While an undergrad, Tom met his future bride, Patricia Mickelson, and they were married in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, in 1959. As newlyweds, they returned to USD where Tom attended law school and earned his Juris Doctorate in 1961. Upon graduation the couple moved to Pierre, South Dakota, where they made their home for 55 years, and where Tom began his life-long career practicing law with the firm of Martens & Goldsmith, presently known as May Adam Law Firm. During his tenure at the firm Tom was very politically attuned, and spent significant time at the State Capitol during the legislative session. He also proudly represented the South Dakota Bankers Association for almost 40 years but mostly, Tom developed a meaningful practice which cast far and wide, helping farmers and ranchers meet their needs.

Among his many other contributions and commitments, Tom served on the national board of the Easter Seal Society, served as Chairman of the South Dakota Board of Bar Examiners, and was a Director of the Sanford Underground Research Facility located in the former Homestake Gold Mine. Tom and Pat were also disciples at the First United Methodist Church where they were actively involved in the life of the church for decades. In his free time, Tom loved hunting, reading, tending his salsa garden, pruning his apple trees, joining his wife for a float down the Missouri River, or spending time together at their beloved cabin in Spearfish Canyon.

In addition to making the lives of their four children the best that it could be, Tom and Pat were proud grandparents of 14 and great-grandparents of 3, and loved spending time with all of them.

Tom is survived by his children; Kathleen (Bruce) Bykowski of Eden Prairie, MN; Paula Adam-Burchill (Thomas), of Sioux Falls, SD, Karlton (Joan) Adam of Pierre, SD; Sarah (Greg) Axtman of Harrisburg, PA; grandchildren Matthew (Ashley) Bykowski, Bennett (Katherine) Bykowski, Carter (Adrianna) Bykowski; Connor, Nolan and Maxwell Burchill; Katherine (Eric) Danforth; Conrad, Jack, Phillip and Paul Adam; August, John and Eric Axtman; great-grandchildren Brooklyn, Luke and Brody Bykowski; many beloved nieces and nephews; sister and brother in law Lavon & James Meyers of West Lafayette, IN; sister in law Linda Mickelson Graham of Sioux Falls; sister in law Therese Adam of Spearfish, SD; as well as many dear friends.

Tom was predeceased by Patricia, his wife of 56 years; his father, August; his mother, Jessie; his step-mother, Bessie; parents-in-law Governor George T. and Madge Mickelson; brother William; brother and sister-in-law, John and Janice Carmody; brother-in-law, Governor George S. Mickelson; nephew Jack Carmody; and great nephew Michael Carmody.

Tom's 14 grandchildren are his pallbearers, with honorary pallbearers including Karl Fischer, Milton Schwartz and the past and present attorneys of the May Adam Law Firm. Visitation with family present will be on Thursday, October 10, at the First United Methodist Church of Pierre, 117 North Central Avenue, from 5:30 to 7:00 p.m. The funeral will also be at the church on Friday, October 11, at 11:00 a.m. The family suggests memorials may be directed to the First United Methodist Church of Pierre, SD, the South Dakota State Historical Society, or The Trail of Governors Foundation.

Online condolences can be made at www.isburgfuneralchapel.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Thomas Adam's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

1 Entry

Renee Ramharter

October 8, 2019

To the Adam Family- wishing you all deepest sympathies and prayers! Embrace His Love and Cherish your memories! Renee and Scott Ramharter

Showing 1 - 1 of 1 results

Fidler-Isburg Funeral Chapel - Spearfish

450 7th St P.O. Box 487, Spearfish, SD 57783

Make a Donation
in Thomas Adam's name

How to support Thomas's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Thomas Adam's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Thomas Adam's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?