Thomas Benson

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Benson, Thomas J.
Benson, Thomas J. (86) of Mahwah NJ, formerly of Upper Saddle River NJ and Darien CT died September 29th. Born in Newburgh NY on October 5, 1926, Tom and his eight siblings were raised by their mother, Mary Murphy Benson Lepore. He received his Bachelor's degree from Central Connecticut University and a Masters in secondary education from University of Bridgeport. He served in the U.S. Navy from 1944 through 1946. Upon receiving his honorable discharge, he began a professional career dedicated entirely to education. He taught in the Darien CT school system before becoming an assistant principal in the Greenwich CT school district. He returned to Darien as principal of Middlesex Middle School. He became Superintendent of the Upper Saddle River NJ district in 1973, serving in this position until 1992. He has enjoyed a retirement filled with traveling, golf, bridge games and summer vacations with his children and grand-children in Lake Placid NY. Tom was a faithful parishioner at Presentation RC Church, Upper Saddle River NJ. Tom is survived by his son, Thomas W. and his wife Alice of Weston MA, daughters Linda Meiman and her husband Jim of Ramsey NJ, Beth O'Connor and her husband Russ of Lisbon CT, Carol Dannenfelser and her husband Dave of Rockaway NJ; brothers Jim Benson of Georgia, Bob Benson of Paramus NJ, Larry Lepore of Pompton Lakes NJ, Vinnie Lepore of Ocala FL and his sister Eileen Benson of New York City. He is the loving Grandpa to Kristin, Nicky, Ben, Meghan, Shannon, Laura, David, James and Aidan. He was pre-deceased by his brothers David and George, his sister Pat Ciceri and his loving wife Carol Hurley Benson (2011). The family will receive visitors at Van Emburgh-Sneider-Pernice Funeral Home, 109 Darlington Ave. Ramsey NJ Sunday October 6 from 2-4 and 7-9 PM.Mass at Church of the Presentation, Upper Saddle River NJ Monday October 7 at 10 AM. Internment will be Saturday October 26, 10:00 AM at St. Agnes Cemetery in Lake Placid NY. In lieu of flowers, donations in Tom's memory can be made to Boys Town (

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Published in Darien News on Oct. 11, 2013
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