Cathleen Jo Kilburn

1966 - 2019

Cathleen Jo Kilburn obituary, 1966-2019, Westbrook, ME

Cathleen Jo Kilburn

1966 - 2019

BORN

1966

DIED

2019

Cathleen Kilburn Obituary

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PORTLAND - Cathleen Jo Kilburn, 53, died unexpectedly in Portland on July 1, 2019. She was born July 14, 1966, in Westbrook, the daughter of the late Philip B. Kilburn and Polly Kenniston.

She graduated from Westbrook High School in 1984. She earned an associate's degree from Westbrook College and a bachelor's degree from Husson College, graduating in 2000 with high distinction. In her early 20s she became employed with the City of Portland, and was still working there at the time of her death. She began her career in the accounting department in 1989 and had her 30 year anniversary with the City in February, 2019.

Good things come in small packages. She came into this world barely tipping the scales at five pounds and has been a bundle of activity ever since. Her father quickly nicknamed her "Cathy Chaos" which pretty much suited her as a little person.

That same energy and enthusiasm carried into her adult life. She became an amazing triathlete and finished her first Half Ironman in a very respectable time. As an avid snowboarder she shared her skills by teaching handicapped children at the Shawnee Peak Adaptive Program.

She was diagnosed with epilepsy approximately 14 years ago. However, she had no intention of letting a seizure stand in her way and refused to change her lifestyle. She subsequently swam several Peaks to Portland, often medaling in her age group; she continued her triathlons and again often won medals, placing high in her age group. Cathy was one of a kind. She had many accomplishments at a very young age. An extremely generous, kind and loving person who furnished our holidays with a lot of zing. Most appropriately the Fourth of July when she would buy an arsenal of fireworks and light them in all their glory on the Fourth. She loved her nieces and nephews, taking them to Disney on Ice and Water Country and once taking them to hear AC/DC. They have never forgotten this and still talk about what fun Aunt Cathy was. She was "the Bomb".

She is survived by her mom, Polly Kenniston; her brothers, Steven Kilburn of Hiram, Jeff Kilburn (Carol) of Standish, Jim Kilburn of Saco, Anton Kilburn (Megan) of Ohio and sisters, Cindy Kilburn of Westbrook, Diane Kilburn of Portland, Kelley Libby (Brian) of Cornish, and Deirdre Link (Skip) of New Hampshire. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews; as well as by her two best friends, Missy Hall and Chris Gistis, and of course, her cat "Li'l J."

I found it all and I stood tall; and did it 'my way'.

Visiting hours will be held from 4 p.m. - 6 p.m. Tuesday July 9, at the Westbrook Chapel of Dolby Blais & Segee 35 Church Street, Westbrook, with a service immediately following. Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday July 13, at Riverside Cemetery, Cornish.

To express condolences or to participate in Cathy's online tribute please visit www.DolbyBlaisSegee.com

Those wishing to remember Cathy may make donations in her name to the

Animal Refuge League of Greater Portland

P.O. Box 336

Westbrook ME 04098

or to

The Epilepsy Foundation of New England

650 Suffolk Street #405

Lowell, MA 01854

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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July 12, 2019

Maryel Doyon posted to the memorial.

July 12, 2019

Jane Greenwood- Kenniston posted to the memorial.

July 9, 2019

Kathleen Gilbert sent flowers.

Maryel Doyon

July 12, 2019

Cathy was so kind to people she knew. I will miss you.

Jane Greenwood- Kenniston

July 12, 2019

I have many fond memories of Cathy, she was always the life of the party and her energy and smiles were contagious! Praying for comfort to all of her family and friends during this difficult time of loss.

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Cindy Trufant- Gillis

July 8, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to Cathy and her family. May God bless Cathy and all of you and give you strength to get through this difficult time.

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Cynthia Trufant

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July 8, 2019

Cathy my friend - I will miss you always & carry you everyday in my heart & thoughts.

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Neil Jordan

July 8, 2019

Cathy, my friend, I will miss you forever but my world is brighter for having known you as a co-worker, friend and gutsy competitor. I count those days paddling beside you during the Peaks to Portland among the finest in my life and I am deeply honored to have been your spotter. You are loved by many and will remain in our hearts forever.

Jeffrey Kilburn

July 7, 2019

I will miss u forever. U were the light of my life. Every time i watch Monk we will be watching together I will cherish out times together.u are the best

Susan Gillis-Webster

July 7, 2019

I have such great childhood memories with Cathy! Was looking forward to catching up with her this summer. Many thoughts and prayers go out to her family. You are all so blessed to have each other in this difficult time.

Kim Kane (Jordan)

July 7, 2019

My thoughts and prayers for Cathy and all of the family May you all find strength in this time of grief and sadness

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Mark Merrill

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Dawn Davidson

July 7, 2019

Thinking of Cathy has, and always will, put a smile in my heart. Her energy and strength were contagious. We shared a love for the water and memories of Cathy will always be with me when I "dive" into any of life's challenges.

Cathy Ricker

July 7, 2019

I met Cathy when I worked at the City. She was a great co-worker. Always helpful. She had a great depth of knowledge. Always had a smile. I will miss you.

Wendy Bruns

July 7, 2019

Til we meet again

Debbie Lavigne Blais

July 6, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to Cathy's whole family and I am sorry for your loss.

Melinda Doane

July 6, 2019

I will miss you terribly dear friend, but there really are no goodbyes for us. Where ever you are, you will always be in my heart, I will hear your laughter and I will treasure the many wonderful memories and adventures we have shared. Love, Melinda

John Fitzgerald

July 6, 2019

I first met Cathy at a swim work-out in Cape Elizabeth twenty years ago. Along with Thom, we became good friends both in and out of the pool. Cathy's dedication to self improvement in her ambitious athletic pursuits had a profound impact on me in terms of how to pursue one's passions in life.She made the most of her time during her life and will be sorely missed.

DEBRA JENSEN

July 5, 2019

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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