MARGIE FIRESTONE BALTER

MARGIE FIRESTONE BALTER

MARGIE BALTER Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 17 to Oct. 18, 2017.
BALTER MARGIE FIRESTONE
The piano no longer plays its sweet song. The joyful singing has fallen silent. The music stopped when our beloved Margie Firestone Balter, partner, daughter, sister, aunt and kindhearted human being, died October 10, 2017, in Los Angeles. Margie was a one-of-a-kind individual who sang to herself much of the day. She reveled in life and adored her many piano students. She taught almost to the moment of her death. Days before her passing, people were calling for lessons for young maestros and slightly older ones who wanted to perform (or look like they were) in a movie or TV show. Margie died of complications of cancer. She fought a brave two-year battle in her own private way. Please don't remember her for that. Remember her for her gorgeous songwriting, performing and singing, and her daily gratefulness for the simplest elements of life: a sunset, a beach, a swim. Margie was born and raised in Squirrel Hill, graduating from Winchester Thurston School in Shadyside and the University of Washington in ethnomusicology and music. She performed in an African Marimba band for many years in Seattle, before moving to LA to pursue a career in music and composing and performing. Margie was the family member who took care of everyone else. When her father was sick, she spent five months with him in Florida. She took elegant care of her mother, Alma, now age 100, by moving her to LA to help in many ways. Margie showed a younger sister the way to do everything, and protected her always. "Margie was an irrepressible optimist, the bright light in everyone's lives," said her sister, Joni Balter. Margie was best known in LA as "the piano teacher to the stars,' including Tom Cruise, Jack Black and Kevin Spacey and rising star, Magnus Ferrell, Will's son. When Holly Hunter won the Academy Award for best actress in "The Piano,' she owed much of her success to Margie's brilliant piano coaching. Margie produced a stunningly beautiful CD, "Music from My Heart,' with an instrumental that aired on an episode of TV show Scandal. She was a voting member of the Grammy Awards. She loved her students more than anyone can imagine and produced many exemplary young players who played at occasional recitals that she turned into huge productions. "Margie never lost sight of the fact that music was the one language that could make everyone happy, she really believed in its transformative power,' her sister explained. Margie is survived by her longtime partner, Roger Mende; her mother, Alma Balter, of Los Angeles; her sister, Joni Balter, and brother-in-law, Timothy Egan, of Seattle; brother and sister-in-law, Robert and Margery Balter, of Philadelphia; and nieces and nephews, Sophie and Sam Kintz, Casey Egan, Meredith and Kevin Croy. Services at Rodef Shalom Temple, 4905 Fifth Avenue (at Morewood) on Friday, Oct. 20, 2017, at 12 Noon. Visitation one hour prior to services at Temple, (11 a.m. - 12 Noon). Interment Temple B'Nai Israel Cemetery in North Versailles. A second memorial in her honor will be held in Los Angeles featuring her music and that of her piano prodigies. Arrangements entrusted to RALPH SCHUGAR CHAPEL, INC.
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May 1, 2024

Lydia muijen posted to the memorial.

November 1, 2017

Ryan Franks posted to the memorial.

October 18, 2017

Roberta Felman Lewis posted to the memorial.

Lydia muijen

May 1, 2024

As a famous Dutch actor and artist received all the attention in a nice evening in LA, I found myself sitting next to Margie. We chatted all night and stayed in touch digitally after I traveled the globe. It was lovely to meet her in this lifetime and I am very grateful we met when we did. I wish there had been more time and many more moments. Blessings and love to who I am sure must miss her dearly. Lydia Muijen

Ryan Franks

November 1, 2017

To Margie's family and close friends, I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Margie through music work but was not aware that she was sick. Her attitude and great energy were always inspiring, as was her talent for music.

Roberta Felman Lewis

October 18, 2017

Margie, and everyone else who is missing her... this is my 3 rd attempt to leave u a message... i hope this one goes through.I will repeat my thoughts. The thing I will remember best about you is not about your music, but about your loyalty and big heart. In an earlier obit online, it was said that you were always there to hold the hand of anyone else who was having a rough time . So true. You certainly held mine . You were the first friend to call me when Fae passed and to check up on me. And the same w Eve. I appreciated so much that you introduced Eve to Alma and they became rapid friends while Eve was living in LA. I hope you didn't suffer. You certainly dealt with your illness with such dignity and grace. I only wish I was able to support you. Your vivaciousness lives on with all of our memories. Hope that wherever you are you can feel the good vibrations that you have left behind.Missing you sweet friend..

Bev Speizer Cutler

October 17, 2017

Margie was one of my very first friends at Wightman School. I spent many memorable after-school and weekend play dates at her house (which I can still picture!). I'm saddened by her death.

Me & Margie in Sabino Canyon

Ellie Platt Werner

October 17, 2017

Margie was my best friend growing up in Pittsburgh. Sadly, we lost touch over the years, and now it's too late because she's gone. It's taught me a lesson about keeping in touch and letting people know how you feel about them while you still have the chance. My heart goes out to Margie's family and friends and hope that you can find comfort in the memories of the good times you shared. Like a candle in the windgoodbye Margie B. Thanks for the memories.

Roberta Felman Lewis

October 17, 2017

Dear Margie, The thing I remember most about you is not about your music. It's the comment that was made in the previous on line obituary about your always being there to hold the hand of any friend who was dealing w rough times.This was so true . Even though you were dealing with your own problems , you were there for me at the passings of Fae and Eve. In fact , you were the 1 st to call and you did several times. I wish I had known . I hope you didn't suffer. You handled your illness in such a dignified way . I hope that from wherever you are now that the breezes lift up to you all the messages of love and gratitude for knowing you , surround you. Peace to you , my loyal friend. You brought us joy.

Lucy McDowell Karrys

October 17, 2017

Margie a beloved classmate of many years brought joy and inspiration to all that knew her. Sing on dear Margie I can hear you from the beyond . With love Lucy McDowell Karrys

October 17, 2017

I was very saddened to read of the passing ofmy former Beechwood Blvd. neighbor. Please accept my condolences on the loss of this incredibly talented woman. - Jeff Pollock, Esq. (Sq. Hill)

October 17, 2017

My heartfelt thoughts and fond memories go to Alma, Joni and family and Robert and Family.
I remember being in Margie's acting group, The Playwrights. It was a hit with the K, 1, 2 and 3 Birthday parties. She was not only talented but already a smart business woman...
I feel fortunate to have been a part of Margie's journey propelled by passion and gifts.
Warmest thoughts, Jane Wolk Spector

Gary Podolsky

October 17, 2017

Joni (and family),
Sorry to hear about the passing of your sister. I know you two were very close and my heart aches for your loss.
Gary Podolsky

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