Ivan B. Witham
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YORK, Maine - Ivan B. Witham, 88, of York, Maine passed away peacefully in his home on Tuesday, October 1, 2019. He was born on August 9, 1931, in Skowhegan, Maine to Benjamin Witham and Louise (Fairfield) Witham.

Ivan graduated from Kents Hill School in 1949. Afterwards he proudly served in the US Navy's submarine force from 1950 to 1954.

For 26 years, Ivan was an agent for Prudential Insurance. He was known for being an avid bridge player and played in the local duplicate bridge clubs. In fact, Ivan participated in a fine game the day before he passed away. He also relished cribbage, the crossword puzzle, and a good joke.

Ivan was a 57-year-member of the York-Ogunquit United Methodist Church.

He was predeceased by his parents, his stepmother, Mildred Witham, and five siblings.

Ivan is survived by his wife of 64 years, Dorothy (Davis) Witham of York; his brother, Benjamin Witham of Dover, N.H.; his children, Lisa Witham (Dr. Edward Seldin) of South Berwick, Maine, Gregory Witham (Sharon Dow) of Bolton, Conn., Jeffrey Witham (Vickie Bardwell) of Wells, Maine; five grandchildren; three great-granddaughters; and many nieces and nephews.

SERVICES: A memorial service will be held at the York-Ogunquit United Methodist Church in York, Maine on October 19, 2019 at 1 p.m.

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Published in Seacoastonline.com from Oct. 3 to Oct. 11, 2019.
Memorial service
01:00 PM
York-Ogunquit United Methodist Church
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November 22, 2019
Ivan and Dottie are personal heros to me. They took my whole family of eight in many years ago when we needed help. I was only 6 then but knew Ivan was kind and funny and respected him. Over the years I have thought of him (and Dottie) many times. My condolences to Dottie and the family.
Susan Pax
November 9, 2019
You frequently came up to me during my postlude and told me that I did I good job, but unfortunately the church couldn't pay me! I always knew you appreciated my music! Miss you, Ivan!!
October 20, 2019
Hi Dottie,
Just seeing who is left on this earth when I saw Ivan's passing.
So sorry. 64 years is a long time together
Hope you are well.
Ruthie & Dave
October 17, 2019
Ivan was a good neighbor, when we were out in the yard he always had a quip or two when he was passing by on his daily walk. He will be missed!
Cindy and Phil Bufithis
Beech Ridge Rd
October 15, 2019
I served on the USS Tang as a RM3 , 1953 54. Ivan was a good shipment and cook especially serving Sunday dinner while in port.
Tom Woodhouse woodypia@att.net
October 15, 2019
Hello to Ivan's family and friends... Ivan was a 'Tang Master' A term that applied to the Commissioning Crew (providing one was qualified in submarines or obtained that while serving in USS Tang (SS-563) Just think how much courage was required to make the first dive on a brand new untired boat! Such men have made our Navy and our Nation Great!

Warm regards
Master Chief Smith
October 8, 2019
Here's to a life truly well lived. My very earliest memory of Unk was from the family trip to Cousin Penny's wedding, a pretty big adventure for a 6-7 year-old kid, all the way from VT to South Portland, where Unk quickly nicknamed me Short Straw. It took me many, many years to realize he was really using this name for Cousin Holly, who was put in charge of babysitting me for the second half of the reception that day. Still makes me laugh after all these decades. That was Unk, sometimes you didn't know if you were coming or going, but it was always a fun ride! Peace and happy memories to everyone.
Brad Witham
October 8, 2019
I'm so sorry to hear of Ivan's passing. I've always had great memories of him and Dot during our time working for York Ambulance (it's early days). It was a privilege to know and work with great people for such an important cause of bringing the best emergency medical care possible to the citizens of York and surrounding areas. I will always hold Dot & Ivan close to my heart.❤❤. Kathy ritehsemom5@gmail.com
Kathy (Larsen) Wright
October 8, 2019
Ivan was a unique individual who will be missed by so many. Sincere sympathy to Dot and family.
Jackie Callan
October 6, 2019
Ivan had a marvelous knack for involving humor with his bridge playing. Often his fondness fo bidding 3NT carried the day. He'll be missed!
will smith
October 6, 2019
Ivan , my friend ,you will long be remembered

Nick Tinios
October 6, 2019
I always enjoyed . Will be missed. Pat Benton
October 6, 2019
Ivan was great fun at the bridge table. Quick wit! Always a story. Once I told him that my father's brothers married two sisters whose last name was Witham. He asked me where they lived. I answered, Maine. He stuck out his right hand, shook mine and said, "cousin"! I laughed and laughed. We shall miss seeing him next summer when we travel to NH again. Condolences to his family. Rest in peace, Ivan, save an East-West place for us at the table in heaven!!
Ellen and Lew Maddock
October 5, 2019
Ivan was always fun to be around whether it was at the bridge table or a social event. His humor was quirky but I loved it. I enjoyed being his bridge partner because no matter what kind of a hand he was delt he always played his heart out. He gets high marks for supporting the games and he'll be greatly missed at the tables.
Lila Berry
October 5, 2019
Lila Berry
October 5, 2019
I am so sorry to have read Of Mr. Withams passing.....he was my mother and fathers insurance man for many years...came to our house in Eliot....he always called me "Mary Sunshine"...such a nice person.....
condolence to the family
phillis Thorner/Cole
October 4, 2019
Unkie and Nana Louise
Ivan was my favorite Uncle only I always called him "Unkie". When I was little and he was still in the Navy, he used to come visit and play his guitar for me. When I hear "Waltzing Matilda", I will always think of him. Then there were times when he would come visit me at Wilderness Farm up in Norridgewock, Maine. He always made me feel special.
He was always making a joke and had us all laughing. It might not have been so funny for Aunt Dottie sometimes, but I loved it as I did my Unkie.
I will always miss you,
love, Holly
Holly Badman
October 3, 2019
Ivan and Dottie on their wedding anniversary 2018
I can just hear Ivan saying that now he is off to Harvard! What a sense of humor. Ivan you are missed!
I have a bone to pick with you. I thought you were on submarines for more than 4 years. You had me fooled! LOL!
I miss you and will be sure that Dottie gets to bridge games if she wants to go. Thanks for teaching me 3NT is a bid in reponse to 1 club!
miss you
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