Kelsey Nicole Veldman
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Kelsey Nicole Veldman Our beloved daughter and sister Kelsey Nicole Veldman's brief time with us ended on Saturday, June 20, 2009 after a nine year battle with an eating disorder. Kelsey loved art, music, fashion, reading, her friends and family and her cat Tum Tum. Her infectious smile was angelic, and she was much loved by her family and friends. But her life was too fleeting to realize her boundless potential. Kelsey is survived by her parents, Greg and Cheryl Veldman, her devoted sister Marissa, and her grandmothers Janet S. Veldman and Ruth D. Bleiler. She is also survived by her aunts Audrey Veldman and Catherine Goyne, her uncles Stuart "Randy" Veldman, Kim Wilson and Paul Goyne, her cousins Nora and Alison Veldman-Wilson and Amy Goyne. She is a graduate of Round Rock High School. Her parents and sister would like to thank the many people over the years who helped our family as she fought her disease. Ultimately she lost the war, but not for the lack of effort by those who were on the front line with her. Funeral services will be held at Beck's Funeral Home, 15709 Ranch Road 620, Round Rock at 6:00 p.m. Thursday, June 25. We request in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Austin Foundation for Eating Disorders ("AFED") c/o K. Kaiser, Treasurer, 1708 Chicon, Austin, TX 78702-1232.

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Published in Austin American-Statesman on Jun. 24, 2009.
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July 9, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Kelsey passing away. I spent a lot of time with her in Reno and her spunk, giant smile, and carefree attitude were always contagious! She will be truly missed. I'm angry, frustrated, and confused that it had to come to this. May we all continue to fight this terrible disease together in her name. My condolences to her friends and family. We will miss you, friend.
Nicole Griswold
July 8, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I was deeply saddened to hear the news. Kelsey was one of a kind and really knew how to light up a room. I have many memories of her that I will hold on to. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Ashley Helmke
July 8, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Val Poulos
July 8, 2009
I am stunned to hear about Kelsey. I was out of town the week it happened and am so sorry not to have made the services. Kelsey was warm, sweet, loving, sensitive, and caring. The world should feel such a loss of someone like her. I only hope that her life will help others with theirs. I will miss her.
Ed Tyson
July 2, 2009
Greg, sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your presence will be missed at the reunion but I know you will be with us in spirit.
Melissa Tucker,
Class of '79
June 29, 2009
Dear Veldman Family,

I am heartbroken to hear the news about Kelsey. She was a beautiful, intelligent, and thoughtful young woman whom I considered a good friend. I will miss her greatly.

My condolences to your family during this tragic time. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Megan Carpenter
June 29, 2009
Dear Cheryl and Greg,
My heart breaks for the pain of the loss of a child. I am so, so sorry. You will be together again with her someday.My love and prayers go out to you and the whole family in this time of heartbreak. God grant you peace.

Cousin Chi, Caroline von Glahn
June 29, 2009
I am sorry for your loss and send your family my condolences. I worked with Kelsey for a little bit and in that brief time she taught me alot about myself and touch all of our hearts. I'm just now receiving this news in Japan and I'm speechless. My prayers are with you and your family.
Tony Butler
June 28, 2009
To the Veldman family:
My deepest condolences to all of you. Although I never knew Kelsey, I'm sure she was the light of your lives and will be sorely missed. (PS - I went to McCallum with Greg).
Kevin Coward
June 26, 2009
Hi, Our son Nicholas was friends with Kelsey and she came to our house several times. I always will remember her warm smile.
Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.
The Lorge's
Tammy Lorge
June 25, 2009
Greg and Cheryl, I am so sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May God's peace and love carry you through this time of sadness.
Cindy Villegas
June 25, 2009
Dear all members of the Veldman family,

I did not know your daughter for very long or very well but she touched my heart deeply and was an inspirational. She fought SO hard and was such a sweet, caring girl. I am extremely sorry for your loss. You all will be in my prayers.
Raechel Bussell
June 25, 2009
Kelsey was loved throughout the entire world, she touched so many lives with her love and care for others. It is my hope that she is now looking down from heaven and feeling all that love and it's giving her peace.

May you be comforted in knowing that you're not alone in your grieving, that all over the world hearts are with you, lighting candles and saying prayers form your family and for Kelsey.

God bless,
Kim Heitke
Kim Heitke
June 25, 2009
We are very sorry for your loss and we send our condolences to you and your family.
Anne Williams
June 25, 2009
I do not know you and you do not know me, but I know the battle your daughter fought. God bless you for being so honest in your precious daughter's obituary. Quite possibly you have saved at least one life. My prayers go out to you all at this time. May you find comfort in Kelsey's memory and peace in knowing she is not in pain anymore.
June 25, 2009
Our love and prayers are with you --
with love and our deepest sympathy,
The Dugan Family
Margaret, Jamie, Michael, Claire, Catie and Mollie
Margaret Dugan
June 25, 2009
Dear Veldman Family,

I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. You will continue to be in my family's thouhts and prayers. May God bless all of you and mend your broken hearts.
Rachel Colby
June 25, 2009
We are so truly sorry for your loss. Your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Joetta Houghton
June 25, 2009
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

The Goltzman Family
June 24, 2009
Our hearts are broken for you and your family tonight. We are praying for you and will continue to pray for you in the days and weeks to come as you mourn the loss of your daughter.
Keith and Barie Ferguson
June 24, 2009
Greg, Cheryl and Marissa,

We have all been thinking about you and hoping that the happy memories of your beautiful daughter will ease the pain during this most trying time.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Alex, Rosemarie & Mitchell Arriaran
June 24, 2009
Greg and Cheryl,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and friends during this very difficult time. I am sorry I never had a chance to meet Kelsey. From her photograph, I can clearly see what a beautiful child you were blessed with. She will remain beautiful always in your hearts and memories.
Sara Huff
June 24, 2009
Greg and family,
Our condolences and prayers to you. We can't imagine what you and your family are going through, but you have our deepest sympathies.

Maureen and Lynn Daniels
Maureen Daniels
June 24, 2009
I did not know your daughter or your family...but my prayers go out to you all right now and in the days to come. I know your pain in your loss and I will continue to pray for your family during this difficult time!
Im so sorry for your loss.
God Bless you!
June 24, 2009
Dear Cheryl & Greg:

My heart aches for you and your family. I pray that you are comforted by your faith in this very dark time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.
Angie Thielemans
June 24, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

That laugh will be missed.

My fondness memory is taking Amy and Kelsey at age 5 and 3 twenty years ago to Seaworld. That excitement to go she had and then being so worn out she fell asleep on my shoulder as we watched Shamu.

Unc Paul
June 24, 2009

My brothers and I are saddened to hear the news and send our condolences, thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I hope the memorial will be a celebration of your daughter’s life and memories, and that your faith assures you that some day you will be together again in a perfect place.

Our best to you friend.

Steve Martens
June 24, 2009
Dear Greg and Cheryl,
Our hearts are breaking to hear that Kelsey's long struggle has ended. There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love.
Your little girl is not gone -- only out of sight. She will always be there in our hearts, and she will be waiting for us in heaven, which is not really so far away. And now, where there was this great struggle and brokenness, she has been made whole, both in body and spirit. What she was to be, has now been attained, in heaven, and in the Lord.
And now, more than ever, she may fully appreciate the battles you have fought on her behalf. It was a fight well worth the effort, and she's been ennobled by your sacrifices, by your suffering along with her. You may be sure that the Lord has taken close note of the suffering you have shared together.
But when the tears begin to dry, be sure that it has been a good life in so many ways, and that your time together was truly precious in the sight of God. As she's been welcomed to her ultimate home, there is rejoicing now there as well. Her best has just begun.
God bless you all. We are with you in heart and spirit, and we'll continue to pray for you all in the months ahead. We love you all.

Cousin Matt, the Soeter women, and our Asian boys, here in Norco, California
Matt Soeter
June 24, 2009
Dear Greg and Cheryl,

Our hearts are saddened to hear of your loss.

Please know that your family will be in our prayers today and for days to come.

Praying that you will feel God's loving comfort and almighty strength to carry you through this most difficult time.

Christy & David Van Meter
June 24, 2009
Sharon Petitjean
June 24, 2009
Dear Greg and Cheryl,

Your heart must ache terribly for your precious daughter. I grieve with you for your loss and pray that the God of comfort will be your own comfort in these dark days. Though I never met Kelsey, I know that she was beloved and will be greatly missed.

Sending you my love, your cousin, Mary Soeter Keppeler in Wisconsin
June 24, 2009
You are in our throughts and prayers. May God bless you.
Judy & Alex Kornfeld
June 24, 2009
Kelsey Veldman was a beautiful young lady. She was absolutley amazing, brilliantly creative, warm, deep smart, funny, sincere, and simply put, preciuos. I am deeply saddenned. Kelsey touched my heart. I would like to send my deepest sympathies to her family and friends, and all you knew her and cared for her. May you rest in peace dear.
Wendy Oliver-Pyatt
June 24, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Josh Sowers
June 24, 2009
I didn't even know you, but you touched so many people. I hope you have found peace.
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