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Barbara Aguilar Obituary

Barbara L. Aguilar



Barbara L. Aguilar, age 73, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and sister, passed away peacefully, Sunday, January 5, 2020, while surrounded by her loving family. Barbara was a lifelong resident of Bernalillo, NM.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Roy and Mable Slater; son, Christopher R. Aguilar; brothers, Ronnie Tucker, James Slater; sisters, Carmen Evanson, Joyce Peel.

Barbara is survived by her loving husband of 53 years, Charles J. Aguilar; sons, Lawrence Aguilar and wife Wendy, Charles R. Aguilar and girlfriend Andrea; grandsons, Christopher and Anthony Aguilar; sister, Mary O'Brien; and many other relatives and friends. Barbara will be greatly missed by her loving family and by those whose lives she touched.

Visitation will be Friday, January 10, 2020 from 6:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church, 301 Camino del Pueblo, Bernalillo, NM, where a Rosary will be recited at 7:00 p.m. Final viewing will be Saturday from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady of Sorrows Church, where the Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. Interment will follow at Our Lady of Sorrows Cemetery. Honored to serve as Casket Bearers will be Martin Aguilar, Roberta Aguilar, Christopher Aguilar, Anthony Aguilar, John Phillips-Nieto, and Charles R. Aguilar.

Those who wish to express their condolences, may visit our website.

Published by Albuquerque Journal on Jan. 9, 2020.
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Charles, I was very sadded to hear about the loss of your wife, Barbara. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Speed

Michael "Class of 1976" Padilla

January 11, 2020

My heart aches to hear this news. I know words can't take away the hurt you're feeling, but I want you to know how much I care and I am paying for you all. Sending you love and strength in this time of loss. God bless you Charles and your family.

John Guillen

January 10, 2020

Dear Charles, Lawrence, Charles and family,
We are very sorry for your great loss. Barbara's beautiful and ever present smile brought joy and life. While this world grows dimmer with her absence, the heavens surely grow brighter with her presence.
May your hearts be comforted by the certainty that her smiles were her expression of her joy, gratitude and love for all of you, her precious family.
Con el amor de Dios,
Tus Amigos,
David y Tina Pacheco Sr.

David and Florentina Pacheco

January 9, 2020

Alfred L. Baca and family convey their heartfelt condolences on the passing of Barbara. Barbara's shining smile and happy, outgoing presence will be greatly missed.

Alfred Baca

January 9, 2020

Annie Duran and family wish to express their deepest sympathy for the passing of Barbara. May she rest in peace and may God bless Charles and all her family!

Annie DURAN

January 9, 2020

My deepest condolences to Barbara's family. Barbara was such a beautiful woman that always gave me pleasure to talk with. Such a beautiful smile that literally made her glow and her eyes sparkle. I will truly miss her. May she rest in God's kingdom. May God watch over Charles ,her sons and grandchildren may you all have peace and comfort

Dolores Valdez

January 9, 2020

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10

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church

301 Camino del Pueblo, Bernalillo, NM

Jan

10

Rosary

7:00 p.m.

Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church

301 Camino del Pueblo, Bernalillo, NM

Jan

11

Viewing

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Our Lady of Sorrows Church

301 Camino del Pueblo, Bernalillo, NM

Jan

11

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church

301 Camino del Pueblo, Bernalillo, NM

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9420 Fourth St. NW, Albuquerque, NM 87114

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