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Antonia Josefina Apodaca



Antonia Josefina Apodaca, aka Tonie, a New Mexico living legend, passed away peacefully on January 25, 2020, with her family by her side. Her late parents, Jose Damacio Martinez and Rafaelita Suazo Martinez were musicians in Rociada, New Mexico. Antonia began playing the accordion at age six, and when she was 14, won her first competition in Santa Fe against adults. In addition to accordion, she was also taught to play guitar by her father. Antonia married another musician, Macario Apodaca, who played the fiddle and guitar. She and her husband soon moved to Wyoming, where they raised five children, and played at local dances and events. Her two great loves in life were her children and music.

After returning to New Mexico in 1979, Antonia and her husband soon began performing locally, until Macario passed in 1987. After a year of grieving, Antonia began performing again.

She was a winner of the New Mexico Music Commission's Platinum Music Award for lifetime achievement in 2018, awarded the New Mexico Governor's Award for Excellence in the Arts in 1992, the same year she had appeared at the Smithsonian Folk Festival in Washington, D.C.. In December 2010, her house in Rociada burned to the ground destroying what the National Hispanic Cultural Center termed "decades of musical history and treasured instruments." She escaped with only her guitar and two accordions. Antonia was also the recipient of numerous other awards for her contribution to the traditional folk music of New Mexico.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Macario (Max) Apodaca, and grandchildren Christopher and Tyler Apodaca. She is survived by her children, Max, Jr. and wife, Jane; William and Kate; Jose; Raymond and wife, Carla; and Isabel and Chuck Hoenes; grandchildren Leandra Bateman, Trenton Apodaca, Caroline Apodaca, Bill Apodaca, Joseph Apodaca, Amanda Hamlin, Misty Rehm, Charlie Hoenes, Ryan Apodaca, and Jenna Apodaca; and many great-grandchildren.

Services and a Celebration of Life will be planned for March in Las Vegas, New Mexico, at a later time and date, location to be announced.

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Published by Albuquerque Journal on Jan. 30, 2020.

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Juan c lopez

January 23, 2025

My parents and her were friends. She played her instrument in their house fond memories

Juan c lopez

March 6, 2024

My condolences to all the family. Very nice lady. My parents had her for dinner and a small party for a young man Brennan and another one of their friends in La Vegas New Mexico about 10 years ago hope she is doing good my parents passed away five years ago miss them too.

Malinalli X Gutierrez

January 23, 2021

Pensaré en Ud. cuando canto "Buenos dias paloma blanca..." doña Antonia, por el resto de mi vida. Seguiré su gran consejo de comer jalapeños pa' estar hasta rete-saludable. Es chilpotle power = smoked jalapenos!
Miss you, te hecho de menos. Love you, Señora Apodaca, y que su familia esté en paz.

Chris Sandoval

January 17, 2021

A beautiful person in heart and in life , I am very inspired by her and her music , such talent! God blessed us thru her music , she will be missed!!! But not forgotten, still listening to her music.

Chris Sandoval

January 17, 2021

A beautiful person in heart and in life , I am very inspired by her and her music , such talent! God blessed us thru her music , she will be missed!!! But not forgotten, still listening to her music.

Bret Gorringe

November 18, 2020

I met this magnificent woman many years ago when she was visiting her daughter and family. I am glad to have met her and visited with her. I enjoyed her stories and vibrant attitude. May God continue to bless her and her family forever and ever.

Bret Gorringe

November 18, 2020

I met this magnificent woman many years ago when she was visiting her daughter and family. I am glad to have met her and visited with her. I enjoyed her stories and vibrant attitude. May God continue to bless her and her family forever and ever.

antonio villeda

February 18, 2020

Era una flor de las flores, 100% porciento amor, era ella. Bendicidos somos por su amor que nos dio.

Margie Sanchez

February 3, 2020

May The Peace of our Heavenly Father be with all her children and grandchildren. She will truly be remembered for her beautiful heart, music and skunk stories oh and her jalapenos....Rest in Peace Senora Apodaca.

Dra. Ana Malinalli X Gutierrez Sisneros

February 2, 2020

Linda, linda Señora Apodaca played for our Mujeres Activas en Letras y Cambio Social ( MALCS) Annual Conference in 2014, and she y José were out guests at the El Rito campus of NNMC. Thank you, Jose, y all your familia, for sharing your beautiful mother with us. I remember listening to her at the benefit for her after her house burned, at the NHCC in Burque, or at the Lensic for yearly "Nuestra Música" shows dónde nos tiraba jalepeños....."chile in the morning, chile for lunch, chile at suppertime," cantaba - take her advice, and eat chile...Long live Antonia! ...nuestra gran inspiración de fuerza femenil, y embajadora de la cultura Manita/o. Que en paz descanse Ud., Doña. Ometeotl.

Gloria Baca

January 31, 2020

God has rewarded Senora Antonia Heaven and Grace may the perpetual light shine upon her now and forever.
We are blessed by her music and her love of God.

Fred & Maria Gutierrez

January 31, 2020

We will miss Antonia very much there was never a time we would hear of Antonia at the fiestas in Las Vegas Nm that we never missed ....I have a photo that I will forever treasure of one of the fiestas held in Las Vegas nm of us together. Antonia was very special to us and her music will always be a part of our lives .God Bless you, our prayers always and thank you for sharing Antonia with us

Miguel J.

January 31, 2020

Y ahora, ¿quién nos tocará la música de los viejitos? ¿Quién nos contará esas historias? Ofrezco a la familia mi más sentido pésame.

Isabel Troncoso

January 31, 2020

Condolences to the family. Antonia & her music & humor will be greatly missed. RIP

Ann Marie McNamara

January 30, 2020

Tonie played the accordian and sang her little songs and entertained on her back porch when our children were at Camp Davis in Rociada - She was a treasure and it was an annual tradition for our family to pay her a visit! What joy she brought to all! Rest in peace!

Larry and Dolores Maes

January 30, 2020

Our condolences to the Apodaca family.God bless you all.

Jan and Arsenio Sandoval

January 30, 2020

She was such a special lady, and we both loved her. She played music with my husband, Arsenio Sandoval many times. She was a legend in the music world and will be missed.

Jim George

January 30, 2020

Antonia inriched the lives of all who knew her. She will be greatly missed

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