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Avery Lee Lindholm

2012 - 2015

Avery Lee Lindholm obituary, 2012-2015

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2012

DIED

2015

Avery Lindholm Obituary

With her blankie in her hand and with her parents by her side, Avery Lee Lindholm passed away on Sept. 21, 2015. She died from complications due to brain cancer (medulloblastoma). Although she was only two years old, she touched the lives of many people, some living as close as next door or others as far away as Peru. She loved books, warmed milk, picking - and eating - blueberries, sledding, sliding, dogs, swinging, her blankie and, when mommy and daddy were not looking, her suckie. She put up with her daddy's music playing attempts and her mommy speaking to her in Spanish and with both of them kissing her way too much, although they would tell you it was not enough. While battling cancer she had support from people around the world. Prayers were said for her in Rome, spirits were consulted from San Francisco, Calif., friends and family lit candles, made a willow tree fort, prayer flags and quilts, and sent thoughts of love in texts, emails, cards, letters and care packages. She was clearly loved throughout her five-month battle with cancer, as she was throughout her life. Her parents, J.T. and Adrienne, miss her dearly and hope to be with her again someday; the time they spent with her was brilliant and breathtaking and simply too damn short. Her grandfather's belly will just not be tickled enough with her gone. Grandma now has extra cookies and needs a new hiking buddy. Grandy will be on the lookout for a new arts and crafts partner. She is survived by her parents, J.T. and Adrienne; her third parent, Jacki Augustine; her best friend, Bodhi; her daycare buddies, Carson, Silas, Ezra, Carroll, Naomi, Carter and Brooklyn; her main crush, Tony (sorry, Becky); grandparents, Bob and Maureen Hall, Margery Kerr and Cliff and Karen Lindholm; aunts, Nathalie, Liz and Mary Ann; uncles, Scott, Cliff and Jamie; cousins, Chandler, Caroline, Jordan, Clifford, Logan, Kendall and Christine; and many second cousins, extended family members, friends and neighbors. There will be a memorial service held for her at the Forget-Me-Not Nursery in Indian, Alaska, on Oct. 4, 2015, at 4 p.m. In lieu of presents, please just give all your family members a big hug and think of Avery often. Donations may be made in Avery's name to Dolly Parton's Imagination Library which puts a book in the hands of every child that registers every month until they are five (http://imaginationlibrary.com/) or Project Halo, Anchorage Hospice's new pediatric palliative care program (http://www.hospiceofanchorage.org/our-services/project-halo/).

Published by Anchorage Daily News on Sep. 23, 2015.
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When I think of Alaska, I will ever forget "little a". She was a precious child that life ended too soon. I never had the opportunity to hold her, but know her Mom, Dad and grandparents gave her many hugs and love that will last forever.

Nicky Smith

Family

September 17, 2019

This is so heartbreaking. What a precious little girl. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. Tina Johnson, NC

July 19, 2019

We continue to celebrate Avery, we think of her often.

We plan to do a puja ceremony in the high mountains for her.

Peace all ways

Thai, Ana and Maia

Thai

October 10, 2015

*I am so sorry for your loss. Avery was a bright light in this world and your deep connection can never be broken. My heart aches for you, and my thoughts and prayers are for your perseverance and healing.

Judy Chapman

October 7, 2015

The thoughts and hearts of everyone at Hospice of Anchorage are with Avery's family and friends--our continued support is available to anyone in her circle who would like to be in touch. We share your sorrow and wish you all moments of comfort and peace...

Your friends at Hospice of Anchorage

October 1, 2015

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Children are precious gift from God (Psalms 127:3,4),you were very privilege to have her cherished the memories you haD with her and may you find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.

September 30, 2015

In Avery's honor we will be tickling Grandpa Bob's belly ( and also uncle Scott's ) eating Grandmas cookies and ready to make cool stuff like Grandy.
We will share love and hugs with everybody else and remember Avery with love forever.

tp & bk

September 29, 2015

Special thoughts for you, especially on October 4th! As others have said...there are no words. But I've learned to savor what we are given...for the day. That's our only guarantee. Love you both and sending more hugs!!

Bev Lewanski

September 29, 2015

Dear Adrienne and JT,
I am so extremely sorry for your loss. I am holding all three of you in my thoughts. Un abrazo enorme a los dos.

HELEN CORTES

September 28, 2015

Avery was very blessed to have you two as parents and her loving extended family. As you two were blessed to love such a precious beautiful daughter. And I have been blessed to meet her briefly one afternoon. The depth of your love and commitment to family is inspirational. My heart, prayers, and love goes out to you and your family.

CarolAnne Mocarski

September 25, 2015

JT, words cannot express how much I've thought about you and your family. I am truly heartbroken for your loss and amazed at your efforts to keep her name and legacy alive. I am trying every day to be a better mother as a way to honor your sweet baby.

Julia Jackson

September 25, 2015

JT and Adrienne,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bring you comfort and peace as you remember all the great times you shared with your sweet little Avery.

Diane Martinez

September 24, 2015

Sweet Angel Avery and Lindholms forever in my heart.

Amanda Richmond

September 24, 2015

Sweet Avery, you are sunshine in the Alaskan skies. A true Angel. Thank you for allowing me to become so close with you and your family. I feel so privileged to have been in your presence. JT and Adrienne, I am thinking of you and sending so much love and healing thoughts. Thank you for allowing me to take part in caring for Avery. Sending Peace.
Love, Amanda

September 24, 2015

My prayers to you and family. Hold onto all those memories of our beautiful little angel in your hearts. God Bless!

Angie Harris

September 24, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. Avery sounded like a very lovely little girl who loved so many special things in life. She touched a lot of lives and I'm sure she will continue to.

Patty Mason

September 24, 2015

So very sorry for loss. May you find comfort in each other a nod with your precious memories.

Amy Sebby

September 24, 2015

Adrienne, JT and Avery - you are all in my heart and prayers. May you have the strength to survive and the will to believe that you will be reunited again. Sending love!

Jaime Todd-Gher

September 24, 2015

Adrienne & JT There are no words.. but know that many prayers are lifting you up as you go through this difficult time. Adrienne had a wonderful life with you while she was here - know that you will see her again. Live, laugh and love in her honor.

Elaine Poser

September 24, 2015

Avery will always be a very special young lady with two very special parents. Our hearts and thoughts are with you.

Allan & Jennifer Johnston

September 24, 2015

JT and Adrienne,
Your beautiful tribute reflects profound love and strength. May both sustain you as you live with your sorrow. Love is the only thing that makes grief bearable.
Jeanne Roth

Jeanne Roth

September 24, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. Avery sure had a long lifetime of Love in her short time here. She was lucky to have you both as her parents.

Peter Van Tuyn

September 23, 2015

J.T.,

I was so sad when I heard about Avery. I have two daughters, and I can only imagine your grief. The tribute to Avery shows that the fun, kind kid that I knew years ago as a boy became a loving, caring father. Take comfort knowing that she was loved.

Dave Brown

Dave Brown

September 23, 2015

Adrienne and JT -- you have been in my thoughts often these past months. I keep thinking that, no matter how painful, it is better to have known deep love than never to have loved at all. Be strong

Linda Merigliano

September 23, 2015

Brenda TenCate

September 23, 2015

Adrienne and JT, my family and I send you our deepest sympathy. What a beautiful shining star Avery is. Please know that you will always be in our thoughts. My heart goes out to you.

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With deepest condolences from a friend from long ago and far away. My thoughts are with you all.

Juliette Levy

September 23, 2015

Hello my dear cousin Adrienne, Your family in the Southeast have all been praying for you and your family and share your loss and extreme sadness as we have lost a family member to a dreadful cancer. You Dad has kept everyone updated on the weekly events and I have gotten to know you, and your family better through your Dad's eyes. I also have seen his grieving the loss of his granddaughter when he could not speak on the telephone when getting more bad news during the painful process. We have seen in pictures and stories from your Dad, Avery was full of life and the joy she brought to others will be remembered forever. When I saw the pictures of you and Avery leaving the hospital in San Diego, it brought joy to my heart that Avery would soon go home. Every child is special, but the photos and stories of Avery tell a different story that she had a gift of happiness and ability to make others happy. I look forward to seeing you and your family in Alaska the weekend of October 4th. In closing I remind you that Psalm 30:11 says "the Lord is our hope and our salvation, and he can turn our mourning into comfort."

Nicky Smith

September 23, 2015

Adrienne and family, my heart goes out to you. It has been years since I met you briefly, but I am so glad to know that you had this little joy of light for 2 years. My her spirit walk in to the wild. Much love, -VA

Victoria

September 23, 2015

Oh my dear JT and Adrienne, my heart aches for you. What a lovely lovely remembrance, and may her smiles live in your hearts forever.

September 23, 2015

My heart is just broken right now. I am trying to hold onto the thought that you both gave Avery such a beautiful gift during her short time on earth - you showed her what love is. I don't think it would be possible for anyone else to have showered as much love on her as you did. She was so very lucky. I am with you in my heart.

Bobby Linscott

September 23, 2015

You are in my thoughts and prayers---sending love your way.

Kate Arduser

September 23, 2015

I am so blessed to say I met this little girl and her wonderful parents. The moment you walked into their home you could feel the love. Peace to all who loved her.

Kristina RN

September 23, 2015

Although we never met in person, I loved the pictures and stories your Mom, Dad, and Grandy sent from Alaska and Hawaii.

Uncle Tom Nye

September 23, 2015

My sympathy goes out to the family during your time of grief. May God's loving-kindness comfort you and help you through this difficult time. (Psalm 119:50,76)

A. M.

September 23, 2015

JT and Adrienne while I met Avery later in her life I am so blessed for doing so. You have shown me true and pure love and a strength of family I never thought possible. God bless you and thank you.

September 23, 2015

Forest park Congregation

September 23, 2015

I thoughts and love are with you all.

Carolyn and Tom Bachman

September 23, 2015

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