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Tom Berrian Obituary
TOM BERRIAN
AGE: 60 MONTEREY BEACH
Tom Berrian, 60, of Monterey Beach, NJ, passed away Friday, May 14, 2010, in his home surrounded by family and friends. Tom, an accomplished artist, jokester and fisherman was born in Paterson and later moved with his family to Glen Rock, married his childhood sweetheart, Joyce, and lived with her and his two children in Saddle River, Midland Park, later moving to Monterey Beach.
He is survived by his wife Joyce (nee Strange) Berrian; his children, Logan and daughter-in-law Jennifer Ross of El Cerrito, Calif. and Matthew of Monterey Beach. He is predeceased by his father, George Berrian and is also survived by his mother, Annette; brothers, Douglas and wife Joanne, Donald, and David and Janet and many nieces, nephews and dear friends.
He will be remembered for his lust for life, his passionate nature, his love of music, dance and cigars. He lived the last five years in his dream house at the beach where he more than frequently said, "Another great day in Monterey."
A Memorial Service will be Saturday, May 22 at 11 AM at Monterey Beach. In the event of rain, services will he at the Ocean Beach Club House followed by a repast. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Timothy E. Ryan Home for Funerals, 706 Hwy. 35 N., Lavallette. Condolences may be sent by visiting www.ryanfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
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Tami Vaughan
June 1, 2010
Dear Joyce, Lissie and Matt,
Sheila just told me the news about Tom. We are all so sorry we missed the services. Tom was such a colorful character. I remember hearing his laugh all the way across the neighborhood! Wishing you, Lissie and Matt all our love.
Tami, Sheila, Johnny and Timme
John Lange
May 24, 2010
Dear Joyce, Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. John and Sherri Lange
May 24, 2010
Dear Joyce:
We heard of Tom's passing just this past Friday from our nephew Christopher. Cindy & I were talking about how long we have known you guys and the first time we met Tom (after a little "juice", he was playing his guitar late one night). Great guy; he will be missed. Another great American character departed to amuse heaven. Keep the faith and stay strong.
Cindy & Ed
Cathy and Warren Cooke
May 21, 2010
Joyce, our thoughts are with you at this most difficult time. We hope the support and love of so many friends, as well as your many wonderful memories of Tom, will give you comfort.
Jamie Vallone
May 20, 2010
Joyce, our thoughs and prayers are with you and the family. Tom, you will be missed very much by all. You were a wonderful man, who made me laugh each and every time that I saw you, even if you had to explian your jokes to me. I will never forget you buddy. You taught me to always laugh in life. You were a fighter. Now, rest and go paint. Love ya. Love Always Jamie Vallone
Sandi Smith
May 20, 2010
Joyce, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I was always a "Giant Fan" of Tom's, even if Jamie needed an explanation of the jokes. I know that is why he always came to PT with a new one for her most days. I don't know which was better: the bad jokes or Tom having to explain them. Love, Sandi Smith
Orette Vaziri
May 20, 2010
Dear Joyce,
It's been a long time, but my thoughts have been with both of you since you moved. My prayers are with you and the family in this most difficult time. I know Tom is in a better place(knowing him probably listening to the Little Rascals). You have been the best wife and my thoughts are with you.
Love,
Orette
Odalys Romano
May 17, 2010
Joyce,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Odalys Romano
May 17, 2010
Joyce, sending love, prayers, and hugs. My thoughts are with you. Love, Vanessa Calderone
May 17, 2010
Joyce, you and your family are in my prayers. - Rachel Arnt-Schemmel
May 16, 2010
Joyce,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember Tom's warm smile and loving spirit. He will be missed .... Love Mary Kaye and Steve
lonna richmond
May 16, 2010
Joyce and Family - was thinking about you and tom in high school - the most beautiful couple. you were blessed with sharing more than 40 years together. hope that is some comfort at this time.
love,
lonni
Nick & Carol Onnembo
May 16, 2010
Joyce and Family, Please accept our sincere sympathy on your loss of Tom. He will be remembered by so many who loved him. May God keep him in his care.
May 16, 2010
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