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Lois Farina Reilly (formerly Hager)
October 31, 2022
I will always have gratitude for Judy´s support and understanding as my family and I struggled through a most difficult time in our lives. She was a teacher whose wisdom in many ways saved my life and gave me the courage to create another, more beautiful one. I will always remember her.

Lois Farina Reilly
October 31, 2021
I will always remember Judy for sharing her her compassion and wisdom during the many years she coincided me and my family, and most of all for the loving support to my beautiful daughter, the late Stephanie Hager. Our life was tumultuous at the time, and she was our rock. Years later, I met her daughter at the memorial service for Steph, who left us too early at age 46. She, too, was compassionate, kind, and understanding. It is with both a grateful and still heavy heart that I write this tribute to Judy.
Lois Farina Reilly (Hager)
October 31, 2019
Little did I know that a few years after the world lost Judy, we would lose our beloved daughter, Stephanie, who loved her dearly as she helped her navigate the turbulent waters of our difficult family life. I was so surprised and touched to meet her daughter, who came to Steph's service. Judy was a true jewel in my life, and in Steph's. I am forever grateful for the support and encouragement she gave to me, enabling me to discover my true self and create the full and enriched life that we all deserve.
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Chris
April 16, 2015
Judy helped me through my turbulent mid teen years. I am not sure she knew how instrumental she was in making me the person I am today. I often think of her words and guidance so many years later. Thanks Judy.
Lois (formerly) Hager
December 29, 2011
Judy's gentle guidance helped me find my way from the darkness into the light. She was my beacon of hope for many years as I sat with her in both her Red Bank and Fair Haven offices. I will never forget her and how she helped me and my family.
Reading her beautiful obituary confirmed in my heart that I was blessed to have known this very special woman. Thank you always, Judy. You are missed.
Lois Farina Reilly
Stephen Rothrock
December 22, 2011
Mom,
I will miss you so this Christmas. Whatevever part of me died with you is left so grateful for all the love you filled me with that makes me feel alive... And for my life which you gave birth to.
Your beloved son,
Stephen Hill Rothrock
Bob Haithcock
December 2, 2011
I spent many hours speaking to Judy at Bayshore Youth Services Bureau in Keyport at my first full time job as a Youth Worker after graduating Monmouth University. She helped me out in many areas and was always a source of inspiration and guidance at BYSB...
Erika Shriner
November 11, 2011
I recently heard about Judith's death. She was such a wonderful part of our ROOTs group. Her devotion to living as sustainably as possible was an inspiration to all of us. We have all lost a dear and compassionate friend.
Stephanie
November 7, 2011
This was so sad for me to hear. Judy helped me tremendously during a very difficult time in my life when no one else could get through. I am very sorry for this terrible loss. She was a phenomenal woman. Rest in peace, Judy,and thank you for all of your guidance. It has stayed with me throughout my life as an adult :)
~ Stephanie Hager
Janet Wolff
November 6, 2011
Stephen,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved mother.
M.A, Terpack - Bono
November 6, 2011
Judith Rothrock was of great help to me when I was a teenager. Rest in peace.
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