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Judith Rothrock Obituary

Judith Hill Rothrock

AGE: 71 • Mount Desert, Maine

On Wednesday, Oct. 19, 2011, the light from a star that guided so many towards kindness and peace went dark. Judith Hill Rothrock passed away leaving a legacy of social action and service. That she was so loved by so many gives her family comfort in the wake of our profound loss. Her commitment to living sustainably in cherished harmony with the community she loved so dearly on Mount Desert Island has been a treasured gift and inspiration for all of us. Words cannot truly give meaning to a life lived so beautifully. Those who were touched by the gentle strength of Judy's spirit miss you dearly.

Judy was the beloved daughter of James E. Hill and Gertrude Hill and beloved sister of J.B. Hill. She is survived by her sisters, Kathleen Allan and Karen Hill; her devoted daughter, Kristen Goodrich and her husband Jake Goodrich; her granddaughter, Devyn Drusjack and Devyn's father, Greg Drusjack; her devoted son, Stephen Rothrock and his partner Kristianne Kirkman; her granddaughter, Grace Connor; and by her niece, Danika Tyminski.

Judy was a compassionate and gifted social worker whose career spanned over three decades treating families at the Community YMCA Counseling and Social Services in Matawan, N.J. She served hundreds of clients, but was best known for her work with Vietnam veterans who suffered from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. She retired to her cabin on Mount Desert Island in Maine and spent her remaining years in service to the community she so loved with particular dedication to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Ellsworth. She was a volunteer at the Loaves & Fishes Food Pantry and at the Acadia Senior College on Mount Desert Island, where she continued to further her awareness of social justice and philosophy. Always inspired by the pursuit of healing those in need and giving of her time and wisdom to those she loved- Judy made this world a kinder and gentler place for us all. On Saturday, Nov. 19, we will be holding a memorial service for Judy at 10 a.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Ellsworth, 121 Bucksport Road Ellsworth, ME 04605). A second service will be held at 5 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 3 at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Monmouth County, 1475 West Front Street- Lincroft, NJ 07738). We ask in lieu of flowers that donations be made to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Ellsworth in memory of her commitment to the community she so adored, or to the Loaves & Fishes Food Pantry, 119 Bucksport Road, Ellsworth, ME 04605, in memory of an amazing life always dedicated to serving that community. She believed the highest calling is to give back more than you take from this world. Judy, your generosity truly served as a beacon of hope in the potential of humanity to love one another with dignity and compassion.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Nov. 6, 2011.

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Lois Farina Reilly (formerly Hager)

October 31, 2022

I will always have gratitude for Judy´s support and understanding as my family and I struggled through a most difficult time in our lives. She was a teacher whose wisdom in many ways saved my life and gave me the courage to create another, more beautiful one. I will always remember her.

Lois Farina Reilly

October 31, 2021

I will always remember Judy for sharing her her compassion and wisdom during the many years she coincided me and my family, and most of all for the loving support to my beautiful daughter, the late Stephanie Hager. Our life was tumultuous at the time, and she was our rock. Years later, I met her daughter at the memorial service for Steph, who left us too early at age 46. She, too, was compassionate, kind, and understanding. It is with both a grateful and still heavy heart that I write this tribute to Judy.

Lois Farina Reilly (Hager)

October 31, 2019

Little did I know that a few years after the world lost Judy, we would lose our beloved daughter, Stephanie, who loved her dearly as she helped her navigate the turbulent waters of our difficult family life. I was so surprised and touched to meet her daughter, who came to Steph's service. Judy was a true jewel in my life, and in Steph's. I am forever grateful for the support and encouragement she gave to me, enabling me to discover my true self and create the full and enriched life that we all deserve.

Chris

April 16, 2015

Judy helped me through my turbulent mid teen years. I am not sure she knew how instrumental she was in making me the person I am today. I often think of her words and guidance so many years later. Thanks Judy.

Lois (formerly) Hager

December 29, 2011

Judy's gentle guidance helped me find my way from the darkness into the light. She was my beacon of hope for many years as I sat with her in both her Red Bank and Fair Haven offices. I will never forget her and how she helped me and my family.
Reading her beautiful obituary confirmed in my heart that I was blessed to have known this very special woman. Thank you always, Judy. You are missed.
Lois Farina Reilly

Stephen Rothrock

December 22, 2011

Mom,

I will miss you so this Christmas. Whatevever part of me died with you is left so grateful for all the love you filled me with that makes me feel alive... And for my life which you gave birth to.

Your beloved son,

Stephen Hill Rothrock

Bob Haithcock

December 2, 2011

I spent many hours speaking to Judy at Bayshore Youth Services Bureau in Keyport at my first full time job as a Youth Worker after graduating Monmouth University. She helped me out in many areas and was always a source of inspiration and guidance at BYSB...

Erika Shriner

November 11, 2011

I recently heard about Judith's death. She was such a wonderful part of our ROOTs group. Her devotion to living as sustainably as possible was an inspiration to all of us. We have all lost a dear and compassionate friend.

Stephanie

November 7, 2011

This was so sad for me to hear. Judy helped me tremendously during a very difficult time in my life when no one else could get through. I am very sorry for this terrible loss. She was a phenomenal woman. Rest in peace, Judy,and thank you for all of your guidance. It has stayed with me throughout my life as an adult :)
~ Stephanie Hager

Janet Wolff

November 6, 2011

Stephen,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved mother.

M.A, Terpack - Bono

November 6, 2011

Judith Rothrock was of great help to me when I was a teenager. Rest in peace.

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