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George Ryser Obituary
AGE: 69 • Lincroft
George "Butch" W. Ryser, Jr., 69, of Lincroft, NJ passed away peacefully in his sleep on Friday, February 7, 2014. Born in Long Branch, NJ., George grew up in Little Silver, NJ with his parents, George W. and Marjorie E. Ryser in addition to his two sisters and brother.
After he and Shirley M. Evans wed in 1967, they resided in Lincroft, NJ where they raised their family. George is a 1962 Graduate of Red Bank High School, Red Bank, NJ. Serving in the United States Coast Guard, George then worked for the Railway Express Agency in Red Bank, NJ followed by a 37-year career with Lawes Coal Company, Inc., Shrewsbury, NJ, retiring in 2013. At the time of his death he partnered with his son at Ryser's Landscape Supply, Little Silver, NJ.
A member of Christ Church, Shrewsbury, NJ., and the National Rifle Association, George was a pigeon fancier who was extremely proud of his "Racing Homer" pigeons of which he raced for many years. An avid outdoorsman he enjoyed fishing, hunting, camping and his gardens. Although George's life would seem too short to many, those who were touched by his friendly, caring and giving ways understand the quality of existence far exceeds the quantity of time in which one lives. George's willingness to help those in need, always placing them before himself, brought much joy and happiness to his family and countless friends. A Dear Friend to all, "Butch" was "THE MAN" and he will be sorely missed.
Predeceased by his devoted wife Shirley in 1985 and his parents; George is survived by his two dedicated sons, George W. Ryser, III and his wife Dana, Lincroft, NJ; Martin B. Ryser and his wife Carol, Little Silver, NJ and his four grandchildren Devin, Taylor, Dylan and Kylie. He is also survived by his loving companion Patricia Figaro, Little Silver, NJ, her children Aby and Christopher and three grandchildren; his sisters Marion L. Phillips, Red Bank, NJ and Marjorie L. Durdack, Galloway, NJ; and his brother Philip J. Ryser and wife Beverly, Little Silver, NJ.
Visitation will be held on Monday, February 10th, 2-4 and 7-9 PM at the Thompson Memorial Home, 310 Broad Street, Red Bank. The funeral will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 11th, 11:00 AM at the funeral home. Interment will follow at Holmdel Cemetery, Holmdel.
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MARIANNE Gillette
February 6, 2020
Thinking of you today.
February 5, 2020
XOXOXO Always in our hearts
We Miss You So Butchie!
Marion Phillips
February 7, 2017
Our Brother, Dad and Friend XO!
Marion Phillips
February 7, 2017
Marianne Gillette
December 19, 2016
Merry Christmas, Butch. I can still hear your laughter.
December 18, 2016
I miss you everyday.
February 7, 2016
ALL TO OURSELVES
All to ourselves we think of you ~~
Think of the things we used to do,
Think of the things we used to say,
Think of each happy yesterday,
Sometimes we sigh and sometimes we smile,
But we keep each olden golden while~~
All to ourselves.
Till we meet again Butchie ~ we love you ~ we miss you!
December 30, 2015
HAPPY NEW YEAR BUTCHIE!
New Years come and New Years go,
Pieces of time all in a row.
As we lived our lives, each second and minute,
We were oh so privileged to have you in it.
Our appreciation never ends,
Our greatest blessing - Father, Brother and Friend!
WE LOVE YOU! XO!!
MERRY CHRISTMAS BUTCHIE!
December 7, 2015
Someone Is Missing On Christmas Eve
Let this be a loving reminder,
That someone is missing tonight,
Someone our hearts still hold on to,
As we travel along life's flight.
Someone who made life so special,
For all those who gather near,
Someone who won't be forgotten,
But cherished from year after year.
And now as we pause to remember,
Let us all fondly recall,
How dearly each of us loved him,
And oh .. how he loved us all!
Missing you on Christmas Eve Butchie and always .. We Love You! XOXO!
GOD BLESS YOU BUTCHIE
October 3, 2015
MISSING YOU ON YOUR BIRTHDAY
As the sunrise spreads its beauty,
On this your special day,
Our hearts are filled with sadness,
That will never go away.
Since you went to be with Jesus,
Life has never been the same,
Yet it comforts all of us to know,
One day we'll meet again.
Until that precious day draws nigh,
We'll relive each memory,
Of all the happy times we shared,
Together .... family.
You are near, even if we don't see you. You are with us, even if you are far away. You are in our hearts, in our thoughts, on our minds and in our lives always. We close our eyes and speak to you in a thousand silent ways. We love you Butchie .... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
June 20, 2015
~ TO A "REEL" DAD ~
We had a "line" on you DAD,
The things you'd say and do.
We noticed when you'd "tackle" things,
You'd always see them through.
Your understanding and fair play,
Were "cast" without a fuss.
That's why we did not worry when,
You'd get a "line" on US!
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY XO!
June 20, 2015
May 25, 2015
MEMORIAL DAY MEMORIES - XO!
March 29, 2015
March 16, 2015
UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN
At sunrise when we awake,
we realize you are gone.
Although it's been a while now,
it's hard to carry on.
Our hearts are full of sadness,
and many tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you,
no one can ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly,
you're gone we love you still.
There'll always be a heartache,
and too a silent tear.
Those many precious memories,
of days when you were near.
If tears could build a staircase,
and heartaches make a way.
We'd walk the stairs to heaven,
and bring you home to stay.
We hold you close within our hearts,
and there you shall remain.
You'll walk with us throughout our lives,
until we meet again.
XO
March 16, 2015
HAPPY GREEN DAY BUTCHIE - XO!
February 15, 2015
HAPPY RED DAY BUTCHIE! XO!!
February 7, 2015
~ THE DAY YOU WENT AWAY ~
Today's the Anniversary,
Of the day you went away,
And for a time it felt as though,
Our lives had gone astray.
But loss has taught us many things,
And now we face each other,
With hope and cherished memories,
Of our loving, guiding Brother.
Although we're full of sadness,
That you're no longer here,
Your influence still leads us,
And we still feel you near.
The love we shared will never die,
It lives within our hearts,
Bringing strength and comfort,
While we are apart.
Memories of you BUTCHIE are the flowers in the gardens of our hearts, WE LOVE YOU SO! Till We Meet Again -XO
February 7, 2015
One year ago today, in the early morning of February 7, 2014, our beloved Butchie passed away. Today, we embrace life fully and generously, with much gratitude, despite experiencing this inevitable sorrow, knowing that Butchie's life, because of what he was and stood for, was a bit of Heaven on Earth. May we all be so blessed. God Bless you Butch, and God Bless us all. So missed. XXXXOOOO
December 31, 2014
HAPPY NEW YEAR BUTCHIE! XO!
December 24, 2014
Ditto
December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas, Butch!
December 23, 2014
Surely a man who was loved and revered so much must be up there with the angels. Pray
for us George. You are truly missed by all
who crossed your path.
Mrs. Bosco
December 22, 2014
"SLEEP IN HEAVENLY PEACE" .....
December 18, 2014
"SLEEP IN HEAVENLY PEACE"
December 15, 2014
Any Christmas trees up there, Butch? Thinking of you alot and hoping you are keeping out of trouble. We love you, joan and trisha
MERRY CHRISTMAS BUTCHIE XO!
December 13, 2014
Dear Butchie,
Christmas brings back memories,
Of such happy times with you,
Of all the fun and laughter,
And things we used to do.
It's funny how those memories now,
Can break a heart for sure,
For Dear Butchie they remind us,
Of how we miss you more.
But we know your love will guide us,
Through the sadness and the pain,
And bring us peace at Christmas,
Until we meet again.
To the dearest man upon this earth,
We know that we were blessed,
And we pray the Christmas angels,
Bring you sweet eternal rest.
MERRY CHRISTMAS BUTCHIE!
WE LOVE YOU!
XOXO!
November 26, 2014
Missing you on Thanksgiving, I find myself reminiscing that the things that matter most to me in life are not the things I have acquired along the way but rather; they are the treasure chest of moments and fondest memories I shared with family, friends and YOU! Till we meet again Butchie, Happy Thanksgiving!
Love always,
Marion XO
MISSING YOU ON VETERAN'S DAY 2014
November 10, 2014
FOR ALL OUR YESTERDAYS
October 4, 2014
trisha citarella
October 4, 2014
Happy Birthday, Butch. Joan and I miss you very much. See you down the road, my friend.
OCTOBER 4 ~ HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUTCHIE ~ LOVE YOUR "TWINNIES"
October 2, 2014
October 2, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUTCHIE
~ OCTOBER 4 ~
We wish that you were here today,
if for just a while,
so we could say Happy Birthday Butch,
and see your wonderful smile.
But the only gifts today will be,
the gifts you left behind,
the laughter, joy and happiness,
precious memories - the best kind.
Today we'll do our very best,
to try and find a place,
struggling with our heavy hearts,
and tears upon our face.
Gazing quietly at your picture,
thinking of you with love,
praying genuine peace you found,
in Heaven up above.
May the Angels keep you ever close,
until we meet again,
as we send our devoted, faithful love,
to our Father, Brother and Friend.
WE LOVE YOU XO!
MARTHA THE LAST PASSENGER PIGEON 1914
August 31, 2014
August 28, 2014
SUMMER'S END ....
The tide recedes,
but leaves behind bright seashells on the sand.
The sun goes down,
but gentle warmth still lingers on the land.
The music stops,
and yet it echoes on in sweet refrain.
For every joy that passes,
something beautiful remains.
HAPPY LABOR DAY TO BEAUTIFUL YOU BUTCHIE!
A LABOR OF LOVE - HAPPY LABOR DAY!
August 28, 2014
HAPPY FOURTH TO "THE MAN"
July 4, 2014
PROUD AMERICAN
July 4, 2014
Marianne Gillette
June 23, 2014
Rest in peace, Butch. You were the best brother-in-law anyone could ever ask for.
June 16, 2014
"ALWAYS ON OUR MIND"
June 8, 2014
NEVER FORGET - EVER HONOR
May 26, 2014
A Blessed Easter Butchie
April 16, 2014
March 29, 2014
March 16, 2014
March 13, 2014
You never said I'm leaving,
You never said goodbye.
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God knows why.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you didn't go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God took you home.
March 13, 2014
March 6, 2014
Jim Vesci
March 5, 2014
Marty,
I just found out yesterday of the passing of your dad. A real shame! Your dad was always cheerful and friendly with me when I visited at your yard. A nice man, and I am saddened to hear of your loss.
Jim Vesci
Blue Bel, Pa.
March 4, 2014
Marty and Family,
I just found out about your fathers passing from one of the Lawes men who was at the house. It was a great shock. Your father was a great man. He was always a straight shooter and a gentleman. It was amazing on how he juggled the guys in Lawes. He made it look easy. Marty he was so proud of you and what you created there by those tracks. I will sorely miss him. However he is the guy who will be watching over his family that he truly molded to perfection.
Lots of love to you all,
Django
"GUARDIAN ANGEL"
February 28, 2014
February 28, 2014
Requiem:
George “Butch” W. Ryser, Jr.
October 4, 1944 – February 7, 2014
“May his soul and the souls of all the departed rest in peace, and light perpetual shine upon them.”
Amen
joan citarella gavornik
February 28, 2014
Marion and family, Trisha and I just found out about Butchie having dinner last night with a friend who told us. We were so upset because we would have been at the funeral home to show our respect and love for him. I am so sorry for his loss and for all of you. Please accept my apology for not being there. Trisha and I always talked about him and I know, for sure, my father loved him. They were very similar people. God bless you all.
trisha citarella
February 27, 2014
Marion, i just found out about Butch tonight. I am shocked and so sad. I don't really know what to say. Go out to dinner and find out about this wonderful petson gone. May God bless him.
"OLD TIME ROCK N' ROLL"
February 24, 2014
"THE MAN"
February 24, 2014
"BUTCHIE"
February 24, 2014
Jennifer, Harold, Lauren & Rebecca Turner
February 23, 2014
XXOO!!!!
February 23, 2014
ALL TO MYSELF
"All to myself I think of you ~~
Think of the things we used to do,
Think of the things we used to say,
Think of each happy yesterday;
Sometimes I sigh and sometimes I smile,
But I keep each olden golden while ~~
All to myself."
Rest in Peace Dear Butchie ~~
Rest in Peace
Scott & Tobi Van Pelt
February 22, 2014
George and Marty we are so sorry to hear of butch's passing, our prayers are with you both
February 19, 2014
"BUTCHIE"
Carl Pinto
February 18, 2014
Butch was the best I remember him in high school,he was friends with my sister anita we had some great times at the hoffmann pool. Butch you will surely be missed,what a great guy.....
Michael Zentai
February 18, 2014
To Marty and the entire Ryser family, I am sorry for your loss. He was a great man and always fun to be around whenever I was in the supply yard. He will be missed and my thoughts go out to everyone...
Anita Pinto
February 18, 2014
I just heard today, so very sad. My childhood memories of all the fun we had as kids, passed through my tears this morning. My condolences to the Ryser family, and also to his life partner, who he loved so dearly.
Born October 4 - Saint Francis of Assisi, Patron Saint of Animals Feastday
February 16, 2014
Michael & Rosemary Sternbach
February 15, 2014
Marty, We are so sorry for your loss.
Kathleen Ayer
February 13, 2014
To the Ryser Family, Butch will be sorely missed. His bright smile and warm words used to be a wonderful way to start the day at the deli. I feel blessed to have known him.
Arlene Newman
February 12, 2014
I was so very sad to learn of Butch's passing. He was always kind, cheerful and generous--a wonderful neighbor and a great person. He will be greatly missed.
February 12, 2014
George and Dana
Sorry to hear about Butch. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May all the happy memories guide you thru this time of sorrow
Maria and Fred
Maria & Fred
Genie Perl
February 11, 2014
My thoughts and prayers have been filled with nothing other than Butch since I heard of his passing,words cannot express my sorrow. It was 35 years ago in a Deli on a hill in Everett that I met the Rysers and all their neighbors and what a true blessing it was. My memories of that place make me laugh and sometimes cry because of all we shared back then. I have always thought of you as family and always will. Michael and I along with the whole Perl family send our sincerest condolences. Love, Genie
Theresa Lambertson
February 11, 2014
To The Ryder Family And Friends I Am So Sorry For Your Loss Butch Always Had A Smile On And Such A Kind Heart. He Will Be Missed By Many. RIP
Tom McCartan
February 11, 2014
Marty George I'm so sorry to hear about your father only wish I could make it there. I remember all the times at the house in the backyard in the "Love Shack". Your father was always a great man to me I will miss him dearly.
Tom McCartan
Dwayne Lamken
February 11, 2014
Butch was like a second Dad to me --for all of George and Marty friends-- when we were growing up. He was alway there for me. I will miss him.
Joe, Lauren, and everyone at Sunnyside Market
February 11, 2014
Rest in Peace Butch. You will be loved and missed by all of us.
Lauren Altieri from Sunnyside Market
February 11, 2014
Butch, You were one of the nicest guys I ever had the privilege of knowing. You always greeted me & everyone with a friendly hello and a warm smile each morning that I saw you at my Father's store (Sunnyside Market). You did so much for my family and everyone that you knew & you did everything from your heart. I will miss you & your happy smile each day. I hope they serve toasted buttered hard rolls in Heaven. I know how much you loved them. You will always be loved and missed. Until we meet again in Heaven someday, on earth we will all miss you & your friendly smile. Rest in peace Butch. We love you.
Dee Dee Durdack
February 10, 2014
Marge, Marion, George, Marty, Phillip and family-Butchie always brought a smile to my face and to all who were graced by his presence. Sorry I can't be there at this time of your loss, but know I am thinking of you. Butch will be remembered as a joyful life which ended too soon.
February 10, 2014
George and Marty....n family~ so sorry to hear about the Loss of your Dad..May he Rest In Peace..
The Boscarino Family
Daniel Biringer
February 10, 2014
George,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Dan and Susan Biringer
February 10, 2014
Condolences and prayers to George's family. Yes indeed George was a good guy.
He always offered friendly advice and help as I am a long time customer of
Lawes. Rest in peace.
Mrs. P. Bosco and family
February 10, 2014
To the Ryser Family, It is with great sadness to hear that Butch is now with the angels, he was liked by everyone for his caring and easygoing ways. He had the kind of personality that always made you smile. He will be missed by Ed and I and all his friends and family. May all your good memories comfort you at this difficult time.
Fran & Ed August
Ann Florio
February 10, 2014
My sincerest condolences to the Ryser family on the loss of Butchie. I remember him as a teenager and will always think of him that way...he was a good guy.
Mary Tilelli Redfield & Family
February 10, 2014
Dear George, Marty and Family: I am shocked and saddened at the loss of your dear father. It is with a heavy heart that I convey my deepest sympathies. It is a true loss to all who knew and loved him. I will miss his smiling face. God Bless.
February 10, 2014
Marty, Carol and George. So sorry to have received the news on Your Dad's passing. Always had a good time with Butch, lots of laughs and humor. It's sad to see someone leave us so early in life. I know he missed your Mom dearly, now he is with her again. You were so blessed Marty and George to have such great parents. I knew your Mom well went to Grammar school and high school with her and new your Dad through high school, his place of work and through your family. Our prayers are with you guys and God will receive Your Dad with open arms, as he did Your Mom.
Moose and Barbara
David Long
February 9, 2014
Condolences to the family.
Fair winds and following seas fellow Sailor.
Debi Barbarisi-Costantino
February 9, 2014
George, Marty & families: I'm so very sorry for the loss of your father. Love to you all...
Karen Salerno
February 9, 2014
George was one of the good guys... when he found my son (2 1/2 years old) was battling cancer, he embrace our family and invited Tony to come to Lawes and ride the John Deere tractors. Every time Tony came to visit, he dropped everything and gave him his undivided attention. My son took to George like I haven't seen before or since he got sick. He's been cancer free for 7 years now and George was there for every one of them. Tony will miss you George.
Lynn & Wayne Lamken
February 9, 2014
It is said in life that nothing remains the same. This may be true, but we cannot conceive of the changes due to the loss of our dear friend "Butch". Our hearts are broken for George and Marty and their families
Jesse and Joan
February 9, 2014
You were a true friend that could never be replaced in our hearts .
February 9, 2014
Our sincere sympathy to the family of Butch as we all knew him. May the Peace of the Lord be with you all at this very difficult time. Blessings, Carol Jean Griffiths Mawby and Burke Mawby
February 9, 2014
Dearest Old Friend..Pat,Prayers for Strength and Peace to you and George's family.Love Janice
Malles Family
February 9, 2014
George and Dana, our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Ray Morgan
February 9, 2014
Marge,Marion,Philip,Patricia,and Families-My sincere sympathies--My thoughts are with you at this difficult time-
Pat Bakutes-Mitchell
February 9, 2014
Dear family and friends of George- am sending prayers and condolences for your peace on the passing of George. I met him when I bought my house on Poplar Ave. in Fair Haven in 1977. As a single gal at the time, I always felt comfortable asking for his help and advice. And what a friendly natured-guy! I will remember him fondly.
OUR BROTHER - WE LOVE YOU
February 9, 2014
John Menna
February 9, 2014
Marty, Carol, and Pat. My sincerest condolences. May God bless you.
Stew & Diane Caldwell
February 9, 2014
Marty and Carol ,So sorry to see this .Prayers said for him as well as you and family in this sad time .
February 9, 2014
Good memories of a good guy.
Joseph Durdack
February 9, 2014
Butch, you were like a Father, I {we} will miss you everyday, May Peace be with you.
eric green
February 9, 2014
With sincere sympathy to the Ryser family. GOD bless u all at this difficult time. LOVE, Eric & Karen Green
Susan Minehardt
February 8, 2014
Fond memories, he's not to be forgotten! My thoughts and prayers are with you...
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