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Diane Carboy Obituary
Bayville - Our beloved Diane Aida Carboy, age 65 of Bayville, passed away on March 1, 2020 at Community Medical Center, Toms River. She was born in Jersey City and lived in Brick before moving to Bayville in 1989. Diane was a loving, devoted mother and friend who loved the beach, music, and dancing, and she was an avid Yankees and Giants fan. She enjoyed the simple things in life, like spending time with her family, and a good laugh. To know her was to count yourself lucky. She was a gem that can never be replaced. She is predeceased by her parents Joseph M. and June Bonavito and her brother Joseph M. Bonavito, Jr. Surviving are her husband Gerald Carboy, children, Ryan J. Carboy and his wife Anna, and Lauren E. Carboy and her husband Thomas Grams, brothers, Gary Bonavito and his wife Laura, and Michael Bonavito, sister, Teresa Sogorka and her husband Brian, her two beloved grandchildren, Mila Rose Carboy and Aviana Diane Carboy, and her nieces and nephews, Steven, Erica, and Jamie Montenegro, Greg and Anthony Bonavito, Michael and Kyle Bonavito, and Trena Crute and Tresa McKinley. A memorial Mass will be celebrated on Saturday March 7, 2020, 11am at Church of the Visitation, Brick. Inurnment will take place on Saturday March 14, 2020, 11am at Greenwood Cemetery, Brielle. Cremation was private and under the direction of Weatherhead Young Funeral Home, 885 Mantoloking Rd, Brick. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.weatherheadyoung.com.
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Sandra Toth
March 7, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. When I moved from Nebraska in my senior year it was very tough but you and the
Bonavito family made me feel so welcome thank you.
Sisters
Terri Bonavito-Sogorka
March 5, 2020
Diane, I was the luckiest person in the world to call you my sister and best friend. You will live in my heart forever and I will miss you and the shining star that you are for all the days of my life. Until we meet again. (Edie, where are you going? You don't Leave!")
Reggie
March 4, 2020
One of the best days of my life was Freshman orientation day at Brick High when I met Diane (and Yvonne of course) We became immediate friends, inseparable, a friendship that would take us through years of the most wonderful times filled with grand adventures and laughter like no other. Diane, always a bright star, her smile lighting up every heart she came to know. I was so blessed to have been one of her closest friends. My heart is broken at her loss but it remains full with memories of her that will be with me forever. My heartfelt sympathy to her beloved family, who I also love very much. My Lady Day, Diane, I love you always and will never forget you. Until we are together again...
Patty Cosenzo
March 4, 2020
Every now and then you meet someone who is as beautiful inside as they are on the outside....I feel lucky to have known Diane ❤ Rest easy old friend
KEVIN CASEY
March 4, 2020
I didn't know Diane, but was a friend and classmate of her husband, Gerald Carboy. So sad to learn of her passing! It sounds like she was a wonderful person as I know she must have been having been married to Gerry,! The Casey family extends our sincerest condolences to the entire Carboy and Bonavito families.
Layonne Holmes
March 4, 2020
Sweet loving funny down-to-earth beautiful Diane... will miss the many laughs and smiles we shared, dancing to good music... My love and condolences to your entire family
Roxanne Kopke
March 4, 2020
My deepest condolences to the Carboy and Bonavito Family of hearing the sad news of your loss. My heart goes out to all the Family. My daughter, Laura is married to Gary. So sorry Gary.
Elaine Gilmore
March 4, 2020
Prayers to the entire Family
Lots of Love Elaine
Lorraine Mitchell Arcadipane
March 4, 2020
Diane was my childhood friend. We recently reconnected on Facebook she will be missed.
Mary Casella
March 3, 2020
Sweet Diane, I will miss your beautiful smile and your great sense of humor. Rest peacefully in the arms of your Savior. ♥
Terry Meehan
March 3, 2020
Diane was one of the first people I met when I moved permanently down the shore to Mantoloking Shores from Bergen County,N.J. to enter Brick Township High School as a sophomore in 1971.She was such a funny person to be around.Diane was such a nice Jersey Italian girl Jersey City is famous for that!She used to call me stunod which means crazy person in Italian.I am deeply saddened by her passing because she was such a wonderful part of my growing up on the Jersey Shore.I give my deepest condolences to her Family and closest friends she had .May we all see her again someday.Rest in Peace Diane.
Greg Bonavito
March 3, 2020
Aunt Diane my life growing up was amazing because you were in it. I remember every time the family got together how full of life you were and how you loved to entertain us and make us laugh. You were also one of the strongest women I have ever known. Until we meet again my beautiful aunt. I love you with all my heart
Christine Carty
March 3, 2020
Many memories with this beautiful lady and lucky enough to have grown up with her amazing husband. To you Gerry my heart breaks for you. You were the love story. Prayers and love to your family .
Rosemary Conte
March 3, 2020
To Gerald and family --- another beautiful soul gone too soon. I am so sorry you won't see this lovely creature again. I imagine that your grief is so deep that I wouldn't find words comforting enough; so I'll share something someone wrote to me in my grief many years ago: God gave us memory that we might have roses in December.
Denise Gerhauser
March 3, 2020
To my dearest friend, I miss you so very much. I love you until we meet again...
Helena Lyons
March 3, 2020
To My Cherished Cousin and Best Friend..i will love and miss you forever
GERALD CARBOY
March 3, 2020
My beloved. I miss you more than life itself. I will always love you until the end of my days...........
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