Carole KAY
1945 - 2016
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KAY, Carole Ashkinaze Carole Ashkinaze Kay, a pioneering female journalist, author and media strategist, died Monday, September 19, 2016 in Atlanta. She was 71. She was a leading voice for women's and civil rights in Atlanta in the 1970s and '80s, and the first woman in the Atlanta Journal Constitution's history to serve on its editorial board. She later served on the Chicago Sun-Times' editorial board, as Media Chief of the United Nations Children's Fund, and as a longtime consultant to the American Civil Liberties Union. In her first job out of journalism school, she covered the Watergate hearings for Newsday and shared in a Pulitzer Prize (1970) for investigative reporting of political corruption on Long Island. Best known in Atlanta for her provocative columns and editorials about women and minorities, she was the first to write seriously about women's lives and needs in any Georgia news medium. She addressed abortion, domestic violence, rape and discriminatory statutes, including a "Head of Household" law, which stripped women of their legal and civil identities when they married, making them "subject to" their husbands under Georgia law. She urged equal pay for equal work, the appointment of more women to state and federal government, and ratification of the federal Equal Rights Amendment, which most Georgia legislators opposed as "anti-family," "un-Christian" and "immoral." She crusaded for the installation of a women's restroom in the Georgia capitol building, so the small but growing number of women legislators would not have to wait in line, behind visiting Girl Scout and school groups, and miss votes. She worked for the creation of a shelter for battered women and wrote critically of Atlanta's venerated debutante cotillions. She also "integrated" the paper's Style Section during a stint as Features Editor, insisting that women of color be sought as models in its previously all-white fashion pages, and wrote frequently about racial and ethnic inequities. She won many national awards for these ground-breaking stories and initiatives, including Planned Parenthood's coveted Margaret Sanger Award, and the National Women's Political Caucus "EMMA" (Exceptional Merit Media Award). She later joined the Editorial Board of the Sun-Times in Chicago, where she wrote regularly about threats to legal abortion and violence against abortion providers; she was the only pro-choice commentator in that city at the time, and a sought-after speaker by women's groups. She also the first to take up Native Americans' demands for restoration and protection of the Dickson Mounds burial grounds in Illinois, and among the first to second Anita Hill's complaints that Clarence Thomas was unfit for confirmation to the U.S. Supreme Court. She covered Carol Moseley Braun's historic campaign for the U.S. Senate, and correctly predicted its success. She received the Kizzy Foundation Image Award in 1991 for her coverage of women and minorities in Chicago. A graduate of St. Lawrence University in Canton, N.Y. and the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism in New York City, Carole spent her early career at daily newspapers. She also worked briefly as Public Service Director of WXIA-TV in Atlanta, winning the Society of Professional Journalists' Green Eyeshade (top) award for editorials she wrote and produced, before joining the Journal-Constitution in 1976. She later relocated to Washington, D.C., where she worked for nearly 20 years as a media strategist for nonprofits. These included the American Civil Liberties Union, the Communications Consortium Media Center, the Harvard Civil Rights Project, the Council for International Exchange of Scholars (The Fulbright Program), the United Nations Development Fund for Women (UNIFEM) and the Mac Arthur Foundation. She also spent three years as Night News Editor in the McClatchy Newspapers Washington Bureau, taught journalism at American University in Washington, and led professional journalism seminars (for the U.S. Information Service) in Haiti and Tanzania. She spoke French fluently. Her books include The Closing Door (with Gary Orfield) published in 1991, named Outstanding Book on Human Rights in 1992 by the Gustavus Myers Center for the Study of Human Rights at the University of Arkansas. She also edited Strategic Communications for Nonprofits (1999, Jossey-Bass) and In Pursuit of Equity in Education (2001, Kluwer). Her volunteer activities included more than a dozen years as a literacy tutor in Washington D.C. A longtime member of Temple Sinai in Washington, she completed an adult Bat Mitzvah class there in 2000, and was married there by Rabbi Mindy Portnoy in 2009. She married late in life, at 63, to a retired oil company executive who had been widowed the previous year. After her retirement, they moved back to Atlanta, where she devoted much of her time to volunteer work with the Atlanta Jewish Film Festival. She was also a longtime member of the Journalism and Women Symposium (JAWS). She and her husband, Irving Kay, also liked to visit Atlanta hospitals on holidays, to chat with and distribute sweets to patients who were there on their own. At Emory St. Joseph's Hospital's chemotherapy infusion center, where they donned rabbit ears and passed out Easter eggs every spring, they were known as "the Jewish Easter Bunnies of St. Joseph's." Her newspaper columns, papers and oral history have been digitized, and are in the Women's History Archives permanent collection at Georgia State University. Sign online guestbook at www.edressler.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the charity of one's choice. Funeral services will be held 11:00 AM Tuesday, September 20, 2016 at The Temple, 1589 Peachtree St. NE, Atlanta, GA 30309 with Rabbi Peter Berg officiating; burial will follow at Arlington Memorial Park in Sandy Springs. Arrangements by Dressler's Jewish Funeral Care, 770-451-4999.

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Published in Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Sep. 20, 2016.
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September 18, 2019
Still missing my only sibling Carol . Much love to you in heaven your sister Barbara
Barbara Wallner
Sister
December 16, 2016
Sincères condoléances à Ivr et à toute la famille C'est un énorme choc pour moi
un vieux ami de France
Chevrier Alain
December 16, 2016
Sincères condoléances à Ivr et à la famille
Un vieux ami de France
Alain
Chevrier Alain
September 23, 2016
Carole provided a powerful voice for women's rights and social justice. She listened, hunted down the facts and turned her journalistic talents to making the case time after time. We are all richer for her unbending courage and her compassion. We are grateful to her parents, her family and certainly to the love of her life, Irv who gave her space and support to be all that meant to be.

With deepest sympathy,
Ann Stallard
September 23, 2016
My condolences go out to the family and friends of Carole Kay. May God give you peace and comfort during this hard time.
September 20, 2016
I'm sadden to hear about Carole's transition, and I offer my sympathy to the family. At the Atlanta Journal and Constitution her contributions were well-received and lauded.
Peter Scott II
September 20, 2016
Carole was a bright light at a time of darkness--a courageous fighter for women's rights. I am sorry she went so soon.
Gus Kaufman
September 20, 2016
I'm sorry for your loss but the Bible has hope at John 11:24
Bruce
September 20, 2016
Carole & Irv
Carole and I were great friends in High School, then lost touch for too many years. We connected a few years ago. She and Irv visited Santa Fe and we reignited the friendship. I wish I could have spent more time with her. With much love, Gloria
Gloria Gordon
September 20, 2016
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. 2 Corinth 1:3-5
TA
September 20, 2016
Journalism and Women Symposium members are deeply saddened by Carole's passing. She embodied our mission to support "the professional empowerment and personal growth of women in journalism" and to work "toward a more accurate portrayal of the whole society" throughout her groundbreaking career. Her legacy lives on in our hearts and our work.
Sandra Fish
September 20, 2016
I remember my childhood neighbor in Malverne, NY so well. She was a lovley bright kid who lived around the corner. What a gifted and accomplished woman she turned out to be. Sending my deepest sympathy to her husband Irv and family, Shelley Ginsburg Merkin
September 20, 2016
Obviously a very talented and accomplished journalist and a beautiful person. I'm so glad you and Irv found each other and that you had his strength and love to rely on. I will miss you dearly. Love, Barbara Thomas
September 20, 2016
She was always fair. And she was a great political observer. She will be missed.
Joseph Cowart
September 20, 2016
A great lady ...
Keegan Federal
September 20, 2016
My deepest condolences to her family. We have all lost a very bright light in this world with her passing.
Karyn Culligan Hudson
September 20, 2016
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. 2 Corinth 1:3-5
TB
September 20, 2016
Warmest sympathies extended to you in the loss of this remarkable woman. May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and gave everlasting comfort...comfort your hearts..."
September 20, 2016
Offering our deepest condolences to the Kay family and friends in your hour of grief.
Caw
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