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Robert L. "Bob" STEED

1936 - 2016

Robert L. "Bob" STEED obituary, 1936-2016, Atlanta, GA

BORN

1936

DIED

2016

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H.M. Patterson & Son-Spring Hill Chapel

1020 Spring Street NW

Atlanta, Georgia

Robert STEED Obituary

STEED, Robert L. "Bob" Robert L. "Bob" Steed, renowned lawyer, writer, master of ceremonies and wit, died peacefully at his home in Atlanta on Saturday, June 4, after a lengthy battle with Parkinson's disease. He was 79. Steed was born in Augusta, Georgia on November 20, 1936 to the late Robert Pentecost Steed and Doris Roop Steed and grew up in Bowdon, Georgia, graduating from Bowdon High School. Steed graduated from Mercer University in 1958. He received his law degree from Walter F. George School of Law of Mercer University in 1961. In 1961-1962, Steed served as Law Clerk to Justice Carlton Mobley on the Supreme Court of Georgia. Steed served for two decades as a member of the Mercer Board of Trustees, including one term as chairman, and is only the seventh person elected as a Lifetime Trustee to the school. He holds an Honorary Doctor of Laws from Mercer University. The lobby of Mercer's Walter F. George School of Law building is dedicated to and named for him. Former Mercer president Dr. Kirby Godsey said, "No one has ever served the University with more grace and distinction than Bob Steed." Steed joined King & Spalding in 1962 and was a partner in the prestigious law firm for more than 50 years. He was a Senior Partner for the firm's Public Finance Practice Group and served as bond counsel to the State of Georgia and to cities, counties, and governmental authorities throughout the country. Despite being one of the country's leading bond attorneys, his prodigious intellect, verbal skills and sense of humor could not be constrained by the practice of law. His work as a humor columnist for the Atlanta Journal-Constitution and the New York Times Regional Newspaper Group appeared for many years and typically poked fun at anyone who took themselves too seriously. He had several published books, including Willard Lives!, 1981; Lucid Intervals, 1983; Money, Power and Sex (A Self-Help Guide for All Ages), 1985; The Sass Menagerie, 1988; Mail Fraud, The Laughable Letters of Robert L. Steed, 1991; and A Ship without an Udder, 1995. (Mercer University Press and Longstreet Press). Steed's commentaries were occasionally heard on National Public Radio's "All Things Considered', and he was much sought after as a featured speaker. Judge Griffin Bell, former U.S. Attorney General and Steed's law partner for years, said jokingly that Steed was "half lawyer, half wit lawyers consider him a writer and writers call him a lawyer." Steed's greatest achievement, however, was his 58-year marriage to Linda "Lu" McElroy Steed, his childhood sweetheart in Bowdon, Georgia, and the family they produced. He lovingly referred to Lu as "101 pounds of grit, gristle and ingratitude" but their lifelong romance was fairytale quality. In addition to Lu, Steed is survived by three children Joshua Pentecost Steed and daughter-in-law Robbin Conklin Steed of Sharpsburg, Georgia; Georgia Steed Vance and son-in-law James Burton Vance of Atlanta, Georgia; Nona Steed Bickers and son-in-law David Allan Bickers of Atlanta, Georgia; ten grandchildren who adored "Bobby" Robert Lee Steed, Quanah Parker Steed, Lane Marchant Steed, Salem Micheaux Vance, Wesley Bonner Vance, James Beauregard Vance; Max Steed Bickers, Elijah Bennett Bickers, Robert Lynch Bickers, Edward Steele Bickers and his beloved brother Michael P. Steed and wife Cheryl Steed of Bowdon, Georgia. He was predeceased by his son, Robert Lee Steed, Jr. The family wishes to extend their sincere and deep gratitude to Leroy Weatherspoon Jr., Jermaine Goodwin, Bill Little and Johnny Daniel of Daniel Companion Nursing for their loving and compassionate care. Bob and Lu, an award-winning artist, supported artists and writers worldwide by making introductions, recommendations and purchases for themselves and for private and corporate collections. Steed's tastes and interests were as eclectic as his intellect was wide, and his friends ranged from national political leaders and Hollywood stars to famous musicians and laborers. He was a mentor to many and thrived on the success and happiness of others. Doc Schneider, another former law partner, said of Steed, "He attaches himself to people and makes them bigger than what they are." A memorial service will be held Tuesday, June 14, 2016 at 11 a.m. at Northside United Methodist Church, Atlanta. A Reception will follow the Memorial Service at the church. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial gift to Mercer University for the Steed Scholarship Fund, 1501 Mercer University Drive, Macon, Georgia 31207.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Jun. 9, 2016.

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Arnold Hufstetler

July 12, 2024

Bob, I´m sure you have our Lord laughing every day. Keep it up, my man. I treasure the many times we had. I´ll look you up when the good Lord takes me.

Ashley Herndon

September 28, 2017

At his visits to the fraternity, asked him to re-enter school so we could have him with us daily.

Nan Harman - Dempsey

February 9, 2017

I 'm also an attorney, and was a great fan of Bob's AJC columns and his books ; he had a delicious, naughty sense of humor as well as a mastery of the King's English . I'd just sent a e-mail to a friend about Bob's books and went online to see what he's been up to recently ; needless to say I was shocked and saddened to read of his death . My sincere condolences to his family .

I'm sure Bob's Upstairs right now typing more of his truly funny memories for the folks Up There to enjoy .

Mildred Coleman

July 27, 2016

I will remember Bob (and Linda/Lu) when they were esteemed and exotic as the older couple/ sister of my best friend Sandra, when we were high school freshmen!Mildred Huff Coleman

June 14, 2016

My condolences, may you endure this most difficult time. Phillipians 4:6,7

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Steed Robinson

June 14, 2016

Our best to all the family. Bob was a great character and remembered to help all he could, as he did when we first moved to the Atlanta area. Steed and Jean Robinson

June 13, 2016

Your lost is great but your hope is even greater.
John 5:25-29

Greg Chait

June 13, 2016

I am sorry for your loss and know that your memories of this kind gentleman will steel you in your grief.

Durwood Fincher

June 13, 2016

BOB WILL ALWAYS BRING A SMILE WHENEVER HIS NAME
COMES UP IN THE FUTURE....IT ALWAYS DID IN THE PAST.
SPEAKING OF WONDERFUL...THANK YOU LU!!!

Durwood

June 12, 2016

My sincere condolences to the family of Mr. Steed. May your hearts find comfort in God's promise recorded at Hosea 13:14.

June 11, 2016

My condolences to the family,sorry for your loss. Matthew 11:28,29,30,

Michael Gallagher

June 11, 2016

There will never be another one. Keep em laughing in heaven like you did here. Great man and a great family. Rest in peace Mr. Steed.

Lucille Gould

June 11, 2016

Good morning family of Mr. Robert Steed, I am so sorry to hear about your love one, we all love you very much to the point that we share that tremendous pain, that was brought to your soul, to lose someone you cherish and love so much. But mere words cannot convey the over-whelming feelings of numbness, and despair that can result from such tragic, unexpected losses. Grief is very intense, we are never totally prepared for the death of a loved one, we never get over a loss, we just get used to it. May be we can look at, it this way that our love one is away on a trip. Maintain a positive viewpoint, and with that i leave you to read proverbs 17:22. love you.

david nielsen

June 10, 2016

Bob, you lit up the room, and are a very benevolent, caring, and giving person, i remember you gave me my first ride in a rolls royce, i wish the best of love for your next adventure, a great journey indeed. fond memories, love to Lu and children. Kindest regards, David Nielsen

Rebeca Plunkett

June 10, 2016

Beautiful person!!!

Nancy and Travis Turner

June 10, 2016

A great friend who leaves with us only wonderful memories. His outstanding hospitality and love will be so missed.

To Lu and family our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers with huge hugs.

Terry Kay

June 9, 2016

One of the most remarkable men I have known. The fingerprint of his presence is indelibly marked on the lives of those left in the wake of his kindness, and that is why his spirit remains.

Judy Matre Miller

June 8, 2016

Lou and family , my sincere sympathy to each of you. Your family has meant the world to the Matre family. What marvelous memories you have of this grand man.
Love Judy Matre Miller

Matt Nichols

June 7, 2016

I will always treasure the letter Bob wrote me when I was sick. Bob was famous for his wit, but it made you feel extra special when he served it up for you in an intimate setting - not unlike the old Bacchanalia on Piedmont. It was as if a life-threatening illness had magically put me in an exclusive club, the members of which had received Bob's humor privately rather than through the Atlanta Journal. I could also regale you with stories about Bob's talents as a bond lawyer, but on second thought ...

Dave Oedel

June 7, 2016

In an age of over-seriousness, Bob went against the grain -- serious enough not to take things too seriously, even Parkinson's. We could all do with a dose of Bob's wisdom. Witty, often. Wise, deeply.

Bess Walthour

June 7, 2016

You and the family have my heartfelt sympathy. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Mr. Steed left a forever positive impression on all who met him.

Bess Walthour

June 7, 2016

Following Bob as President of the Younger Lawyer's Section, I tried to emulate him but couldn't hold a candle to his quick wit. As editor of the YLS Newsletter, he referred to me as Joe Namath because of my six-inch sideburns. When he was President of Phi Delta Theta at Mercer, I was President of Phi Delt at UGA. We had memorable times together. Here's to you, Bob, you're a hard act to follow.
Tom Dennard
St. Simons Island

Steve Sloan

June 7, 2016

Anyone who came in contact with Bob is better for it.Amazing, wonderful man.

Matt Patton

June 6, 2016

The pain from the loss of my friend Bob is overshadowed by the wonderful memories of the last sixty years. The countless smiles, laughter and robust friendship which began when we worked together one summer at Southwire in Carrollton will forever be a treasure of inestimable worth. I am just thankful that he never discovered who put the chicken in his first Mercedes when he and Lou lived on "Upper Channing."

leah chanin

June 6, 2016

I am one of the thousands of Mercerians ( Law'54) who knew and loved Bob. One of the things I most loved about him was his total admiration and love for Lu.. he respected her abilities and appreciated her as a person as well as a wife and mother. In all, a truly wonderful person. Mercer will never see a more devoted or loyal alum. Leah F. Chanin

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